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2nd Moms Circle for Christian Adoptive Moms

2nd Moms Circle for Christian Adoptive Moms

By Dawn Baggett

Biblically aligned support for the Christian adoptive mom experiencing the stress of post-adoption turmoil. You willingly stepped into this non-traditional mom role for a child/children who needed you, knowing there would be difficulties. You trusted God to get you through. Now you’re in the thick of it.

Know this: You can trust that God is able to redeem even the most difficult challenges facing you and your family, and bring something amazingly good from them!

I hope this podcast is a help and encouragement to you. If so, please leave a review.

*Episode notes at dawnbaggett.com/blog

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[S03|E02] Hidden Challenges of Being a Second Mom (Second Moms Series)

2nd Moms Circle for Christian Adoptive MomsSep 20, 2022

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New View - Part Two; Unilateral Shift #1 for Adoptive Moms of Teens

New View - Part Two; Unilateral Shift #1 for Adoptive Moms of Teens

Embracing acceptance over accountability offers a transformative perspective for Christian mothers navigating the journey with their adopted teenagers. This approach does not imply condoning negative behaviors but fosters an understanding that these actions often stem from deeper, unresolved issues. Moving towards acceptance allows mothers to establish clear personal boundaries while promoting healing and growth, creating a nurturing environment that reflects their commitment to their faith and family values. By implementing an acceptance lens, these parents can cultivate space where genuine connection and growth can flourish, counterbalanced personal boundaries. As part of the Authentic Modeling Method this shift gives adoptive moms a peek into a powerful approach that can be transformative within a context of unconditional love and forgiveness. This method not only transforms the way mothers interact with their teenagers but deepens their own faith journey, drawing them closer to the essence of Christ's teachings on love and service. >>>Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. >>>For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group >>>To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist >>>To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.
Apr 09, 202407:53
UNILATERAL SHIFT #1 - Adoptive Moms New View on PROBLEM BEHAVIORS {part 1}

UNILATERAL SHIFT #1 - Adoptive Moms New View on PROBLEM BEHAVIORS {part 1}

Adoptive moms often find themselves in challenging situations, especially when it comes to managing defiant, disrespectful, and sometimes dangerous behaviors in their adopted teenagers. Traditional approaches lean heavily towards an accountability lens, believing that enforcing consequences for misbehavior will bring positive change. But this method, though seemingly logical, can actually escalate tensions further. This episode along with part two on this same topic encourages the adoptive mom in this situation to explore an alternative approach to how she views problematic behaviors in the home by viewing problematic behaviors through a new lens of acceptance. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group To apply for private post-adoption coaching click here: https://dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist To hear more be sure to follow the show & turn on automatic downloads so you can listen to new episodes offline whenever you want.
Apr 02, 202410:51
Easter Expectations for Adoptive Moms

Easter Expectations for Adoptive Moms

As the Easter weekend approaches, it's crucial for adoptive mothers to consider their expectations in light of the reality of their family dynamics. This episode emphasizes the importance of acknowledging that not all family members might share the same enthusiasm or faith, leading to potential disappointments and tensions. By setting realistic expectations and focusing on personal worship and connection with God, listeners can experience a fulfilling Easter regardless of their family's level of participation.

Podcast host Dawn Baggett advises moms to plan their Easter celebrations with achievable goals for a more peaceful and meaningful holiday, and reducing the chances of conflict and frustration. The emphasis is on the value of individual spiritual growth and the power of prayer in bringing families closer, both to God and to each other.

Ultimately, the message is one of hope and faith, encouraging listeners to trust in God's timing and work in their lives and the lives of their loved ones. Dawn underscores the importance of not placing undue pressure on the Easter weekend to magically resolve family differences but instead to cherish the occasion as an opportunity for personal reflection and connection with God. Adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms group. To do that click the following link — dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group
Mar 29, 202409:15
You Are More Than Mom in Your Adoptive Family

You Are More Than Mom in Your Adoptive Family

Journaling about your role as a mom/adoptive mom can illuminate the realistic aspirations and challenges you face in this pivotal role. This exercise encourages mothers to distinguish their maternal responsibilities from other aspects of their personal identity, acknowledging that they are more than just a mom. It stresses the importance of having grounded, realistic expectations while also recognizing one's desires, skills, and limitations. Show notes for this episode can be found at dawnbaggett.com. For additional support adoptive moms are invited to join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group here: http://dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group; or to apply for private coaching click here: dawnbaggett.com/page/waitlist
Mar 14, 202408:42
Identify Misplaced Guilt & Blame

Identify Misplaced Guilt & Blame

It’s important to identify misplaced guilt and blame that you as an adoptive mom may face, but not always to strike out in defensiveness. When we know that Someone more powerful and able than we are has our backs, we can rest in that knowledge, setting a powerful example to our children and others. Read more in the companion blog at dawnbaggett.com and join the free Facebook Group for Level One support with the join link below; Level Two support for adoptive moms is available with my private coaching program available to group members. Click here for group access: dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group
Mar 05, 202407:07
Minimizing Misperceptions & Misunderstandings in Adoptive Families

Minimizing Misperceptions & Misunderstandings in Adoptive Families

Adoptive families often navigate a complex landscape of skepticism, fueled by misperceptions and misunderstandings that can threaten the very foundation of family life. The uniqueness of your adoptive family may highlight these challenges further, drawing skepticism from external observers and creating internal pressures. Adoptive parents are encouraged to remember their identity and faith, recognizing they are not alone and that their battles are not merely physical but spiritual. Dawn’s mission is to stand in the gap for second moms. In addition to this podcast Dawn hosts a free Facebook group and offers private post-adoption coaching. Learn more at dawnbaggett.com
Feb 28, 202406:35
Hey Mamas, Are You Sinking into an Accountability Trap?

Hey Mamas, Are You Sinking into an Accountability Trap?

When behaviors escalate, especially in the teen years, adoptive moms in particular, may be finding themselves scrambling to hold their child accountable, when it feels that no one else is doing so. This can lead to what I call an accountability trap. Learn more on this episode of Second Moms Circle.
In addition to following this podcast you may find more Biblically based support for you as an adoptive mom in our free Facebook group, Circle of Second Moms. Here’s the join link: dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group
Feb 19, 202422:22
Ongoing Needs for Acceptance & Belonging

Ongoing Needs for Acceptance & Belonging

When you understand their need for autonomy and you build belief into their need for acceptance that lays the foundation for relational resilience when accountability issues arise. When we become an adopted family, a blended family, we interject vulnerability to uncertainty and doubts around acceptance, not only with the new children but with our biological children as well. Listen to more about these heightened vulnerabilities in adoptive families or go to dawnbaggett.com to read the companion blog post. If you’d like support with your second mom experiences join the Circle of Second Moms free Facebook group at dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group for targeted support from a Christian worldview today.
Feb 13, 202411:19
The Critical Drive for Self-Autonomy, in Overdrive

The Critical Drive for Self-Autonomy, in Overdrive

This episode discusses how the natural drive for autonomy in adolescence can get flipped into overdrive in complex adoptive families. To join our free Facebook group for targeted support for “second moms” from a Christian worldview, tap the join link: dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group
Feb 03, 202410:03
Values Variable in Complex Family Conflicts

Values Variable in Complex Family Conflicts

Minor conflicts can morph into major clashes that are almost impossible to resolve for adoptive moms. Listen to this episode to learn more. If this describes your experience and you’d like to join our free Facebook group for targeted support for “second moms” from a Christian worldview, tap the join link: dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group
Feb 02, 202431:26
Adoptive Moms in the F.O.G.

Adoptive Moms in the F.O.G.

Raising a child with moderate to severe attachment trauma can be like a dense fog for adoptive moms. Listen to this episode to learn more. If this describes your experience and you’d like to join our free Facebook group for targeted support for “second moms” from a Christian worldview, tap the join link: dawnbaggett.com/landing/opt-in-to-fb-group
Jan 10, 202407:38
4 Ways to Pursue Peace this Christmas

4 Ways to Pursue Peace this Christmas

Discover 4 Biblical ways adoptive moms can pursue peace during Christmastime and beyond in this episode of Second Moms Circle. If you’d like additional support join the Circle of Second Moms Facebook group. And visit dawnbaggett.com for more.
Dec 18, 202309:46
Holiday Peace Planning for Adoptive Moms

Holiday Peace Planning for Adoptive Moms

Planning ahead can help protect your peace during the holidays. While there are many practical things to plan for, such as grocery lists and special events, don’t forget to plan for peace as well. Consider the disruptions you anticipate and what is robbing your peace currently. Is it external factors or internal struggles?
If you’re looking for guidance and support in navigating the complexities of being an adoptive mom during the holidays, consider joining a program like Success For Second Moms. This 12 week program is designed to provide practical strategies and support with like-minded Christian women and a safe environment.
Remember, by prioritizing your peace, and seeking the resources and support you need, you can experience a more peaceful and joyful holiday season.
If you like this episode, please leave a review and if you’d like to learn more about how help adoptive moms through post adoption Christian coaching visit My website at dawnbaggett.com.
Dec 02, 202327:32
Right Responses to Rebellion

Right Responses to Rebellion

Are you unsure about how to best respond to your child’s rebellious behavior? Have you received conflicting advice? Listen to this episode which dives into the topic of parental responses to rebellion by looking at two familiar Bible passages.
Nov 01, 202311:26
Stumbling Blocks - A Biblical View

Stumbling Blocks - A Biblical View

Learn about stumbling blocks and how to deal with them in this episode of Legacy Living Today for Second Moms. Consider following the show and leaving a review to help others find it too.
Oct 06, 202320:18
4 Ways to Stand Up to Self-Doubt

4 Ways to Stand Up to Self-Doubt

This episode presents four ways to stand up to self doubt as a second mom in a complex adoptive or blended family. For further support contact dawn@dawnbaggett.com or visit dawnbaggett.com. You can also follow Dawn on Instagram and Facebook and join her free Facebook group with weekly livestreams. Are you looking to work with Dawn? Hop on a clarity call to talk about how she can support you further with targeted coaching for second moms.
Sep 12, 202309:04
The GAP in your Adoptive or Blended Family

The GAP in your Adoptive or Blended Family

If you’re a mom living in an adoptive or blended family, you’ll be interested to hear how I define the gap I have recognized that occurs in many of our families, and that I refer to in my tagline “standing in the gap for second moms”. Listen & discover if you may be approaching, or already in this dangerous gap.
Aug 25, 202309:45
Secret Risks for Second Moms

Secret Risks for Second Moms

Being a caregiver to children who have suffered trauma, particularly adoptive mothers, can be very challenging and lead to burnout. One way to avoid this is by setting emotional boundaries. These types of boundaries are the dividing lines that protect the separation of your emotional experiences from those of others.

By setting boundaries around emotional experiences, you can protect yourself from being trampled upon by others, as well as from absorbing someone else's emotions that could lead to burnout and compassion fatigue. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Jun 23, 202315:58
Emotional Boundaries for 2nd Moms

Emotional Boundaries for 2nd Moms

Setting emotional boundaries can help adoptive moms and other caregiver moms in complex families to avoid the risk of burnout and set good examples for the rest of the family. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Feb 08, 202309:02
Safety Planning for Second Moms

Safety Planning for Second Moms

This is a replay episode on a serious and important topic of safety planning for women who are moms in complex and frequently dangerous family dynamics. If you recognize how important this topic is please listen, share & leave a review. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you. Thank you.
Feb 02, 202310:19
New Lenses for Complex Families

New Lenses for Complex Families

Have you ever been to the eye doctor and found out that your vision prescription has changed? Similarly, there are factors that can limit our relational vision, and it can change over time as well.  It can be helpful to our vision of our relationships to look through different lenses. Show notes can be found at dawnbaggett.com/blog. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you. If you appreciate the content here please subscribe & leave a review to help others find this podcast too!
Jan 30, 202313:11
Foundational Commitments of Adoptive Parents

Foundational Commitments of Adoptive Parents

This episode of Legacy Living TODAY with Dawn Baggett the foundational responsibilities of parenting, which are protection, provision, guidance, and for Christians, persistent prayer for each of your children and your family. Dive into each of these foundational commitments and be sure to subscribe to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Jan 20, 202307:13
Overcoming Feelings of Isolation

Overcoming Feelings of Isolation

Second moms of special needs kids can often feel isolated when their complex family needs and dynamics are hard for others to recognize or understand. Learn more about how I help second moms at dawnbaggett.com. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Jan 06, 202308:42
[S3|E11] Clearing Up Roles & Responsibilities in Adoptive & Step Families

[S3|E11] Clearing Up Roles & Responsibilities in Adoptive & Step Families

This episode includes suggestions for navigating through conflicting advice, unreasonable expectations and ever-evolving relationships in adoptive and step families through clarity in regard to roles and responsibilities of parents and caregivers. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Dec 22, 202208:16
[S03E10] Starting Behind as a Second Mom

[S03E10] Starting Behind as a Second Mom

Feeling behind and insufficient as an adoptive or second mom? This episode includes six tips for overcoming these feelings and moving toward success as a second mom. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Dec 15, 202209:51
[S03E09] Parental abuse and safety planning

[S03E09] Parental abuse and safety planning

This episode answers the question: What is parental abuse? And goes on to talk about safety planning for the mom who is experiencing feelings of being unsafe in her own home, and in her own family. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Dec 09, 202212:25
[S03E08] 3 Important Benefits of Gratitude in the Tough Times

[S03E08] 3 Important Benefits of Gratitude in the Tough Times

This episode shares 3 Important Benefits of Gratitude in the Tough Times. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Nov 08, 202207:39
[S03E07] Tightrope Parenting in Adoptive Families

[S03E07] Tightrope Parenting in Adoptive Families

This episode addresses how adoptive parents are constantly doing a balancing act as post-traumatic caregivers with children for whom the effects of early childhood trauma lingers long after the adoption papers have been signed. Recognizing what is not often talked about in the larger community, and that is how early childhood trauma often affects adopted children and their families for a lot longer than people like to think about. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Nov 02, 202206:37
[S03|E06]The (unexpected) Pressures of Being an Adoptive Parent

[S03|E06]The (unexpected) Pressures of Being an Adoptive Parent

This episode shines a light on some of the unexpected pressures that adoptive parents often may face. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Oct 26, 202211:27
[S03|E05] Churches, We Need You! (Second Moms Series)

[S03|E05] Churches, We Need You! (Second Moms Series)

This episode talks about ways local churches can support the adoptive and blended families in their communities & congregations, and specifically the moms in these families. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Oct 18, 202207:12
[S03|E04] Second Moms Get R.E.A.L! (Second Moms Series)

[S03|E04] Second Moms Get R.E.A.L! (Second Moms Series)

This episode breaks down the acronym R.E.A.L. to describe second moms and highlight that second moms are “Moms for REAL” even as they may feel the need or pressure to prove themselves. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Oct 12, 202209:11
[S03|E03] Supporting Adoptive Moms: Validation is Key (Second Moms Series)

[S03|E03] Supporting Adoptive Moms: Validation is Key (Second Moms Series)

See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Oct 02, 202207:34
[S03|E02] Hidden Challenges of Being a Second Mom (Second Moms Series)

[S03|E02] Hidden Challenges of Being a Second Mom (Second Moms Series)

This episode explores some of the hidden challenges of being a second mom in the Second Mom series. See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Sep 20, 202209:21
[S03/E01] Whether to say "Adopted" or "Adoptive"... (Second Moms Series)

[S03/E01] Whether to say "Adopted" or "Adoptive"... (Second Moms Series)

This episode answers the burning question of when it’s correct to say “adopted” vs “adoptive 🤷🏻‍♀️ See my website at dawnbaggett.com to learn more about how I stand in the GAP for Second Moms and find out how I might help you.
Aug 31, 202204:21
[S02|E13] Your Inner Circle Relationships

[S02|E13] Your Inner Circle Relationships

Hi there Legacy Makers!

Welcome to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett with insights on topics for impact-driven women who are fueled by their Christian faith.  

See dawnbaggett.com/blog for episode notes and more from Dawn.  Your feedback is appreciated as well.

Please subscribe and leave a review to help others to find this podcast.

May 17, 202211:24
[S2-E12] Biases & Blinders that Lead Us Astray

[S2-E12] Biases & Blinders that Lead Us Astray

Hi there Legacy Makers!

Welcome to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett with insights on topics for impact-driven women who are fueled by their Christian faith.  

See dawnbaggett.com/blog for episode notes and more from Dawn.  Your feedback is appreciated as well.

Please subscribe and leave a review to help others to find this podcast.

May 06, 202212:42
[S2E11] Unexpected Avenues to Negative Influences

[S2E11] Unexpected Avenues to Negative Influences

Hi there Legacy Makers!

Welcome to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett with insights on topics for impact-driven women who are fueled by their Christian faith.  

See dawnbaggett.com/blog for episode notes and more from Dawn.  Your feedback is appreciated as well.

Please subscribe and leave a review to help others to find this podcast.

Apr 22, 202206:05
[S2E9] Navigating Personal Temptation

[S2E9] Navigating Personal Temptation

Hi there Legacy Makers!

Welcome to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett with insights on topics for impact-driven women who are fueled by their Christian faith. 

See dawnbaggett.com/blog for episode notes and more from Dawn.  Your feedback is appreciated as well.

Please subscribe and leave a review to help others to find this podcast.

Mar 30, 202208:26
[S2E8] Persecution - No Surprise

[S2E8] Persecution - No Surprise

Mar 17, 202206:05
[S2E7] "Why Not Me?" Overcoming Rejection

[S2E7] "Why Not Me?" Overcoming Rejection

Mar 09, 202204:47
[S2E6]"Not Me!" - Dealing with False Accusations

[S2E6]"Not Me!" - Dealing with False Accusations

Mar 02, 202203:20
[S2E5] Mocked: When Their Words Cut Deep - Overcoming with Faith series

[S2E5] Mocked: When Their Words Cut Deep - Overcoming with Faith series

Feb 15, 202206:04
[S2E4] How to Assess for REAL Authenticity!

[S2E4] How to Assess for REAL Authenticity!

Feb 01, 202205:57
[S2E3] A Warning about Freedom

[S2E3] A Warning about Freedom

Hi there Legacy Makers!

Welcome to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett where Dawn shares insights on topics for impact-driven women who are fueled by their Christian faith.

See dawnbaggett.com for episode notes and more from Dawn.  Your feedback is appreciated as well.

Please subscribe and leave a review to help others to find this podcast.

Jan 23, 202210:50
[S2E2] You Be You! Real Authenticity

[S2E2] You Be You! Real Authenticity

Hi there Legacy Makers!

Welcome to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett where Dawn shares insights on topics for impact-driven women who are fueled by their Christian faith.

See dawnbaggett.com for episode notes and more from Dawn.  Your feedback is appreciated as well.

Please subscribe and leave a review to help others to find this podcast.

Jan 14, 202206:57
[S2E1] Balanced Self-Awareness?

[S2E1] Balanced Self-Awareness?

Welcome to the second year of Legacy Living TODAY! This episode asks the question: Can you embrace the popular notion of seeking self-awareness without falling into either of the extremes & can this practice be dangerous? Show notes can be found on the Legacy Living TODAY blog at the following link:  https://bit.ly/33YgALn 

Jan 07, 202203:46
Episode 12 | In Honor of Marilyn Laszlo - Legacy Lady

Episode 12 | In Honor of Marilyn Laszlo - Legacy Lady

Hi there Legacy Makers!

Welcome to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett where Dawn shares insights on topics for impact-driven women who are fueled by their Christian faith.

See dawnbaggett.com for episode notes and more from Dawn.  Your feedback is appreciated as well.

Please subscribe and leave a review to help others to find this podcast.





Sep 24, 202105:48
Episode 11 | How to Benefit Children Through Imperfect Parenting

Episode 11 | How to Benefit Children Through Imperfect Parenting

Hi there Legacy Makers!

Welcome to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett where Dawn shares insights on topics for impact-driven women who are fueled by their Christian faith.

See dawnbaggett.com for episode notes and more from Dawn.  Your feedback is appreciated as well.

Please subscribe and leave a review to help others to find this podcast.

Jun 23, 202106:45
Episode 9 | Legacy-Driven Mindset for Success!!

Episode 9 | Legacy-Driven Mindset for Success!!

Hi there Legacy Makers!

Welcome to Legacy Living Today with Dawn Baggett where Dawn shares insights on topics for impact-driven women who are fueled by their Christian faith.

See dawnbaggett.com for episode notes and more from Dawn.  Your feedback is appreciated as well.

Please subscribe and leave a review to help others to find this podcast.

May 01, 202106:20
Episode 8 | Investment Assessments & Your 5 Major Assets

Episode 8 | Investment Assessments & Your 5 Major Assets

Apr 08, 202106:44