LessonsNLove

In this podcast, we will explore the good points of maintaining a friendship, how to recognize the top 7 signs that they want to be just friends and you have been “friendzoned”, and why respecting that “friendship” can really work in your favor.  

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In this podcast, we go over the reasons you may attract "needy" people, the signs to look out for of "needy" people, and how to set boundaries with the needy people in your life.  Ready to learn some more lessons in love together?  Click SUBSCRIBE to the LessonsNLove podcast for more podcasts coming soon.  If you would like to be a guest or have a show idea topic that you want to discuss, email lessonsnlovelnl@gmail.com .  We look forward to hearing from you!

Going out on dates nowadays are very common however many don't truly understand the idea of old-fashioned courting.  Are you ready to be "dated" or "courted"? Is that even something that is still part of the relationship process these days?  In this podcast, we go over the main difference between dating & courting, the importance of experiencing being "courted" from both sides, and the natural flow that will ensure that both of you are on the "courted" path.   

Have you ever thought about how dating has changed over the years?  Do you know where some of the thought processes that are still around today originated from?  In this podcast, we take a history lesson about the concepts of dating that began centuries ago compared to now, ways to adapt to the current trends, and how to know if you are getting what you need.

We always state that someone's past doesn't predict their future.  However, is that necessarily true when it comes to romantic relationships?  To know the background of someone's experiences and how they were able to overcome or how it changed them for the better or even for the worse, is more important than you think.  In this podcast, we will go over the positive and negative sides to jumping into your current partner's past, the reasons for why we may or may not be curious about it, and if your personal past relationship is affecting your present one.

Are you just a nice person or just "too nice"?  Is it natural or do you have underlining issues that your "nice" side covers up?  In this podcast, we discuss the qualities of a nice person, how being too nice in a relationship can end up working against you, and how to balance being nice to others while still being nice to yourself.

When our feelings are always disregarded or a person's selfishness override the ability to feel important to them, we automatically assume that this person is a narcissist.  Although we throw around that word very quickly, we also may not be fully aware of what this word truly can mean.  In this podcast, we go in deep on the medical definition of those who may suffer from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), the traits that provide a real answer to if you or someone you know is one, and the answers to whether or not you are connected to one. 

Have you ever considered the power individuals have when they learn how to take on emotional responsibility? It's when we take on the power over our feelings. In this podcast, we go over what emotional freedom is, the 2 main kinds of feelings that we all struggle with, and how conquering these emotional issues will make you a healthy individual and partner.

Are you more of a "happily ever after" or a "it is what it is" type of person when it comes to a relationship?  In this short and sweet podcast, we go over the relationship views of a realist, the fairy tale views of a romantic, and why neither views are better than others with both having the possibility to co-exist.   

It's not all about being perfect yet it is about always attempting to give the best part of ourselves anytime we commit to someone else.  Do you know the certain strengths that we should all have in order to give us a more of a chance for a healthy relationship?  In this podcast, we go over the importance of mastering these life skills, the key life skills we should be always working on, and why these improve our ideal healthy relationship.

Do you live to please in a relationship?  Are you one of those who love to be taken care of?  What about the 50/50 give and take concept?  In this podcast, we go over the signs of a selfless giver, the views of a helpless receiver, as well as what it means to become a balance of both.

Do you know how to teach others on how to treat you? Have you established basic guidelines, known as personal boundaries, to create a healthy relationship with others?  In this podcast, we examine why personal boundaries are important, tips on setting healthy boundaries with others, and how to communicate these boundaries through verbal/non-verbal languages.  

Welcome to the Heartbreak Hotel.  It's the place where the broken pieces of hearts go to be put back together again.  In this podcast, we discuss the different levels of heartbreak, how to embrace and move on from it, and 7 tips that can help.  

What type of review would you give your past relationships?  Was it a blockbuster hit or a flop?  In this podcast, we go over specific relationship reviews, how important it is to review "ourselves", and how to realistically review "others" to gain humble insights in every situation we place ourselves into.

There are time limits with everything we do in life from going to work or getting to the store before it closes.  How do we handle those time limit guidelines in an intimate setting?  In this podcast, we go over some of the general time limits set for intimate relationships, how to recognize the time limits in others, and 7 ways to learn how to set for intimate relationships.

In order for one to feel ready to settle down, there are certain things that naturally need to fall into place.   We can't push or rush anyone into making that decision however we can evaluate our own behaviors.  In this podcast, we will go over why some have that natural instinct to settle down, the 7 signs that you may be ready to be settled down, and why it's important to recognize as well as respect where others are at in their "settling down" phase in life.

We all have a type.  Whether its more from a physical attraction or a personality trait, there are certain people that can draw us to them all because of our natural types that we prefer.  But, is our type the "right" ones for us or the complete opposites of what we are really looking for?  In this podcast, we will cover what it means you have a type, what your type says about you, good and bad, and why it's recommended to date outside of your box at least once in your dating life.  

What's wrong with being single and taking the time to get to date yourself?  Absolutely nothing! We are all entitled to make the best decisions for ourselves.  A relationship doesn't define you and being single doesn't make you an outcast.  In this podcast, we go over why the world may not understand your "single" agenda, how to embrace singlehood, and 7 tips on how to enjoy being single.   

Relationship expectations can always be expected.  Have you ever considered where your relationship expectations originally stemmed from? Can you think of a time where there was some conflicts regarding you or your romantic partner's expectations?  In Lesson 3, we explore where a person's relationship influences can come from, what type of expectations we all have a RIGHT to ask for, and the WRONG expectations that can damage a relationship. 

Have you ever thought about the different love languages?  Do you know your primary love language?  How about your partner's love language?  In Lesson 2, we discuss the 5 main love languages based on Gary Chapman, 7 ways to determine your natural primary love language, as well as 7 ways to determine your partner's primary love language.  We can all relate to them however we all need to know how they play a significant role in connecting with others.

Have you ever thought about the different love languages?  Do you know your primary love language?  How about your partner's love language?  In Lesson 2, we discuss the 5 main love languages based on Gary Chapman, 7 ways to determine your natural primary love language, as well as 7 ways to determine your partner's primary love language.  We can all relate to them however we all need to know how they play a significant role in connecting with others.  

In the Lessons N Love debut podcast, we explore the differences between interpersonal & impersonal loves, the biological theories of love, and the psychological drives that create our views on what love truly is.  There is so much more to this love thing then most people realize.  We dive deep into figuring out how our minds and bodies interpret "love."  For thoughts or ideas, please feel free to email the official podcast email at lessonsnlovelnl@gmail.com .

MUSIC FEATURED IS V Bozeman - "What Is Love"