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Let's Talk Purity

Let's Talk Purity

By The Edifi Podcast Network
Welcome to the "Let's Talk Purity Podcast" with Richard and Brittni De La Mora. Purity isn't just for singles -- it's for everyone. It's not just for a season of life -- it's a lifestyle. Join hosts Richard and Brittni De La Mora as they redefine purity.

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SEASON FINALE: Why the Enemy Attacks Your Purity
Why does the enemy attack your purity? "When your heart is pure, God's favor will follow you," Richard proclaims. Listen to Richard and Brittni explore this essential topic. And subscribe to "Let's Talk Purity" on Edifi and your favorite platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
26:07
March 30, 2022
Defeating Anxiety & Depression with Brittney Moses
Today, Richard and Brittni De La Mora team up with Brittney Moses as we dive into the battle of anxiety and depression. Subscribe to "Let's Talk Purity" on Edifi and your favorite platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
32:10
March 24, 2022
Overcoming Lust: Vlad Savchuk on Finding Freedom From Porn and Rooting Out Evil
Vlad Savchuk shares his own journey of overcoming porn and lust and finding freedom. Froom rooting out evil to discovering lasting healing, his journey is powerful. Subscribe to "Let's Talk Purity" on Edifi and your favorite platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
37:53
March 16, 2022
Dealing With Jealousy
"It's so easy for us to compare our lives to somebody else's life," Richard says in this powerful episode of "Let's Talk Purity."  He and Brittni tackle what happens when you let jealousy creep into your heart. Today, Richard and Brittni teach you practical and Biblical steps to help you deal with this issue. Subscribe to "Let's Talk Purity" on Edifi and your favorite platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
19:33
March 14, 2022
'Life Just Continued to Spiral': Ben Bennett Breaks Down How He Overcame Porn, Chaos After Hitting Rock Bottom
Ben Bennett shares his incredible overcomer journey. From pain, porn, and chaos to finding freedom in Christ, Bennett shares his powerful march toward truth. If you're looking for hope, you'll find it in this incredible story. 
26:36
March 02, 2022
Shattering the Biggest Lies About Sexual Purity
Richard and Brittni break down the biggest lies and truths surrounding sexual purity, starting with the main one: "I have to test it to invest in it." They shatter this lie that sex before marriage is essential for compatibility testing, and discuss some of the essential truths surrounding these issues. "You know what's going to take your love life to the next level? Putting God first," Richard proclaims.  Listen to this powerful episode.
22:11
February 24, 2022
He Was Addicted to Porn — and Overcame It. Sathiya Sam's Story Will Help You Find Freedom
Sathiya Sam is on a journey to help people struggling with porn addiction. He discusses overcoming addiction, helping others do the same — and his new book, "The Last Relapse: Realize Your Potential, Reclaim Intimacy, and Resolve the Root Issues of Porn Addiction." Listen to Sathiya's powerful experience and find freedom in your own life as well.
19:28
February 16, 2022
'Trusting in the Lord' Amid Fear, Love Struggles and Your Purity Fight
Richard and Brittni break down the importance of trusting in the Lord amid fears over love struggles, questions about sex, and struggles in personal purity fights. Listen to this powerful episode of "Let's Talk Purity." And hear all episodes of the show over at Edifi: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
29:04
February 09, 2022
Singleness, Temptations & Sexual Purity
On this episode of "Let's Talk Purity," Richard and Brittni De La Mora dive into singleness, temptations, and sexual purity. This is an essential conversation, so be sure to check it out. And hear all episodes of the show over at Edifi: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
23:39
February 03, 2022
'We Are Living in Some Evil Days': Why You Must Be Ambassadors of Christ Amid Cultural Mayhem
Richard and Brittni encourage people to think deeper about the evil days in which we live. In addition to reminding everyone to remember the importance of being ambassadors of Christ amid cultural chaos, they prompt listeners to seek prayer to get God's guidance for individual missions in life. Listen to this powerful episode of "Let's Talk Purity!" __ "Let's Talk Purity Podcast" with Richard and Brittni De La Mora is a powerful podcast brought to you by Edifi. Purity isn't just for singles -- it's for everyone. It's not just for a season of life -- it's a lifestyle. Join hosts Richard and Brittni De La Mora as they redefine purity.  We hope you enjoy this powerful conversation, and more faith-inspiring podcasts, download the Edifi podcast app on the Apple and Google Play stores and at www.Edifi.app.
15:60
January 19, 2022
Want to Prosper, Find Freedom, and Grow This Year? Here's the One Word You Have to Start With
Richard and Brittni break down the one word we all must start with if we plan to prosper and grow in our faith this year: awareness. Keeping this word in mind — and really employing it — prevents us from letting our hearts flow in the wrong direction. Awareness breeds discernment, guidance on what you need to do and where we need to go, and so much more. Listen to Richard and Brittni break it all down on this powerful episode.
16:54
January 12, 2022
Totally Transformed: From One of the Biggest Male Porn Stars to a Christian Pastor, Husband and Father
Joshua Broome was once one of the biggest male porn stars. Lost, confused, and depressed, he left it all behind, became a husband and dad — and is now a pastor. Listen to his incredible testimony and learn more about how Richard, Brittni, Joshua, and others are coming together to create a course that can help set you free from porn addiction.
23:43
January 05, 2022
'God Wanted Me to Live': How Porn Affected This TV Host's Identity
TV host Ashley Key details her faith journey, why she rededicated her life to the Lord, and how she was called to purity. She also explains how porn impacted her identity. Listen to Key break down what it means to find freedom and why confession and accountability are so important.
12:46
December 30, 2021
The Bible Verse That Set This Porn Star Free and Sparked Repentance
Brittni and Richard De La Mora break down how God brought them together, what sexual purity means in their lives and marriage — and the Bible verse that set Brittni free from the porn industry. Listen to this powerful episode of "Let's Talk Purity."
26:17
December 22, 2021
'How to Get Set Free From Porn': Meet the Woman Who Broke Free After 16 Years of Addiction
Brittni and Richard introduce their upcoming course that will help set people free from porn. In this episode, meet Yamilexis Fernandez, who shares her own journey of porn addiction that lasted 16 years — and how she found freedom. Listen to her story and hear her encouraging words for how people can "overcome the enemy." Quiet the voice of shame in your own life with Yamilexis' encouragement!
26:20
December 15, 2021
Our Battle With Mental Health: From Suicidal Struggles to Hope
Brittni and Richard explore mental health, a tragic suicide they recently witnessed and Brittni's own past experience with suicidal inclinations and attempts. Hear them explain how people can go from "a severe place of brokenness" to true hope.  "When you surrender your broken pieces to God, he has a way of making them whole again," Brittni proclaims. "Jesus can turn everything around for you." Listen to this powerful episode of "Let's Talk Purity."
21:01
December 01, 2021
Temptations and Triggers During the Holiday Season — Here's How to Manage the Familial and Personal Chaos
Brittni and Richard break down some of the temptations, challenges and triggers that can plague us during the holiday season. From family issues to personal triggers, here's how we can find hope and avoid drama.
15:48
November 24, 2021
Overcoming Mistakes: How to Get Back Up When You Sin and Fall
When we sin and fall short, how can we get back up again? That's the theme of this week's episode of "Let's Talk Purity." Brittni assures you, "When you've fallen, you can repent and get back up again," and explains what it means to have a fresh start. Rich reminds the audience that the "enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy," but that we can rise above our mistakes. Listen to this powerful episode — and get inspired, regardless of the mistakes you've made.
18:48
November 17, 2021
Debunking the Diabolical Lies Behind Porn
Brittni and Richard De La Mora break down the lies behind porn and the adult film industry. They discuss brokenness, pain and the diabolical untruths perpetuated by porn. 
18:52
November 10, 2021
SEASON TWO PREMIERE: Moral Revolution Directors Cole and Cait Zick Break Down 'God's Design For Sex'
Moral Revolution directors Cole and Cait Zick sit down with Richard and Brittni to explore God's design for sex on the season two premiere of "Let's Talk Purity." 
38:48
November 03, 2021
SEASON FINALE: Fact-Checking Misconceptions About Forgiveness — and How You Can Find Freedom
Richard and Brittni De La Mora explore how unforgiveness can rob us of joy, peace and the ability to live as God calls us. This is the season finale for season one of "Let's Talk Purity!" Stay tuned for the November release of season two. And be sure to subscribe to the show here: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
20:22
September 15, 2021
'Pray Bold Prayers': The Amazing Miracles and Unlikely Ways God Responds to Us (Plus: Fact-Checking Wrong Prayer Assumptions)
"I’ve seen God move miracles," Brittni De La Mora proclaims in this powerful episode of "Let's Talk Purity." Both she and Richard take listeners into the power and importance of prayer — and they fact-check some improper assumptions surrounding how prayer works. "It goes back to the book of James … you could petition your prayers, but if your motives are off in your prayer life and it’s all about selfish ambition, selfish desires, the scripture says that God won’t answer those prayers," Richard says. "This is why purity of heart is so important." Listen and subscribe: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
19:26
September 08, 2021
What to Do When You've Fallen and Made Mistakes — and How to Overcome
Brittni and Richard De La Mora break down what to do when you've fallen, made mistakes — and how to overcome. When we make errors, how can we get back up and win? The couple tackle this important subject. "Christ Jesus died on the cross so that you don't have to be condemned by your mistakes," Brittni proclaims, noting that it is possible to "make mistakes and get back up again." Subscribe to "Let's Talk Purity" on Edifi and your favorite podcast platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
14:32
August 26, 2021
'Complaining Robs You of What God Can Do in Your Today': How to Cast Out Grumbling Thoughts and Protect Your Heart
Richard and Brittni De La Mora explore the negatives that can often come with complaining and grumbling. While it's easy to focus on what we don't have or what we don't want to do, the Bible has some pretty convicting messages for us about how we should behave — and about gratitude.  If you struggle with complaining thoughts or words, this episode is for you. Subscribe on Edifi and your favorite podcast platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
13:16
August 19, 2021
How to Get Unstuck and Claim Freedom When You're Believing the Lies of the Enemy and Nothing Seems to Change
"So many people in life .... they are stuck," Brittni De La Mora proclaims in this episode of the podcast. Brittni, an ex-porn star, knows what it's like to be trapped in an endless cycle. She was once in the adult film industry and felt trapped. "I felt stuck in that business," she shares. "I believed every lie that comes along ... because we believe the lies of the devil, we end up going around the same mountain over and over and over again and nothing changes in our life." Brittni and Richard De La Mora break down what it takes to break that cycle! Listen and subscribe to the show: Edifi https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/ Anchor https://anchor.fm/letstalkpurity Breaker https://www.breaker.audio/lets-talk-purity Google Podcasts https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80YThhMmE2MC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw== Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-talk-purity/id1551765386 Pocket Casts https://pca.st/axpom577 RadioPublic https://radiopublic.com/lets-talk-purity-WxPZJo Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3xKdnmTn9N1FygRVv4Wqv9
17:03
August 11, 2021
'I Was So Broken': Prominent Pastor Thought She Destroyed Everything After Double Life and Affairs Were Revealed — Then Jesus Healed Her
Hope Carpenter thought she destroyed everything after a double life and affairs were revealed to her husband and church. But she said God healed her and sent her and her family on a path toward healing. Here is her story. "In our worst moments, our terrible moments, our broken moments [God] doesn’t love us any less," she said on "Let's Talk Purity." "He’s so faithful to us and he is not like people. He's there just waiting ... to wrap his arms around us and love us back into the fold."  Hear Carpenter explain her powerful healing journey. And listen and subscribe to the show: Edifi https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/ Anchor https://anchor.fm/letstalkpurity   Breaker https://www.breaker.audio/lets-talk-purity   Google Podcasts https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80YThhMmE2MC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw==   Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-talk-purity/id1551765386   Pocket Casts https://pca.st/axpom577   RadioPublic https://radiopublic.com/lets-talk-purity-WxPZJo   Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3xKdnmTn9N1FygRVv4Wqv9
46:47
August 04, 2021
'I Was a Slave to Sin': Ex-Porn Star Explains Spiritual Warfare and Her Realization That She 'Needs Jesus'
Brittni and Richard De La Mora break down the two types of spiritual warfare. Brittni, a former porn star, also unveils her realization that she needed Jesus and the role that sin can play in our perceptions of warfare. Listen and subscribe to the show: Edifi https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/ Anchor https://anchor.fm/letstalkpurity Breaker https://www.breaker.audio/lets-talk-purity Google Podcasts https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80YThhMmE2MC9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw== Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lets-talk-purity/id1551765386 Pocket Casts https://pca.st/axpom577 RadioPublic https://radiopublic.com/lets-talk-purity-WxPZJo Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/3xKdnmTn9N1FygRVv4Wqv9
14:45
July 28, 2021
Desperate to Hear God's Voice? Struggling With Your Old Ways, Despair and Anxiety? Here's the Simple Solution
Brittni and Richard De La Mora break down the reason so many people go back to their old ways and are in despair and full of stress — and how there's a very simple solution to this conundrum. Explore their powerful message on getting connected to God. Listen to this episode and be sure to subscribe to "Let's Talk Purity" on Edifi and your favorite podcast channels: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/.
20:00
July 21, 2021
The 'Warped' View on Virginity, Sex Before Marriage and Sexual Purity That Can Mislead Us
Richard and Brittni De La Mora break down the "warped" view and the misconceptions that can sometimes emerge in the purity conversation when it comes to virginity, sex before marriage and other related themes. Be sure to listen and subscribe on Edifi as well as on your favorite podcast platforms. And download the Edifi app today for thousands of Christian podcasts on an array of topics!
14:18
July 13, 2021
She Watched Porn for 16 Years — Until Jesus Set Her Free. Finding Hope and Escape From Addiction.
Today, Brittni De La Mora talks to Yamilexis Fernandez about her journey with porn addiction. We pray this conversation blesses you. Subscribe to "Let's Talk Purity" on your favorite platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/.
28:14
July 06, 2021
'Radically Transformed': From Drugs & Porn to a Life of Surrender — Taking Radical Steps of Obedience
Richard and Brittni break down discernment, what it means to take radical steps of obedience and how to be "radically transformed" in Christ. Through Brittni's journey of drugs and porn to a life of surrender — and through other experiences — the two break down why purity truly matters. Subscribe on your favorite podcast platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
54:39
June 28, 2021
'Purity Is Not Just a Sex Issue': Why We Need to Redefine What 'Purity' Really Means
Richard and Brittni De La Mora break down why "purity is not just a sex issue" and why we need to redefine the word. Explore this powerful episode of "Let's Talk Purity." Subscribe on your favorite platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
38:35
June 21, 2021
'Guard Your Heart': Why Failing to Listen to Proverbs 4:23 Is So Dangerous
Richard and Brittni De La Mora break down the true definition of purity — and explain why failing to listen to Proverbs 4:23 is so dangerous. "A Call to Purity: Living a Lifestyle of Purity." In the episode, Brittni proclaims: "The reality is when you fail to guard your heart, you allow contaminations into your heart. And when you do that then you’re whole life gets contaminated. I was in the porn industry for 7 years … When you don’t guard the condition of your heart, then you are not guarding the condition of your life."
18:52
June 14, 2021
Struggling With Secret Sin? Stop Concealing Battles and Find Freedom in Your Life and Soul
Are you struggling with secret sin? Do you face a concealed battle that you're desperate to overcome? Brittni and Richard De La Mora dive into sin, the importance of being open and turning to Christ – and how we can all find freedom in the midst of our pain. Subscribe and listen to "Let's Talk Purity" on your favorite platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
15:46
June 07, 2021
What's Different About You? The Reason Answering This Question Is Absolutely Essential For Every Christian
"You might be the only Bible a person reads." What does this statement mean? And why does it matter? Brittni and Richard break down the ins and outs of living out faith, being different from the world around us and truly developing our relationships with Christ. As Richard proclaims, "What are we going to give to the world if there's nothing different about us?"  Subscribe and listen to "Let's Talk Purity" on your favorite platforms: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
21:17
May 31, 2021
'I Literally Wanted to Die': How Ex-Porn Star Joshua Broome Left the Industry, Found Jesus — and Became a Pastor
Ex-porn Star, Joshua Broome has a story that'll move you to tears with his painful experiences, but then inspire you to grow in God because of what He's done in his life. Listen to him explain how he left porn, found Jesus – and became a pastor.
01:04:21
May 24, 2021
Confronting Church Hurt: What to Do When You Experience Anger, Frustration and Pain Among Fellow Christians
How do we confront church hurt? What do we do when we experience anger, frustration, pain and lack of trust among fellow Christians? Rich and Brittni break down what sparks church pain and how to react. "If you allow church hurt to get inside of you, it is going to affect you in every way possible," Rich proclaims in this powerful episode. Dive in to listen today!
23:50
May 17, 2021
3 Ways to Make Sure You're Maturing as a Christian
Brittni and Richard De La Mora break down the three essential ways to make sure you are maturing as a Christian. These bits of advice are essential for anyone looking to grow in their faith and get closer to the Lord!
22:08
May 10, 2021
Toxic vs. Healthy Friendships: Why Truth Matters...Even When It Hurts
Relationships matter. Here's why toxic friendships bring us down and how we can build healthy relationships that grow our faith. If you're struggling and feel stuck, this is the episode for you.
25:44
May 03, 2021
Living a Life of Conviction: What It Takes, What It Means & How to Live Right
This episode is all about standing true to your convictions, both biblical and personal. Brittni and Richard break down why conviction is a good thing, why balance matters and how not to make mistakes when it unfolds. Plus, they explain why we should all be asking the Holy Spirit to convict us. Richard proclaims, "Sometimes we get conviction and condemnation mixed up." Listen to this powerful episode!
27:38
April 26, 2021
Another Ex-Porn Star Surrenders to Jesus — and Her Story Will Move You to Tears
Alia has a story that'll move you to tears as she explains her painful experiences. But her journey will also inspire you to grow in God, because of what He's done in her life. Hear about her incredible conversation as well as her exit from the porn industry. 
32:29
April 19, 2021
Drugs, Chaos and Pain: The Message God Gave Brittni in the Midst of Addiction
As addiction continues to ravage lives around the nation and world, Brittni shares her incredible journey of hope and healing — and reveals the message God gave her in the midst of addiction. Brittni and Richard also deliver a powerful message to anyone struggling with addiction.
21:13
April 12, 2021
Fame, Money and Popularity: Why We're Still Empty, Discontent and Anxious Even When We Seem to 'Have It All'
Brittni and Richard De La Mora break down why so many of us are still empty, discontent and anxious even when we seem to have it all, with Brittni sharing her own journey with fame and money and her ultimate realization that contentment comes from a relationship with Christ. "You can't be content if your heart is full of contaminations," she proclaims. Listen to this powerful show and check out other "Let's Talk Purity" episodes here: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
21:52
April 05, 2021
Sexual History and Trauma: How to Find Healing, Hope and a Breakthrough
Brittni and Richard break down the difficulties that can come with sexual history and trauma, how to navigate difficult conversations and how to find hope and a breakthrough amid this chaos. This powerful conversation can help people struggling with a partner's sexual history or with their own journey. 
30:06
March 29, 2021
Struggling With Porn, Sin or Negative Thoughts? Here's How You Can Conquer Internal Chaos & Find Healing
Brittni and Richard explore what it means to have a pure thought life — and how to combat internal chaos. "We're waging wars in our mind every day," Richard proclaims. And Brittni adds, "We want to help [you] conquer your thought life," going on to encourage people to "renew" their minds. Listen to this powerful episode of "Let's Talk Purity."
28:26
March 22, 2021
Understanding Sexual Purity (Featuring Ashley Key): 'Keep Your Mind in Line With the Spirit of God'
Ashley Key joins Brittni and Richard to discuss sexual purity — what it means, how to navigate it and why God's conviction must always lead us. Among Key's powerful points, she emphasized the importance of being careful surrounding what we watch and listen to: "When you watch things, when you listen to things, when you're engaging in certain conversations, that then engages your mind to start thinking of those things ... you want to keep your mind in line with the spirit of God."
36:11
March 15, 2021
What's The Problem With Porn?
Richard and Brittni De La Mora answer a question many are asking in today's chaotic culture: What's the problem with porn? The two don't hold back as they explore a topic many have become too silent on. "Porn is an epidemic to the world and also to the churches," Richard proclaims in this must-hear episode. Dive right in and subscribe today!
33:53
March 09, 2021
Behind The Scenes of the Porn Industry
Brittni and Richard De La Mora go behind the scenes of the sex industry in an effort to help dispel myths and help people understand what really happens. Rather than a glamorous industry, they explain the true nature of porn.  As Richard proclaims, "Often times, what we see is far different from what's going on behind the scenes." Brittni and Richard take you inside the truth and help affirm your faith in this episode of, "Let's Talk Purity."
28:02
March 01, 2021
How to 'Keep Your Eyes on Jesus' in the Midst of Chaos, Depression and Pain
Brittni and Richard De La Mora explore the importance of keeping our eyes on Jesus in the midst of chaos, struggles and pain, with Brittni sharing how the Bible transformed her perspective during one of the most difficult moments of her life. "I actually was dating a guy who was murdered. He was stabbed in front of me. They had to put me in a hotel for a few days, because they couldn’t find the people who did it and they wanted to protect me," she explained. "I saw a Bible. I wasn’t a Christian. I was still in the porn industry during this time and I remember taking that Bible ... I just started reading all the scriptures that pertained to everything that I was going through and I would write out the scriptures as they spoke to me, and I was so liberated during that time." Listen to Brittni and Richard share perspective that will help you on your own journey.
22:05
February 22, 2021
Confronting Your Past
In this episode of "Let's Talk Purity," Richard and Brittni De La Mora dive deep into what an effective healing process looks like. You'll never find healing by avoiding your pain, but you will find healing when you confront your pain. This podcast is brought to you by Edifi.app  Check out the podcast and subscribe: https://edifi.app/podcasts/let-s-talk-purity-26147/
22:52
February 15, 2021
Redefining Purity: What You Thought You Knew Might Be Wrong
What is "purity?" Richard and Brittni De La Mora expose some of the myths and misconceptions surrounding purity, explaining why it's "not a sex issue," and exploring what it really means to embrace a lifestyle of purity. Whether you're single, dating, engaged or married: you'll want to hear their powerful message about life change and transformation.
16:34
February 08, 2021