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LILY Pod

By Jeff and Cathy Teichert

"LILY Pod" is a production of "Love In Later Years" (LILY), an organization dedicated to supporting single adults and later married couples. In this podcast, Jeff and Cathy Teichert discuss important and relevant topics like healing from divorce, personal development, dating and relationships, single parenting, remarriage, blending families, and lifestyle tips for the middle aged and beyond. They invite all who enjoy personal growth and enriching relationships to tune in each week.
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LILY PodOct 29, 2021

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156. Deciding About Divorce in 3 Steps
Mar 26, 202409:29
Lifestyle: Dinner Date Etiquette

Lifestyle: Dinner Date Etiquette

Welcome to "LILY Lifestyle Tips," where we give you quick and simple hacks for creating a happy life and healthy relationships. #dating #dinner #relationship
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Mar 19, 202407:18
155. Encore Marriage: A Film Review of Queen Bees
Mar 12, 202436:14
Lifestyle: Working From Your Strengths

Lifestyle: Working From Your Strengths

Welcome to "LILY Lifestyle Tips," where we give you quick and simple hacks for creating a happy life and healthy relationships. #strengths #lawofattraction #focus loveinlateryears.com 111.Flips&FlopsinLife&Relationships
Mar 05, 202406:34
154. What Most Couples Fight About

154. What Most Couples Fight About

Jeff & Cathy discuss what most couples fight about (according to research by the Gottmans), and what we can effectively do about it. Listen for ideas you can apply to reduce the frustration and increase the joy in your own relational interactions. #couple #fight #conflict loveinlateryears.com
Feb 27, 202437:38
Lifestyle: Bringing out Strengths in Others
Feb 20, 202405:56
153. The Only 3 Options in Relationships

153. The Only 3 Options in Relationships

Jeff & Cathy discuss the ONLY 3 options in relationships and why it is important to know what they are ("Love it, Hate it, or Leave it") and what they CANNOT be ("Change your Partner") in order to avoid the pitfalls that keep us stuck and miserable. #relationship #options #wisdom loveinlateryears.com WATCH What is Love Anyway? LISTEN 35.TheDivorceDecision 59.RealLove with Dr.GregBaer 111.Flips&Flops in Life&Relationships
Feb 13, 202438:09
Lifestyle: Swapping Childcare
Feb 06, 202405:57
152. Marriage Without Fighting with Karen & Trace Tiberius
Jan 30, 202401:58:23
Lifestyle: Grocery Budget Hacks
Jan 23, 202405:57
151. Transparent Communication for Couples
Jan 18, 202456:25
Lifestyle: Dating for Single Parents

Lifestyle: Dating for Single Parents

Welcome to "LILY Lifestyle Tips," where we give you quick and simple hacks for creating a happy life and healthy relationships. #dating #singleparent

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Jan 09, 202404:04
150. Moving into a New Year
Jan 02, 202450:10
Lifestyle: Motivation to Exercise
Dec 26, 202305:08
149. New Testament Latter-day Saints

149. New Testament Latter-day Saints

Jeff & Cathy discuss an endearing term they nick-named themselves while dating and the process of reading the entire New Testament as a family in 2023 as part of the Come Follow Me program for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. #jesus #newtestament #love https://loveinlateryears.com/
Dec 19, 202342:15
Lifestyle: Responding to a Grieving Friend
Dec 12, 202305:55
148. Grief Recovery with Connie Irick

148. Grief Recovery with Connie Irick

Jeff & Cathy speak with Grief Recovery Method Specialist, Connie Irick, about what grief actually is, common myths and unhelpful practices dealing with grief, and about the evidence based method she uses to help her clients heal. The personal work required to recover from grief completes relationships that are unresolved, one at a time, with a very specific process that creates a safe space to process everything that is unique to each loss. #loss #grief #recovery Connect with Connie: griefrecoverymethod.com/grms/connie-irick Connect with Jeff & Cathy: loveinlateryears.com
Dec 05, 202301:53:26
Lifestyle: Spiritual Promptings
Nov 28, 202304:03
147. Gratitude for our Guests

147. Gratitude for our Guests

Jeff & Cathy discuss their 33+ inspiring guest interviews on LILY Pod over the past 3 years to help listeners know which episodes to focus on to support their own needs and situations in life. #podcast #review #interviews Intimacy: 24, 59, 68, (90), 144 Personal Power: 10, (26-29), 31, 40, 54, 66, 67, 87, (88), 108, 116, 120, 128, 137 Love/Heart: 13, 15, (47), 56, 63, 71, 80, 95, 104, 112, 124, 140 Loss Recovery: (21), 33, 49, 74, 77, 83, 91, (131), 132, 133, 148 Top Ten Episodes: 24, 59, 77, 87, (90), 95, 104, 112, 128, 140 https://loveinlateryears.com/
Nov 21, 202347:09
146. Would You Rather be Right or Happy?

146. Would You Rather be Right or Happy?

Jeff & Cathy discuss the role and function of our primitive brains and how to create more JOY (the design of our existence). You will learn ways to prioritize being happy, including how to: rebel against your thoughts, take responsibility for your emotional well-being, show up calm to resolve differences, elevate discussion to a higher level of abstraction, create an atmosphere of liberty and flexibility, and participate in meta communication. This episode is great for singles and couples. #joy #brain #priority loveinlateryears.com
Nov 14, 202331:04
145. Thanking God in Advance

145. Thanking God in Advance

Jeff & Cathy discuss the art of thanking God in advance for blessings that are on the way and how that both requires and builds our faith, capacity for gratitude, and trust in a loving Heavenly Parent. #faith #prayer #gratitude loveinlateryears.com
Nov 07, 202330:32
144. Overcoming the FEAR of Intimacy with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

144. Overcoming the FEAR of Intimacy with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

In this Halloween special, Jeff & Cathy interview Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife about Overcoming the FEAR of Intimacy - which is her specialty as an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology! Learn what intimacy really is and how to know if you fear it. For INDIVIDUALS - she shares her views on sexuality being paired with sin to scare adolescents into waiting until marriage, what our theology really teaches about our bodies, how to be knowable while living the law of chastity, and when in the dating process to talk about sex. FOR COUPLES - she offers suggestions for dealing with fear that can come from former marital problems, how to co-create a new marriage that will stand the test of time, and what you can look forward to if you do the personal required to achieve true intimacy. #intimacy #sexuality #interview #therapist #singles #couples

Listen to her other interview with us here on LILY Pod: 24. Wisdom from Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife for Single Adults: spotifyanchor-web.app.link

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife's coaching and teaching focus is on helping individuals and couples achieve greater satisfaction and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships. She has five empowering online courses packed full of tools requisite to create healthier lives and stronger intimate relationships. She offers workshops and retreats where she teaches these life-changing principles in person. She is a frequent guest on LDS-themed podcasts on the subjects of sexuality, relationships, mental health, and faith. She created and hosts "Room for Two," a popular sex and intimacy coaching podcast. Learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife and her work here: finlayson-fife.com

Learn more about Love In Later Years (LILY) and the resources Jeff & Cathy Teichert offer here: loveinlateryears.com

Oct 31, 202301:13:45
143. Dating Formulas - What To Do With Them

143. Dating Formulas - What To Do With Them

Jeff & Cathy discuss dating formulas and how to navigate them with a touch of skepticism while wisely apply the principles behind them to your own unique situations. How long should you wait to start dating after a divorce? For widows, how long should you grieve your loss before getting remarried? How many dates should you got on before a first kiss? What's the best way to avoid an unhealthy rebound relationship? What kind of age difference in couples is acceptable (is it half your age +7 or 10 years)? How long should you date before getting engaged (is 4 seasons and a roundtrip enough or is it even necessary)? The answers to these questions aren't as simple as common "dating formulas" would indicate. Join us as we share our thoughts and feelings about these formulas so you can intentionally make up your own mind. #divorce #death #dating #age #timing #kissing #engagement #marriage #formulas http://www.loveinlateryears.com/
Oct 24, 202328:59
142. Working With Your Rebel Side

142. Working With Your Rebel Side

Can working with your rebel side be an advantage? Jeff & Cathy explore this question and share their thoughts on how to balance natural tendencies (Gretchen Rueben's "4 Tendencies"), human tendencies (we all have light and dark in us), and how to decide who to follow and uphold and who to rebel against in terms of our own intentionally developed moral compass. Enjoy this interesting and fun conversation that will get you thinking about potentially reframing the way you approach your goals and relationships. #human #rebel #joy http://www.loveinlateryears.com/
Oct 17, 202337:25
141. Falling in Love with Conference

141. Falling in Love with Conference

Jeff & Cathy share some of their favorite messages from the most recent General Conference in Fall 2023. Listen to a vulnerable discussion about why "Falling in Love with Conference" is really important, even when life and sorrow sometimes makes it difficult to take full advantage of receiving the messages that are there for us to benefit from. #church #inspiration #counsel loveinlateryears.com
Oct 10, 202357:14
140. Single Adults in the Church with Kathryn Reynolds

140. Single Adults in the Church with Kathryn Reynolds

Kathryn Reynolds was sustained this past weekend in General Conference as a member of the Young Women General Advisory Council (with President Emily Belle Freeman) for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. She has served in many other church capacities, including Relief Society General Advisory Council (with President Jean Bingham, 2020-22). Kathryn earned an associate degree in health science from BYU–Idaho, a bachelor’s degree in family and human development and a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy from BYU. She currently works as a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT).

When Cathy was a single mom, she met Kathryn in a large Single Adult Ward in Bountiful, Utah (2015). Kathryn is not yet married and is a passionate advocate for single adults in the church. Having served closely with many well known church leaders, she knows first hand they are not out of touch with the trials and disappointments we face. In association with the single adult initiative, we are reaching out for constructive feedback. If you would like to share your thoughts as a single member, email us at ⁠loveinlateryears@gmail.com⁠. We need your voice!

Enjoy this illuminating dialogue about faith, confidence, ambiguous loss, trusting heaven, thinking about our various life circumstances in ways that affirm our unique paths, attracting people into our lives who are good for us, and knowing that God cares about our joy and our wants. #single #church #interview

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Oct 03, 202301:51:33
139. Vitamin D for the Soul

139. Vitamin D for the Soul

Jeff & Cathy talk about the importance of Earth's Sunlight (Vitamin D3 for the BODY) and Heaven's Sunlight (Vitamin D for the SPIRIT). To ward off winter depression and receive a whole host of physical and emotional benefits, start taking 5000iu Vitamin daily! To ward off spiritual darkness and receive affirming and strengthening benefits, connect with heaven daily! Together, the body and spirit make up the soul. #vitaminD #body #spirit #soul Using the D Word in Marriage & 35. The Divorce Decision are mentioned in this episode. For those in a dark place who would like a little extra support finding more light in their lives, Schedule a Free Consult (we will provide you with a customized roadmap). loveinlateryears.com
Sep 26, 202321:07
138. When One Door Closes
Sep 19, 202330:56
137. Running Toward Your Goals with Nate & Beckie Lambert
Sep 12, 202301:23:07
136. Love and Shakespeare
Sep 05, 202331:28
135. The Stewardship of Human Interaction
Aug 29, 202339:01
134. The Law of Choice
Aug 22, 202336:11
133. Dating a Widow with Lori Carr
Aug 15, 202358:14
132. Finding Stability After Loss with Lori Carr
Aug 08, 202301:13:36
131. Life Design After Divorce

131. Life Design After Divorce

Jeff & Cathy share their thoughts about "life design" and the importance of using deliberate design methods to recreate your life after divorce. They briefly share the 6 modules they created to help people recover from divorce and design a life they love. Want more in depth information, tools, strategies, and personalized support? We invite you to take our self-paced COURSE on LifeDesignAfterDivorce (now available on demand) and enroll in one of our coaching groups, which are NOW OPEN (Aug) for Fall Enrollment (Sept-Dec). Space is limited, first come first serve. Join the Knights of the LILY (for men) OR LILY Ladies⁠ (for women). Interested in our next course coming up this fall (Sept-Dec)? Sign up for the FREE WEBINAR on CourtingWithConfidence.

Episodes that pair well with this: 24. Wisdom with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife & 59. Real Love with Dr. Greg Baer #course #life #divorce ⁠loveinlateryears.com


Aug 01, 202330:08
130. Taking Leaps of Faith
Jul 25, 202346:54
129. Beyond Relationship Failure: Learning from Success
Jul 18, 202355:53
128. Healing Trauma with Holly Voisin
Jul 11, 202301:44:22
127. The Benefits of Indifference
Jul 04, 202339:07
126. Make Dating Fun!
Jun 27, 202339:56
125. Why Fathers Count
Jun 20, 202337:45
124. Blending Families with Brittney Phillips
Jun 13, 202301:19:33
123. Healthy Remarriage
Jun 06, 202340:26
122. Dating Before Your Divorce is Final
May 30, 202350:37
121. Creating Abundant Options
May 23, 202330:58
120. Courting Yourself with Meg Corey
May 16, 202301:47:22
119. Receiving Rejection with Grace
May 09, 202354:34
118. Giving Rejection Well
May 02, 202348:52
117. Rejection is Along for the Single Ride
Apr 25, 202331:11
116. Emotional Freedom with Misti Love
Apr 18, 202301:18:48