Love In Limboland - Dating for Millennials

Using Social Media to Meet Your Match

An episode of Love In Limboland - Dating for Millennials

By Love In Limboland
Tired of Tinder, Bumble & OkCupid? We feel you! We share the trials and tribulations of dating in LA, interview experts about how to attract love, and share what we learned and how we can all be better in this jungle of dating & relationships. Enjoy, subscribe, rate & review!
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It’s Time to Love Fearlessly
Chris joins us to talk about how our generation can love fearlessly in a culture that tells us to repress our emotions. We’ve been told not to be thirsty or desperate but that has left us not expressing our feelings at all. As a result we have become passive daters waiting for the right opportunity to fall in our laps while we entertain all the wrong opportunities. How do we date with intention in a society that tells us more is more? It’s time to open your eyes to putting it all out on the line when you do get that feeling of excitement! Take a risk and find out how you can open yourself to magic in dating! Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
December 18, 2018
Tough Love Lessons from Reality Bytes
Courtney Kocak from Reality Bytes joins us to share how getting to rock bottoms with a man she was dating forced her to take control of her love life. After getting a driving ticket while begging a man to date her over another woman, she realized enough is enough. She got back on online dating and asked guys to drinks once they connected to see if there was chemistry. From there she went with the flow and it opened her up to new opportunities and enjoying life, which ultimately led her to the man of her dreams! Reality Bytes Podcast: Realirt Bytes: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
December 11, 2018
How To Thrive Being Single!
On this episode we have Besidone talking about being single for 11 years. When we first heard about her being single for 11 years, many people wanted to know why? Is she open to love? What does single even mean? Is there something about her that stops her from finding love? She shares how she refuses to use apps like Bumble, OkCupid, Tinder, Hinge to find her dream man and that she believes she’ll manifest him in real life! Follow Us: Besidone: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
December 4, 2018
Losing Yourself All For The Sake of A Relationship
James joins us to talk about deciding how much to give during the dating phase of a relationship. How much is too much when deciding how much quality time to give, how much love to give, how much money to invest in a relationship etc.? In the modern romance world it’s easy to find yourself doing way too much all for the sake of a relationship. Follow Us: James Henry: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
November 27, 2018
Fear of Being Single in Your 40s. Take this advice!
Are you scared of being alone forever? Jamie joins us to talk about being single in your 40s. She shares how she was worried about being single in her 40s for most of her 20s and 30s but when she got there, she realized life is truly what you make it. She shares her journey of enlightenment, the amazing trip she took to Paris and Barcelona discover herself and how your world can open up if you let it. Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
November 20, 2018
Attachment Styles For Dating Success
While you may be on all the dating apps (Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Okcupid) you may be passing up the good ones because you haven’t figured out your attachment style! Are you secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, or fearful-avoidant. We delve into figuring out which one you are and how being aware can help you find the right match for you! Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
November 13, 2018
She Was In A Fake Relationship! How?
Chika returns to Love in Limboland to share her latest dating experience where she caught herself in a fake relationship. After she made the conversion from Bumble dating app to boyfriend, she realized the man of her dreams wasn’t invested in her but the idea of her. He wanted the plug in Michelle Obama who he could wifey up and show off but Chika was looking for much more. From seeing each other only once a month to a lack of emotional connection, she shares the signs that led her to figuring out it was all a sham! Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
November 6, 2018
Want A Relationship? Put The Damn Phone Down!
On today’s episode we have Alyssa. Author of “Put The Damn Phone Down: Disconnect to Connect”. Her book tackles where we're at in 2018 with technology, communication, self-image, sexism and the changes in the dating landscape we are all feeling. She wants everyone to take a step back, remove themselves from their devices, and utilize the innate communication skills that came before the digital age. Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
October 31, 2018
A Very Common Dating Mistake! The One Who Got Away
Jessica joins us to share her dating story of how she let the right guy get away because she was chasing a hot young thing she met off the dating app Bumble. Have you ever met someone on Tinder, OKCupid or any other dating app and got caught up? Jessica felt like she couldn’t entertain a relationship with the man of her dreams because it would come in the way of her career but that if it were someone young and fun she wouldn’t let it get in the way. She learned the hard way that you can decide what type of relationship you want and it isn’t always so black and white! Follow Us: Jessica: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
October 24, 2018
How Successful Women Can Win in Life and Love
Journalist Jenna Birch joins us to share her research on why so many independent, successful women are winning in life, but losing in love. Her book, The Love Gap, delves into the confusing rift between who men say they want to date and who they actually commit to. Her extensive data, research, in-depth interviews with experts and real-life relationship stories allow her to share how women can, and should, have it all, without settling. Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
October 16, 2018
Why Playing Games is Essential to Dating Success
Ben joins us to discuss his strategy of playing the game to win the girl of his dreams! From planning the right type of outings to introducing his date to his cool friends and even becoming an expert in the activities his date loves, he shares his tactics to convincing his date that he’s the man of her dreams. He also shares his three pillars of success when it comes to relationships and why keeping the mystery alive is crucial! Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
October 9, 2018
A Dating School Might Solve Our Problems
Willa joins us to share her game changing idea for a dating school that will help people live their best dating lives. She reveals her recent dating practices, why feedback is essential when it comes to dating and some common rules that everyone should know when they enter the dating world! Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
September 27, 2018
Change Your Energy To Improve Your Dating Life
Do you feel like online dating is a wasteland? Have you swiped your life away and not gotten the results you wanted? The answer may be that your input is dictating your output. If you aren’t excited or putting that passionate energy into your prospects then you probably won’t be getting it back! We delve into a 21 day challenge for getting that excitement back and why changing your mentality will bring you the best results! Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
September 18, 2018
When Long Distance Actually Works
Jared joins us to discuss how he met his fiancé at a bar years ago only to find out his soon-to-be partner would be moving abroad for 4 years. He shares how they’ve been able to have a loving, healthy relationship even with the distance and how they maintain communication when they are worlds apart. What made him want to stick it out even though they’d have to go years without being able to see each other consistently? We learn how when you love someone you’ll make sacrifices to give your partner the best life possible! Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
September 11, 2018
The Ex-Factor Revisited: His Side of The Story
Kendall returns with her man Easton from our most popular episode The Ex-Factor, to share Easton’s side of their love story. We hear about everything from how he saw her at the bar and nervously asked her out to finally getting to become her boyfriend 10 months later only to be told a couple months after that she needed to figure things out! Did he know Kendall was seeing her ex again, did he keep the conversation going even when he found out, and what did he think when he saw photos of the two on social media!? We finally get the answers we’ve been waiting for and get an update on Kendall and Easton’s relationship present day! Buckle up, this story has some surprises we didn’t see coming! Follow Us: Kendall: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
September 4, 2018
Using Social Media to Meet Your Match
Bruna, Author of Let That Shit Go: A Journey to Forgiveness, Healing & Understanding Love, joins us to share her experience of meeting a man through Twitter and how he helped her discover how she should be treated when it comes to dating. Before she would find herself in situationships were there would be no defined relationship and the guys would treat her as a maybe baby. Bruna walks us through her journey to self discovery and how her eyes were opened to a new way of supporting one another in a dating context. Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: Instagram: Email:
August 28, 2018
He Refused to Define The Relationship
In this episode we had Nic Mora who discussed situationships - the undefined relationship. How you can end up in one, why you end up in one and how you need to get yourself out. She shares how she had to look into herself and what she wanted to discover he wasn’t the guy for her. Follow Us: Nic Mora: IG: Nic Mora Website: Facebook: Twitter: IG: Email:
August 14, 2018
When Timing Gets In The Way of Love
Jeff joins us to share his past year in getting to know Tiffany. They met over a year ago on Jswipe and then for their second date, Jeff took Tiffany as his +1 to his cousin’s wedding where she met his family. After that they continued to stay friends and would meet up every couple of months to catch up. They delve into why a romantic relationship never developed between the two in this past year and what was going on in both their minds as they continued to hang out as friends. Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: IG: Email:
August 9, 2018
The Vampire Diaries: His Fetish Was Blood Sucking
Helen joins us to share her experience of being with a man whose fetish was drinking her blood. She coined the descriptor "vagina vampire” to describe his fascination with drinking her blood during her menstrual cycle. What does one do when the person you’re into has a fetish and how do you both stay respectful of one another as you share a unique experience!? Helen shares her personal account and the importance of setting boundaries and being communicative when to comes to exploring new sexual experiences. Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: IG: Email:
August 7, 2018
Risky Social Media Behavior...
We discuss the pros and cons that come with sharing your personal brand on social media when it comes to dating. What should you share and what should you keep in the archives? We also talk about if having a big following would be a turn-off or turn on when it comes to dating. Follow Us: Facebook: Twitter: IG: Email:
July 25, 2018
Breaking Up To Find Yourself
Jahn joins us to share how he had to end his 5 year relationship in order to find himself so that he can be a better partner in the future. He shares the story of how one day he was asking his girlfriend’s mom for her blessing in marriage and the next day he was breaking up with the love of his life. Sometimes you don’t realize that things aren’t right for you until you make a step in the wrong direction. He needed to discover his own dreams before he could build one with a partner. Follow Us: Jahn: Twitter: IG: Email:
July 17, 2018
Dating Without Any Physical Touch
Our guest Rachel goes through her experience dating as an Orthodox Jew. From drafting the best “resume” to attract the right match to working with a dating coach and a middle man when it comes to being set up, we learn about the challenges and benefits to dating when there is a set structure in place Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
July 10, 2018
Matchmaker’s Tips for Online Dating Success
Matchmaker Jenny Jacobs joins us to share her tips to finding love and reveals her personal tale of how she found the love of her life through online dating. She walks us through what kind of questions to ask in a phone screener pre-online date and gives us a sample of what a matchmaking consultation looks like. Her visualization technique might just help you find you find your future mate and weed out the ones who just aren’t right for you! Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
July 3, 2018
She Waited 12 Years To Break Up With Him
Jess joins us to share her story of a 12 year relationship that lasted longer than it should have simply because she didn’t listen to her heart. She shares what she learned from that experience and how that’s led her to date men that aren’t necessarily right for her in the long term. Does it get easier to pick the right guy after dating someone for 12 years or does it bring to light new issues that need to be addressed before the right one can come into play? Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
June 26, 2018
Monogamy Might Actually Be Dead
Teddy joins us to share his style of dating where monogamish is the new norm. We delve into how dating has changed to where sex was the risk factor compared to now where responsibility is the risk factor. How will our relationships look like in the future and are we expecting too much in the courting process? We’ll delve into this new norm and how to be open to dating in today’s world! Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
June 19, 2018
The Mind-Blowing Facts Behind Why You Should Be Dating
If you want to live longer, save money, or save yourself from potential psychological disorders or health issues, then we have the solution for you— find yourself a relationship! On this episode we provide you with the crazy statistics that prove being in a relationship can save you a lot more than your sanity! Get on the apps - Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid, Coffee Meets Bagel or anything else. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
June 12, 2018
It’s Hard Work: The Truth About Dating for Marriage
Married couple Mitch and Michelle join us to share their journey to the alter after meeting on JDATE 10 years ago, during a time when online dating was highly stigmatized and Tinder, Bumble and dating apps didn't exist. While many people sugar coat the path to marriage, Mitch and Michelle walk us through the honest and sometimes tough conversations they had to have with one another to learn how to compromise and be the best partners they could be for one another. It’s not easy and their honest account shows us the hard work, dedication and sacrifice it takes to make relationships succeed in the modern day. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
May 22, 2018
LA Date Ideas That End In Disaster
From escape rooms to cooking classes to hiking dates, we break down the best dates to go on in the city of angels. We share what kind of dates help you learn about the person the fastest without them even having to say a word. Dates can be fun, especially in LA where there are so many options, but they also can be a flop if you don’t know what you’re getting yourself into! We give you the best locations and activities to make the most of your experiences. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
May 18, 2018
Not Negotiable: She Must Love My Dog
James joins us on this episode to talk about the other female in his life, his dog, and his inability to make compromises when it comes to him and his companion in regards to dating. From canceling dates to stay home with his dog to refusing to kick his dog out of the room during more intimate moments with a significant other, James shares how his relationship with his dog will always come first even as he embarks on romantic relationships. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
May 13, 2018
Should You Wait Until Marriage To Have Sex?
Does waiting work? Rob Kowalski, a self-proclaimed reformed bad boy, and author of Why Waiting Works, joins us to share his journey from being a stripper to becoming celibate. Rob's life of excess taught him many lessons about what does and doesn’t work, and why! In this podcast, he deconstructs the myths and misconceptions associated with the subject and shares his approach to dating and finding true love. He covers the principle of delayed gratification to get what we want MOST instead of just what we want right now—in every area of our lives. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
May 8, 2018
Facebook Dating - Why Tinder Should Be Scared
Mark Zuckerberg announced Facebook Dating at F8 and we weigh in on why think the app will be a big contender in the dating field. Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Jswipe and more have all dealt with the stigma of being fast hookup apps but Facebook’s dating platform says their goal is helping build long-term relationships. We dig into if this will be a new reality. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
May 2, 2018
How to Gain Confidence in Dating and Sex
Let’s talk about SEX baby! Chris Alvino, Founder and Head Coach at Sexual Leadership, takes us through his personal journey in going from an inexperienced dater in his 20s to becoming a master of dating and sex. Learn how to lead your partner through the dance of seduction and eroticism in this latest podcast. From creating different profiles to meet your different needs, to letting go of things not meant for you, Chris takes us through how he has learned to attract a sexual relationship. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
April 24, 2018
How to Optimize Your Online Dating Profile
Psychotherapist and Law of Attraction expert, Daniella Bloom, joins us to share how to optimize your dating profile (on apps like OKCupid, Tinder, Bumble etc) to attract high-quality experiences and the secrets to making that man/woman instantly fall in love with you and want you to be part of their life. To get her VIP special and have your profile optimized by Daniella personally for high-quality dating success, visit: Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
April 10, 2018
I'll Only Date A Jewish Person: Religion and Dating...
How important is it to be in a relationship someone who practices the same religion? Jewish, Christian, Catholic etc....In the online dating world, we have JDate and Christian you prefer those to Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid, Hinge, and eHarmony ? Elana and her boyfriend Harrison join us and special guest host Chika to talk about religion in the context of dating. They share why it's important to them to date someone within their religion and the history it carries with it! While some may think dating within your religion closes you off to opportunities, Elana shares how dating within her religion has given her the greatest opportunity of them all! Enjoy! Love, Kudzi & Tiffany. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
April 3, 2018
Dating Outside of Your Race
Chika joins this episode to talk about how race factors into relationships and the experiences she's had with men online. From discussing fetishizing to breaking down standards of beauty and music tastes, we delve into the role race plays in the dating stratosphere. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
March 27, 2018
The perfect first date
First dates are always rough to navigate in the search for love & a perfect relationship! Where to go, what to do, and how to make it feel like something special, is a pain point for many! What do you do first after the dating apps? Tiffany and Kudzi delve into the do's and don't of first dates and their tips and tricks for getting a second date on the books! Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
March 21, 2018
Online Dating Detox: Should you delete your dating apps?
Online dating (Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid etc.) has been around for years now and those who haven't found a successful relationship, find themselves frustrated with love and wanting more from the online dating experience. Have you tried to find romance or love on an app? We dive into why taking a break might be a good option when you've been searching in what feels like a dating wasteland. However, deleting the apps might not be the only answer, sometimes changing your outlook can also change your experience. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
March 13, 2018
From Tinder Swipes to Wedding Vows
How do you make the conversion from swiping on Tinder to walking down the isle with your soulmate? Married couple Kailey and Zach join us to talk about their journey from dating apps to being in an amazing relationship & marriage and give us tips on how to convert our online dates into something more serious. Here's your chance to learn how to find success from Bumble, Tinder, OKCupid and more. Love is yours for the taking! Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
March 6, 2018
Red Flags. When they show you they're crazy, believe them
This is about doing whatever it takes to find love in limboland and maybe going too far! We have a guest appearance from Chika who shared her story about going on a date with a psychic even though she shouldn’t have gone. Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
February 27, 2018
Ex Factor: He waited for her to try again with her ex
Does an old flame ever come back into your life and make you reconsider everything? Kendall shares her story of falling in love with a new man a couple months after breaking off a 5 year relationship. Following her heart, she ended up leaving her current boyfriend after six months for her ex-boyfriend who she thought was her only possible happy ending. But things aren’t always as they seem. Kendall takes us through her journey of following her heart and trying to figure out how to let go of what other people would think of her choices in order to do what will ultimately make her happy. Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
February 27, 2018
Dating Someone At Work (feat. Too Old To Date). Can you find love with a cutie from work?
When you’re single, you are open to many dating opportunities. While Tinder, Bumble, OKCupid and the plethora of dating apps seem to be the place people go to for love, sometimes dating & other romantic opportunities present themselves at work. On today’s podcast, we have Brad and Mike from Too Old To Date podcast discussing is dating and hookups at work work or not and whether they can lead to meaningful relationships or not. Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
February 20, 2018
How Slide Into The DMs! Practical advice that works!
See someone you like on Instagram? Guest Dreaknowsbest gives us her tips on how to successfully slide into the DMs…but beware of the aftermath because sometimes it can go wrong! Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
February 14, 2018
The Breakup Text. Would you rather be ghosted or get a breakup text?
He was so perfect that he even sent a polite breakup text. Would you prefer to be ghosted or get a breakup text? Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
February 4, 2018
3am "Dates": She dropped her standards to date a hot DJ
Ever been so in love with someone that you lose yourself in the process? This is that story. She fell in love with the glamor of his life but not the real him! Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
January 26, 2018
The Finances. She wanted me to pay for her rent
Things always get a little tricky when you have to discuss finances in a relationship. Our guest Adam talks about the time his girlfriend asked him to pay for her rent! Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
January 23, 2018
The 5 Minute Date: How to stop going on bad dates
Going on a lot of bad dates? We think it’s time to stop the shenanigans and have a filtering process. Introducing the 5 minute date popularized by Matthew Hussey. Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
January 18, 2018
The Thin Line Between Love & Obsession: when you go too far
Ever liked someone so much you did something a little crazy?! This is that story. Guest Chris Jacobs describes the time her went a little too far in the name of love. Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
January 16, 2018
The Second Location Hoax: He tried to hook up on the first date...
What she thought was a fun extended date was really just a pursuit for something more. Have you even been in that situation? Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
January 11, 2018
The Ambiguous Date: Are we dating or not?
Ever been on a date but it turns out that the other person thought your were just hanging out as friends? This is that story. Should you just ask people the status of the relationship or should you just go for the flow and hope that they're on the same page? Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
January 3, 2018
It's Over Boo: It went up in flames after the 6th date
Ever been on a number of dates (6 to be exact) and ignored all the flags until something crazy happens and then you have to end it? This is that story. Subscribe, rate & review. Follow Us: Twitter: IG: Email:
December 30, 2017
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