Skip to main content
Love With a Twist

Love With a Twist

By Drew and Amber

Asian American Monogamish couple thats so deeply in love, we feel the need to share! These are our stories of exploring "the lifestyle" together. Our goal is to share our experiences and to help normalize healthy, honest, and sexy relationships for all the like minded people out there.
Available on
Amazon Music Logo
Apple Podcasts Logo
Google Podcasts Logo
Spotify Logo
Currently playing episode

Amsterdaaaamn

Love With a TwistApr 15, 2024

00:00
01:03:41
Amsterdaaaamn

Amsterdaaaamn

Fata Morgana. The Red Light District. The sex Capital of Europe. Drew and Amber cross the Atlantic to visit the city of Amsterdam, where sex work, marijuana, and psychedelics are 100% legal and available. Perfect ingredients for an amazing experience.

Apr 15, 202401:03:41
Love and Other Drugs

Love and Other Drugs

It’s a party in the clouds as Drew and Amber attend Tom and Cameron’s first Valentine’s Day party at their new place. They meet a very sexy cast of new pineapple people, do some recreational drugs with them, and make love to a view that they’ll never forget

Apr 01, 202438:18
Bae Area

Bae Area

Drew and Amber answer a handful of great fan questions and go over their views on subjects like solo play, hot wife / husbanding, and how to handle “one in and one out” situations. Then they visit San Francisco and talk about their experience visiting the popular sex club; Power Exchange.

Mar 18, 202446:52
Desired

Desired

Drew and Amber open season 4 in sunny Cancun visiting Desire Riviera Maya. They enjoy the 2023 holidays exploring the illustrious lifestyle resort and all it has to offer. They make ton of great memories together, and with their new friends, Luke and Vanessa.

Mar 01, 202401:04:08
Flights & Fantasies

Flights & Fantasies

Thanksgiving surprise! Drew and Amber express what a blessing it’s been to run 3 seasons of love with a twist. They map out plans for season 4, and then share a fun fantasy-football-like game as they traverse the LS world in 2024

Nov 23, 202344:20
What We Want

What We Want

In the season 3 finale, Drew & Amber reconnect with their past friend Cameron, and meet her new partner Tom. Hanging out with them turns into exactly the kind of friendship they are looking for. A few nights out lead to an epic night in and a finish that they’ll never forget.

Oct 16, 202350:05
Never Get the Same Moment Twice

Never Get the Same Moment Twice

Making the most of every moment has been a theme lately for Drew and Amber. You can’t chase the past, so appreciate what’s in front of you. They certainly make the most of an eventful night with recent guest stars Dre and Arya AND with new friends from out of town, Ken and Michelle.

Sep 25, 202351:33
How We Roll

How We Roll

Drew and Amber celebrate their 36th and 37th birthday’s the best way they know how.. with love, and on a roll! They enjoy deep connections with each other and with their old friend Jeanine. They also search for answers as they prepare for their futures as podcasters and relationship influencers.

Sep 05, 202344:04
Know Me, or No Me

Know Me, or No Me

Drew and Amber introduce their first guests to ever join in on the podcast, Dre and Arya. Although they are a traditional vanilla couple, they happen to be the first 2 people to ever hear a Love with a Twist episode, and played a monumental role in putting the show out into the world. They ask great questions, share their experiences and perspectives, and continue to build on an awesome friendship (And they’re pretty damn hot, too)

Aug 15, 202354:26
Gym QT

Gym QT

Drew and Amber discuss how big fitness plays a role in all aspects of their life, including and especially the pineapple LS. But with gym culture, comes gym crushes. They discuss their dynamics with Sohee and Ben, and how these 2 have impacted them both long term, and on a day to day basis.

Jul 18, 202336:10
F*cking Friends

F*cking Friends

Zac and Emma part 2! Another (extra) spicy meetup with these two leave Drew and Amber feeling sexually satisfied, but also extremely grateful for such a great connection and friendship. Relationships like this is truly what the lifestyle is all about :)

Jul 04, 202346:23
Karaoke with a Twist

Karaoke with a Twist

Part 1 of Drew & Amber’s mid season special! After matching with a couple that look like long time celebrity crushes, they find awesome friendship and chemistry with Zac and Emma. Mini golf, chicken strips, sex, and cuddles make for a great start to a great relationship

Jun 20, 202343:30
Peanut Butter Fire

Peanut Butter Fire

Drew and Amber move into a new home and are excited to make their first pineapple memory with the right couple. They meet Barney and Hillary, who are new to the area but make for an awesome connection. Amber gets a fire fighter, Drew gets a thiccie, and everyone gets a sexy story to hear

Jun 06, 202345:58
Kas -> SD

Kas -> SD

After a year of no new hookups, Drew and Amber discover a lifestyle website called Kasidie. The new dating pool leads them to a whole new world of pineapple people, and a trip to San Diego where they celebrate their 6 year wedding anniversary and meet new friends Dwyane and Lea.

May 22, 202358:33
Tulum Tu Temptation

Tulum Tu Temptation

The season 3 premiere features Drew and Amber taking an absolutely EPIC trip to Cancun. They’ll set the stage for the upcoming season, take you through their journey exploring the jungles and beaches of Tulum, and finish it all off with a weekend at Temptation. Among the many friends they make, they cap the trip off with a fun and sexy experience with Ryan and Taylor. 

May 08, 202301:00:08
First, Love

First, Love

In the season 2 finale, Drew and Amber introduce their first serious relationships, and how certain events in those relationships may have led future them into the lifestyle. Meet Sanna (aka Monica), Manti, and young Drew and Amber. 

Jan 23, 202346:12
Monogamish

Monogamish

Drew and Amber discuss concepts about monogamy, polyamory, and themselves being somewhere in between. They also introduce their new and spicy play partners, Jay and Jeanine.

Jan 09, 202340:15
Party at the Penthouse

Party at the Penthouse

Drew and Amber connect with new friends Craig and Cameron for some great laughs and some even greater sex. They get together to attend a swanky and exclusive swinger party located in an upscale Seattle high-rise, and of course... an epic night is made out of it! 

Dec 26, 202243:58
One Hit Wonder

One Hit Wonder

Planned one nighters aren’t normally their thing, but Drew and Amber get to hook up with Mike and Elizabeth for a single night that they won’t forget, nor regret. They also field a few questions from listeners and have a great time talking through some fun and spicy topics.

Dec 19, 202240:27
Size and Subs

Size and Subs

Does size matter? Drew and Amber tackle the age old question along with a few others. They go on a date with Margaret and Travis, who are an unlikely match for them. They end up having a great time, but are also reminded to never judge a book by its cover. 

Dec 05, 202248:09
No Expectations, No Disappointments

No Expectations, No Disappointments

Drew and Amber meet another "virgin" lifestyle couple, Sean and Samantha. They decide to take it slow and get some really fun dates as a result. Drinks lead to strip beer pong which then leads to bedroom activities. They reflect on lessons like not having expectations, and just enjoying all the different moments with the humans that they meet. 

Nov 21, 202235:13
Super Soaker Ex

Super Soaker Ex

New friends Lana and Alan cum over to play. They have an awesome foursome, and things get WET. Drew and Amber then open up a good discussion about the female orgasm and some of its intricacies. 

Oct 31, 202238:46
Catfish

Catfish

Drew gets catfished, Amber gets Anal, but they walk away with an epic story to tell. Meet Sheldon and Christina... For the first, and definitely last time.

Oct 17, 202245:14
2's and 3's

2's and 3's

Amber develops a liking to Josh and maintains a long distance relationship with him. She walks a thin line in her and Drew's relationship in order to eventually draw a solid one. Then they meet Scarlett, who turns out to be a great unicorn and their best threesome experience yet. 

Oct 03, 202242:44
Great White Buffalo

Great White Buffalo

Drew and Amber are back for Season 2! They start by addressing commonly asked questions including ones on jealousy, marriage, and how to introduce lifestyle fantasies to a partner.  The Jeremy and Sophie chapter comes to an end as everyone adjusts to life in 2020. They also introduce the proverbial "Great White Buffalo" couple, Sebastian and Liane aka "the ones that got away." 

Sep 19, 202247:41
Lovers and Friends

Lovers and Friends

In the Season 1 Finale, Drew and Amber finally find the couple they've been searching for in their lifestyle journey in Jeremy and Sophie. After slowly developing a strong bond over consistent chatting online, they begin to hang out. Genuine connections are formed both in and out of the bedroom, and the group of 4 experience a series of mind blowing sex, along with a long lasting friendship. Foursomes, spit roasts, creampies, double penetration, and much much more ensue as a result.

Apr 25, 202201:01:24
Friends Before Benefits

Friends Before Benefits

You can really enjoy sex AND spending time with people that you aren’t in love with. Drew and Amber realize that a key aspect to this concept is building lasting friendships first. They look way back into their pasts to find the best personal examples of this in Ken and Kristin.
Apr 11, 202245:23
Sweet Temptation

Sweet Temptation

The lifestyle is a playground, and Drew and Amber are having a ton of fun playing in it. They share a soft swap experience with new friends John and Jenn, and then recount how their new recent partners have led to even more passion in their own relationship. THEN, they visit the official “playground for grown ups” where they discover their new favorite vacation spot. 

Mar 28, 202246:53
Not Sure, but... Sure

Not Sure, but... Sure

In an effort to meet more people in the lifestyle, Dru and Amber reluctantly explore their first local swingers club around Seattle for a New Years Eve party. Around the same time, they also match online with new friends; Jeff and Marissa. A fun date night leads to a night of partying. Some play ensues, along with more lessons learned.

Mar 14, 202254:15
WE Cum First

WE Cum First

Drew and Amber recap lessons they learned from cheating on each other. After hearing the details of each story, Amber questions Drew about what pushed him to jeopardize their relationship. Then, Drew questions Amber about why he wasn't included in the plans to bring Julian into their bedroom. Deep conversations and 100% transparency ultimately bring clarity to the direction of their relationship. They find a deeper connection and make love like they never have before. To finish off, they share a little bit of that love with you ;)

Feb 28, 202244:10
Cheating isn't sex. Sex isn't cheating.

Cheating isn't sex. Sex isn't cheating.

Drew and Amber talk about two "make or break" points in their relationship when they cheat on each other in very different ways. Temptation takes over Drew as he tells his story with Morgan, and Amber neglects her partner to pursue her fantasy with Julian. To be continued...   

Feb 14, 202245:11
Popping Our Pineapple

Popping Our Pineapple

It finally happens! Drew and Amber share all the hot details of their first (sorta) soft swap ever. Amber finds out what a Hitachi feels like, Drew gets to have sex with a crush, and through the experience; they learn more about the importance of chemistry before sex with new people. Then, they get invited to their first lifestyle party. From there, the pineapple gets fully popped as they have their first full swap experience with new friends Ethan and Tia! 

Jan 31, 202259:52
Swiping Right

Swiping Right

In this episode, Drew and Amber start to really dive into the lifestyle and meet the community. It starts with an old friend and long time swinger Asa, and her husband Henry. From there, Drew and Amber start to explore online and find apps to meet like-minded others. This leads to a ton of fun, lessons learned, and real boundaries made that would shape the future of their lifestyle journey moving forward. 

Jan 17, 202242:58
What happens in Vegas

What happens in Vegas

What happened in Vegas... made it into this episode of Love with a twist! Drew and Amber discuss their first time ever having sex in the same room as another couple and how it opened the door to more. Their next trip to Vegas together did just that, as they experience their first 3some and share the tale with you! 

Jan 03, 202239:48
Find your love

Find your love

This is Drew & Amber's introduction to the Love with a twist podcast. You'll hear about how they built their relationship on friendship, honesty, communication, teamwork... and a whole lot of sex. As marriage and going into the swinger lifestyle soon follow, you'll get to learn why the podcast exists and what to expect as you take the journey with them. 

Jan 03, 202251:22