Fathers Of The Future
By Luke Kayyem
Fathers Of The Future Apr 23, 2020
Season IV #95 Ninety Days To Live With Billy Aiton
A Stoic wants to live well— and living well means dying well, too. A Stoic lives well through having a good character, and death is the final test of it. - Seneca
This very well could be the most meaningful podcast I've ever recorded. My conversation with Billy Aiton, a former client from CrossFit Scottsdale, was more than just a reminder that life is fragile. He shows us, shows me that every second counts.
This is coming from a man who's been given 60 days to live as of the recording of this episode. And as much as I don't want to see a friend leave this life to soon, the reality is he's facing his mortality.
But if you listen closely, you'll hear the will to live in every sentence he speaks. When he talks about his kids and how proud he is of them, you can't help but want to be like him.
To those who know Billy, I pray this episode encapsulates the man you love. I hope it inspires you to hear your dad, husband, brother, and friend speak and be so thankful for you. He loves you.
In my line of work, I get the privilege of meeting so many people who inspire and motivate the world. Billy may very well be at the top of the list.
Billy Aiton, I love you and am grateful I got this distinct opportunity to sit down with a friend and have a conversation far beyond us both. Let's keep Fighting, my brother!
We Love you, Billy…
Season IV #94 Fit Between The Ears with Chris Lalanne
The LaLanne last name is not just famous in the fitness world, but everywhere else too if you were around in 1951 to the 80s. We've probably all heard about Jack LaLanne, the health and exercise expert a.k.a the Godfather of fitness. The one member of his family that followed in his footsteps was his nephew, Chris LaLanne.
Chris was always into sports, but chose a different route with his competitive nature. He found success in bodybuilding and helping those he cares about get strong. He got a degree in Kinesiology from San Diego State and became a mastermind in fitness. Then, in 2006, he discovered CrossFit and never looked back.
One of the main things Chris teaches is how to be fit between the ears. He systematically walks his clients through changing their life by how they think. Once that's in motion, physical peace follows. A key ingredient to his program is fasting and letting the body heal. This IS a major part of the definition of being "physically fit."
Chris LaLanne's got an awesome presentation and can help you live your best life. He's been at it for 30 years and knows all the tricks on how to lead yourself. In this episode, let Chris' story help you start taking charge of your life. "Let's get you a custom plan to crush it mentally!"
chrislalanne.com
Season IV #93 Optimyze with Jesse Moreng
Business owner, father of 3, breath work instructor, wellness coach, MMA fighter are just a few of the titles you can give to Jesse Moreng. But what makes him special is his ability to put all of those together, the experience, knowledge, and passion into helping you. He wants you to be the best you can be and has a platform to help you get there.
He's a passionate advocate for natural health methods. The struggles of his loved ones and community inspired him to help them find their inner strength and improve their well-being. This journey of helping others led him to starting one of Phoenix's premiere wellness centers, Optimyze.
As stated above, Jesse has a sports background in wrestling, boxing, and mixed martial arts. He still practices martial arts, yoga, and breathwork and has been doing yoga since 2001. In 2017, he became a certified Wim Hof Method instructor, which combines breathing techniques, cold exposure, and mindset training for improved health and resilience. Jesse enjoys sharing his knowledge of breathing practices (breathwerx.com). He's a certified Wim Hof and Buteyko Method instructor, a health coach, and a Functional Patterns Human Foundation instructor.
He wants you better, whole. It's the whole reason he does what he does. As you listen to his story, begin to listen to your heart on what YOUR next move is in becoming the best version of yourself. And if you need some help, he's here.
instagram.com/jmoreng
optimyze.me/about
optimyze.me/first-time
instagram.com/optimyze.me/
breathwerx.com
Season IV #92 Breathe Like A Man With Jake Parent
Jake Parent is the founder of Breath.Energy, yes there's no dot com. He wants you to know you don't have to hold onto the weight of pain you've been holding. He wants you whole. Why? Let's back up for a second...
In his mid 40s and from a distance, he looked reasonably successful. But inside, he felt like he was driving around with the parking brake on. This describes most people listening to this episode now. He felt like he was underperforming at life, knowing it shouldn't be this hard. Something had to change, and something did change, he found his breath. This sent him down a journey to healing himself. If you ask him he'll tell you he's still healing, but that's the joy of the journey.
After being on this path for years, something else happened… Jake had a vision of sixty people doing breath work together, and Breath.Energy was born. Breath.Energy was open for 3-4 months, and every week more and more people were coming. Fast forward some years and they're still walking humanity through the deep work of healing through breath. Jake says, "During breathwork we have encouraged our community to express the deepest most unseen parts of who they are. To say this work has been rewarding is an understatement. I am eternally grateful for the space we hold which allows people to feel, release, and find the joy in their lives. Through breathwork I have found my motto of life. Love is ALWAYS the answer."
Jake wants everyone to experience the freedom so many have felt through this work. He wants YOU to experience what it's like to walk letting go of the weights that have held you back. It starts with a breath.
breath.energy
125 E Southern Ave, Suite 102
Tempe, AZ 85282
info@breath.energy
(480) 779-9245
Season IV #91 The Heartbeat Of Hawaii with Adam Snodgrass
Adam Snodgrass of Makaha, Kailua Kona, is a self-proclaimed fishing fool who loves his family and romping around in the sand with his dogs! When you listen in between his words, you'll feel the rich history of Hawaii just by the description of a fish. Even more, you can hear the pain in his voice when talking about what has happened since the August fires. Allow yourself to get caught in the joy he has about the people he serves. But you must allow your heart to be pulled on for the people of Hawaii and specifically the people of Maui... just like Adam.
Makaha, kailua kona
Donation to givebutter.com/Py0E6C
instagram.com/smoky_da_beard/
Season IV #90 Trip Down The Rabbit Hole with Tripp Mehew
Let's get to it; Tripp Mehew has been on the frontlines of the Maui fire tragedy since it started. As a resident of Hawaii, he holds nothing back regarding the truth about what is going on at the ground level. Isn't he "that" conspiracy theorist? NO, he's literally walking, serving, and helping the people of Maui, as well as exposing what is REALLY going on. He's not regurgitating what someone is saying on the internet or the news, no, he's there WITH the people of Maui.
He attended Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University, a father, is a former Marine, and a passionate truth seeker. He will dig until he finds it. Today, when you have 1,000 voices and are not sure who to trust Tripp speaks of what he's experienced. He speaks of what he knows, and from a place of logic. Why? Because he cares about the people he's currently serving and wants to get them the help they need.
Tripp says, "Freedom is the ultimate feeling of personal empowerment. It leads to a rich and meaningful life that you are solely responsible for. Self-responsibility and mindful choices can elevate you to living your greatest purpose. We love life! And that is WHY we fight so hard against the tyranny and evil that is trying to destroy it."
You can find him here:
instagram.com/trippmehew
facebook.com/trippmehew
youtube.com/@trippmehew
twitter.com/trippmehew
rumble.com/c/TrippMehew
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Season IV #89 Release 100 Billion F*cks with Yogi Bryan
Shortly after starting his yoga journey, Bryan began a consistent meditation practice. He challenged himself to meditate every single day for 90 days, but it's what happened at the end of the 90 days that he found his purpose. He realized the power of the subconscious mind on the outward life we live. Now he helps people reprogram their subconscious minds with love, gratitude and abundance for the outcome they are wanting.
In this space is he loves to make the yoga and spiritual community laugh. He noticed people were very competitive and took their practice so seriously. "It's just f*ckin yoga" he thought. People need to relax and have fun on their yoga and meditation journeys. This perspective inspired him to create a space for the community where they could laugh while they practiced. He helps people just like you find their truth, gain confidence, and release f*cks… all with a smile. He'll do the same for you.
His background: He is a Neuro Linguistic Programmer (NLP), E-RYT 200 Hour Yoga Instructor, and YACEP-Yoga Alliance Continuing Education Provider. His Relax with Yogi Bryan Meditation podcast has been a massive success with over 3 million listens to date. You can find him all of his online content here below...
App: Relax with Yogi Bryan App @ onelink.to/relaxyogibryan
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Facebook: facebook.com/realyogibryan
Relax, Meditations Podcast: anchor.fm/relax-with-yogi-bryan
The Yogi Show Podcast: anchor.fm/theyogishow
Yogi Bryan Talks Podcast: anchor.fm/yogibryantalks
Season IV #88 Reverse The Curse with Pastor Fidel Pesina Jr.
Life has a way of giving you circumstances out of your control. It's what you do with it that leads you to your destiny. This is the story of Pastor Fidel Pesina Jr. Many look at him and see a successful man who was making 6 figures a year as a contract electrician. Many don't see the sacrifice he's made to do what he feels most called to, being a husband and Father. He later gave up his career to pastor a church, but He was fatherless, and found himself making decisions that led him down a dangerous path. After some "close calls" he found himself surrendering to God. As you listen to his story, see yourself in it. See yourself surrendering to a higher power and see if it doesn't lead you to your calling. God has a way of reaching you. It doesn't take long to see that Fidel is, like you and me, a human. The difference maker for this scrappy pastor is that he will fight for what he believes in. He will fight for his family and his kids, and he will fight to walk out what he believes God has called him to... people.
Turning Point Church: tpcbaycity.org
Facebook: facebook.com/watch/turningpointchurchbaycity
Youtube: youtube.com/@tpcchurch-baycitytx787/videos
Season IV #87 Two Mics, One Movement
The first ever "2 Mics 1 Movement" episode is here. Luke sits down with his business partner, friend, and fellow soldier in this fight, Jeff Strange. He says this about Jeff , "Nothing in this world has ever been handed to you." But isn't that the way we want it? Isn't this the kind of leader we need, leaders who fight, scrap, and drive towards winning. Jeff is an example of what we, as men, desire. A Fathers Of The Future Crucible Alum, and a leader in this brotherhood, Jeff trains and leads men to walk free from their past and live their calling. He's what this movement needs and what men are searching for, healing. When you're around Jeff, you know you matter; he pulls this out of you. He wants YOU to live YOUR calling. He knows that he's merely a guide and you're the hero of YOUR story. As Luke and Jeff have a necessary conversation, realize that this is for you. What do you want? And what are you willing to do to get it? 2 Mics 1 Movement is about YOU finding those answers and moving forward. CLEAR!
Season IV #86 Sober A.F with DRU Meskin
Dru Meskin is a full blown redemption story. Being in a broken home, he found himself on a path of compulsive or regular substance abuse. Being angry at life also added to his pull to sedate with the addiction. This led him to being sent away to a juvenile detention center with everyone thinking it would fix him. It didn't, it made his drug and alcohol habits worse.
But the story doesn't end here. He found himself going through rehab, graduating from college, and fighting for his sobriety while simultaneously starting his own business. In fact, Dru is none other than Luke's stylist. As the owner and operator of First Mane AZ Dru has established himself as a top barber in Arizona.
What's the moral of the story? You'll have to listen and find out... but Dru's proof that hard work and surrender can lead to the life you are searching for. It will be hard, but this is what men do... and Dru's one of them.
https://firstandmaneaz.com
Season IV #85 "Short Slabs" with Tyler Short, The Hobby, Hustle, and Hierarchy of Sports Cards and Collectibles
What do you get when you mix a pharmacist, a top Sports Card investor, and a Fathers Of The Crucible alum? You get the one and only Tyler Short. Even though, he's good at his day job, today, we aren't talking medicine. We're talking about how to build a SIX FIGURE income with his side hustle, sports cards. As a content creator on Youtube, his channel helps his followers know the ins and outs of what cards you're buying and selling. While he helps others, he does invest himself and does very well. It's why he's one of the top sellers on Ebay. Tyler would be considered a purist. In other words, he isn't doing this simply to make money; he genuinely loves trading cards and loves being around others who do the same. With all that in mind, he's learned to leverage his passion into making money, and lots of it. Learn from Tyler, even if you don't trade or invest in sports cards. All of us have passions that can be turned into wealth.
When you meet Tyler, you're happy for him. As a man of faith, an athlete, and committed to those around him, you're happy for all the success he has.
https://www.ebay.com/str/shortslabs
https://www.instagram.com/shortslabs
https://www.youtube.com/c/TylerShort
Season IV #84 Integrity First with Eric "WHITEY" White
The A-10 is the first Air Force plane specially designed for close air support of ground forces. You don't sign up to fly an A 10 because you like to fly. They're meant to be a support during combat when soldiers are under fire. It's why A 10 pilots are a gritty community, and rightfully so. It's probably why Eric Whitey White signed up to fly this very plane. In other words, this isn't a man who is passive. You don't go into the Airforce and fly these kinds of planes and not have a heart to serve and a willingness to go into the fight. For him, when you commit you go, regardless of the danger.
He was mentored and fathered by his grandfather, who was also a pilot in the airforce. He started taking Eric flying when he was only 8 years old. So to say Eric wanted to fly was an understatement. It was in his blood. Similarly, the mentality it takes to be a pilot is exactly how he approaches everything, even Yoga.
When posed the question "what's it like having a child on the way at age 50?" his simple response... "THERE IS NO CAN'T, THERE'S JUST DO!"
Season IV #83 “A Happy Kingdom” with John Stewart
A part owner of Sunfare, the OG of meal prep, John Stewart revolutionized the Custom Meal Prep Industry. In 1997, he and his partner did this off of a piece of carbon paper his receptionist threw in his office's trashcan. It wasn't any ordinary trash in a waste container. Rather, it was the domino that set in motion his life's mission, helping people achieve greatness. On instinct he contacted the number, not knowing they were a powerful Hollywood Executive at the time, and off to the races they went. Yes, some of Sunfare's clients are Hollywood executives, actors, or professional athletes, but that's not the driving force of what they do. It's the everyday mom or dad, the person who's busy and needs help getting their meals ready, that drives their passion to do what they do. It's the person who is trying to reach their health targets. It's you and it's me. From the beginning, John has said, "if Sunfare can put great meals in your refrigerator that you want to eat, then you will eat those meals…and get the results you're looking for."
John's vision and entrepreneurial spirit are essential, and continue to help the company thrive. And some will tell you he's a natural leader who embraces the challenge of business ownership, but it's those around him that say "he makes us laugh." It could be the main ingredient to why Sunfare has been so successful.
As a father of 2, John relishes in the role of father and husband. At every chance he gives his wife credit for their life and promotes her businesses. As a man in his 50's you'll hear the youthfulness in his voice as his kids keep him young. On the other hand, you'll hear the wisdom of a man who's built a life worth living as he delights in building up his family.
Season IV #82 Finding Your Way Home with Gio Diaz
Gio was put into a home that seemed to be the fit he needed until decisions outside his control led to being removed. It was the first stable family he had up to this point, but it had come to an end. Once again, back in the system, Gio found himself at age 12, finally getting adopted into a permanent home. And in what should've been the most stable time of his life, he found himself becoming angry. This turned external into physical outbursts, taking it out on his family. All of those years, in and out of homes, being in unstable even dangerous environments finally came to a head.
His mom and dad hurt for him. They prayed for him. Fought for his heart. So, along with their home, they put him in spaces where he would be loved, even when it was hard. But this isn't how the story ends. Gio's parents aren't passive, nor are they weak. They started searching, asking God what to do. Among other things, this led to The Crucible.
It's not only an ongoing redemptive tale, but one of perseverance and finding his identity. We'll let Gio finish the story because he tells it better than we can write it. And make no mistake his story is really just beginning.
Season IV #81 CHANNELED ANGER with Malcolm Guya. A Mother's Day Special
Malcolm Guya, a son, a friend, a savage athlete, big smile, trustworthy, humble, and a leader. If you ask the men around him, this is what they will say. As a child he moved here from Kenya to the US. With no dad in the picture, he was raised by his grandmother for the first few years of his life. But it was his mother who, even though she wasn’t present in those beginning years, had the most influence on his life as he follows after God.
As a college football player, Malcolm learned quickly what it takes to be a man off and on the field. Through his coaches, pastors, and his relationship with God, he learned to channel his anger onto the field and live free from resentment. He also knows what it's like to not allow circumstances to dictate his destiny. After having several breakthrough moments on a weekend retreat for men Malcolm found himself no longer angry, and free from any grudges he carried from childhood.
Malcolm, who recently got married to his wife Talia, will break the generational curse of fatherlessness in his family. With a strong connection to his church family, a belief in who God has made him, he fights hard to help those who grew up like him. Although he's not a father yet, he is setting the pace for what men should be as they head towards fatherhood, present. Malcolm is one of a kind. If you're ever graced with the opportunity to be around him, you'll walk away a better person. That's just who he is... a Father Of The Future.
“YOU DID A TREMENDOUS JOB, thank you because you raised a warrior, a child of God” - Malcolm Guya, speaking of his mother
Season IV Exp # 80 "Respect The Formula" with Marcus Wheaton
When coaching meets faith, you get a formula that will cause you to win. From training his own sons to the NFL and others to the Olympics, Marcus Wheaton has a way of pulling greatness out of everyone he coaches. As the owner of Wheaton Solutions, the success of his athletes is a bi-product of his dedication to the individual. It's no surprise he's the number one speed coach in Arizona. Even more, when you listen to this episode, he may be the #1 father in Arizona.
To quote him: "Fatherhood is not a noun but an adjective." You have to earn it if you want to be called a real father. As his kids grew up playing sports, Marcus can count on 1 hand at how many games or events he's missed. Even if his job was on the line, he was making sure if one of his kids looked up in the stands he'd be there. He doesn't wear this as a badge of honor; rather, this is how an elite father lives his normal life. It IS how fatherhood should be played out by every dad. This is who you get when being coached by him. And when you're a part of the Wheaton Solution family.
Instagram.com/TikTok: wheatonsolution
Facebook: Wheaton Sports Solutions
Youtube: Wheaton Sports Solutions
Twitter: TheWheatonWay
Season IV Exp #79 Your routines and mindsets are OLD. HOW do we practically RISE to become unrecognizable in 12 months with Coach Luke Kayyem
Designing clear actionable outcomes.
Value and importance of Goal Setting and living life by design.
Sharpen the sword
Empower and impact
As we enter another chapter of this epic journey called life, let me be one of the first and only REAL MUTHAFUCKERS alive to welcome you to the reality of the NEW YEAR, it ain't new and neither are you, your old, and so are your stories, skills and habits and they just got a little bit older.
Unless you are willing and welcome CHANGE, break the cycle, shift the pattern, set new and challenging GOALS, be willing to fail forward, pushing your personal edge of complacency and comfort, building resilience in your approach to adapt and overcome you will remain the same.
"How you do one thing, is how you do everything"
Unless you live life by your own design, uncompromisingly, intentionally, declaring with absolute certainty, belief and trust that this can and will BE the greatest and most compelling, unforgettable year of your life.
"Where your ATTENTION goes, ENERGY flows"
Unless you hold yourself accountable, asking others for help, guidance, coaching and teaching along the way. Staying true to yourself, willing to be open, vulnerable, honest and authentic, never trading or losing your integrity or values to appease anyone.
There is no doubt, you will be tested, challenged, beaten down and broken but you must commit to yourself that, I WILL never ever give in or give up!
"If there is no enemy within, the enemy outside can do you no harm."
There is GREATNESS in you, I see it and believe it, it's alive and living, it's growing and expanding, it's right here, right now, simply use this day and small wrinkle in time to affirm and confirm, establishing the VISION you have of your future self.
Constantly asking… What am I made of? And how can I continue to test myself daily.
DEVELOP and DECLARE, a 2023 MISSION STATEMENT, curate and craft your MANIFEST DESTINY, write your own powerfully provoking and poetic self-proclaimed VISION statement for that UNFUCKINGRECOGNIZABLE version of the man you MUST become.
Season IV Exp #78 Impact over income, and SERVE others with Jeff Strange
Jeff Strange worked as a head of sales at Bad Birdie Golf Apparel, a company featured on The Shark Tank. Jeff was able to use his gift of sales, even more his gift of loving people help the company reach its highest grossing year in 2021. And yet with all the success he’s walked away from it all, walked away from a stable career. Why? Because he believes fully in impact over income. Jeff helps us understand what a grind looks like but also what living free has given him. He helps us understand what living your purpose is supposed to be and it’s serving others.
His philosophy when it comes to being successful, since he was 16, is SERVICE. If you want to make the most out of anything you must serve others. You’ll see this in everything Jeff is a part of, whether you’re hiking up a mountain, running 50 miles, need help setting up chairs, or just need a bro hug Jeff is right there ready to serve. Furthermore he's someone men can follow as he leads a group every Wednesday morning at 5A.M. at his church in an intentional time physical suffering to build mental toughness. And if you ask him why he’s the way he is he’ll tell you without blinking, God. As a father to 2 amazing children and husband he knows his purpose. He knows that if he’s truly making an impact it will be serving his family first and letting that heart spill over into every other area of his life.
- Why walk away from stability since it’s safe?
- He talks about the grind of building a business
- What true success looks like which doesn’t always mean position or title
- Golf, the sport that led him to his calling, service
- How does leading himself impact his wife and kids?
- How has helping men rise to be the men they want to be become his purpose
- He helps us understand what it really means to have impact over income
Jeff embodies the FOTF mantra which says:
- Show Up
- Don’t Quit
- Do The Work
- Lead With Love
- Trust The Process
Season IV Exp #77 Could a hard workout and faith community bring you back with Brad Larson
In this episode Luke talks to senior executive pastor Brad Larson. In his local church Brad contends for the hearts of the men who are apart of their Fight Clubs, Wed Workouts, Men's Nights, and Boot Camps under the umbrella of Every Man A Leader. Church isn't a game to him, in fact it's a fight he's been graced to fight, a grace to lead in. He has a deep compassion for men who simply need help but don't know what to do. He walks towards storms a man may be facing. Not because he can fix it but because he knows we can't face it alone. Even more he knows there is only one who can calm the storm within the storm, Jesus.
He has been on a 30 year journey of what it means to become the man God wants him to be. Being a father of 4 and a husband, he knows the price you must pay when you aren't leading yourself and living a surrendered life to God. He also knows the joy of redemption and living in God's Plan A. For Brad following Jesus is the only path to go on to become the man you know you can be.
For to long the "industry" of high performance, self help, and wellness has crushed faith communities, but not here. Brad helps us understand that even through a workout you can see the beauty of God and His creation. Being a high performer isn't a new concept, it's as old as the scriptures. So why not follow the Master of life? After all Jesus is the one who can show us how to live it to the fullest.
- If you’re not growing you’re not progressing
- Why do real men let go of their faith and turn back to their pain?
- How can we get clear on what it means to walk with Jesus?
- Definitions lead us to destinations, if the definition is wrong it will lead you to the wrong place
- 307 questions where asked by Jesus, why does this matter?
- How to reach the heart of men, we have to do something different
- Why there's gravity to what's happening with the men of his faith community
www.everymanaleader.com
www.mensnight.com
www.mensbootcamp.com
www.gatewaylife.com
Season IV Exp #76 Deconstructing and rebuilding faith, adopting kids who need a home with Wes Edwards
It’s season 4, which means we are still here, still grinding… as they say, don’t call it a comeback we’ve been here for years! The first trilogy of the season, and or the next 3 episodes Luke talks to 3 men of faith, 3 men who are a part of a faith community, and 3 men who aren’t shy about what they believe yet at the same time realize we are all on a journey.
In Exp #76 Luke has a conversation with Wes Edwards, Executive Pastor at a local church in Scottsdale AZ. As an adult he’s served in his faith communities for over 25 years and has had to face his own times of doubt. The irony though, doubt led him to be more in tune with what he believes about God, who Jesus is, and why he’s still at it after all these years. Luke specifically asks Wes what he’d say to a skeptic or someone who has deconstructed their faith. Tune in to find out.
As a proud father to 3 adopted boys from Haiti Wes helps us understand that it takes grit to remain sane in todays racially divided communities. Adoption isn’t for the faint at heart nor is having a mixed family, but with determination, calling, and an anchor to our faith we can step into hard things and find the joy of fighting for the hearts of our kids. There are so many children who need more than a good home, they need fathers, fathers who will rise up and say yes, I’ll be their dad, I’ll call them my own.
- How can you regain your faith if you’ve walked away from it?
- How would you invite someone into your community when it’s faith based?
- You don’t have to lay your intellect down to believe in God
- Adoption
- Bi-racial families in todays society
- Best advice to potentially adoptive parents
- Write your family motto
- The Edwards Motto, We’re kind, we’re encouraging, and we talk to lonely people
Season III Exp #75 Empowering Human Capital with Pete Vanderveen
On this week’s Fathers of the Future Experience, I sit down with fitness expert and life coach, Pete Vanderveen. Growing up, Pete's parents were farmers, and that taught him the value of hard work. Now, Pete works hard to change people's lives. As the owner of a faith-based fitness company, Eat The Frog Fitness, Pete is ready to redefine and reengineer the fitness world. He wants to help people get intentional about their health and find empowerment. Continuing his passion for improving people’s lives, Pete is celebrating a year in the business of life coaching with his company, Triumph Performance Academy. Through this endeavor, he hopes to help men to not only be their best in their professional life, but more importantly as husbands and fathers.
During this podcast experience, we’ll touch on things like…
- Raising a family in the executive grind world.
- Growing a business through the pandemic.
- The differences between religion and faith.
- How to be empowered through fitness.
- Making intentional steps towards faith.
- How working at Exxon taught Pete that there was more to life than work.
- The challenges of working in Hawaii.
- Using your ego as a tool for good.
Season III Exp #74 Use Your Voice with Rich Abril
On this week's Fathers of the Future Experience, its Veterans Day, and I’m sitting down with my good friend and active duty career reservist Marine, Rich Abril.
As a faithful married man and father of three girls, Rich knows exactly what it means to balance sensitivity and emotional intelligence as well as masculinity and violent energy.
Before joining the military, Rich says he was living a toxic life and atmosphere with no direction or values. September 11th, 2001 compelled him to enlist, and he says the military has helped him to develop and master his own core values.
During this podcast experience, we’ll touch on things like…
- Balancing sensitivity and emotional intelligence.
- How to process and respond vs react.
- Not knowing how to handle pushback from children.
- How a military background shapes habits and mentality.
- 9/11’s impact on Rich and how it compelled him to enlist.
- The difference between motivational and transformational.
- The importance of developing core values.
- What boot camp is like.
- How the military breaks you down to build you back up.
- Keeping morale up in a command environment.
- Having a why behind what you’re doing.
- Teach your children to look for red flags and increase their own awareness.
- Misconceptions about listing in the military.
Season III Exp #73 - Building The Next Stage with Tom Rietz
On today’s episode of Father’s Of The Future Luke has a good friend and former client of 12 years joining him. His friend Tom is a little further along in the fatherhood game with both of his children grown and out of the house, but that hasn’t stopped him from staying very busy. Tom runs his own construction business and has built over 1200 homes. He’s very tuned into the market and says his advice right now is don’t buy. Houses are at their highest price right now and Tom is certain prices will fall. If you can be patient you’ll be glad you were. If you have money burning a hole in your pocket, Tom says to spend it meaningfully. He reminds us that memories are more powerful than possessions. During this episode of Father’s Of The Future we touch on things like:
- Being a positive role model
- The Covid pandemic
- Running your own company
- The housing market
- Minimalism and down-sizing
- Decision fatigue
- Memories over possessions
- Being a single father and empty-nester
- The banking industry and digital currency
Season III Exp #72 - Creative Adaptation with Josh Katz
Luke is on location at Sip Coffee and Beer with owner Josh Katz. In addition to congratulations on the success of the business, Luke congratulates Josh on becoming a father. Josh says it’s hard to believe that he’s a father, but it’s been the greatest gift he’s ever been given. He says the closest he can come to describing the feeling is that it’s like Christmas every day. Josh is also on cloud nine with his newest business venture, 36 Below, a 90-minute immersive experience that was inspired partly by Covid and bringing the outside in. During their talk, Josh and Luke discuss things like:
- Josh’s background in high volume casual dining.
- The experience of becoming a business owner.
- Josh’s journey to sobriety, working in the bar industry.
- Leading and inspiring others as a sober man.
- Sip’s martini cocktail lounge and rose garden.
- Learning and adapting to survive, COVID.
- 36 Below immersive experience.
- Including family in work when you can.
- The grand opening of 36 Below.
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Season III Exp #71 - Luke Father's Day Episode with Special Guests
Luke has his nephew Rider out to Scottsdale, AZ for a visit. Rider says he can see a future for himself in podcasting, so in turn for reading twenty pages of The Stoic, Luke is allowing Rider to interview him. Together with Luke’s daughter Camille, Rider has a lot of great questions for Luke. They talk about what they’ve been up to during their time together, ask some interesting questions, and have a few laughs. During this very special episode of Father’s Of The Future, we touch on things like:
- Luke’s love for baseball and mountain running
- The importance of intangible gifts
- Having role models
- The mission behind Fathers Of The Future
- What is the Crucible event
- What's to love about Hawaii
- Why Luke is a great uncle
- How it feels to skydive
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Season III Exp #70: Changing Your Environment with Patrick Louw
In this week’s Father’s of the Future Experience I am joined by my good friend Patrick Louw. Recently Patrick completed the Crucible training, which he describes as the most challenging physical and mental awakening. As a father and husband, Patrick says the Crucible has been a life changing, transformative experience. He’s now experiencing a renewed intimacy with his wife and more meaningful time with his children. Patrick says he now has the confidence and drive to show up, listen up, stand up, and speak up.
In this podcast experience we’ll talk about things like…
- The power of connection
- The importance of a support network
- Changing your environment, internally and externally
- Developing habits for life
- Finding your superpower
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Season III Exp #69: Trust The Process with Todd Sechrest
In this week’s Father’s of the Future Experience, I am joined by Todd Sechrest. Todd and I have only known each other for a little over a month but we’ve had such an immersive time together I feel like I know him really well. Todd is a true father of the future with a baby girl due June first. He shares how the last month has changed him, finding gaps and bridging them.
With the help of the Crucible training experience he’s gone from good to great to extraordinary. He can now say with certainty that his daughter will never see the man that makes excuses for himself. She won’t see a man that lets other people's opinions define him but a man that makes his own destiny. He was shown that he’s strong and how he’s been making things harder than they need to be.
In this podcast experience we’ll talk about things like…
- Becoming a father
- Knowing yourself fully
- The Crucible immersive experience
- Finding your true potential
- Utilizing tools such as breathing
- The real estate market
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Season III Exp #68: The MASTER'S Key with Josh Middagh
In this week's Father’s of the Future Experience, I am joined by my good friend Josh Middagh. Josh shares with us that he never wanted to be a father, he thought he was too selfish to give what a child needs. It wasn’t until his own father passed away unexpectedly that Josh began to look at things differently. Josh went through a period of depression and wondered what was the point to life. Two years after his loss he would visit a therapist that would encourage him to start writing about his feelings. Josh shared what he wrote with his wife and she was in tears. Josh’s wife told him he not only needed to keep writing but that he needed to write a book. Josh decided to use the writing experience to reclaim his purpose in life. Knowing a lot of men struggle with grief and feelings Josh wanted to give them the tools to navigate those feelings. He’s a firm believer that when you don’t have something to pour into you don’t have purpose. Not only did Josh reclaim his purpose with writing he decided he was ready to be a father. In adopting his daughter he had another person to pour into all that his dad had poured into him.
In this podcast experience we’ll touch on things like…
- Dealing with feelings of grief
- Journaling as a form of healing
- How the purpose of life is love
- Putting your actions where your faith is
- How God doesn’t want our pain to be in vain
- Josh’s book The Master’s Key
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Season III Exp #67: Biohacking with Jorge Aragon
In this week’s Fathers of the Future Experience, I am joined by a true father of the future expecting his first child in September. My friend Jorge Aragon entered my life eight years ago when we met at a fitness competition. I was intrigued by Jorge’s determination and have witnessed him tackle everything he’s set out to do.
Unfortunately, last year Jorge had a major knee injury that resulted in a massive reconstruction surgery. After an initial low period, Jorge decided to turn to his biohacking knowledge to begin to heal. For anyone that’s unfamiliar with what biohacking is, BulletProof Coffee’s Dave Asprey defines it as “the art and science of changing the environment around you and inside you so that you have full control over your own biology.” When Jorge was at a standstill externally, he started working on the internal first. With biohacks such as breathing exercises he was able to overcome his anxiety of not being able to move like he used to.
Through Biohacking, Jorge has slowly but surely come back stronger than ever. He’s a firm believer that our bodies need to perform at the highest possible level for our brains to perform at the same level. Just last week, he and I ran down the Grand Canyon in under 2 hours, which was a true test of how far he has come. Now Jorge is eager to bring biohacking to the masses and help others to alleviate their pain and become the best version of themselves.
During this podcast experience we’ll discuss things like…
- What biohacking is and how it can aid in healing
- Biohacks such as breathing, yoga, EMF, red light therapy, and cryotherapy
- The importance of changing your environment both internally and externally
- Western medicine vs eastern philosophy
- Flexibility along with stability
- Having a growth mentality and mindset
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Season III Exp #66 The Three Phases Of Fatherhood with Prince
In this week’s Fathers of the Future Experience, I am joined by my favorite barber Prince. We all have people that guide us and Prince has been a guiding light since the day he gave me my first faux hawk with words of wisdom from behind the barber's chair.
A decade later, he’s still one of the greatest men I know, assisting me in my growth as a man and a father. Prince shares the lessons he’s learned from his father, and the lessons he’s learned as a father. Prince says parenting can be broken down into three key phases; from ages 0-5 you have to teach your child everything from how to eat to how to walk and talk, from ages 6-12 you’re tweaking everything you’ve taught them, and from 13-18 you have to stop teaching and start guiding.
With his son in his junior year of college, Prince has had to take a step back and let his son learn from the example he has provided. Prince has talked to his son about his goals, his journey, and his path. At times Prince has had to redirect his son, but now he finds himself on autopilot, no longer teaching but simply guiding. As Prince says, if you win, you win, if you don’t win, you learn.
During this podcast experience, we’ll touch on things like…
- The 30-60-90 rule
- The different times we’re living in
- Who suffers when you’re not honest
- Letting go of expectations
- The three phases of raising kids
- Inspiring people on a daily basis
- Showing up as a father.
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Season III Exp #65 HONOR with Pat Kelleher
LETS ROLL... Season III is officially HERE along with a new intro I am proud to introduce our first Fathers of the Future guest Pat "PK" Kelleher.
Pat's journey to becoming the man he is today has not been easy, simple, or smooth.
A tough upbringing from a small Irish suburb in Boston known around the world as a "Southie".
Pat's heritage and legacy are as powerful as his swing from the left side of the plate.
In this experience, you will learn how one man overcame some of life's greatest challenges
- Was drafted by the Los Angeles Dodgers out of High School
- Gave homage to his Grandfather by continuing to play the sport of Baseball
- Copied his favorite players swing Ken Griffey jr and it worked
- Almost died in a car accident at 20 years of age
- Has donated his brain to the Concussion foundation for research
- How he continues to carry on Pat Tillmans #42 Legacy with HONOR and INTEGRITY
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Season II Exp #64 Free Falling
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Season II Exp #63 Success Is The Best Revenge With Nick South
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Season II Exp #62 - Grateful Dad with Marc Fisher
Fathers of the Future Podcast Experience #62 Grateful Dad with Marc Fisher
In this week’s Fathers of the Future Experience, I am joined by my Dynamic Duo partner Marc Fischer, President of Sales for Origin Acoustics, an audio and sound company originally founded in Riverside, California in 1976.
Decades later and through the transformation of the entire industry our mutual friend Jeremy Burkhardt solved a problem [Covid 2020] and put us together to deliver inspiration, education, and entertainment via ZOOM to not only the staff of Origin but their entire distributors across the country. We took our traveling roadshow across America creating over twenty unique and original KEYNOTE presentations on…
- Building Keystone Habits
- Creating Greater Discipling
- Designing a positive mindset in uncertain times
Marc and I not only became close friends through our work together, but we also became valuable resources for the many small businesses struggling throughout the year. Marc’s infectious smile and energy became addictive and engaging bringing a positive message to the world through Origin Acoustics.
“Alexa… play Bob Marley” gets em every time, and never gets old.
In this episode, Marc shares his story of Fatherhood via Philadelphia “The City of Brotherly Love" and opens up about his own journey into Fatherhood.
Listening to this Podcast Experience will give you insights into…
- Building a strong work ethic
- The power of standing and smiling
- Boys Scouts teaches life skills in analog
- Wheel of Abundance is a great visual tool
- The positives of getting grounded during a pandemic
- Running for a cause raises money and teaches our children
To watch our beta test and first live dynamic duo check out https://www.facebook.com/marc.fisher.146/videos/10222926604334534
To learn more about Origin Acoustics or to contact Marc visit marc@originacoustics.com
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Season II Exp #61 WINNING the RELATIONSHIP with Casey Jacox
Down, Set, Hike… Welcome back to the Fathers of the Future Podcast, in this week's experience I stand up with Casey Jacox a curious optimist, father, husband, coach, author, and speaker whose book “WIN the RELATIONSHIP, not the DEAL”. Six Common Sense Strategies to Succeed in Life & Business is an Amazon bestseller in the self-investment space.
Casey’s podcast on Fatherhood the QB DADCAST is a valuable resource to give men the ok to be vulnerable, the ability to be emotional, and a place to have meaningful conversations about real-life challenges. Sound familiar? Today’s conversation was exactly that, familiar and comfortable!
Pure authentic conversation between two men who share a commonality and genuine passion for becoming better men in order to become better Fathers and leaders.
In this unique converse, we go deep and share everything from Testicle stories aka Vasectomy Tales to using adversity as life’s GOLDEN TICKET.
In this EXPERIENCE you will walk away with a greater understanding of…
Adversity = Opportunity
Embrace all change
Ego is the Enemy
Pain is temporary
Be a lifelong learner
Resilience is recovery
The obstacle is the way
Seek and search for more
Believe in yourself no matter what
The POWER of LOVE and gratitude
Don’t be distracted, focus on one thing
Difference between recognition and appreciation
The 18 summers we have as Fathers to make an IMPACT
You know what-to-do, click the link in the bio above ️️to listen to the only #Podcast online that goes DEEP into the hearts, minds, and spirit of the men that SHOW UP as a Father of the Future.
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SEASON II Exp 60 Scar Tissue With Greg Pugh
For an outdoor episode of Fathers of the Future at South California, Luke catches up with a tattoo artist, Greg Pugh, his mutual friend from one of the fathers featured in the past podcast episode. Amidst an uptight, frightening, and stressful pandemic, Greg entails how he shifts away from a “shit” routine to manage his time as a father, husband, and an upward spiral of success as a tattoo artist.
The typical description of everyone’s lifestyle during the pandemic is either boring, dull, or repetitive, but this does not apply to Greg. As a father, Greg describes his life as a “rollercoaster” because of various adjustments he had to make. Greg and his family had to deal with shutting down protocols, not being able to go out, and other shifting routines that the pandemic caused in his life.
What Were The Shifts In His Routine During Pandemic?On a busy day of a father and laborer like Greg, there would be a power hour, usually a morning mindset activation routine, for week one to battle against the industry of late-night workers. However, now that there’s COVID, Greg now wakes up late with his daughter and merely sits around being unproductive.
Not until he realized one day that he had to change this stagnant routine as it is nothing beneficial to him anymore. Greg now wakes up early in the morning, gets dressed, does fifty push-ups, writes journal entries on his two journals, and reads a minimum of ten pages of a book, giving him a purpose every day to keep himself away from stagnation.
How Does He Want To Be Remembered?Greg carries on multiple roles in his life, but he only wants to be remembered as a person who “truly cares about everyone I come in contact with” as he genuinely loves people. Even though it sounds feminine, Greg wants his family to know that he loves them more than anything in the world, and he is happy as he put himself in a comfortable place to be a better guy.
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SEASON II Exp 59 Lets Roll With Craig Liguori
The event on September 11, 2001, also known as the “9/11” brought the brave men, such as the military armed forces, firefighters, and police officers, out of their comfort zones to fight terrorist attacks and bombings. Learn about how such events gave wisdom to them and how they give back to the country by paying it forward to their fellowmen. This series aims to inspire many and to give tribute to these brave men.
One of these brave men is Craig Legory, a US veteran who served in the navy. He shared his experience during 9/11. He was destined in Okinawa, Japan, wherein a typhoon was coming through. Checking up the television, they knew about the chaos happening in the World Trade Center. They had a dynamic evening from typhoon readiness to imminent attack readiness.
How Is He After 9/11?The transition after the 9/11 event may be traumatic for many, but for Craig, it was unique because it gave them brand new and upgraded gears. He continued his service in the US Navy, going through training exercises and jumping from destination to destination.
Currently, he is a single father who faces the challenge of juggling work, doing household chores and supporting his children in their endeavors. In this challenging time, he gives importance to communication and schedule, remaining focused on the things he does.
What Are The Lessons He Wants To Leave To His Children?His military experience made him the man he is now, which made him grateful as it tested his abilities, made him better, and kept him humble. The way to pay it forward is to teach his children the lessons that will help them in life.
According to Craig, they should make every day better than yesterday. The actions they take today shape the future they are going to have tomorrow. He reminded them to take responsibility for their actions; hence, they should maximize everything. Lastly, they should listen to others’ opinions, but they should be the ones to make the ultimate decision.
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SEASON II Exp 58 Love & Kindness With Peter Houck
“You’re going to get farther in life with love and kindness” - Peter Houck
In this Fathers of the Future, Experience Luke is joined by Peter Houck LIVE from Thousand Oaks, California.
In today's episode, you will get a greater perspective on…
The POWER of adoption
The constant evolution and growth of self
Luke’s story of reconnection with his lost family
Peter’s communication development with his wife
Identifying the beauty inside of the new COVID-19 world
Struggle to have children and the emotional heartbreak
Importance of communication and creativity with others
Peter’s wife Sara and her winning battle over breast cancer
Health, nutrition and lifestyle choices in a post-cancer household
Peter’s experience of life, pre-kids and moving around the country
Resiliency only comes from overcoming constant struggles and challenges
Pete's Meats a Passion Project and new path of healthy clean sustainable meats
The "Pandemic Positives" including... no commute, spending more time on growth and family
“Go and get up, take action and do something different than just complaining that this is the way things are”- Luke Kayyem
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SEASON II Exp 57 Making The Right Choices With Isaac White
In this Fathers of the Future, Experience Luke is joined by his childhood friend Isaac White LIVE from Palm Springs, California.
In today's episode you will hear first hand how …
You become a product of your environment
Importance of having a positive male role model
What to do to show support for law enforcement
Surround yourself with people who make good decisions
Difference between good and bad people in law enforcement
Isaac chose to work his senior year in High School, over playing Football
Understand others and see differences in each other, but cooperate and be positive
How often people struggle in making poor choices, and how to learn and change from them
How early in his Law Enforcement career he was told to “Treat people the way you want to be treated”
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SEASON II Exp 56 You Shouldn't Do It With Michael Sanocki
In this Fathers of the Future, Experience Luke is joined by his Warrior Brother, Crucible Coach, and Father of triplets Michael Sanocki LIVE from Detroit City and Scottsdale, Arizona.
In this week's episode, you will learn the VALUE of…
Self-reflection
Positives of COVID
Entrepreneurial spirit
Enlightening to be alone
Gratitude is a SUPERPOWER
Carrying and letting go of rocks
Learning to go in the dark alone
Master of my fate, captain of my soul
Journaling reinforces a mans purpose
Not giving a FU*K what other people think
Hiking the Grand Canyon at Midnight in the SNOW
3 Generations of Ford Motor Company, 100-year legacy
Mike’s High School counselor told him not to go to college and two masters degrees later, Mike is grateful for these words of discouragement.
“The bridge between scarcity and abundance is gratitude” -Luke Kayyem
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SEASON II Exp 55 If You Stay Ready With Randy Steinke
In today’s episode, Luke interviews Randy, his MMA coach. Both of them begin to talk about how kids nowadays start acting out and do things that they think can gain attention or power. Randy then starts describing his life when he was a teenager: being in juvenile prison and even doing drugs when he was twelve years old. Despite the rough childhood, Randy mentions two things that saved his life: fatherhood and martial arts. Having a child and focusing on jiu-jitsu is what keeps Randy grounded until this day.
- Doing meth at a young age doing crimes
- 15-18 going to J.V.
- Becoming a father a martial arts set him on the right path
- Being humbled and inspired by Jujutsu
- Coaching others to be present and stop just going through the motions
- Going through some career highlights
- Talking about fatherhood through the pandemic
- Discusses the battle of the lack of fathers in the home
- Luke talks about not allowing double screening with his kids
- Randy talks about being bullied and being a bully
- Where to start as a teenager to begin on the right path
- Talks about legacy and his final advice
- Check out Randy on Instagram @RandySteinke.
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SEASON II Exp 54 Resistance Equals Suffering With Kirk Lautensleger
In this week's Fathers of the Future EXPERIENCE, Luke is Live from Des Moin Iowa with guest father Kirk Lautensleger. Kirk a Yogi and meditation practitioner shares his positive perspective about letting go of any resistance in order to end all suffering. There are so many areas in our life that we don’t have the ability to control, and the first step towards internal peace and harmony is giving up the illusion of control and your expectations.
In this episode, you will learn about...
- Yoga, meditation and holistic living
- Understanding resistance
- Letting go of suffering
- The need to release outcomes
- Living in Stoicism
- Awareness is a practice
- Parenting and surrendering must join forces
- Overcoming feelings of inadequacies and not feeling like you are enough
- Staying consistent in journaling and meditation
- The process of growth includes failure
- Detachment and letting go when you fall short
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SEASON II Exp 53 Pure, Positive Impact With Andre Wadsworth
Luke interviews Pastor and friend Andre Wadsworth. Andre Wadsworth is a former football defensive end. He played college football for Florida State University and earned All-American honors. He was selected in the first round of the 1998 NFL Draft by the Arizona Cardinals. Andre is here to talk about fatherhood, racism, and spirituality.
Do you ever wonder what it's like to raise children during these trying times? How do you stay positive for your family when it seems like everything isn't looking good? Raising a family in an uncertain world is one of the biggest challenges you will face as a father. But, everything that's happening right now, you must remember, is only for right now. Everything can change tomorrow. Don't discredit the bad things because when the good things come, it'll taste even sweeter. Listen to today's episode to hear other fathers' perspectives on how to deal with issues you're facing today.
Here's a highlight of some of the topics...
* What's life is like having 4 girls
* The last 18 months being very monumental and life-changing
* Having a positive mindset and choosing the path of gratitude
* What it was like at Florida State
* Being drafted into the NFL
* Ministries and bible studies
* The interdependence of football as a whole
* Having a panel of diversity discussing racism
* Tackling the tough questions
* Dialog, education, and empathy is the key to move forward
* White privilege is an offensive term and not helpful to change
* Nobody is born racist, fear and hate are learned behaviors
* Impact Church mission to be a colorful church and be real and authentic
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SEASON II Exp 52 - Let Down Your Guard with Phil Dudiak
In today’s episode, Luke goes DEEP with Phil, about the POTENTIAL and POWER of SOBRIETY at SIP Coffee in Arcadia, Arizona.
Phil talks about the reason behind his ego up all the time: and his painful experiences during childhood.
For the majority of his life, Phil thought that money would be enough to fill the void of not having anyone to help or guide him throughout the years.
Without Phil’s parents being there for him, working became his safe haven, and he began hustling long before diving into entrepreneurship.
This episode covers…Losing custody of his son
- Falling and failing repeatedly
- Getting fed up with addiction
- Hitting alcohol hard after college
- Meeting Luke 3 days into sobriety
- Growing up in a dysfunctional family
- The attempted suicide of his mother
- How Hustle and Grind was all he knew
- Falling in love and gaining consistency
- Committing his mother to a psych ward twice
- Traveling the world, searching for his TRUTH
- Getting financial success and feeling empty on the inside for years
- The POWER of the CRUCIBLE Next Experience [July-10] Scottsdale
If you are a Father and want to learn more about any of the programs we discussed in this episode visit www.LukeKayyem.com or email Luke at Luke@LukeKayyem.com and in the subject line write Fathers of the Future!
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Season II Exp 51- In the FIRE with Eric Gagne
In this week's Father's of the Future Experience, Luke is joined by former Major League Baseball World Champion, Cy Young winner and 3-time All-Star, Eric Gagne. Eric played 10 seasons in the BIG SHOW with the Los Angeles Dodgers, Texas Rangers, Boston Red Socks, and Milwaukee Brewers.
Eric's SAVAGE style on the mound and league-leading [55] saves in 2003 with the Dodger's earned him the RUTHLESS nickname GAME OVER.
Eric talks about how his father instilled hard work and an ALL IN approach to life with a quote to live by: “make sure that when you do something, do it as hard as you can, as long as you can, as best as you can.”
This episode covers…
- His passion for baseball
- Pitching against Barry Bonds
- Experience is the best education
- Being grounded and finding balance
- How his father was very supportive
- The reality of seeing yourself on a billboard
- Negotiating his own major league contract
- At 16 realizing he could get paid to play baseball
- Signing a contract with the Dodgers and Scott Boras
- Extreme workouts, water yoga and pushing your edge
- Family life and growing up in Montreal, Québec, Canada
- Accountability and the Power of speaking with certainty
- Off to the minor leagues in Oklahoma without knowing English
- Having a terrible season mentally in Boston and getting booed during the World Series parade
If you are a Father and want to learn more about any of the programs we discussed in this episode visit www.LukeKayyem.com or email Luke at Luke@LukeKayyem.com and in the subject line write Fathers of the Future!
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Season II Exp 50 Only The Strong Survive With Jeff “Woody” Woodfield
Jeff Woodfield is an essential aspect of Luke’s life, and despite the contradictions expressed by many to have him on the show, Luke makes everything happen anyways. Jeff starts talking about his background as a father, how he engaged in unlikely relationships that ultimately led him to live a life that was looked down upon by many. Finally, Luke thinks that it doesn’t matter what a person did in the past. Instead, it’s essential to look at where they are now, their goals, and what they’re doing to achieve their goals.
This episode covers…
- The rough patches of life
- Getting involved in a toxic relationship
- Getting arrested for attempted murder & kidnapping
- Facing a life sentence
- Going through the court process
- Being found not guilty
- Accepting a plea deal on kidnapping
- Doing 6 years in prison
- What prison life was like
- What Stay Solid Fitness is all about
- Getting out a prison
- Losing a brother
- Last day on earth
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If you are a Father and want to learn more about any of the programs we discussed in this episode visit www.LukeKayyem.com or email Luke at Luke@LukeKayyem.com and in the subject line write Fathers of the Future!
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Season II Exp 49 Fabricating Fatherhood With Jeremiah Lubas
In today’s episode, Luke interviews Jeremiah Lubas, a former college football teammate. Jeremiah, being a person who has tried and accomplished so many things, is a product of an alcoholic father plus being left alone to do almost the majority of what he wanted back then. He says that these events taught him how to live and survive on his own. Both Luke and Jeremiah talk about the value of showing and teaching kids how to stand up on their own and thrive, whether life gets hard or not.
This episode covers…
- Talents skills and abilities
- A happy, functional alcoholic father
- Parenting and stages of man-hood
- Positive male role models
- Stepfather and negative reinforcements
- Shifting into negative behavior at 14
- Getting into football and summer practices
- Fatherhood and supporting the passion for sports
- Exercise and becoming an athlete
- Business life
- Family life and chemistry
- Last day on earth
Follow along in this episode and be inspired to adapt and do what you need to do to thrive in life.
If you are a Father and want to learn more about any of the programs we discussed in this episode visit www.LukeKayyem.com or email Luke at Luke@LukeKayyem.com and in the subject line write Fathers of the Future!
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Season II Exp 48 As Real As It Gets With Jon Matteson
In this episode of the Father’s Of The Future Luke has on a special guest and close friend Jon Matteson. This episode is all about learning how to let go and continuing to adapt. Jon is rocking that "single father" life. He talks about his journey as a father for the past four years, how he used to think everything should be picture-perfect, as well as learning how to take everything one day at a time. Jon becomes very transparent about how he went down a dark path. Both Luke and Jon agree that the key to moving forward is letting go. No matter how hard or how traumatic the experience was for them.
This episode covers…
- Drug addiction and alcohol inside of marriage
- Having accountability and vulnerability inside a group of men
- Playing both roles of a Mother and Father
- Daily facing uncertainty and new challenges
- Coming to terms with pain and disappointments
- Inside stories of doing private security
- Starting a new relationship
- Advice for expecting fathers
Follow along in this episode and be encouraged by the emotion and vulnerability of Jon Matteson.
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If you are a Father and want to learn more about any of the programs we discussed in this episode visit www.LukeKayyem.com or email Luke at Luke@LukeKayyem.com and in the subject line write Fathers of the Future!
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Season II Exp 47 My Test Is My Testimony With Raphael Cervantes
In today’s episode, Luke interviews Raphael Cervantes, a good friend from his childhood. They start talking about how Raphael sees himself nowadays and proceeds to focus on the critical part: the backstory of how he became the successful father and businessman he is today. Both men are very transparent and honest about what they went through and the consequences of the decisions they made back then, but they also tell their listeners that everything can change as long as you’re willing to go the extra mile. Some main topics...
- Drugs and addiction
- Talks about the path of dysfunction
- Starting with marijuana and led to methamphetamines
- Trying Scientology but relapsing
- Finding faith in God and going to Celebrate Recovery
- Preparing to go to a prison camp
- What life was like in prison
- Getting released and going to a halfway home
- Transitioning back to normal life
- Growing in faith and giving back
- Living and building a powerful legacy and being remembered for LOVE
- Business during these times
If you are a Father and want to learn more about any of the programs we discussed in this episode visit www.LukeKayyem.com or email Luke at Luke@LukeKayyem.com and in the subject line write Fathers of the Future!
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Season II Exp 46 Building Lifelong Relationships With Josh Wagner
In this week's Father’s of The Future podcast, I share some good times and positive vibrations in the ZOOM ROOM with my boy Josh Wagner.
Josh is the host of the "Love Selling Hate Sales" podcast, Celebrates his marriage of over 13 years, and has 3 children including a SPICY 4-year-old girl.
Josh and I first met in 2011 after Josh had "Maxed Out" his results in the home gym and somehow found me and "Thee CrossFit Scottsdale" as we just so happened to be running a 24-hour W.O.D or workout of the day that was absolutely insane and still is.
The rest of our story is HISTORY!
In this EXPERIENCE we discuss...
Modern Marketing
Security and Safety
Powerful Parenting
Economic Advantage
Influential leadership
Building a home gym
Art Vs Science of Sales
Ideal Customer Profile
Life after the pandemic
Modeling positive behavior
Connections/ Communication/Relationships
Power of Proximity in building long term relationships
For all of Josh's SHAMELESS SELF-PROMOTION check out the links below.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJQYyvXyd44Us5SO5noadMA
For more info on LeadMD visit...
https://www.leadmd.com/about/
For more info on Josh Wagner visit...
http://joshwagner.info/
linkedin
linkedin.com/in/joshwagneraz
If you are a Father and want to learn more about any of the programs we discussed in this episode visit www.LukeKayyem.com or email Luke at Luke@LukeKayyem.com and in the subject line write Fathers of the Future!
You can also Follow Luke and join the Fathers of the Future movement on Instagram and Facebook @lukekayyem, www.FathersoftheFuture.com