Dating Over Fifty - The Pleasures and the Perils!

Courtship of the Invisible Woman

An episode of Dating Over Fifty - The Pleasures and the Perils!

By Lynn Garson
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This podcast centers around different dates and relationships I've had with men, but it's not just about dating. It’s about what it takes to form a relationship, where I have fallen short and what I have learned after I picked myself up and dusted myself off. It's also about the humor in a lot of situations that weren't funny at the time, but looking back are hilarious, like my encounters with Mark the Musician, Richard who couldn’t keep his pants up, Allen—Lord of the Silverfish, and Peter, my one adventure as a cougar. Tune in and have fun with me.
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This podcast centers around different dates and relationships I've had with men, but it's not just about dating. It’s about what it takes to form a relationship, where I have fallen short and what I have learned after I picked myself up and dusted myself off. It's also about the humor in a lot of situations that weren't funny at the time, but looking back are hilarious, like my encounters with Mark the Musician, Richard who couldn’t keep his pants up, Allen—Lord of the Silverfish, and Peter, my one adventure as a cougar. Tune in and have fun with me.

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Love The One You Are With
Welcome to Episode Eight of “Dating Over 50: The Pleasure and the Perils!” Who is the person you are always with? More than anybody else in the entire world? Yourself, of course. And “emo” [1] as it may sound, you’ve got to love yourself before you can connect to anybody else in an adult, mature relationship. At least that’s my experience and the advice of the legion [2] of therapists that I have seen in my 65 years. For me, it’s a work in progress (isn’t everything?) which I’ll share with you in this episode. [1] My kids are forever calling me out for being “emo,” so I may as well put it to good use. The translation of “emo,” if your children are not as obliging as mine, is “ excessively emotional.”  [2] I could have as easily said “army” or ‘battalion,” but I didn’t want to overwhelm you. 
20:06
August 11, 2019
Livin' The Dream
"You can argue with reality and you will lose, but only 100% of the time." Wise words, words that helped me overcome my penchant for making up fantasies about the men I dated until unavoidable reality hit me in the face, usually to my great disappointment. If you have ever done the same, listen in and send your thoughts to me at https://www.facebook.com/lynngarsonauthor.
17:18
July 28, 2019
Speak Up!
Episode Six is about the second pattern that I’ve identified in the relationships described in Sex and the Single Grandma. This one is about not speaking up for myself, a long held tradition for anyone who is raised in the South. Have I learned anything? Listen and find out.
11:12
July 14, 2019
Oops, I Did It Again!
In Episode Five, I FINALLY get to the series of dates described in my book, Sex and the Single Grandma. I know you’ve been impatiently waiting for that. You’ll hear me identify four different patterns that became apparent through my dating journey and I’ll give you a more in-depth look at the first pattern, neediness and rushing it. The other three patterns will be the subject of later episodes. The payoff -- what I learned about myself once I figured out that I kept doing the same thing over and over – was a pleasant surprise.
16:14
June 30, 2019
Courtship of the Invisible Woman
In Episode Four, you will hear from a fascinating guest, Rickey Marks – lawyer, author, musician, singer and actress – about her thoughts on the unpleasant yet widespread maxim that “women over fifty are invisible.”  Take a wild guess on her (and my) reactions to that concept. They range from “phooey” to somewhat ruder and cruder expressions. What’s interesting, though, is the different paths Rickey and I have chosen to make ourselves visible. Neither of us is Cher or Jane Fonda – ya think? – but we’ve still found ways that were authentic for each of us. How about you? 
23:33
June 16, 2019
Safety First
In Episode Three, I tell you a cautionary tale that, thankfully, turned out just fine. For the longest time, my antennae were not up at all when it came to red flags and potential safety issues, even though I was meeting men on dating sites and did not have any way to know if they were being truthful in their profiles. Fate was kind and taught me a few lessons along the way while sparing me from any personal harm. I was lucky.
18:08
June 2, 2019
Oh Crap, I Just Got Divorced! What Do I Do Now?
Episode Two is about my immediate post divorce dating experiences. They were nothing like what I describe in Episode One, when I had gotten my act together and had learned and grown from past experiences. Back then, I was fresh out of a 19 year marriage and feeling scared and helpless. This episode describe some of my dating experiences during that time.
20:02
May 19, 2019
Ladies, We're All in This Together!
Welcome to the very first episode of my podcast! Together – because we are indeed all in this together – we will explore the landscape of dating over fifty. I’ll be talking about the pitfalls that have tripped me up, lessons learned and most of all, why I still have a great deal of hope that a wonderful relationship is in my future and yours. If you have comments or stories of your own, I’d love you to start a conversation on my Lynn Garson Author Facebook page. And don’t miss my Instagram page, “Shoestagrandma,” where you will find my take on wearable yet stunning shoes for dates of all kinds. Let the fun begin!    
10:10
May 5, 2019
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