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Figuring It Out

Figuring It Out

By Madison Mairie

A Lifestyle Podcast normalizing not having it all together. In all aspects of life.✨
Hosted by your queer gal @madisonmairie 🌿
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the art of detachment

Figuring It OutAug 22, 2022

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the art of detachment
Aug 22, 202222:12
these are a few of my favorite things.
Aug 15, 202219:56
purpose over popularity
Aug 08, 202222:08
Allow me to re-introduce myself
Aug 01, 202229:09
the four letter word

the four letter word

in this weeks episode I chat about the four letter word LOVE! Let’s get juicy in this bish.


Links to the quizzes :

Quiz 1: https://www.buzzfeed.com/bagratunigeneva/what-type-of-lover-are-you-c07w0145ak


Quiz 2: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

May 17, 202220:39
The importance of language when it comes to the human experience
May 10, 202217:52
ParaSocial Relationships, Solo Traveling & Running A Business with Marissa Meizz
May 03, 202235:43
Leaving Toxic Friendships,How To Move To New York City& When I'm Getting Married lol
Apr 26, 202223:41
Getting Engaged Health Anxiety & Breaking Queer Stereotypes With Cammie Scott
Apr 19, 202257:13
In A State Of Confusion
Apr 05, 202224:42
How To Learn To Not Be Your Biggest Bully, Gay Shit and Some More Gay Shit With Mattea & Mak Ingemi
Mar 29, 202201:16:10
The importance of creating good habits
Feb 08, 202228:44
Lesbian Dating Advice and Finding Your Purpose With Nicole Bloomgarden
Feb 01, 202226:52
No One's In Control
Jan 25, 202230:15
Can You Be Gay And Christian? With Mckenna Audrey & Izzy Stone
Sep 06, 202136:20
My Unsolicited Relationship Advice
Aug 30, 202130:11
The Reality Of Living In NYC, Launching Twenties World and Being A Barb with Emily June!
Aug 23, 202128:32
Advice To Aspiring D1 Soccer Players,Coming Out And Time Management With Kaila Novak
Aug 09, 202128:13
Getting Out Of A Depressive Episode, Boundaries & The Importance Of A Morning Routine
Aug 02, 202121:53
Reality Of Being In The Music Industry,Grief & The Truth Of Cutting A Parent Out Of Your Life With RYAL

Reality Of Being In The Music Industry,Grief & The Truth Of Cutting A Parent Out Of Your Life With RYAL

In this weeks episode I chat with one half of the duo RYAL. We touch on being in the music industry, grief and the honest truth about cutting a parent out of your life.

Listen to RYAL’S new single Feathers Out NOW!

: https://smarturl.it/8na5qj

Follow RYAL: https://www.instagram.com/ryalmusic/

Gratitude Of The Week: Enjoying being with myself

Something I Learned This Week: You’ll never regret focusing on yourself

Song Of The Week: Wild Side Normani

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Jul 19, 202139:08
Behind The Scenes Of Influencing with Soph Mosca & Avery Cyrus
Jul 12, 202132:48
Drunk Stories,Queer Dating And JUICY Most Likely To’s With My Roommates!
Jun 21, 202145:30
Post Covid Anxiety,Time Management While Being An Entrepreneur & Advice To Her Younger Self With Natalie Barbu

Post Covid Anxiety,Time Management While Being An Entrepreneur & Advice To Her Younger Self With Natalie Barbu

In this weeks episode I chat with YouTuber and entrepreneur Natalie Barbu! We chat about post covid anxiety, time management and advice to her younger self.

Keep up with Natalie!

https://msha.ke/nataliebarbu/

Favorites of the week:

Song Of The Week: We’re all going to die Olivia O’Brein

Gratitude: Starting my new job!

Something I learned this week: Change can be a beautiful thing


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Jun 14, 202135:20
My Coming Out Story & Being Super Venerable About My Not So Great Mental Health.

My Coming Out Story & Being Super Venerable About My Not So Great Mental Health.

In this weeks episode I chat about my not so great mental health as of late/ As well as my coming out story in honor of pride month!

Things Of The Week :)

  1. Gratitude - making new friends
  2. Something I learned this week: learning to be compassionate for myself.
  3. Song of the week : Your Power Billie or reckless by Madison Beer :)

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Jun 07, 202120:50
Toxic Online Diet Culture, Loose Skin Removal Surgery & Being A Fitness Influencer With Drea Vazquez

Toxic Online Diet Culture, Loose Skin Removal Surgery & Being A Fitness Influencer With Drea Vazquez

In this week's episode I got the chance to chat with the lovely Drea! We touch on online toxic diet culture, her upcoming loose skin removal surgery and being a fitness influencer. All the struggles and opinions that come along with that.

Follow Drea!

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fitnesswandrea/

Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dreavazquez?

Coffee Talk With Drea: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/coffee-talk-with-drea/id1540024181#episodeGuid=643e4b48-0044-4956-b459-b6b84ea39266

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What Inspired Me This Week: Demi's Podcast 4D

One Moment Of Gratitude Of The Week: MOVING. 

Something I learned this week: Because we are constantly growing as humans I thought it would be nice to tell you I’m working on each week:

I was able to final not allow my anxiety to take over impulsive decisions . If I was anxious I would like my mind take over and do WHATEVER even if it was toxic just to get that feeling away.

Song Of The Week: Strings by Ilya

Intro & Outro Music :

From The Seaside by AWN https://soundcloud.com/awn_music

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May 31, 202143:36
One Year Anniversary, Secret Project Announcement And My Tips On How To Start A Podcast!

One Year Anniversary, Secret Project Announcement And My Tips On How To Start A Podcast!

In this weeks episode I celebrate one year of podcasting, share the details of my secret project and give my tips on all things podcasting.

Figuring It Out one year anniversary merchandise is available for pre-sale on May 24th at 3:00pm EST at www.figuringitoutpodcast.org

Follow Of The Week: Haley Pham

Song Of The Week: Transparent Soul by Travis Barker and Willow Smith

Small Business Of The Week:  ME :) pls support me by purchasing an item from my collection!

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May 24, 202123:50
Debunking Myths About Astrology, Numerology & Live Tarot Card Reading With Astrology And Angel Mediums!

Debunking Myths About Astrology, Numerology & Live Tarot Card Reading With Astrology And Angel Mediums!

In This weeks episode I chat with Nancy from Astrology And Angel Mediums! We chat about debunking myths about astrology ,numerology and she does a live tarot card reading on me!

Follow Nancy!: https://www.instagram.com/astrologyangelmediums/

https://www.astrologyandangelmediums.com/

Follow Of The Week: @ Camila Cabello I like her one post about clothing.

https://www.instagram.com/p/COyLna2J0Bk/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Small Business Of The Week:@ shopstellarcollection

https://www.instagram.com/shopstellarcollection/

(Which I thought was fitting bc this episode was all about astrology) I got the cute Astrology Clear Glass that has my zodiac sign on it! Super Cute!

Song Of The Week: Good 4 u Olivia Rodrigo

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May 17, 202152:25
My Life Is A Mess & That’s Okay.

My Life Is A Mess & That’s Okay.

TO BE HONEST.. I've been going THROUGH it lately. In this weeks episode I chat about how I'm hanging on, learning to let go and coping with a ton of change in so many avenues of my life.

  1. Song Of The week- hot rod by day glow
  2. Follow Of The week- Elena Taber
  3. Small business of the week- criz collexion

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May 10, 202127:11
Admitting You’ve Changed,Learning To Run A Small Business & How To Create A Realistic Healthy Lifestyle With Jane Simmons

Admitting You’ve Changed,Learning To Run A Small Business & How To Create A Realistic Healthy Lifestyle With Jane Simmons

Happy Monday!!! I chat with Jane Simmons about admitting you’ve changed, learning to run a small business & how to create a healthy lifestyle!

Keep Up With Jane!

https://www.instagram.com/movement.and.mindset/

https://www.instagram.com/janeksimmons/

Follow Of The Week @lexie !

Small Business Of The Week @shopsunshark

Song Of The Week Don’t Freak by @theaces

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May 03, 202138:20
My Relationship With Failure In Every Aspect Of My Life.

My Relationship With Failure In Every Aspect Of My Life.

In this episode I chat about failures in my life and I how I learned and grew from them. Hope this episode sparks something inside to reflect on your own failures :)

Song Of The Week: Slumber party Ashniikio & Princess Nokia

Small Business Of The Week: https://www.instagram.com/katybellottedesigns/?hl=en

Follow Of The Week: Kenize Elizabeth

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Apr 19, 202128:02
Learning To Run A Small Business,Prioritizing Health And Wellness & The Power Of Meditation With Joanna Cowart

Learning To Run A Small Business,Prioritizing Health And Wellness & The Power Of Meditation With Joanna Cowart

In this weeks episode I chat with Joanna Cowart the founder of downwardcow. We touch on Learning To Run A Small Business,Prioritizing Health And Wellness & The Power Of Meditation.

I also have my lovely gf in the intro if you wanna listen ;)

Keep Up With Joanna:

https://www.instagram.com/downward_cow/

https://www.downwardcow.com/links

Follow Molly: https://www.instagram.com/mollybernstein/

Maddie’s Follow Of The Week: https://www.instagram.com/emmachamberlain/

Molly’s Follow Of The Week: https://www.instagram.com/jennxpenn/

Maddie’s Song Of The Week: Lil Nas X - MONTERO (Call Me By Your Name)

Molly’s Song Of The Week: forever & always (piano version) Taylor’s version

Molly's Small Biz Of The Week:

@saratogacoffee

Maddie's Small Biz Of The Week:

@cafeinn_jericho

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Apr 12, 202158:35
Life Updates, Embarrassing Childhood Memories And Learning To Love Having Alone Time.

Life Updates, Embarrassing Childhood Memories And Learning To Love Having Alone Time.

In this weeks episode I chat about to major life updates, embarrassing childhood memories and learning to love my alone time.

Song of The Week- deja vu Olivia Rodrigo (Yes besties she did it again)

Small business of the week- https://www.instagram.com/the.sprkl.shop/ : Use my code 10%GiveAway

Follow of the week: Sienna Mae Gomez: She just gives me some good energy when I need it lol

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Apr 05, 202125:17
Leaving What You’re Comfortable With To Find Happiness, Being Non-Binary & Having A Genderless Clothing Line With Zyi

Leaving What You’re Comfortable With To Find Happiness, Being Non-Binary & Having A Genderless Clothing Line With Zyi

In this week episode I chat with Zyi an LA-based non-binary artist and model. We chat about leaving what you’re comfortable with to find happiness, being non-binary & having a genderless clothing line .

Keep Up With Zyi!: https://eyeofzyi.com/

https://zyineutral.com/

Follow Of The Week: https://www.instagram.com/sedona._/

Song Of The Week: Once Upon A Time by Shaed

Small Business Of The Week: https://www.instagram.com/ogs__accessories/

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Mar 29, 202153:27
My Relationship With My Body, How To Deal With Comparison On Social Media & Accepting Body Changes.

My Relationship With My Body, How To Deal With Comparison On Social Media & Accepting Body Changes.

In this weeks episode I get extremely venerable about My Relationship With My Body, How To Deal With Comparison On Social Media & Accepting Body Changes. 

Small Business Of The Week: https://www.etsy.com/shop/GrafiHome?ref=simple-shop-header-name&listing_id=908585434

Follow Of The Week: https://www.instagram.com/ashleygracee___/

Song Of The Week: Hi By Lauren Sanderson 

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Mar 22, 202134:10
Self Compassion,Moving OUT Of A BIG City In Your 20s & Her Engagement With Meghan Hughes

Self Compassion,Moving OUT Of A BIG City In Your 20s & Her Engagement With Meghan Hughes

In this weeks episode I chat with a person I’ve been following for years.Meghan freaking Hughes! We chat about Self Compassion,Moving Out Of A City In Your 20s &Being Engaged!

Keep Up With Meghan:

https://linktr.ee/meghanhughes

Follow Of The Week: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1WkUHs2pZ2U

Small Business Of The Week: Flour Shoppe Cafe

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Song Of The Week: https://open.spotify.com/track/4ZaRg5Sf4TKr0YcFRLh7QJ?si=jXcKxN73Qg2SaVevJdyRWg

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Mar 15, 202101:10:02
This is a reminder It's okay to feel like shit.
Mar 08, 202126:13
Why Does Gen-Z Have Such A Lack Of Strong Sense Of Self? The Importance Of A Support Group From A Young Age With The Sonya & Tedi and Sonya Serge.
Mar 01, 202155:51
Craziest Week Of My Life & Amplifying Black Voices
Feb 22, 202121:50
Being Queer And Christian,How To Come Out In A Religious Household & Her New EP Preachers Kid With Grace Semler Baldridge!
Feb 08, 202139:13
Moving Out,Coming Out,Finding Hobbies In Quarantine Times And How To Find A Therapist.
Feb 01, 202137:33
Dealing With Change, Learning To Keep A Sense Of Self While In A Relationship And Hey Mamas Lesbian Tik Tok Era With Soph Mosca
Jan 25, 202154:30
Exposing My Life......

Exposing My Life......

In this weeks episode I Expose My Life...... by doing the life balance wheel! This is completely inspired by Taryn Arnold's podcast episode  

Linked here: https://anchor.fm/stuckwithtarynarnold/episodes/learn-how-youre-actually-doing-w-cammie-scott-eol1cl/a-a49ms7u

Song Of The Week: Champagne Problems Taylor Swift & Morning Coffee Playlist 

Follow Of The Week: Lucy Massam : https://www.instagram.com/l_massam/?hl=en

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Jan 18, 202127:60
 Asking For Help From Your Loved Ones, Having An Influence In The LGBTQ+ Community & Dog Mom Life With Cammie Scott!

Asking For Help From Your Loved Ones, Having An Influence In The LGBTQ+ Community & Dog Mom Life With Cammie Scott!

In this weeks episode I get to chat with Cammie Scott! We chat about asking for help when you need that push to start taking care of your mental health. How Cammie has an influence in the LGBTQ+ community and the responsibly  that comes along with having that platform. Along with dog mom life and so much more!!

Keep Up With Cammie! : https://www.instagram.com/cammiescott/?hl=en

Listen To The Uneducated Podcast! : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/uneducated/id1523766472

Song Of The Week: Drivers License Olivia Rodrigo 

Follow Of The Week:  https://www.instagram.com/haleypham/?hl=en

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Jan 11, 202150:22
The Importance Of Having A Support Group,Being Openly Queer In Mainstream Media And How To Work Your Way Up In Radio With Kelbin!

The Importance Of Having A Support Group,Being Openly Queer In Mainstream Media And How To Work Your Way Up In Radio With Kelbin!

In this weeks episode I chat with the lovely Kelbin! He is one of the hosts of the SoFlo Morning Show On Hits 97.3 And Mid-Days Host 10a-2p Power 953! We chat about the Importance Of Having A Support Group,Being Openly Queer In Mainstream Media And  How To Work Your Way Up In Radio.

Keep Up with Kelbin! https://www.instagram.com/kelbinlive/

Follow Of The Week: https://www.youtube.com/user/MissRemiAshten

Song Of The Week:  Better Than Feeling Lonely By Olivia O'Brien

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Jan 04, 202152:09
What The Hell Happened This Year?

What The Hell Happened This Year?

In this weeks episode I reflect on what a crazy year 2020 has been. Including a couple different perspectives from you guys!

Follow Of The Week: https://www.tiktok.com/@spencewuah?lang=en

Song Of The Week: Good Days SZA

Billie Eilish Interview: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hS2x1zl4rn0

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Dec 28, 202030:44
Being Confident With Your Sexuality When Coming Home For The Holidays,Working For Wendy Williams & Over Romanizing NYC With Roxy!

Being Confident With Your Sexuality When Coming Home For The Holidays,Working For Wendy Williams & Over Romanizing NYC With Roxy!

In this weeks episode of I chat with my friend Roxy! We talk about Being Confident With Your Sexuality When Coming Home For The Holidays,Working For Wendy Williams & Over Romanizing NYC.

Follow Roxy! : https://www.instagram.com/fitwithroxy/

https://www.instagram.com/coffeeontheroxpodcast/

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Dec 21, 202045:08
Manifestation, Visualization And Creating Your Dream Life With Zozo Shumba

Manifestation, Visualization And Creating Your Dream Life With Zozo Shumba

In this weeks episode I chat with the lovely Zozo Shumba! We chat about manifestation, visualization and creating your dream life.

Keep up with Zozo!: https://www.instagram.com/zozoshumba/ 

Follow Of The Week: Soph Mosca! : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFEcHmrStgfQ2qqgH5gnqdw

Song Of The Week: https://open.spotify.com/track/3RaT22zZsxVYxxKR7TAaYF?si=Bg5pJ_2KTuCdUT9QmvxrJw

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Dec 14, 202035:13
 How To Cope And Heal From Burnout.
Dec 07, 202024:01
Getting Over Your First Love, Having Gratitude And Childhood Memories With My Childhood Best Friend Gracie!
Nov 30, 202039:60
Mental Health Struggles, Pressures of Content Creation and How Lauren Jauregui Helped Figure Out Her Sexuality With Georgia Bridgers

Mental Health Struggles, Pressures of Content Creation and How Lauren Jauregui Helped Figure Out Her Sexuality With Georgia Bridgers

In this episode I chat with my friend Georgia Bridgers about Mental Health Struggles, Pressures of Content Creation and How Lauren Jauregui Helped Figure Out Her Sexuality.

Keep Up With Georgia!

https://www.instagram.com/georgiabridgers/?hl=en

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC8T35M56zUxqhePrg_pe-ow

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Nov 16, 202051:36