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This episode is a critical approach to our dualism and the misunderstanding about masculin versus feminine energy. Hope you enjoy. Please leave a review after you listen as it helps us improve a lot. Hit the subscribe button on whatever platform you get your podcast from and feel free to connect on instagram at @TH3LUVDUD3

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In this episode we discuss nuances of Dating, how it varies across cultures and generations and what to do to remove some of the stress and pressure of that process.

In this episode we discuss marriage and its intricacies and how to become good at navigating this rather challenging relationship for a worthwhile journey with your spouse. Enjoy!

In this episode, I explain how I’ve gained strength by becoming aware of my lack of vulnerability to my partner and how I believe you can give strength to your partner as well once you’ve gained it yourself. Do not let people talk you into their messed up blueprint of life because they’re suffering from identity foreclosure. Get in tune with yourself and find people who align with who you are to guide you properly towards growth and greatness.

In this episode we explore dating apps, the approach for men, systematic mistakes men make when trying to start a conversation and how you can improve your chances of actually having results you expect. I gave you 5 things to practice on once you match with a potential crush and you want to get her attention and transition into meeting her in person. If you have any questions, comments, or suggestions for future episodes, please don't hesitate to reach out to me. You can find me on @th3luvdud3 on IG, and of course, please subscribe to YOU+ME BLVD if you haven’t yet, to stay up to date on the latest episodes.

This episode is a zoom-in on popular expression “equally yoked” and a closer look at how relationship are developed and nurtured. Relationships aren’t canned food you microwave, they’re the meal you cook from ingredients you acquire through observation, awareness, clarity and open mindedness. Often we get lost in concept we were told about. Ultiwe must give ourselves the chance to see things for what they are, rather than what we were told they are.

Coming at you with some learning of the past few months and perhaps couple of years. It takes some healthy self image to love on thyself and to develop the right attitude to love on someone else be it a friend or a lover. Here we lay down 5 things I picked up along my growth journey to better self-image.

A conversation on mindset and approach to break ups and what to nourish, build from and build on when those things occur. Today’s guest is Writer, Entrepreneur, investor Eurenice who i have the privilege to exchange with. Hope you enjoy!!

We’re diving into Simone’s life today listening to her story, learning more about releasing control or keeping control. Manifesting the right people or vibrating to the wrong ones and attracting them. Hope you enjoy.

Authenticity in relationships is a commodity that can be scarce these days. Relationships with the wrong foundations will not last so today we discuss authenticity to build true real and long lasting foundations for a long lasting relationship

In this episode I’m giving my take on some people’s bad habit of breaching a potential partners privacy before they even build any sort of bond with them. Enjoy!

Relationships challenge our thinking, so we tend to question both ourself and our partner. Which in a sense gives us anxiety. What are the signs you’re having anxiety in your relationship, what’s causing them and how can you improve. Listen and enjoy!

What’s the law receptivity, how does it apply to relationships, how do we find in ourselves first what we are so quick to look for in people?! We discuss those questions today in this episode. Enjoy!

This episodes discusses how we get attached to others and why we do it. What is an attachment style and what is yours?! Listen to this episode and find out!

How do you like to be apologized to?! just like the 5 love languages, there are the 5 apology languages. they constitute language of the ways you like people to apologize to you. Something I myself learnt about recently and decided to share in this episode. hope you enjoy!

This episode is a look at why we feel hurt after a break up, separation or we lose a loved one and how we can avoid it or at least alleviate the pain somewhat. Hope you enjoy!

In this episode, I illustrates a number of reasons one should not be dating or be committing to a partner because of the many requirements of commitment and how taxing a relationship is. Sometimes we forget that in a relationship we are dealing with a whole other persons whose feelings matter as much as ours do. Hope you enjoy.

In this episode I’m giving my 2 cents on whether one should and/or can be beat friend with one or all of their exes while dating someone else, more so on the dynamics on that particular scenario and what that entails as far as your new relationship is concerned. For now? Feel free to send any questions? Concern, clarification request, topic suggestion, feedback or even just come say hi to me. Listen, share, subscribe, support, comment if you can depending on the platform you’re listening to us on. Stay safe and thank you.

Understanding the general concept of submissiveness and dominance, being a sub or being an Alpha. What are the repercussions of being either, creating a dynamic where both parties understand their identity and their roles in the relationship. Also this episode discusses the understanding of modern woman versus conservative woman of being submissive to your man. Hope you enjoy. Follow me on IG at td_maelh or on ClubHouse at mightywarrior21

This episode revisit the relationship between insecurities and self image and the many roots of insecurities from childhood to adulthood. It also covers the influences a belief self developed or induced could have on ones identity which can create insecurities. Hope you enjoy. Follow me on IG at td_maelh

This episode looks at the differences and style of dating between dating apps and real life dating. It also explores the possibilities of dating both ways in these times of pandemic restrictions. Hope you enjoy. Follow us on IG at td_maelh and feel free to send us your feedback, concern or any topic suggestions.

This episode dives into 5 of the most general red flags to assess whether someone is good in your life or not. Feel free to reach out to us on IG : td_maelh. Hope you enjoy this oisifs.

Relationships are a stage on which you dance to the tune of the future you seek. Ok this episode we explore more misconceptions regarding the mindset behind looking for a partner and having insecurities. Hope you enjoy. Feel free to reach out to us with all your feedback, concerns, and support on IG at td_maelh

More on the misconceptions. In this episode we explore the depths of letting a new person in without holding them accountable for our past hurts or to our perspectives of lives. A commitment is made off understanding and compromising and so a real relationship needs not to be judgmental. Fee free to reach out to us on Instagram at td_maelh with all your concerns, feedback of all sorts are welcome and possibly any supports you have for us. Thank you.

More on the misconception note. I’m sharing on the concept of courtship courtesy and Monogamy to point out the entitlement display of some people and the allocation of those entitlement rights based off the false premises of gender. Hope you gain value or at least entertainment from this. For any concern, contestation, feedback of all sorts, reach out to me on IG : td_maelh

This episode is about 5 things that are often misunderstood in building relationships, 5 misconceptions that can break your relationship or hinder you while you’re trying to build one. Things ranging from insecurities to emotional understandings. Hope you enjoy. For all your questions, concern, feedback, topic suggestions, send us a message directly if you’re using the Anchor app or reach out to us on IG: td_maelh

My personal perspective on approaching Reseved/conservative/Shy women vs Open minded/emancipated/extroverted women. The cheek kiss comes as an alternative to avoid conflict during developing bonds and intimate relationships as well as securing friendship post breakups. For all your questions, concerns and topic suggestion please feel free to add me and reach out on IG : td_maelh or message me directly on Anchor if you’re listening to us on The anchor app or website. Thanks, Enjoy!

It is not easy to live together as a couple of to be committed to each other, agreeing on the various responsibilities each of you can must or should uphold. What should I be doing in the household and what should my partner be responsible for. Also what can I compromise on, how do I make her happier, loved and cared for, or how do I make him feel whole, loved, in charge and trusted. That takes some conversations, a lot of communication and the establishment of a dynamic you both are comfortable with and get agree to. Then it requires a certain mindset. This episode examines something a to be aware of as you have those conversations with your partner. Enjoy, share and support for more amazing episodes.

I woke up couple of days ago I’m a very bad mood, I struggle through half of the day to overcome it. On this episode you’ll hear how overcame it and the mindset I developed from it.

The story of a dark moment of my life when I had to confront some of the most disruptive feelings. A relationship of the highest commitment that turned into an emotional warfare. How I survived it and what I took away from that experience.

How to identify the people in your life that aren’t good for you long term. Sometimes we are so attached to people that we are blind to what they are doing to us. We don’t want them to leave us but they are not helping us. In fact they drag us down and stop our growth. Listen to this episode where I share 5 things that help me identify those people. Enjoy!

How do you handle insecurities in your couple. Listen to my thoughts and experiences I had from past relationships.

How many times have you lived by what the world said is best for you and have you ever thought what do I think makes me happy? This episode is a few thoughts on how our securities have so much to do with us trying to live by the world’s perception of life. Enjoy!

Sometimes it’s easy to fall in te trap of blaming others. Very often in a relationship, we blame others for things we relate to ourselves. I give you 5 things a woman wants to see definitely in a men when he approaches her. Enjoy!

The reality or saying varies from cultural background to personal beliefs. We’re having our first guest here discussing the similarities and difference between dating in Africa and in the USA. Enjoy!

Sometimes we get into friendships or intimate relationships and hit walls and obstacles and wonder why it’s not working. Why do we struggle sometimes in our different relationships?! Why is it so hard to interact with some of our friends and loved ones. One of the reasons is the relationship you have with yourself influences how you interact with others. So let’s learn more about the relationship we have with ourselves and how to improve it.