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Legally Blonde & Blind

Legally Blonde & Blind

By Marissa Nissley

A monthly podcast exploring self-advocacy, accessibility, friendships, and other topics relating to the experiences of blind young adults!
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32. Questions “Tipsy” People Ask about my Disability

Legally Blonde & BlindApr 07, 2024

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32. Questions “Tipsy” People Ask about my Disability

32. Questions “Tipsy” People Ask about my Disability

Alcohol can be a social lubricant, so it’s no surprise that I’ve received some of the most fascinating, bizarre, and hilarious questions about my low vision at the bar. Disability is often the elephant in the room. People either avert their gaze or stare at us across the street. They either ask random, invasive questions like “what happened to you?” or chastise their children for asking about our mobility aids. However, conversations surrounding disability (if you are comfortable talking about it) do not need to be depressing, or violating. To celebrate my 21st birthday (eight months after the fact), the 32nd episode of Legally Blonde & Blind answers questions my listeners and I have received from people who *might* have been a little tipsy. Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind! Website - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/
Apr 07, 202432:18
31. Albinism is not an Accessory
Mar 03, 202423:52
30. Blind Athletics and the Paralympic World (feat. Liza Corso)

30. Blind Athletics and the Paralympic World (feat. Liza Corso)

If you were asked to picture an “athlete,” you probably wouldn’t imagine someone who is blind. But with creativity, collaboration, and a few modifications, athletes with low vision can partake in many elite and recreational activities, such as goalball, skiing, tandem cycling, and many more! Sports help athletes of all ages and abilities stay healthy, build self-confidence, and become part of a team. Liza Corso—a Paralympic silver medalist—joins Marissa to share how participating in track and field has positively impacted her life. Tune in to learn about how we can raise awareness and increase opportunities for people to participate in adaptive sports.

Liza Corso is a junior at Lipscomb University studying psychology and nutrition. She was selected to participate in the 2020 Tokyo Paralympic Games and won a silver medal in the 1500m. She also competes on Lipscomb’s Cross Country and Track & Field team. 

“I feel that there is so much value in sports and being able to prove to yourself that you are mentally and physically tough, that you can do hard things.”


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Website  - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/ 

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LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/


Connect with Liza!

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/liza.corso3/


Shownotes & Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/30-blind-athletics-and-the-paralympic-world 

Jan 06, 202428:23
29. Blind Social Butterfly
Sep 01, 202328:15
28. Guide Dogs & Access Issues: A Survival Guide
Jun 06, 202337:58
27. I’m Not Broken: Why Albinism Advocacy is more Valuable than Genetic Research

27. I’m Not Broken: Why Albinism Advocacy is more Valuable than Genetic Research

Apr 01, 202323:47
26. SMALLS TALK: Meeting and Training with My First Guide Dog

26. SMALLS TALK: Meeting and Training with My First Guide Dog

There is more to “guide dogging” than meets the eye. Contrary to popular belief, guide dogs are not perfect robots or GPS systems who can single-handedly take handlers to class or tell them when to cross the street. Working with assistance animals is much like learning a language, an entirely new way of communicating. In the 26th episode of Legally Blonde & Blind, I share my experiences applying for and training with my first guide dog. Tune in to learn more about my challenges, success, and takeaways from my first month as a guide dog handler! “I got a guide dog because I wanted to prioritize my happiness and safety over arbitrary notions of necessity or independence.” Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind! Website - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/ Key Points: 0:00 - Introduction! 1:50 - All About Smalls! 6:00 - Why did I record this episode a month after being matched? 7:10 - Disclaimers 8:45 - Why did I apply for a guide dog? 9:00 - Reframing my Attitudes towards Disability and Independence 13:00 - Investing in Myself 14:30 - Choosing Joy 16:00 - What is the application process like? 18:20 - What I learned from my first month as a guide dog handler 18:40 - Bonding doesn’t happen instantly 19:30 - Having a guide dog is a CHOICE 21:15 - Feedback does not equal Failure 22:45 - Dogs learn from EVERYTHING 24:20 - Take things one step at a time 25:00 - Guide dog training is VERY emotional 27:00 - Confidence is key Resources: “Canes vs. Guide Dogs | Pros and Cons” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xyq-JgvpvHQ&list=PLwa2HVLMFj5Vmgh7QkaCvWTHS6ZJlRVfv&index=2&t=680s “5 Things I Wish I Knew before Getting my First Guide Dog” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0sZI7UTQ40g&list=PLwa2HVLMFj5Vmgh7QkaCvWTHS6ZJlRVfv&index=7 “Zenith in Action | Watching my Guide Dog Work” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IRdRQ2KTkLI&list=PLwa2HVLMFj5Vmgh7QkaCvWTHS6ZJlRVfv&index=9 “How I Handle Access Issues” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AEgUf7BPNJc&list=PLwa2HVLMFj5Vmgh7QkaCvWTHS6ZJlRVfv&index=21 “Try Guys Train Guide Dogs for a Day” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CvAmiYQgytA “10 Worst Things about Having a Guide Dog” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XVPTwDjT9Ek “I Almost Left Training without My Guide Dog” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lK1pzIvGUWA&t=244s “Guide Dog vs. Cane - Pros and Cons!” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yd2O9qmq8qc&t=918s “Guide Dog User Answers Most Googled Questions about Guide Dogs” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5mZ8Hk_j9D4&t=531s “All About Guide Dog Retirement” - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BEkLu3UxaH4 “College Advice || Service Dog Addition” - https://youtu.be/gBN014EPez4 “The Challenges of Having a Service Dog in College” - https://youtu.be/QNnQbLiWPLQ “White Canes vs. Guide Dogs. Which is Better? 21 Pros and Cons” - https://youtu.be/IURFgbt-AGc
Mar 01, 202327:54
25. Blind Ladies Breaking into Corporate America (feat. Kathryn Webster)

25. Blind Ladies Breaking into Corporate America (feat. Kathryn Webster)

Less than 30% of working-age blind adults in the United States are employed full-time. Approximately only 16% of them have a Bachelor’s degree or higher. Tired of being the only blind person in the room, Kathryn Webster joins Marissa to discuss how her organization Together Achieving Dreams will increase employment opportunities for the low vision community. She specifically focuses on management consulting, big law, finance, and other fields where blind people are especially underrepresented. Tune in for advice on networking, interviewing, and breaking into Corporate America! Kathryn Webster is a 2023 MBA candidate at Harvard Business School. Upon graduation, she will be joining KKR, a global investment firm, in New York. She graduated with high honors from Wake Forest University with a Bachelor of Science in Statistics and Computer Science. Kathryn is a leader in the National Federation for the Blind and previously served as President of the National Association of Blind Students. She currently serves on the board of the Lighthouse of San Francisco, BLIND, Inc., the Jacobus tenBroek Memorial Fund, and Business Opportunities for the Blind. She approaches each day with the motivation to break the stigma and prove that blind people can achieve anything they want in the world. “I want us to break into Corporate America. The 75% unemployment rate statistic hasn’t changed for decades.” Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind! Website - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/ Connect with Kathryn Webster and TAD! Website - https://tadfoundation.org/ Instagram - https://instagram.com/togetherachievingdreams?igshid=Zjc2ZTc4Nzk= Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/people/Together-Achieving-Dreams-Foundation-Inc/100086574137762/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/kathryncornellwebster Key Points: 0:00 - Introduction! 2:35 - Could you describe your blindness and what the world looks like to you? 3:51 - What sparked your interest in disability advocacy? 5:54 - What inspired you to create Together Achieving Dreams? 11:02 - What are the unique challenges blind people face in corporate America? 13:10 - What is it like interacting with colleagues who have little to no experience working with blind people? 15:33 - What resources is TAD going to provide for blind students? 18:45 - How can people connect with TAD and learn more? 20:10 - What advice do you have for job hunting, recruiting, and interviewing? 23:30 - Outro 24:20 - Guide Dog blooper :) Resources: “How Kathryn Webster Owns Her Own Story, and Her Advice for Other Blind and Low Vision Employees” - https://aira.io/kathrynwebster/ “Is Consulting the Right Career for You?” - https://hbr.org/2020/07/is-consulting-the-right-career-for-you My Consulting Offer - https://www.myconsultingoffer.org/ Management Consulted - http://managementconsulted.com/case-interview/ Case in Point: Complete Case Interview Preparation - https://www.amazon.com/Case-Point-11-Interview-Preparation/dp/0986370762
Feb 01, 202325:24
24. Two Feet Instead of Four Wheels

24. Two Feet Instead of Four Wheels

Driving is a rite of passage in the United States and many people with albinism find themselves on the cusp of qualifying for a license. In the 24th episode of Legally Blonde & Blind,  Marissa shares how she learned to accept and embrace her status as a nondriver. Tune in to learn about bioptics, low vision driving regulations, and ways to support those without a license. Driving should not be the only way to attain independence and freedom!

“Being a nondriver does not mean you will be any less independent. It does not mean you will be a passenger in your mom’s car for the rest of your life. Thousands of blind people have found their way, and so will you.”

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Website  - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/

Key Points:

2:25 - Low Vision Driving Basics

3:36 - Bioptic Telescopes

5:50 - Safety Considerations

9:52 - Attitudes towards Driving

13:05 - How can we better support nondrivers?

13:09 - Acknowledging the Downsides of Car Dependency

14:57 - Increasing exposure to public transportation

15:52 - Offering rides

17:32 - Take a deep breath!

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/24-two-feet-instead-of-four-wheels

Jan 01, 202320:41
23. Making our Voices Heard: Albinism and Human Rights Advocacy (feat. Tess Ballis)

23. Making our Voices Heard: Albinism and Human Rights Advocacy (feat. Tess Ballis)

How can we help people with albinism facing violence and discrimination in East Africa as college students halfway across the world? On Episode 23 of Legally Blonde & Blind, Tess Ballis joins Marissa to discuss healthcare, education, and dispelling harmful myths surrounding albinism at a grassroots level. She explains how advocating for human rights has boosted her confidence and encouraged her to embrace albinism as part of her identity. Listeners will learn about concrete actions they can take no matter what their resources are. Tess Ballis is a junior at Northwestern University studying history and political science. Her parents founded the nonprofit Vision for Tomorrow, which seeks to empower people with low vision through research, advocacy, and awareness campaigns. She was a keynote speaker at the 2018 Skin Cancer Foundation of South Africa Summit and gave a TEDx Talk titled “Albinos Don’t Have Souls: What it means to be human from someone who has been told she is not.” "I just want people to realize we—as people with albinism—have a genetic condition. It affects our hair, our skin and our eyes, but that is the only difference. We are human beings, the same as anyone else." Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind! Website - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/ Connect with Tess! Standing Voice Interview https://news.standingvoice.org/tess-ballis TEDx Talk - https://youtu.be/qhoGts4PGXM Key Points: 0:00 - Introduction, Background, and Content Warning 4:20 - What sparked your interest in albinism and human rights advocacy? 6:20 - A crash course on albinism and human rights 10:45 - What is currently being done in the nonprofit space to address these issues? 12:55 - Where are the gaps? What more would you like to see done? 18:45 - What made you want to speak publicly about albinism & human rights? 25:00 - How has advocacy work influenced your personal relationship with albinism? 27:45 - Why do you choose to use the phrase Person with Albinism? 31:45 - How can other people with albinism process these harsh realities and feel empowered rather than discouraged? 36:00 - How can people get involved? What nonprofits and NGOs should people check out? Resources: https://news.standingvoice.org/tess-ballis https://visionfortomorrow.org/ https://www.underthesamesun.com/ https://www.ohchr.org/en/stories/2022/03/attacks-against-people-albinism-are-hate-crimes-un-albinism-expert https://www.hrw.org/news/2019/07/01/out-shadows-resilience-and-courage-people-albinism-mozambique https://www.opensocietyfoundations.org/voices/we-are-tired-of-being-ignored https://www.opensocietyfoundations.org/voices/q-and-a-an-international-movement-for-albinism-rights https://www.voanews.com/a/africa_women-mothers-children-albinism-suffer-worst-discrimination-report-finds/6185246.html https://www.thejfa.com/read/on-the-african-continent-discrimination-against-people-with-albinism-is-intensifying https://minorityrights.org/programmes/library/trends2020/tanzania/ Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/23-making-our-voices-heard-albinism-and-human-rights-advocacy-feat-tess-ballis
Dec 01, 202242:41
22. Before Posting about your Child’s Disability, Listen to this…

22. Before Posting about your Child’s Disability, Listen to this…

Many parents of children with disabilities or chronic illnesses use social media to share information and connect with others, but when does this go too far? In Episode 22 of Legally Blonde & Blind, Marissa discusses issues surrounding representation and consent when sharing a child’s disability on Instagram, Facebook, YouTube, or other social media platforms. Tune in to learn why “raising awareness” and “inspiring others” is often not as straightforward or impactful as mommy bloggers believe.

“My fear is that when parents take up so much space on social media, they send the message that people need to speak for us, that we can’t share our own stories.”

Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind!

Website  - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/

Key Points:

0:00 - Introduction!

1:05 - Why did I decide to make this episode?

2:25 - Why do parents share about their child’s disability on social media?

6:55 - Issues Surrounding Informed Consent

11:39 - Issues Surrounding “Raising Awareness”

12:18 - Inspiration Porn

13:50 - Exotification and Objectification

15:20 - Amplifying our Differences

16:50 - Not Everyone Needs to be an Ambassador

18:00 - Centering Parents

18:49 - What should parents do?

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/22-before-posting-about-your-child-s-disability-listen-to-this

Nov 01, 202223:31
21. Gifted & Talented Blind Kids

21. Gifted & Talented Blind Kids

In “Gifted & Talented Blind Kids,” Marissa explains why she and many other students with visual-impairments tend to be perfectionists in the classroom. This episode will outline how the U.S. education system fosters toxic attitudes towards grades, success, and intelligence that disproportionately impact disabled students. Tune in to learn about setting realistic goals, developing healthy coping skills, and detaching self-worth from grades.

“How can we raise society’s expectations for blind people without feeling like we as individuals need to be perfect?”

Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind!

Website  - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/

Key Points:

3:20 - How do Gifted & Talented programs and advanced classes negatively impact the mental health of students?

8:45 - How does disability relate to perfectionism? Why do many blind students feel intense pressure to overachieve?

12:30 - What are the roots of the problem?

17:45 - How can we tackle toxic mindsets towards grades and success?

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/21-gifted-talented-blind-kids

Oct 01, 202224:31
20. White Canes in the Wild

20. White Canes in the Wild

White canes in the albinism community can be rather controversial. Some view them as a useful tool for navigation while others feel they are “overkill” for people with significant residual vision. After years of resistance, I share why I decided to use a white cane and how I find it beneficial when traveling independently. “White Canes in the Wild” debunks common misconceptions and shares tips for cane training!

“I think viewing canes as a tool in the toolbox rather than a sign of defeat would do our community a lot of good.”

Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind!

Website  - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/

Key Points:

0:45 - Updates!

3:30 - What are white canes?

4:30 - Why are people, especially those with albinism, reluctant to use white canes?

13:30 - Why did I decide to start using a cane?

16:45 - How do people interact with cane users?

20:30 -  Cane Training Tips!

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/20-white-canes-in-the-wild

Sep 01, 202226:48
Introducing: Legally Blonde & Blind
Aug 04, 202202:31
19. How Many Fingers am I Holding up?

19. How Many Fingers am I Holding up?

Whether it be through invasive questions, unsolicited remarks, or condescending attitudes, people who are blind or visually-impaired experience microaggressions, actions that occur casually, frequently, and often without any negative intentions, on a daily basis. In “How Many Fingers am I Holding up?”, Marissa shares how to identify and discuss subtle acts of exclusion. Tune in to learn how to respond next time someone says “You look like a ghost!”

“Even if a comment seems small or unimportant to you, it can do real harm”

Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind!

Website  - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/

Key Points:

2:00 - What are microaggressions?

5:10 - Why call microaggressions subtle acts of exclusion (SAE)?

8:15 - What kinds of microaggressions do disabled people tend to experience?

17:25 - How can you address microaggressions or subtle acts of exclusion?

18:46 …As a recipient?

20:20 …As an initiator?

22:30 …As a bystander?

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/19-how-many-fingers-am-i-holding-up

May 07, 202225:05
18. Life with J.A.K: Embracing Albinism and Low Vision (feat. Tikia Kidd)

18. Life with J.A.K: Embracing Albinism and Low Vision (feat. Tikia Kidd)

Tikia Kidd, author of Life with J.A.K: Living with Albinism, joins Marissa to share her experiences raising and advocating for her son Julian (aka J.A.K) who has albinism. They discuss processing a new diagnosis, embracing differences, and fostering self-advocacy skills. Tune in to learn how parents can educate relatives, teachers, and other community members about albinism!

Tikia Kidd is a wife, mother, and educator who lives in Illinois with her loving husband and their two exceptional children. She is a Parent Education Coordinator with NOAH and wrote Life with JAK to provide communities a non-fiction, family-friendly, and diverse book about Albinism.

“I wanted to celebrate how brilliant, intelligent, and beautiful people with albinism are.”

Purchase Life with J.A.K.: Living with Albinism!

Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/Life-J-K-Living-Albinism/dp/0997171901

Barnes & Noble - https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/life-with-jak-living-with-albinism-tikia-kidd-tbd/1140422927

Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind!

Website  - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/

Key Points:

2:45 - How did you find out about JAK’s albinism and how did you process the new diagnosis?

13:00 - How did you explain albinism to your family and friends? Were there any misconceptions you encountered?

21:0 - What inspired you to write Life with J.A.K: Living with Albinism?

25:15 - What are some of the main messages you wanted to convey in the book?

27:00 - How have you used the book to educate those around you?

30:00 - How did you involve JAK in the process of creating Life with JAK and how did you foster self-advocacy skills?

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/18-life-with-jak-embracing-albinism-and-low-vision

Apr 03, 202239:39
17. Understanding Vision Loss and Preventative Care (feat. Sean Curry)

17. Understanding Vision Loss and Preventative Care (feat. Sean Curry)

Sean Curry joins Marissa to discuss the current state of access to vision care in the United States, particularly in the DC metro area, and the importance of eye exams. Tune in to learn more about how public transportation, income, and other social determinants of health impact vision loss (and what you can do about it!).

Sean Curry is the Associate Director of Programs for the Prevention of Blindness Society of Metropolitan Washington who has a Masters in Public Health from The George Washington University. He oversees low vision community and health education events in the District of Columbia, Northern Virginia, and Montgomery and Prince George’s Counties of Maryland.

“A lot of eye conditions do not have early symptoms. You may not realize you are losing your vision because it is progressing very slowly. You often hear the phrase ‘ignorance is bliss’, but when it comes to your eye health, that is not the case”

Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind!

Website  - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/

Learn more about the Prevention of Blindness Society!

Website - https://www.youreyes.org/

Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/youreyesdc

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/youreyesdc

Key Points:

1:25 - What is the Prevention of Blindness Society and what services do they provide in the DC Metro area?

4:25 - Why is preventative care so important in eye health?

7:50 - How often should people receive eye exams?

9:30 - What is the current state of access to vision care in the United States, especially in the DMV area?

13:20 - What are social determinants of health?

17:25 - Are there certain communities disproportionately impacted by vision loss?

19:20 - How has COVID-19 impacted vision care and Prevention of Blindness Society’s initiatives?

24:15 - How can people learn more about and support the Prevention of Blindness Society?

25:38 - How do you recommend spreading awareness and talking with family members about vision care?

28:18 - How does Prevention of Blindness Society ensure blind people are central in their advocacy efforts?

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/17-understanding-vision-loss-and-preventative-care

Mar 05, 202232:57
16. Let’s Talk about the Hard Things

16. Let’s Talk about the Hard Things

Sometimes the glass feels half empty, and that’s okay. In “Let’s Talk about the Hard Things,” Marissa shares the most challenging aspects of living with albinism and low vision, including inaccessible buildings, awkward interactions, and society’s low expectations for blind people. Acknowledging and discussing these frustrating realities can help reveal how to make the world more accessible. WARNING: Marissa discusses sexual assault from 14:15-16:20, so please skip that portion if you find the topic upsetting.

“This is how we make meaningful change. These hard conversations can help us raise awareness for and analyze the barriers facing blind people.”

Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind!

Website  - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/

Key Points:

2:15 - Why discuss the most challenging aspects of blindness?

4:22 - Pathologizing Albinism and Blindness

6:20 - Viewing Blindness as a Tragedy

8:45 - Awkward Interactions with Sighted People

10:12 - Low Expectations for Blind People

13:10 - Frustration

14:20 - Sexual Assault

17:00 - Driving and Transportation

19:00 - Career Prospects

20:30 - What can we do to combat these challenging realities?

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/16-let-s-talk-about-the-hard-things

Feb 06, 202223:38
15. Blind Baking! (Feat. Lia Stone)

15. Blind Baking! (Feat. Lia Stone)

Lia Stone joins Marissa to discuss gaining confidence and independence in the kitchen with low vision. She shares several organizational tips as well as approaches for handling knives, ovens, and other potentially dangerous tools. They also discuss the benefits of attending a training center and when to ask for sighted help. Tune in to learn about developing cooking and baking skills without starting a fire!

Lia is a work experience coordinator with the EDGE program as part of New Jersey's Pre-Employment Transition Services for blind and visually-impaired students. She is also the chair of the State’s Rehabilitation Council and a board member of New Jersey’s National Federation of the Blind affiliate. During the coronavirus pandemic, she hosted a Zoom cooking class for her blind students.

“I prefer the concept of interdependence over independence. The reality is, regardless of ability, everyone to some degree depends on others”

Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind!

Website  - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/

Connect with Lia Stone!

Email - evangeliastone@gmail.com

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/EvangeliaMS

Key Points:

2:40 - Information about the NFB Scholarships!

10:20 - How do blind people get started in the kitchen?

13:45 - What are some good starter meals or recipes?

16:30 - Apps and Assistive Technology

20:00 - Handling Sharp and Hot Objects

23:30 - Organization Tips

25:00 - Handling Spills and Messes

29:45 - What are the benefits of attending a training center?

40:45 - How do you balance wanting to be independent with asking for help?

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/po

Jan 08, 202251:03
14. Finding a Voice in the Workplace (feat. Shaara Roman)

14. Finding a Voice in the Workplace (feat. Shaara Roman)

Shaara Roman joins Marissa to discuss her experiences implementing diversity, equity, and inclusion programs (DEI) as well as what companies can do, both at the individual and organizational level, to prioritize accessibility in these efforts. Tune in to learn more about amplifying the voices of disabled employees in the workplace!

Shaara Roman is a former Chief Human Resources Officer and the CEO of The Silverene Group, a boutique management and culture consulting group. Her firm helps organizations foster engaged and productive teams by removing toxic stressors in the workplace. She also helps leaders through pivotal organizational changes, such as rapid growth, mergers, and acquisitions.

“Diversity is a fact. It’s numbers and representation. Inclusion is an act…diversity without inclusion is ineffective.”

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The Silverene Group - https://www.silverenegroup.com/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/shaara

Twitter - https://twitter.com/ShaaraRoman/status/1446143367331647500

Key Points:

1:44 - What inspired you to pursue a career in Human Resources and management consulting?

6:45 - What are some of the biggest issues facing disabled employees in the workplace?

10:35 - How would you define Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion?

15:45 - What are some common misconceptions surrounding DEI programs?

18:20 - What are some of the most common barriers and challenges organizations encounter when implementing DEI programs?

28:15 - How can organizations ensure disabled people are included in DEI efforts?

31:45 - How do you think we can help organizations move beyond viewing workplace accommodations or DEI training as an obligation? What can we do to make companies more interested in building an inclusive workplace?

38:30 - Most of Legally Blonde & Blind’s listeners are college students preparing to begin full-time careers. What advice do you have for us as we navigate recruiting, interviews, and hiring?

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/14-finding-a-voice-in-the-workplace

Dec 04, 202147:18
13. Movin’ On Out: Living Independently and Navigating a New City
Nov 06, 202142:28
12. “Tic-Tok:” College, COVID-19, and Mental Health (feat. Jenna Giesecke)

12. “Tic-Tok:” College, COVID-19, and Mental Health (feat. Jenna Giesecke)

Jenna Giesecke joins Marissa to share how she developed and adapted to a tic disorder during the COVID-19 pandemic. They discuss transitioning to college, requesting accommodations, and finding a place in the disabled community. Tune in to learn more about the intersection between disability and mental health!

Jenna Giesecke is a junior at Stevens Institute of Technology majoring in Mechanical Engineering. She is the Philanthropy Chair and Sisterhood Development Co-Chair in her university’s Theta Pi Alpha chapter. She is also an accessibility advocate for Stevens’ Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion committee.

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Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@jennana44

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/jennagiacone12/?hl=en

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenna-giesecke-0133a8220

Key Points:

2:15 - What was your experience Ike moving to college in the fall of 2020 with COVID-19 restrictions in place?

3:40 - How did your tic disorder develop?

5:19 - How did you process the new diagnosis as part of your daily life?

12:25 - Did you try new medications to suppress the tics like and how did you adjust to side effects?

15:08 - What was it like asking for accommodations for the first time in college?

18:28 - How did you find interacting with professors and your school’s disability office?

24:45 - Increase in tic disorder symptoms amongst adolescents during the COVID-19 pandemic

25:45 - How is anxiety related to your tic disorder and have you found any effective self-care methods?

27:58 - Have you joined any online communities or met anyone else with Tourette’s?

33:31 - Do you have advice for anyone with a tic disorder or Tourette’s?

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/12-tic-tok-college-covid-19-and-mental-health

Oct 02, 202138:42
11. “All the Blind Ladies, Put Your Hands Up!” (feat. Mia Parra)

11. “All the Blind Ladies, Put Your Hands Up!” (feat. Mia Parra)

How does gender identity impact the way blind women live, work, and travel independently? In the next episode of Legally Blonde & Blind, Marissa and special guest Mia Parra discuss the intersection of gender, sexuality, and blindness. Tune in to learn how their combined identities influence how they receive help, view their appearance, approach dating, travel alone, and pursue friendships.

Mia Parra is a sophomore at Western Michigan University who is studying psychology and loves musical theatre.

WARNING: From 21:40-27:00, Mia Parra and Marissa discuss sexual harassment and assault. If you don’t want to hear about these topics, make sure to skip this segment!

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Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/miaparra/

Key Points:

3:29 - What is glaucoma?

5:36 - What was it like losing vision the past few years?

11:30 - When did you begin to consider yourself a part of the disabled community?

14:42 - How does gender influence the way you experience blindness?

21:49 - How does your gender influence the way you complete tasks and live independently?

27:03 - How does disability intersect with the LGBTQ+ community?

33:26 - How do you approach dating and disclosing disability?

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/11-all-the-blind-ladies-put-your-hands-up

Sep 04, 202142:19
10. Sharing My Story: Writing about Blindness and Disability
Aug 07, 202129:32
9. 1-AC: Accessibility in Speech and Debate (feat. Alanna Cronk)

9. 1-AC: Accessibility in Speech and Debate (feat. Alanna Cronk)

Marissa interviews Alanna Cronk, the founder of 1AC-CESSIBILITY, They discuss how the hyper-competitive culture and inflexible, “one size fits all” structure of speech and debate harms participants, especially those who are members of marginalized communities. Learn how speech and debate tournaments can create a more welcoming environment that encourages students to prioritize their mental and physical well-being!

Alanna is a senior at Georgetown University studying English and Philosophy. Her academic interests include indigenous philosophy, disability studies, semantics, symbolic logic, and women’s studies. When she is not conducting fascinating research projects, she can most often be found playing with her rescue dog and emotional support animal, Twinkie.

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Website - https://www.alannacronk.com/about

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Learn more about 1AC-CESSIBiLITY!

Website - https://www.1ac-cessibility.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/1ac.cessibility/

Key Points:

2:00 - About Alanna Cronk! (feat. Twinkie!)

5:30 - What is speech and debate?

11:20 - What are the problematic aspects of speech and debate?

30:35 - Why is your organization named 1-AC?

31:40 - What changes would 1-AC like to see in speech and debate?

32:00 - Standardized Process for Requesting Accommodations

37:00 - Conceiving of Time more Flexibility

41:00 - Incident Reporting

45:33 - Physical & Mental Well-Being

46:15 - Food & Dietary Restrictions

51:10 - Nuisance Fees

55:00 - How can we reshape the hyper-competitive culture of speech, debate, and other academic competitions?

61:30 - How can people connect with 1AC-ACCESSIBILITY and learn more about your organization?

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/9-1-ac-accessibility-in-speech-and-debate

Jul 03, 202101:07:22
8. White Hair, Don’t Care: Self Love, Acceptance & Albinism
Jun 13, 202129:34
7. Mother’s Day Special: A Conversation with Mama Nissley

7. Mother’s Day Special: A Conversation with Mama Nissley

How do parents of a visually-impaired child process a new diagnosis and encourage their child to develop a positive attitude towards blindness? How does one navigate the alphabet soup of IEP plans and other accommodations? In Legally Blonde & Blind’s Mother’s Day Special, Marissa’s mom shares her unique experiences and perspectives as a parent of a child with albinism.

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Key Points:

1:30 - How did you find out about my albinism?

3:15 - How did you process my albinism diagnosis?

4:56 - What resources did you use to learn more about albinism?

7:00 - What was it like getting early intervention and accomodations at school?

11:05 - How did you handle pushback and reluctance from school administrators?

14:45 - How do you foster self-advocacy skills in blind and visually-impaired children?

17:00 - How can you help holders develop a positive view of blindness?

19:45 - How do you use social media to spread albinism awareness without oversharing?

22:55 - How did you respond to rude comments or remarks?

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/7-mother-s-day-special-a-conversation-with-mama-nissley

May 09, 202127:04
6. Miss Independent: What Does Independence Mean to Me?
Apr 03, 202127:37
5. Legally Blonde & Blind Benefits
Mar 06, 202126:31
4. Spilling the Disabili-TEA (feat. Samantha Hurley)

4. Spilling the Disabili-TEA (feat. Samantha Hurley)

Feb 06, 202126:04
3. Virtual Learning with a Visual Impairment

3. Virtual Learning with a Visual Impairment

From web accessibility to Zoom fatigue, blind students face a unique set of challenges while learning virtually. Marissa discusses the roadblocks she has encountered and offers practical advice based on her experiences as an online college student.

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Key Points:

2:20 - Why has the pandemic been especially challenging for blind people?

4:21 - What unique challenges do virtual learning present for college students with visual impairments?

6:25 - Website Accessibility

8:52 - Timed Exams

11:00 - Being on Camera

12:30 - Lack of Services

13:30 - Eye Strain & Focusing

15:14 - Advice for Blind College Students Learning Virtually

15:20 - Requesting Accommodations

18:30 - Time Management & Procrastination

23:11 - Self Care

Resources:

Transcript - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/3-virtual-learning-with-a-visual-impairment

Jan 09, 202126:11
2. Not Blind to Injustice (feat. Kaleigh Brendle)

2. Not Blind to Injustice (feat. Kaleigh Brendle)

Marissa interviews Kaleigh Brendle, a high school senior in New Jersey who learned in March that the College Board would not provide paper, Braille copies of her AP exams. They discuss the legal action Kaleigh took and share self-advocacy tips. Kaleigh Brendle is a Justice & Peace studies major at Villanova University. She directs the Sing for Serenity Choir, an international online choir for blind and visually impaired vocalists, and released her first album, Karma, in 2021. She is also the President of the New Jersey National Association of Blind Students. Connect with Legally Blonde & Blind! Website - https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/legallybb_/?hl=en Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/legallybb/ LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/legally-blonde-blind/ Connect with Kaleigh Brendle! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4B5ArolwW72GiMxJSsndwQ?feature=gws_kp_artist&feature=gws_kp_artist Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/kaleighbrendle/?hl=en Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/artist/0XIPvIm5qYnteMQJNPmTYe?autoplay=true&source_application=google_assistant Apple Podcasts - https://music.apple.com/us/artist/kaleigh-brendle/1586133796 Twitter - https://mobile.twitter.com/livewithkaleigh Key Points: 2:30 - Sing for Serenity Choir 4:55 - What accommodations do you typically receive for tests? And how did the college board change them at the start of the pandemic? 10:10 - What actions did you take after speaking with the College Board? 13:09 - How did it feel to connect with other members of the blind community throughout this process? 15:47 - Did you ever feel discouraged throughout the process and how did you deal with those feelings? 19:51 - How can blind people advocate for themselves in their daily life? Resources: https://nfb.org/about-us/press-room/blind-students-and-advocates-resolve-dispute-college-board-over-ap-exams https://www.foxnews.com/media/exclusive-student-files-complaint-claiming-the-college-board-ap-exams-are-discriminating-against-blind-blinds-and-deaf-students https://navigatingblindness.com/2020/07/13/we-are-not-blind-to-injustice-the-2020-college-board-experience/ https://nypost.com/2020/05/21/student-files-complaint-claiming-ap-exams-discriminate-against-blind-and-deaf/ Transcript: https://www.legallyblondeblind.com/post/2-not-blind-to-injustice
Dec 12, 202023:36
1. The Art of the Blind Joke

1. The Art of the Blind Joke

In the first episode of Legally Blonde & Blind, Marissa discusses how humor helped her develop confidence and feel more comfortable talking about her visual impairment.

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Key Points:

2:06 - Why did I find talking about my disability challenging as a child?

3:57 - How did I learn to approach blindness and disability with humor?

7:20 - Why do I tell blind jokes?

13:25 - How should sighted people approach blind jokes?

21:20 - Rating blind jokes!

Episode 1 Transcript

Nov 07, 202025:51