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Here We Are So Here We Go

Here We Are So Here We Go

By Mark Holmen

A podcast from Pastor Mark Holmen and occasional friends focusing on how to apply faith to our everyday life. New episodes will be released every Thursday covering a myriad of topics and occasional guests will also join the podcasts providing great thoughts, ideas and practical wisdom. All support for the podcast will be split 50/50 between the Crosslake Log Church and Faith At Home Ministries.
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TOP TEN EPISODE - Home Makeover 2: The Basics

Here We Are So Here We GoMay 27, 2021

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Estrangement - Why Adult Children Are Cutting Ties With Their Parents

Estrangement - Why Adult Children Are Cutting Ties With Their Parents

Pastor Mark interviews Dr. Joshua Coleman (www.drjoshuacoleman.com), author of Rules of Estrangement and When Parents Hurt about the growing epidemic of estrangement where adult children are "divorcing" their parents.  What is estrangement?  Why is is happening in such growing numbers today?  What can parents do that face this reality?  

Sep 28, 202136:36
Support for Brian & Celia

Support for Brian & Celia

Brian Siewert, our Ministries Director, and his wife Celia were traveling to visit their daughter and son-in-law in Germany and while in Rome where they were spending a few days before going to Germany, Celia was injured while riding a scooter.  The post from Brian reads as follows..."Celia suffered a "fractured liver" and was bleeding internally into her stomach cavity.  It is a very serious injury that has taken many lives.  The last couple of days have been waiting and continued exams to see if the bleeding would stop or if surgery would become necessary.  She is right on the verge."  Please listen to this episode, join me in praying for Celia to be protected and healed and if the Lord moves you to provide financial assistance you can do that through the support tab or by sending a check to Faith At Home Ministries, (Memo - For Brian and Celia) 37483 Deer Ridge Drive, Crosslake, MN 56442.  Thank you.  

Sep 17, 202113:28
Do You Want To Get Well?

Do You Want To Get Well?

Can you believe how many "wellness" plans, pills, programs and books there are today?  And the amount of money American's spend trying to get well and stay well is astronomical.  So, clearly no one has really figured it out because more and more wellness options are being published and produced everyday yet in this episode Pastor Mark is going to take us through one of his favorite passages where Jesus reveals the one true path to wellness.   

Sep 10, 202130:29
It's Ok Not To Be Ok

It's Ok Not To Be Ok

Pastor Mark is back!  In this new episode, which launches his fall, 2021, series of podcasts Pastor Mark openly shares what it means when we say, "It's Ok Not To Be Ok" and some practical steps when can take to ask, assess, address and refresh when we are not ok.  

Sep 03, 202129:12
TOP 10 EPISODE - Long Distance Grandparenting

TOP 10 EPISODE - Long Distance Grandparenting

Mark Holmen talks with Wayne Rice about how to bridge the mile gap with your grandkids.  Wayne Rice is a parenting and youth ministry expert, lover of bluegrass music, prolific author and most importantly a grandpa five times over.  Wayne and Mark discuss how to turn the excuses and obstacles of long-distant grand parenting into OPPORTUNITIES.  More information about Wayne's pioneering work with the Legacy Coalition or ordering his latest book called "Long-Distance Grandparenting"  can be found at www.legacycoalition.com 

Jul 08, 202148:36
TOP 10 EPISODE Followership Law #3 - The Law of Imitation

TOP 10 EPISODE Followership Law #3 - The Law of Imitation

Followership requires imitation and the law of imitation can be seen everywhere.  We are all imitating someone, the question becomes who are we imitating?  This episode will look into the habits required to be better imitators of Jesus.  

Jul 01, 202128:57
TOP 10 EPISODE - Home Makeover 1: Faith Begins at Home

TOP 10 EPISODE - Home Makeover 1: Faith Begins at Home

In whose footsteps will your children follow? God designed the home to be the primary place where faith is nurtured and lived out, but how do we make this happen. Join us for a six part discussion based on Mark Holmen's engaging book, Faith Begins at Home
Jun 24, 202136:31
TOP 10 EPISODE - Church Damaged People

TOP 10 EPISODE - Church Damaged People

Most of us know someone who has been deeply hurt by church, or have been so wounded ourselves.  Pastor Mark speaks from the heart to the hearts of this who have been damaged by the church.  Listen in if you feel you want to stay away from church, if you are frustrated with organized religion, or if the church has left you confused about God, His love for you, or the ways He wants to work in your life.

Jun 17, 202130:49
TOP 10 EPISODE - The Walking Wounded - Mental Health and Wellness
Jun 10, 202140:30
TOP 10 EPISODE - Everything Happens For A Reason

TOP 10 EPISODE - Everything Happens For A Reason

Listen to this powerful message that Pastor Mark gave at a funeral for a 54 year old man who died suddenly.  This message addresses the commonly misused statement "Everything happens for a reason" with the truth that "In all things God works for the good of those who love Him" from Romans 8:28.  This episode is great for anyone who is struggling with why bad things happen.  

Jun 03, 202124:27
TOP TEN EPISODE - Home Makeover 2: The Basics

TOP TEN EPISODE - Home Makeover 2: The Basics

Your family needs a makeover. The first step in any recovery program is to admit that you have a problem. All families have problems and can benefit from a makeover. Let's begin construction on your Home Makeover!
May 27, 202141:15
TOP 10 EPISODE - Perspective Changing Moments

TOP 10 EPISODE - Perspective Changing Moments

Pastor Mark shares how his recent experience, of being the victim of a hit and run, became a perspective changing moment for Him and how perspective changing moments change us and make us stronger.    

May 20, 202131:09
Help I Have A Prodigal!

Help I Have A Prodigal!

If you have a prodigal child who has walked away from you and their faith you will want to hear this episode where Pastor Mark interviews Rob Rienow, Director of Visionary Family Ministries (www.visionaryfam.com) and author of "Never Too Late".  In this episode Rob shares practical things parents can do while they continue to parent through the difficult prodigal years.  

May 06, 202140:05
How To Have Positive Spiritual Conversations

How To Have Positive Spiritual Conversations

It is becoming increasingly difficult to have spiritual conversations in our world today yet Deuteronomy 6 makes it clear that we have been called to "talk" about the ways of God "when we sit at home, walk along the road, lie down and get up" which means...all the time!  How do we have spiritual conversations with others today in a way that does not lead to fights or division?   In this episode, pastor Mark interviews Pastor Gary Rohrmayer, author of Spiritual Conversations: Creating and Sustaining Them Like Jesus & 21 Days to Increase Spiritual Conversations who provides some very helpful ideas and resources that can help us have healthy spiritual conversations with others.   

Apr 29, 202143:31
Teens, Mental Health & the Pandemic
Apr 22, 202132:04
A Message of Resiliency That Amazes & Inspires
Apr 08, 202137:21
How the Pandemic is Impacting Mental Health?
Apr 01, 202136:12
Home Sweet Dysfunctional Home

Home Sweet Dysfunctional Home

Pastor Mark interviews his friend and coauthor of the book Home Sweet Dysfunctional Home, Dr. Mark Smith and together they discuss how every family is dysfunctional yet all can be functional as there is hope for crazy, messed up families.  

Mar 25, 202133:10
Grandparents and Blessed Grandchildren

Grandparents and Blessed Grandchildren

Mark Holmen talks with seasoned pastor and grandparent John Coulombe.  Until his recent retirement, John Coulombe served for more than thirty years as the InterGen pastor at the Fullerton Evangelical Free Church where he worked with “experienced” adults and other age groups as well.  John has been featured on Focus on the Family, TBN, TLN, and CBN television networks and Christian radio talk shows.  As a gifted communicator and relationship-builder, he now serves as the Director of Development for The Legacy Coalition. He and his wife Jacque have two sons and eight grandchildren.  For more information, go to www.legacycoalition.com.


Mar 18, 202138:24
"Do Something" Challenge

"Do Something" Challenge

"God, why don't you do something?" is a common question we can find ourselves asking.  In this episode, Pastor Mark shares not only the answer God gives to that question but the challenge He has for us as well.  Get ready for a great Kingdom Assignment you can "do."  

Mar 11, 202126:51
The BIG Faith At Home Pivot & New Survey
Mar 05, 202130:46
Singlehood, God & the Church

Singlehood, God & the Church

Pastor Mark interviews a very special guest (you'll just have to listen to find out who it is) about singlehood.  What is it like being single in today's world?  How do you deal with questions on God's will and singlehood?  Is church a comfortable place for people who are single and what can be done to make it more comfortable?  How, as a single person, do you keep envy from your heart and what are some misunderstandings people have about single people?  

Feb 25, 202133:28
From Parenting to Grandparenting to Grandparenting Teenagers: Now What?

From Parenting to Grandparenting to Grandparenting Teenagers: Now What?

Pastor Mark interviews Bill and Ann Parkinson who have all sorts of great wisdom and insights to share about parenting and grandparenting and especially how to maintain healthy relationships with your grandchildren as they become teenagers.  Bill has been one of the pastors at Fellowship Bible Church in Little Rock, Arkansas for 30+ years and he also serves as the Pastors Division Director for the Legacy Coalition.

Feb 18, 202142:33
Timeout for Not So Perfect Moms
Feb 11, 202144:32
Impressive Parenting
Feb 04, 202130:51
Parents of Teens...You Need To Hear This!

Parents of Teens...You Need To Hear This!

Special guest, Brad Bullock, joins Pastor Mark and shares his compelling and convicting perspective on teens and what they need most from their parents.  As a 15 year youth ministry leader, who has worked with thousands of teenagers and their parents, Brad shares some insights that only someone with his experience has and it will bless all parents, and even grandparents, who listen to this episode.

Jan 21, 202146:08
Response to Jan 6 - Where's Our Focus Been?

Response to Jan 6 - Where's Our Focus Been?

In this episode I share what God has put on my heart in relation to the events of January 6 in Washington DC and the overall 2020 Presidential election.  Please know these are my personal thoughts and feelings and do not necessarily represent the  elders or staff of the Log Church.  Essentially, where the Lord led me was... "Where's Our Focus Been?  Where's Our Focus Gonna Be?"  

Jan 09, 202129:02
TOP 5 EPISODE REPLAY - Is it true that God will never give you more than you can handle?

TOP 5 EPISODE REPLAY - Is it true that God will never give you more than you can handle?

In this episode, Pastor Mark will unpack the commonly used phrase, "God will never give you more than you can handle?"  Is that true?  Is it Biblical?  You might me surprised by what you find out.  

Dec 29, 202031:54
Faith@Home Future 2021 (Replay)

Faith@Home Future 2021 (Replay)

Pastor Mark shares the direction Faith At Home Ministries will be going in 2021 including new research they will be doing to reveal how the pandemic has impacted faith life at home.  

Dec 21, 202031:09
The Faith@Home HIStory

The Faith@Home HIStory

What is the story behind Faith At Home Ministries?  What is faith at home about?  What is it's mission and how has God been working through it over the past 15+ years to impact churches, parents and grandparents all across the world?  

Dec 15, 202031:05
Pandemic Christmas Thoughts

Pandemic Christmas Thoughts

Pastor Mark shares some random thoughts and truly inspirational stories that will help people, and provide some good practical ideas we can implement, in the midst of this pandemic Christmas season we find ourselves in.  

Dec 10, 202029:58
Mom's Best Christmas

Mom's Best Christmas

Pull up an easy chair, a cup of hot chocolate, a paper and journal as we take a moment to consider Christmas and the past year with 4 everyday moms.  Write down your own answer to these questions:

  • What will Christmas be like for you this year?  Who will be there?
  • What is the best thing to come out of Covid-19 for your family?
  • What is your family's favourite outdoor Christmas activity?
  • What is your favourite non-healthy Christmas food?
  • What is your favourite HEALTHY Christmas food?
  • What is your favourite Christmas song?
  • What is a favourite Christmas Bible verse and why?
Dec 08, 202042:08
Helping Your Children Become Best Friends in Christ

Helping Your Children Become Best Friends in Christ

God places a high priority on sibling relationships and Satan wants to destroy them. In this episode Brian Siewert talks with parenting expert Rob Rienow about how parents can help their children heal from conflict and become best friends in Christ.  GET A COPY OF ROB'S LATEST BOOK!  LIMITED BOOK GIVEAWAY:  email Rob@visionaryfam.com with the subject line BOOK GIVEAWAY - HEALING FAMILY RELATIONSHIPS.

Nov 30, 202041:43
Teaching Your Children About Sex

Teaching Your Children About Sex

Even though most parents did not receive healthy Biblical sex education from their parents, all studies show that the more positive, healthy, sex education taught from home, the less promiscuous and confused our kids will be. In this episode, Brian Siewert talks with parenting expert Jim Burns about how to teach our children the Purity Code and what to teach our kids from age 3 through the teen years.

Nov 26, 202045:23
Perspective on Doing Life With Your Adult Children

Perspective on Doing Life With Your Adult Children

If you have an adult child, you know that parenting doesn’t stop when a child reaches the age of eighteen. In many ways, it gets more complicated. Both your heart and your head are as involved as ever, whether your child lives under your roof or rarely stays in contact. In this podcast Brian Siewert talks with parenting expert Jim Burns to gain perspective on how to navigate the toughest and the most rewarding parts of parenting grown kids.

Nov 23, 202039:13
Perspectives On Grandparenting

Perspectives On Grandparenting

In this episode Pastor Mark interviews Larry Fowler who is the founder of the the Legacy Coalition (https://www.legacycoalition.com/) which has become a powerful movement that is helping grandparents across the US and world to become more intentional with a renewed purpose for their role as spiritual influences in the lives of their grandchildren.  This episode will inspire, motivate and and equip grandparents with grandchildren of any age, stage or walk in life.  

Nov 19, 202039:34
Perspectives On Racism

Perspectives On Racism

In this episode, Pastor Mark interviews Ralph Berry, counselor from Teen Challenge in Brainerd, MN to get his perspective, as an African American, Christian, husband, father and counselor on racism.  In this compelling interview listeners will hear a very unique and informative perspective that will challenge and convict people of all races.  Friends, racism is something we must discuss and address with one another and this podcast episode will help you do that.   

Nov 12, 202032:45
The God I Wish You Knew - Giver of Hope

The God I Wish You Knew - Giver of Hope

The world offers us hope with a question mark...meaning hope that is optimistic but not certain.  I hope I will win the lottery.  I hope the pandemic will end soon.  But the God I know wants to give us an unwavering hope.  He wants us to have hope with an exclamation point that we can be certain in.  In this episode Pastor Mark will share with us the things God has given us to put our hope in that will give us unwavering hope no matter what comes our way.  

Nov 10, 202030:57
The God I Wish You Knew - A Constant Reminder

The God I Wish You Knew - A Constant Reminder

How is your memory?  Have you ever forgotten something important?   We are all forgetful people and throughout the entirety of Scripture we see God continually reminding His people of things they have forgotten.   So, when we say we don't know God, maybe it's more that we have forgotten who God is and that He is the greatest reminder of all time and the greatest forgetter as well.   

Nov 05, 202029:55
The God I Wish You Knew - A Voice You Can Trust

The God I Wish You Knew - A Voice You Can Trust

Many people wonder where God is and if He can truly speak to them in ways others say he does.  How do we hear the voice of God?  How do we know the voice we are hearing is God's?  In this episode Pastor Mark will discuss how God speaks to us and what we need to do to hear him because He is a voice we can trust.  

Nov 03, 202030:52
The God I Wish You Knew - A Giver of Grace

The God I Wish You Knew - A Giver of Grace

In today's world we tend to struggle giving grace to one another and many of us have never experience true grace in our lives.  How can we understand God's grace when we have never experienced it in our own lives?  In this episode Pastor Mark will share some very personal experiences that helped him understand God's grace and how an understand of God's grace can truly be life changing for all of us.  

Oct 29, 202030:56
The God I Wish You Knew - Good Good Father

The God I Wish You Knew - Good Good Father

Many people have seemingly valid reasons for not trusting or believing in God based on experiences they have had in life.  Yet when they are asked to describe who God is to them, the responses usually lead me to say "If that's who God is, I wouldn't trust or follow Him either."  In this episode I will be discussing the God I wish you knew as a good, good, father.  Sadly, our earthly experiences with fathers has tainted our understanding and appreciation for who our God really is as our good, good, father.  

Oct 27, 202030:51
Home Makeover 6: The Church Makeover

Home Makeover 6: The Church Makeover

God didn't intend the local church to be a drop-off centre for your children.  Church is to be a partner in helping understand how to do a better job of equipping your home to be the primary place where faith is nurtured. 

Oct 22, 202049:22
Home Makeover 5: The Extended Family

Home Makeover 5: The Extended Family

Who is part of your extended family?  God made the family as a multigenerational unit for a reason.  Everyone needs the wisdom and counsel of godly elders who may be family members or "familiar" people.  Do your kids have an extended family?

Oct 20, 202047:05
Home Makeover 4: The Child Makeover

Home Makeover 4: The Child Makeover

Parents want what is best for their children.  

We all want our kids to avoid drugs, alcohol, violence, gangs and promiscuous sexual activity.  We want them to get good grades and maintain a healthy lifestyle.  What part does FAITH play in leading them to make good choices and how can we be most effective in doing this as parents?

Oct 15, 202040:12
Home Makeover 3: The Parent Makeover

Home Makeover 3: The Parent Makeover

As parents, we pass on things to our children every day.  They're watching us, learning from us and emulating us.  The question is not ARE we passing things on - but WHAT are we passing on to our children.

Oct 13, 202042:25
Followership Law #4 - Remain

Followership Law #4 - Remain

Followership requires continually choosing to remain a follower.  When you stop following, you are no longer a follower.  What are the habits required to remain a fully devoted follower of Jesus?  And you might be surprised to learn that remaining will lead to movement rather than stagnation.  

Sep 29, 202031:25
Followership Law #2 - The Law of Connection

Followership Law #2 - The Law of Connection

Followership requires sustained connection to the leader.  The weaker the connection the more difficult it becomes to follow.  This episode will explore the things we can do to stay connected to God?  

Sep 22, 202030:04
Followership Law #1 - The Law of Buy In

Followership Law #1 - The Law of Buy In

In this episode Pastor Mark discusses the first law of followership - the law of buy in.  Followership begins and ends with the conscious and willing choice to buy in to following and being a follower.  This law requires us to have humility, respect, knowledge and trust.  Are you a bought in follower of Jesus?  

Sep 17, 202027:39
The Case For Followership

The Case For Followership

Pastor Mark makes the case for why we should be pursuing followership over and against leadership.  Could it be that in our pursuit of leadership we have forgotten that walking with Christ is about followership?  

Sep 15, 202027:09