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Marriage 4 Real with Adaeze Chiwoko

Marriage 4 Real with Adaeze Chiwoko

By Adaeze Chiwoko

Let's talk about all things marriage and the preparation of marriage from an open, transparent and real perspective. I'll be real with you if you be real with me.
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EPISODE 26: Slash Unnecessary Conflict With Emotional Control

Marriage 4 Real with Adaeze ChiwokoDec 08, 2022

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EPISODE 27: Unless you understand ‘WHY’, you could cheat again

EPISODE 27: Unless you understand ‘WHY’, you could cheat again

I’m all for moving forward but unless we understand our past choices we are more likely to make that choice again.
Dec 15, 202207:31
EPISODE 26: Slash Unnecessary Conflict With Emotional Control

EPISODE 26: Slash Unnecessary Conflict With Emotional Control

What if you could use your emotions to play an integral role in allowing for more harmony in your relationship and a whole lot LESS conflict? Having issues in your relationship? Book a free Breakthrough Call here: www.marriage4real.co.uk

Dec 08, 202210:35
EPISODE 25: Avoiding the TOUGH Conversations is NOT keeping the peace
May 05, 202208:29
EPISODE 24: Are you still grieving?
Sep 29, 202112:41
EPISODE 23: How to get more affection and attention in your relationship - without complaining.
May 31, 202108:20
EPISODE 22: How Unity in Marriage Really Works

EPISODE 22: How Unity in Marriage Really Works

The concept of unity is an important one. However, if not understood properly many couple may feel that they are not walking in unity.
May 01, 202106:01
EPISODE 21: 5 Tips to Heal After An Affair FAST
Apr 06, 202107:26
EPISODE 20: Forgiveness and Trust are NOT mutually exclusive
Mar 09, 202107:49
EPISODE 19: 3 Habits For An Unhappy Marriage
Jan 20, 202108:45
EPISODE 18: 4 Keys to Healthy Communication
Oct 27, 202017:56
Episode 17: 6 Keys to Recovering From Relationship Conflict Quickly
Oct 06, 202015:54
EPISODE 16: Want to rebuild your marriage after an affair? Heal yourself 1st.
Aug 21, 202008:40
EPISODE 15: So you found your spouse watching pornography?
Jul 30, 202025:51
EPISODE 14: Stop playing the blame game and improve communication

EPISODE 14: Stop playing the blame game and improve communication

The back and forth verbal tennis match rarely results in resolution but rather it actively causes a never ending cycle of the people within the relationship feeling attacked, not heard and resentful.
Jun 14, 202007:37
EPISODE 13: Fear of Losing Your Marriage Is Making You Lose Your Marriage.

EPISODE 13: Fear of Losing Your Marriage Is Making You Lose Your Marriage.

The thing we fear the most is usually the very thing that we attract to ourselves. The same thing works for your desire. Listen to how your fears may be affecting your marriage and what you can do to turn things around.

Apr 17, 202009:41
EPISODE 12: Many Christian Marriages Are Failing Because They "Just Pray"

EPISODE 12: Many Christian Marriages Are Failing Because They "Just Pray"

Many couples come to me perplexed as to why they are praying for their marriages but nothing sees to be changing. As a women who believes wholeheartedly in the power of prayer, in this podcast I explain why prayer is not enough to save your marriage. 

Feb 24, 202025:29
EPISODE 11: Are Things Really As Bad As They Appear?

EPISODE 11: Are Things Really As Bad As They Appear?

Focus and attention are so important because they absolutely impact our perception of our marriage. It's easy to draw most of your attention to the negative things happening within our relationship whilst playing down how good things actually are! Your perception of any given situation will determine your future peace and happiness. Are things really as bad as they appear or have you got your focus and attention directed in the wrong places? 

Feb 12, 202019:26
EPISODE 10: Create The Marriage You Want Tomorrow Today
Jan 08, 202012:17
EPISODE 9: Kind and loving on the streets. Horrible in the house!

EPISODE 9: Kind and loving on the streets. Horrible in the house!

Why are you more kind, more giving and more patient with your friends than your spouse? Is it possible that you have devalued your treasure and misplaced your priorities? 

Nov 30, 201908:50
EPISODE 8: 5 Infidelity Facts

EPISODE 8: 5 Infidelity Facts

I've shared 5 of the most popular misconceptions that I have come across around infidelity in marriage.
Oct 22, 201913:46
EPISODE 7: My Advice To Newlyweds - Get A Home Together

EPISODE 7: My Advice To Newlyweds - Get A Home Together

Sounds pretty obvious but actually, couples who get married are often deciding to move into either one of their own homes. I believe that new coupes should start with a clean slate in as many areas of their lives including where they choose to live. In this podcast I explain why. 

Oct 12, 201912:33
EPISODE 6: Fear of Criticism

EPISODE 6: Fear of Criticism

Is your fear of criticism greater than your desire to become a better spouse? Surely that is our continual desire... right? To improve, grow and be better. Unfortunately, continual improvement requires an honest look at ourselves. Sometimes our spouses are the best people to hold the mirror up for us.
Oct 03, 201920:25
EPISODE 5: Your 'Movie Mindset' Is Killing Your Sex Life

EPISODE 5: Your 'Movie Mindset' Is Killing Your Sex Life

How many of us have grown up developing a very romantic and almost movie-like belief system around sex, how it should happen and what it should be like. Well, what if I told you that that belief is potentially the reason why you're not getting much sex?
Sep 26, 201911:27
EPISODE 4: What Beats Communication For A Happy Marriage?

EPISODE 4: What Beats Communication For A Happy Marriage?

Yes, we all know that communication is the bedrock of a happy marriage, but in this episode, I give another critical element that if not utilised could render all your communication efforts as pointless.
Sep 23, 201905:15
EPISODE 3: Are you exchanging PEACE for PRIDE?

EPISODE 3: Are you exchanging PEACE for PRIDE?

How important is peace in your marriage to you, in comparison to your pride? It's amazing how ready we're are to destroy the peace in our homes just to win an argument.
Sep 20, 201907:23
EPISODE 2: Do you have a marriage success or failure plan?

EPISODE 2: Do you have a marriage success or failure plan?

Many of us enter marriage knowing exactly what would make us leave and now what we are strategically going to do to make it work!
Sep 19, 201906:26
EPISODE 1: How to boil a frog. What's that got to do with marriage?

EPISODE 1: How to boil a frog. What's that got to do with marriage?

Episode 1 - My very first episode! Where ever you are in your marriage, you didn't get there by accident. It has been through consistent habits, choices and decisions. Where have your habits, choices and decisions led you in your marriage and are you happy with where you are?
Aug 04, 201913:07