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Self Care and Chill With Maui

Self Care and Chill With Maui

By Amirah Morris

A bunch of laughing and finger snapping while we talk about relationships, sex and self love.
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He Was A Narcissist EP:26

Self Care and Chill With MauiAug 26, 2021

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Gratitude And A Home Birth EP:90

Gratitude And A Home Birth EP:90

This episode is mainly my birthing story and how Hos does so many things in our lives that show us how grateful we should be.
Mar 03, 202426:50
Thank You To My Man EP:89

Thank You To My Man EP:89

This episode is all about love! With Valentine’s Day coming up I wanted to leave you with a few to look for while dating someone or dating yourself!
Feb 11, 202425:27
New Year New Me In 2024 EP:88

New Year New Me In 2024 EP:88

This episode is filled with everything that we need to be leaving in 2023 and not bringing into the new year! It’s a new year and new version of ourselves for everyone! I hope that you use this year to really tap into your full potential and take advantage of all the beautiful things that you have going on in your life!
Jan 07, 202429:08
Self Sufficient Women Enjoy Help Too! EP:87

Self Sufficient Women Enjoy Help Too! EP:87

Today I talk about why do men help women who bring nothing to the table but are reluctant to help women who they see are already doing so much on their own? Do they feel like since she can do it all what does she need me for? Or do they just naturally have no desire to offer or be of service to her because their ego desires someone who NEEDS them?
Dec 13, 202327:30
Cheesecake Factory First Date EP:86

Cheesecake Factory First Date EP:86

This episode is about where you are going or not going for first dates and why. They made a list on Instagram of first date places that women don’t want to go to and I also made a list of 9 qualities I think are important for you to notice if someone has when you are dating or in a relationship with them. These qualities are important to me, but that doesn’t mean they have to be for you lol. Anyways I’m happy to be done touring and god willing book number #5 will be ready for you to preorder this Friday !!
Nov 19, 202331:14
Love Takes Bravery And Vulnerability EP:85
Oct 15, 202328:43
Not Getting Your Needs Met EP:84
Oct 08, 202327:45
Give Yourself Some Grace EP:83
Sep 24, 202326:28
Stop Lowering Your Standards EP:82

Stop Lowering Your Standards EP:82

Today I talk about not watering down your expectations or desires because you’re with someone you feel like will never give it to you. Don’t make excuses for why someone won’t show up for you or try and convince yourself that you don’t need certain things in a relationship because you’ve accepted the fact they won’t put the effort in to do it. Make sure you get tickets to see me in New York this month at City Winery New York https://citywinery.com/newyork/Online/mapSelect.asp?doWork::WSmap::loadMap=Load&createBO::WSmap=1&BOparam::WSmap::loadMap::performance_ids=00AD16AD-49C6-43D3-B26A-197A5174AB24
Sep 17, 202328:53
Are You A Placeholder? EP:81
Sep 10, 202330:39
Stop Taking Them Back EP:80
Sep 03, 202329:02
You’re A People Pleaser

You’re A People Pleaser

Sending love and prayers to my friend and sister Andrea Jones and healing strength to her family. This episode is for my people pleasers, I beg you to stop doing more for people who already don’t appreciate you. Stop going out of your way for people who hurt you, stop allowing people to keep using you, save some of YOU for YOU!!!
Jul 30, 202322:36
I Had To Get My Lick Back EP:78
Jul 09, 202332:22
It Is Not Your Partners Job To Make You Happy EP:77

It Is Not Your Partners Job To Make You Happy EP:77

On this episode here are some of the topics that I talk about

  • Its not your partners job to make you happy all the time
  • Its not your partners job to do the work for you
  • Outgrowing or not outgrowing people
  • Soulties
  • Being proud of yourself
  • Expressing how much you love people and not being afraid to be vulnerable

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Jun 04, 202350:21
I HAVE BEEN HURT BUT I DESERVE LOVE EP:76
May 28, 202355:31
He Is Not Your Man EP:75

He Is Not Your Man EP:75

This episode is for the people who are pouring into and building connections with people who have no desire to be with them or take them seriously. Set boundaries and expectations when it comes to dating so that you do not keep wasting your time on dead end situationships
May 07, 202328:25
Lets Talk Sex, Positions and Relationships Ft: Ler and Lionel EP:74

Lets Talk Sex, Positions and Relationships Ft: Ler and Lionel EP:74

On this episode of Self Care and Chill we talk about everything sex related. From being a late bloomer, trying new sex positions and even relationships. I had a great time recording this episode because it was super funny yet informative. If you were a tom boy like me growing up I know you will really be able to relate to some of my experiences. I loved how open Ler and Lionel were on their perspectives, so make sure you also check out their podcasts Late Night With Ler & Lionel. Also subscribe on youtube so you can watch the visual when it drops this week!


https://www.youtube.com/@MauiTheWriter

Apr 23, 202301:06:56
I Have A Surprise And Some Advice EP:73

I Have A Surprise And Some Advice EP:73

Hey y’all ! I wanted to give y’all some updates on what’s been going on in my life! From my baby turning 1 being in the middle of a sold out poetry tour! Let’s do a little recap and all the things I learned walking into 2023! You can watch this whole recap on youtube too so that you can see some behind the scenes from the poetry shows that we have been having.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qqhZ1h0kZJI


Apr 16, 202343:32
Health, Healing And Relationships Ft: Adjua Styles EP:72

Health, Healing And Relationships Ft: Adjua Styles EP:72

Check this episode out NOW ON YOUTUBE!
This episode with Adjua Styles was so great! Adjua a mother, an author, a business woman, health advocate and the wife to Styles P. We talked about health, relationships, healing and dealing with grief. On this never ending journey of healing and discovering different layers of yourself, her strength is so admirable. I hope this episode allows people to see different amazing sides of her and for you to have confirmation or something that you needed to hear on your own journey of healing. Make sure you follow their business @farmacyforlife where you can order their health and wellness products.
Mar 19, 202355:32
A Tired Mom EP:71
Mar 12, 202323:15
Dont Turn Me Off Ft: Nigel Euro EP:70
Mar 09, 202357:60
I Got Cheated On EP:69

I Got Cheated On EP:69

On this episode I answer 2 questions that were sent to the podcast page @selfcarexchill and I talk about being cheated on. The emotional hurt that you have to deal with when you’re cheated on and all of the things that we “tried to do right” I also have a bunch of shows coming up so make sure you follow on social media to stay up to date !
Feb 26, 202329:20
Single But Not Lonely On Valentines Day EP:68

Single But Not Lonely On Valentines Day EP:68

Thank you for tuning into a new episode of Self Care & Chill with Maui. We talk about being single, knowing our worth, standing on our boundaries and not settling. A lot of what we touched will be in my new ebook I am dropping today at www.mauithewriter.com I also took a trip to Scarsdale NY and went to @farmacyforlife so make sure you check them out on instagram for all of their vitamins
Feb 14, 202331:58
New Year New Me
Jan 19, 202320:49
Tell Me How To Love You EP:67

Tell Me How To Love You EP:67

This episode I talk about if it is okay to tell someone how you want to be loved or should they just know? At what point are we self sabotaging relationships by expecting people to be mind readers? Or should we not have to explain certain things to someone who is interested in us? What are some things that you are not willing to explain to someone "At this big ole age" as you all like to say? lol- You can also tune into this episode on Youtube at Maui The Writer so you can let me know how you feel about this. Follow me on instagram @selfcarexchill 

Dec 18, 202231:50
I’m Not Happy In My Relationship EP:66
Dec 04, 202235:03
A Lonely Holiday EP:65
Nov 24, 202209:02
First Date Sex EP:64

First Date Sex EP:64

This episode we talk about having sex too fast. Is there a time limit? What should we look for when dating someone? How do I know of things are moving too fast or if this person is worth my time? I hope you enjoy! Follow on social media at @selfcarexchill @maui_w @thesoftestlife
Nov 20, 202243:14
Being Single Is Boring EP:63
Nov 09, 202225:13
I Dont Feel Considered EP:62

I Dont Feel Considered EP:62

This episode we talk about not feeling considered or appreciated within your relationship. Something that I feel is super important in order for a relationship to prosper and work. We also talk about how lonely and ugly your self love journey can be in the beginning stages when you are trying to figure out who you are. This journey is not about being perfect, it is about making progress to be a better version of who you no longer want to be. Make sure you follow the social media pages @selfcarexchill @maui_w @thesoftestlife 

Oct 31, 202225:15
We Don’t Have A Title EP:61

We Don’t Have A Title EP:61

Today we did a Q&A and just some mini advice and words of encouragement for anyone who has been wasting their time with someone who doesn’t want any tittles. Use code MAUIDARES at Dare To Have Hair for your hair!! Happy self care Sunday!
Oct 16, 202218:04
Oh You Being Sneaky EP:60

Oh You Being Sneaky EP:60

So on this episode we discuss what exactly is cheating, what are the dos and do nots while on a break and guys who are nice but do not want to be in a relationship. Make sure you follow on Instagram at @selfcarexchill and @maui_w
Oct 10, 202233:48
Splitting Bills & Dating EP:59

Splitting Bills & Dating EP:59

This episode we talk about splitting responsibilities in the household. The bills aren’t my issue, it’s the men who do not realize that they are requiring their women to do all of this housework and still GO TO WORK.
Oct 02, 202228:38
He Cheated And I’m Staying EP:57

He Cheated And I’m Staying EP:57

The title says it all. Today I am talking about staying in a relationship after your partner has cheated and trying to navigate that relationship. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and Maui The Writer on YouTube
Sep 23, 202220:11
I Feel So Alone EP:56

I Feel So Alone EP:56

This episode we talk about getting through feeling alone, not liking who we see in the mirror and learning to feel better about ourselves. Make sure you subscribe to the YouTube Maui The Writer and follow the instagram pages @selfcarexhill and @thesoftestlife
Sep 17, 202241:28
I Love A Married Man EP:55

I Love A Married Man EP:55

This episode I answer a listener’s question about her relationship she currently has with a man that is married. What should she do? Should she move on or is it okay because he isn’t happy? Make sure you run into this episode. Follow on social media @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife
Sep 07, 202235:34
Healthy Relationship Tips EP:54

Healthy Relationship Tips EP:54

This episode we discuss some things we can work on to make our relationship better and healthier. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and follow @thesoftestlife
Aug 28, 202233:06
I Don’t Know How To Love Me EP:53

I Don’t Know How To Love Me EP:53

This episode I talk about what my self love journey looked like in the beginning for me, what I learned in some relationships and what made me start it. I hope someone needed to hear this today. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife
Aug 21, 202244:05
I’m Just Too Nice EP:52

I’m Just Too Nice EP:52

This episode is for the ones who are always nice to everyone when they like someone or are dating. Liking people way too fast, doing the most and not thinking of yourself. Meet me in Wilmington De 8/31. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife
Aug 04, 202220:54
I Want My Partner To Do All The Work EP:51

I Want My Partner To Do All The Work EP:51

Todays episode I talk about making sure you can reciprocate what you require. A lot of people are looking for other people to show up in areas in their life where they lack and looking for void fillers. Being honest and accountable if this is us in relationships and doing the work to change that. Make sure you follow on Instagram @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife
Jul 31, 202224:40
How Do I Know When To Leave EP:50

How Do I Know When To Leave EP:50

This episode we talk about how do we know when it is time to leave someone. Knowing our worth, creating boundaries and not allowing people to treat us how they see fit. Hopefully this is confirmation for someone who has been trying for far too long to make something work with a person who continues to do things to jeopardize everything. Make sure you follow @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife on Instagram
Jul 26, 202226:26
The Sex So Damn Good EP:49

The Sex So Damn Good EP:49

On this episode I am talking to the people who are finding it hard to let go of someone because the sex is good or they have caught feelings for someone who they only have been having sex with. Realizing that the standards we have for ourselves should be more than how well someone can have sex with us. Make sure you follow these instagram pages @selfcarexchill and @thesoftestlife
Jul 10, 202231:08
Be Submissive They Say EP:48

Be Submissive They Say EP:48

This episode we talk about all of the social media talk we hear about women needing to be this or be that for a man. There are too many posts telling women how to treat a man and not enough statements to help women understand what type of man deserves that type of treatment or helping men understand women more or treat them better. But have no fear, Maui is here and she has an opinion. Make sure you check us out on instagram at @selfcarexchill and my new self love instagram page @thesoftestlife

Jul 02, 202222:36
I Love Me More Than You EP:47
Jun 22, 202226:19
He Doesn’t Want A Relationship EP:46
Jun 09, 202228:04
I Have Sex Too Fast EP:45
May 22, 202232:35
I Love A Bum EP:44

I Love A Bum EP:44

This episode we talk about the people who are choosing to be in relationships with people who do nothing for them. The people who are laying next to someone right now who couldn’t help them with an electric bill or the candles they will need when they are in the dark. Let’s rescue these people from the bare minimum.
May 14, 202233:09
True Partnership EP:43

True Partnership EP:43

On this episode we talk about what real partnership is in a relationship and what that looks like to you. What could you or your partner be doing to make sure that you both are showing up as team players everyday?
May 07, 202226:49
I Don’t Want To Be Hurt EP:42

I Don’t Want To Be Hurt EP:42

This episode we talk about not wanting to be hurt so we walk through life trying to avoid the very thing that we continue to attract. So what can we personally do differently, so that we can receive different outcomes? Make sure you follow on instagram at @selfcarexchill
Apr 10, 202224:01
Aries Besties EP:41
Mar 24, 202217:57