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Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher

By Maurice Harker

For over 30 years, Maurice W. Harker, M.ed, has been working to provide practical and powerful interventions based on a synergy Eternal Principles with accurate psychology science. He was a Clinical Mental Health Counselor for over 17 years (2005-2022). Clients and students of psychology thrive on the hope and happiness that come from what he teaches. This podcast is a series of samplings of his live training sessions. You can learn more from the videos wound on the YouTube channel: Life Changing Services.
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Memoirs of an LDS Servant TeacherJun 07, 2021

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Navigating the Psychological Landscape of Marriage: Insights from Maurice Harker
Apr 19, 202410:30
Insights for Self-Mastery and Marriage: Memoirs of an LDS Therapist

Insights for Self-Mastery and Marriage: Memoirs of an LDS Therapist

Join Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, as he shares profound principles derived from his extensive experience as a therapist working with married individuals and those striving for self-mastery. In this podcast, Maurice delves into the complexities of psychological patterns and behavioral dynamics within marriages. With candid honesty and practical wisdom, he guides listeners through understanding the nuances of identity clarification and emotional stability. Maurice addresses common challenges faced by men in marriage, emphasizing the importance of balanced confidence and self-awareness. He explores the delicate balance between humility and assertiveness, offering insights into navigating the feedback loop between spouses. Through vivid analogies and relatable scenarios, Maurice sheds light on the various manifestations of pain within relationships and provides strategies for managing them effectively. Whether you're seeking to strengthen your marriage or enhance your personal growth journey, this podcast offers valuable insights to empower you on your path to self-mastery.

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Apr 18, 202411:50
Empowering Women in Marriage: Insights with Maurice Harker
Apr 17, 202414:33
Navigating Marriage Challenges: Insights with Maurice Harker
Apr 16, 202413:07
Empowering Marriages: Insights from Maurice Harker's Live Training Sessions
Apr 15, 202413:57
Navigating Marriage Challenges: Insights from Maurice Harker's Live Training Sessions
Apr 14, 202413:46
Reviving Relationships: Insights from Marriage Repair Workshops
Apr 13, 202413:47
Creating Sacred Spaces: Insights from Eternal Warriors 3.0
Apr 12, 202412:38
Navigating Personal Growth with Loved Ones: Insights from Eternal Warriors 3.0
Apr 11, 202411:37
Embracing Vulnerability: Navigating Psychological Intimacy in Eternal Warriors 3.0

Embracing Vulnerability: Navigating Psychological Intimacy in Eternal Warriors 3.0

Apr 10, 202409:45
Navigating the Path to Emotional Wellness with Maurice Harker
Apr 09, 202411:20
Unlocking Personal Growth: Navigating Psychological Intimacy in Eternal Warriors 3.0

Unlocking Personal Growth: Navigating Psychological Intimacy in Eternal Warriors 3.0

Welcome to "Unlocking Personal Growth" with Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services. In this episode, drawn from the Eternal Warriors 3.0 workshop, Maurice delves into the profound journey of aligning behavior with values through the lens of personal development. With an emphasis on creating harmony between one's actions and value system, Maurice explores the transformative power of Eternal Warriors, a training system designed to equip individuals with the skills to lead a fulfilling life in accordance with their values. Join Maurice as he navigates the delicate yet empowering process of inviting others into your personal growth space, highlighting the challenges and rewards of psychological intimacy. From establishing empathy to fostering understanding, Maurice provides invaluable insights into the journey of self-discovery and mutual support. Whether you're seeking to enhance your personal growth or support others on their journey, this episode offers practical wisdom and encouragement to embark on the path towards emotional and spiritual fulfillment.

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Apr 08, 202410:53
Warrior Chemistry: Unveiling the Science Behind Athletic and Self-Mastery Success

Warrior Chemistry: Unveiling the Science Behind Athletic and Self-Mastery Success

Join Maurice Harker, Director of Life Changing Services, in this enlightening podcast as he explores the intriguing concept of Warrior Chemistry. Drawing from his experiences as a therapist working with married individuals and those striving for self-mastery, Maurice delves into the psychological transitions that athletes undergo, from feeling weak and hopeless to becoming heroic. Through engaging discussions with Bryson, Jameson, and others, Maurice uncovers the parallels between athletic performance and personal growth, shedding light on how Warrior Chemistry manifests in various aspects of life. From rituals that ignite the athlete's mindset to the fierce determination fueled by love and enmity, discover the transformative power of Warrior Chemistry in achieving peak performance and conquering life's battles.


Apr 07, 202411:48
Unveiling the Layers: Digging Deeper into Relationship Black Box Reviews
Apr 06, 202412:02
Deciphering Relationship Black Boxes: Understanding the Science of Emotional Crashes
Apr 05, 202412:48
Navigating Emotional Intimacy: Understanding Without Words
Apr 04, 202413:26
Mastering Communication: Knowing When to Listen or Withdraw
Apr 03, 202413:04
Navigating Emotional Intimacy: Controlling the Pace of Conversations
Apr 02, 202413:24
Rebuilding Relationships: From Pain to Restoration

Rebuilding Relationships: From Pain to Restoration

Join Maurice Harker in this enlightening episode extracted from a live training session focused on restoring marriages. Maurice introduces listeners to the Marriage Repair Workshops, designed to provide accessible support for individuals navigating relationship challenges. With humility and empathy, Maurice reflects on his own journey and the transformative power of the principles he shares. He addresses the pain stages many individuals experience, offering insights and tools to navigate the complexities of rebuilding a marriage. Delving into the stages of the Marriage Repair process, Maurice emphasizes the importance of personal growth and communication pre-commitment. Through practical exercises like the Foursquare listening tool, Maurice guides listeners on a journey towards emotional intimacy and effective communication. He encourages participants to set boundaries and control the pace of conversations, laying the groundwork for deeper connections. Don't miss out on this opportunity to explore foundational principles for marital restoration and discover the resources available through the Marriage Repair Workshops and Lazarus Lectures.

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Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfBZj-uCiGI&t=3s⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠


Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

Apr 01, 202413:32
Creating Sacred Spaces: Nurturing Growth in Relationships

Creating Sacred Spaces: Nurturing Growth in Relationships

Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher" with Maurice Harker. In this segment from the Eternal Warriors 3.0 workshop, Maurice delves into the intricacies of fostering growth-oriented environments within relationships. From the Reflect phase to the Discover process, Maurice guides listeners through the journey of self-improvement and invites them to extend the same courtesy to others. Drawing parallels to overhearing conversations between loved ones and God, Maurice emphasizes the privilege of witnessing someone's spiritual dialogue. He shares personal anecdotes and insights, encouraging listeners to approach relationships with reverence and empathy. Maurice highlights the importance of humility and vulnerability in creating safe spaces for growth, challenging listeners to assume positive intent and support one another's developmental journeys. Join Maurice as he unpacks the dynamics of psychological and spiritual intimacy, offering practical wisdom for cultivating meaningful connections.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/circus-mirrors/⁠⁠⁠


Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBL14bs2RBc⁠⁠⁠


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Mar 31, 202413:41
Courageous Conversations: Sharing Personal Growth Journeys Together
Mar 30, 202410:49
Navigating Vulnerability: Sharing Personal Growth Journeys with Maurice Harker
Mar 29, 202410:18
Unlocking the Power of Self-Mastery: Navigating Personal Growth with Maurice Harker
Mar 28, 202411:05
Journeying Into Psychological Intimacy: Balancing Vulnerability and Support
Mar 27, 202411:15
Unveiling the Impact of Miscommunication: A Closer Look at Satanic Intrusions
Mar 26, 202410:53
Navigating Satanic Attacks in Marriage Communication
Mar 25, 202412:06
Divine Communication: Insights from Maurice Harker
Mar 24, 202412:09
Foundations of Love: Insights from Maurice Harker
Mar 23, 202412:37
Renewing Marriages: Wisdom from Maurice Harker
Mar 22, 202413:26
Miracles of Marriage: Lazarus Lectures with Maurice Harker

Miracles of Marriage: Lazarus Lectures with Maurice Harker

Welcome to "Miracles of Marriage," where Maurice Harker, a seasoned LDS Servant Teacher, shares insights from his live training sessions aimed at restoring marriages. In this podcast, Maurice delves into principles rooted in both timeless scriptures and scientific understanding, offering hope and guidance to those grappling with relationship challenges.

Maurice's Marriage Repair Workshops provide an opportunity for individuals or couples to engage in comprehensive learning, all from the comfort of their own homes via webinar. With a blend of eternal principles and practical strategies, Maurice aims to facilitate miraculous transformations in struggling relationships.

By accessing the Lazarus Lectures, a multimedia classroom featuring videos, audios, and articles, participants embark on a 40-lesson journey, navigating through foundational concepts essential for resurrecting damaged marriages. Maurice's approach, inspired by the cyclical nature of healthy relationships, empowers individuals to rebuild their connections from the brink of despair.

Join Maurice Harker on this transformative journey, where hope reignites, pain diminishes, and happiness flourishes. Experience the power of learning, healing, and restoration in "Miracles of Marriage: Lazarus Lectures."

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Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfBZj-uCiGI&t=3s⁠⁠⁠⁠


Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

Mar 21, 202413:33
Navigating Life's Crossroads
Mar 16, 202412:31
Navigating Life's Challenges & Choices
Mar 15, 202411:49
Navigating Relationships & Self-Mastery
Mar 14, 202410:34
Embracing Hope: Overcoming Relationship Challenges
Mar 13, 202413:50
Rebuilding Intimacy
Mar 12, 202413:03
Transforming Relationships
Mar 11, 202412:54
Navigating Emotional Intimacy

Navigating Emotional Intimacy

Embark on a transformative journey toward emotional intimacy with Maurice Harker in this excerpt from a live training session dedicated to rebuilding marriages. Maurice introduces listeners to the intricacies of emotional connection within relationships, emphasizing the importance of individual growth and communication skills as foundational elements. Through candid insights and practical advice, Maurice guides participants through the complexities of navigating emotional conversations, setting boundaries, and fostering mutual understanding. From acknowledging past traumas to embracing vulnerability, Maurice empowers listeners to engage in open dialogue and cultivate deeper connections with their partners. With a focus on building trust, resilience, and empathy, this podcast offers invaluable tools and strategies for couples seeking to revive and strengthen their marriages. Join Maurice on this enlightening exploration of emotional intimacy and discover the keys to unlocking greater love and fulfillment in your relationship.

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Check out the Marriage Repair Workshop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

Mar 10, 202413:45
Rebuilding Love and Connection

Rebuilding Love and Connection

Join Maurice Harker in this enlightening excerpt from a live training session focused on rebuilding marriages. Maurice introduces listeners to the Marriage Repair Workshops, a groundbreaking initiative aimed at providing accessible support to couples navigating challenging times in their relationships. Through candid discussions and practical insights, Maurice emphasizes the importance of fostering open communication and vulnerability in the journey toward marital restoration. From crafting marital mission statements to navigating the stages of relationship repair, Maurice offers valuable guidance and encouragement to listeners seeking to heal and strengthen their bonds. With a focus on empowerment and growth, Maurice invites participants to embrace courage, share their stories, and actively engage in the process of transformation. Whether you're facing adversity in your marriage or seeking proactive strategies for nurturing love and connection, this podcast provides a wealth of wisdom and resources to support you on your journey to marital fulfillment.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/product/boundaries-in-marriage/⁠⁠⁠


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Check out the Marriage Repair Workshop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

Mar 09, 202413:33
Nurturing Intimacy: Guiding Conversations for Emotional Connection

Nurturing Intimacy: Guiding Conversations for Emotional Connection

In this thought-provoking podcast, Maurice shares invaluable insights on fostering emotional intimacy while navigating conversations about past experiences and feelings. He emphasizes the need to maintain a present spirit while engaging in discussions, likening emotional sharing to bite-sized Costco handouts, never intended to serve as a full meal but rather as satisfying moments.

Maurice delves into the early stages of emotional intimacy, highlighting the importance of sustaining a connection even if conversations seem incomplete. He advocates for acknowledging and appreciating the efforts made, despite the discussions feeling somewhat unsatisfying, urging listeners to focus on engagement rather than completion.

Acknowledging the challenges of establishing psychological intimacy, Maurice warns against impatience in seeking immediate connection, suggesting the use of protocol phrases to manage expectations. He shares personal experiences, cautioning against misinterpretations and misunderstandings that can occur when one partner disengages from a conversation.

Maurice offers candid advice to women, urging them to strike a balance between sharing thoughts and feelings while ensuring active participation from their partners. He emphasizes the necessity of gauging the listener's engagement, encouraging women to be attentive to signs of disinterest or detachment.

Drawing attention to moments when personal thoughts might obstruct effective listening, Maurice provides a four-square listening tool, advocating for the pause and redirection of conversations when internal dialogues disrupt active listening. He candidly addresses gender biases around listening, dispelling the myth that men are solely responsible for poor engagement during conversations.

Throughout the episode, Maurice empowers listeners to reassess their listening skills, reminding them that healthy conversations often involve two-thirds of the time spent on clearing internal noise, allowing for meaningful engagement during the remaining one-third. He challenges the notion that poor listening habits are exclusive to men, encouraging both partners to take responsibility for active participation in nurturing emotional connections.


Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/improving-intimacy-in-your-marriage/⁠⁠⁠


Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfBZj-uCiGI&t=3s⁠⁠⁠


Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/

Mar 08, 202414:47
Embracing Imperfection

Embracing Imperfection

Join Maurice Harker in another insightful episode of the Eternal Warriors 3.0 workshop, where he navigates the complexities of personal growth and overcoming imperfections. In this session, Maurice reflects on the inevitability of causing both positive and negative influences on others, highlighting the importance of recognizing growth opportunities even in moments of failure. Drawing from personal experiences and timeless wisdom, Maurice shares profound insights on the role of the Atonement in covering human flaws and facilitating growth. Through relatable analogies and candid discussions with participants like Jessica, Maurice addresses the tendency to focus solely on eliminating negativity, urging listeners to celebrate progress amidst imperfection. With a reminder to seek divine reassurance and embrace the journey of self-improvement, Maurice empowers listeners to approach their developmental cycles with humility and faith. Tune in for valuable lessons on resilience, self-compassion, and the transformative power of divine grace.

Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/circus-mirrors/⁠⁠


Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nBL14bs2RBc⁠⁠


Check out the EW 3.0: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/eternal-warriors-workshop/

Mar 08, 202408:45
Navigating Psychological Battles
Mar 07, 202412:16
Understanding the Complexities of Female Psychology with Maurice Harker

Understanding the Complexities of Female Psychology with Maurice Harker

In this podcast episode titled "Understanding the Complexities of Female Psychology with Maurice Harker," Maurice Harker, a seasoned therapist, shares valuable insights into deciphering the often misunderstood world of female psychology. He emphasizes the importance of approaching women's reactions with curiosity and validation rather than frustration and confusion. Using analogies from various fields, Maurice helps listeners recognize predictable patterns in female behavior, ultimately promoting better understanding and connection in relationships.




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Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xcWagrk54gE

Check out the Betrayal Trauma for Dummies: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/betrayal-trauma-for-men/
Mar 07, 202410:55
Marriage Repair Workshops: Transforming Relationships and Overcoming Challenges

Marriage Repair Workshops: Transforming Relationships and Overcoming Challenges

In this podcast, titled "Marriage Repair Workshops: Transforming Relationships and Overcoming Challenges," Maurice Harker guides individuals and groups through live training sessions focused on recovering their marriages. He emphasizes the importance of attending these workshops, designed to serve more people at a lower cost. Maurice invites listeners to explore their options on www.lazaruslectures.com, highlighting his commitment to reducing pain and increasing happiness in relationships.




Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/rebuilding-trust-in-a-traumatized-relationship-a-spiritual-and-psychological-approach/

Rather Watch Something? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rAIsC_kCP7Q

Check out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/
Mar 07, 202412:17
Navigating Personal Development Challenges
Mar 06, 202410:50
Embracing Adaptability
Mar 05, 202411:09
Eternal Warriors 3.0: Mastering Life's Challenges with Maurice Harker
Mar 04, 202411:10
Rebuilding Together
Mar 03, 202416:53
Marriage Repair Workshops: Rebuilding Love and Trust with Maurice Harker
Mar 02, 202413:41
Marriage Repair Workshops: Rebuilding Relationships with Maurice Harker
Mar 01, 202412:57
Empowering Marital Transformation: Insights from Maurice Harker
Feb 21, 202413:37