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Me and The Gay Homie

Me and The Gay Homie

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Me and the Gay Homie is about two homies challenging social norms and homophobia within the (black) community. Or whomever will listen.
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Me and the Gay Homie BET Awards, August Alsina, and Jada

Me and The Gay HomieJul 07, 2020

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Me and the Gay Homie BET Awards, August Alsina, and Jada

Me and the Gay Homie BET Awards, August Alsina, and Jada

BET Awards was kinda Lit, and August Alsina Tea Time!

Jul 07, 202050:27
Me and the Gay Homie Happy Juneteenth! Defund the Police, Insecure.

Me and the Gay Homie Happy Juneteenth! Defund the Police, Insecure.

Happy Juneteenth! Voicing the movement, Rayshard Brooks, buying black, Kaepernick, Insecure.

Jun 19, 202049:29
Me and the Gay Homie George Floyd, Ahmaud Aubrey, Breonna Taylor, and Insecure

Me and the Gay Homie George Floyd, Ahmaud Aubrey, Breonna Taylor, and Insecure

We discuss George Floyd murder, revolutionary protest, Insecure, and everything in between. 

Jun 02, 202001:24:45
Quarantined, Black AF, Instagram Live Battles. Now on all Platforms!

Quarantined, Black AF, Instagram Live Battles. Now on all Platforms!

Joe and DeOtis explains how COVID-19 hit them, and what ways they've coped. We get into it about Netflix's New Hit "Black AF"  The Instagram Live Battles! We are now streaming on all platforms. 

Apr 22, 202043:06
Dwyane Wade & his daughter, Pop Smoke, Ja'Net Dubois, Nipsey Hussle Book Club, Joe & a "Bath House"

Dwyane Wade & his daughter, Pop Smoke, Ja'Net Dubois, Nipsey Hussle Book Club, Joe & a "Bath House"

We discuss Wade acceptance of his child sexuality. The circumstances around Pop Smoke Death. DeOtis joins Nipsey Hussle Book club. Joe accidentally goes to a "Bath House"
Feb 24, 202001:18:30
Jeremy McBryde, owner of Comfort LA, Black Entrepreneurship, Kobe

Jeremy McBryde, owner of Comfort LA, Black Entrepreneurship, Kobe

Jeremy McBryde, owner of the successful Comfort LA restaurant, drops a list of gems for any first time entrepreneurs. Soul food with a cleaner approach. We also get into McBryde's Hustlenomics mentor program. Finally we talk about what Kobe meant to us.
Feb 10, 202001:15:26
How Freaky Is Too Freaky, Masturbation and Sex

How Freaky Is Too Freaky, Masturbation and Sex

We discuss some of our off the wall sex chronicles. Are Gays sexually freer than straight folks. Is Lizzo Healthy fat? Sharing masturbation tales.
Jan 22, 202001:21:09
Reflect upon last year, and what's to come in 2020

Reflect upon last year, and what's to come in 2020

We reflect upon last year, and what's to come for the new year. New footage of Paris is Burning. Protecting your energy.
Jan 07, 202001:01:11
John Witherspoon, T.I, Jesus is King, Tyler Perry Studios, Kevin Heart, Tank, Amanda Seals

John Witherspoon, T.I, Jesus is King, Tyler Perry Studios, Kevin Heart, Tank, Amanda Seals

John Witherspoon Death. T.I. and Iggy beef and checking if his daughter is still a virgin. Tyler Perry Studios. Is Kanye still canceled, Jesus is King. Kevin Heart after the accident. Amanda Seals kicked out of the black Emmy Party. Tank on experimenting without being labeled gay.
Nov 12, 201901:14:21
Are black folks better off segregated? Emmys, that shade Billy Porter threw at RuPaul

Are black folks better off segregated? Emmys, that shade Billy Porter threw at RuPaul

We dispute if segregation is a good thing for black folks. Emmy highlights, and why Billy Porter threw that shade at RuPaul.
Oct 01, 201901:22:03
Malik Yoba"TransAttracted"Chappell special funny? BD of Hold up we need to talk podcast go in

Malik Yoba"TransAttracted"Chappell special funny? BD of Hold up we need to talk podcast go in

BD of Hold up we need to talk podcast join us as We talk about Malik Yoba being attracted to Trans Women. We take a deeper look at Netflix's Dave Chappell Stick and Stones special. Lil Nas X on HBO's The Shop with a bunch of drunk grown men speaking about his experience being a gay male in music.
Sep 17, 201901:16:48
We made some trans folks mad, we respond

We made some trans folks mad, we respond

We respond to DMs we received from the trans-community and talk about our relationships with our moms.
Aug 23, 201944:18
All female rappers are Strippers who Rap says Dupri, Cardi B. using her platform, Lizzo

All female rappers are Strippers who Rap says Dupri, Cardi B. using her platform, Lizzo

Tension flares as we discuss Jermaine Dupri comments describing all female rappers today as stripper rappers. Cardi B. using her platform to influence the democratic race. Lizzo out here giving us happy ass music and black folks mad about it. Joe talks about his Nipsey Hussle book club.
Aug 14, 201957:43
We Dissect Euphoria and some uncomfortable questions are asked. Nothings off limits!

We Dissect Euphoria and some uncomfortable questions are asked. Nothings off limits!

We dissect the #HBO hit #Euphoria. Nothing seems to be off limits!
Aug 04, 201950:55
Why Are We Inclined To Abuse The Trans Community First, Chis Brown, Euphoria, Kawhi Leonard

Why Are We Inclined To Abuse The Trans Community First, Chis Brown, Euphoria, Kawhi Leonard

HBO series Euphoria brings some major drug culture and trans issues to the foreground. Chris Brown Colorism lyrics, Kawhi Leonard being traded to the Lakers, Anderson .Peak and the Free Nationals concert.
Jul 05, 201952:27
Sudan Crisis, Mary says fuck it, I'll do my own tribute, Reparations, Eryn Allen Kane album fire!

Sudan Crisis, Mary says fuck it, I'll do my own tribute, Reparations, Eryn Allen Kane album fire!

We talk about Eryn Allen Kane new album A tree Planted by Water, The Sudan Crisis, BET Award, Reparations, and what does it mean for black folks to be organ donors.
Jun 26, 201901:08:43
My Bestie in the closet & won't come out, what should I do?!

My Bestie in the closet & won't come out, what should I do?!

Alesondjre of @sochyliteartistrychi explains how she handled having a best friend in the closet for years, that friend being DeOtis.
Jun 04, 201949:21
The Grapevine TV come through, Do Gays go to Hell? Abortion, Protecting Black Women.

The Grapevine TV come through, Do Gays go to Hell? Abortion, Protecting Black Women.

Donavan and Cory from The Grapevine came through. We get behind some of the most heated debates, and their most enlightening moments after doing the show with so many empowered millennials.
May 29, 201901:49:36
Can straight black men get their booty played with without judgement from black women?

Can straight black men get their booty played with without judgement from black women?

Whats wrong with black men wanting their salads tossed too? Ayesha Curry wants some play. Billboard Music Awards ups and down. The Met Gala was dramatic af. Why are gay men essentially looking for straight/straight acting men?
May 23, 201901:34:12
Saada Ahmed from the day party Everyday People joins us!

Saada Ahmed from the day party Everyday People joins us!

The lady behind one of the biggest day parties in the country, Everyday People, joins us to talk about how they started and where they are going. She is dope as fuck and you need to hear her story so listen or else heaux!
Apr 18, 201955:59
Our Dedication to Nipsey Hussle

Our Dedication to Nipsey Hussle

A dedication to Nipsey Hussle. Joe and some of his family members discuss what the man meant to them, hip hop, and the city of LA. A very emotional episode that was hard to get through.
Apr 05, 201901:06:56
Gay Tupac is Free!!! And D is peeing on folks!

Gay Tupac is Free!!! And D is peeing on folks!

This episode we are talking Jussie Smollett's charges being dropped, Surviving Cardi B, College admission scandal, and D peeing on people in a German dungeon!
Mar 28, 201941:45
The Lesbian Nuclear Family

The Lesbian Nuclear Family

We are super excited to have our friends Tiny and Samara on the show this week! They are a married lesbian couple that has been together for 15 years and have a 15 year old daughter, Ali. They talk about their upbringing, how they met, and what it's like as a lesbian couple raising a child in this society. Ali even joins the show and talks about her relationship with her moms. Very fun episode. Enjoy!
Mar 21, 201902:18:03
I Don't Want Titties Anymore!!! (Side Effects of Hormone Therapy)

I Don't Want Titties Anymore!!! (Side Effects of Hormone Therapy)

Our guest Marcus Montgomery talks about his journey going through hormone therapy and growing up in today's world as a flamboyant homosexual male.
Feb 27, 201901:03:34
1 and 1 Records joins us to talk beating up R. Kelly and dope ass music! This was a party!

1 and 1 Records joins us to talk beating up R. Kelly and dope ass music! This was a party!

1 and 1 Records joins us and its a fuckin party. We are talking R. Kelly and other perverts. And when do we say "yo they fucked up back then, now let's move on" (Not R. Kelly because he's still doing shit). 1 and 1 records brought their whole roster and they share with us their individual stories and we really get to know them. We are excited for y'all to hear this one.
Jan 28, 201902:46:12
Miranda Bowden Interview! And the fall of Tumblr and our love of porn!

Miranda Bowden Interview! And the fall of Tumblr and our love of porn!

Miranda Bowden Interview! And the fall of Tumblr and our love of porn! by Me and The Gay Homie
Jan 14, 201901:20:02
Homosexuals are saving the human race??? And Joe has an anxiety attack during the taping!

Homosexuals are saving the human race??? And Joe has an anxiety attack during the taping!

Homosexuality is more about survival than sex. Kim Porter's Passing. Jilly from Philly giving lessons. Young Miami is trash. ANXIETY ATTACKS!
Nov 28, 201859:43
The Future of Sexual Fluidity

The Future of Sexual Fluidity

Yes there is a gay man that admits that he enjoys vagina. Hear what he has to say. Our audio still ain't shit but bear with us please. I promise the next episode will have quality audio. Still a great episode.
Oct 31, 201857:26
WE GOT A NEW CO HOST!!!! The Welcome Episode

WE GOT A NEW CO HOST!!!! The Welcome Episode

Welcome my new co host D to the show! He gives an introduction and we talk about where the show is going now. We're back and we will be consistent...I promise!
Oct 23, 201831:52
John's Final Episode!

John's Final Episode!

My boy John has decided to move on. I wish him the best. We had some great times. I'm really gonna miss him as my co-host. The show will go on folks. I will be introducing my new co-host on the next episode. Thank y'all for sticking with me on this.
Sep 21, 201830:09
Fam Udeorji, Childish Gambino's Manager, Writer/Consultant on 'Atlanta' on why he hates Joe

Fam Udeorji, Childish Gambino's Manager, Writer/Consultant on 'Atlanta' on why he hates Joe

Yo! We got 'Atlanta's" Fam Udeorji in his first interview ever! Who is he? Only the magic behind Childish Gambino/Donald Glover's music career and writer/consultant on dope ass 'Atlanta'--oh and he hates Joe
Mar 22, 201801:38:09
The (Lost)Wakanda Episode

The (Lost)Wakanda Episode

In this episode (that was removed for the fact that we illegally used the Black Panther soundtrack's music ha!), we discuss Black Panther and our feelings about the movie, All Star Weekend, and Cardi B's beef with the Crips to name a few topics
Mar 14, 201801:13:37
Bye Felicia?? Nah, it's Hi Felicia! We got Angela Means (Felicia from "Friday")on!

Bye Felicia?? Nah, it's Hi Felicia! We got Angela Means (Felicia from "Friday")on!

In this episode, we talk to Angela Means (Felicia from 'Friday') about her new life as a Vegan restaurateur for the community, while she shares stories of her Chris Tucker, and Faizon Love back in the day and her days on "Def Comedy Jam" and "Cousin Skeeter" Oh, we also discuss Safaree's dick, Blac Chyna, and a lot of other important shit.
Mar 09, 201801:46:15
It's Season 2 lil heaux! Joe is boycotting Netflix and John quits the show!

It's Season 2 lil heaux! Joe is boycotting Netflix and John quits the show!

We are back for our second season family. We are recapping our first season, talking Mo'nique, Aziz, and the beautiful Amara La Negra. Our special guest Tania Paul also chimes in on all topics. She almost took over the show folks. Great episode. Enjoy!
Jan 29, 201801:57:32
WE LIVE!!!!! Sexual Misconduct in Society. Our first live podcast ya bish!

WE LIVE!!!!! Sexual Misconduct in Society. Our first live podcast ya bish!

We decided to go live with an audience and it was special. The audio might not be great but we had to put it out. Some of our loyal listeners came through and a few were able to jump on the mic. We laughed, we cried, and we spread love in that room. Can't wait for the next one.
Nov 29, 201701:51:23
Actor Paul Dupree is in the house and who stole Joe's vegan food at the repast?!

Actor Paul Dupree is in the house and who stole Joe's vegan food at the repast?!

Actor Paul Dupree talks bout growing up in south central LA, being the only black kid in the neighborhood playing hockey and riding a skateboard, and what inspired him to pursue acting.
Oct 20, 201701:37:44
Black men would rather have a thug for a son than a son who is homosexual?!

Black men would rather have a thug for a son than a son who is homosexual?!

Thug son vs Gay son, Donald Trump is a son of a bitch, and the Emmys
Sep 28, 201701:21:40
Sloane Stephens is here to stay so Serena can go tend to her child!

Sloane Stephens is here to stay so Serena can go tend to her child!

Sloane Stephens wins the US Open. We dig into Kenneka Jenkins' death. Jemelle Hill is reprimanded for her tweets about pumpkin cuh. Issa is the least interesting character on Insecure and she ain't got no parents. John has an Issa moment (think eye shot).
Sep 15, 201746:18
It's a birthday ya bish! Joe is an old man and we got 2 interviews in 1 episode!

It's a birthday ya bish! Joe is an old man and we got 2 interviews in 1 episode!

Joe is celebrating his birthday in his driveway. We interview CheesePolitics and Joe's nephew Yuseff. Pure Hilariousness.
Sep 08, 201701:13:37
The HELLA creative and HELLA talented Jeanine Daniels joins us! SHE IS NEXT UP FOLKS!

The HELLA creative and HELLA talented Jeanine Daniels joins us! SHE IS NEXT UP FOLKS!

Jeanine Daniels created two of our favorite web series, The Couple and That Guy. She also had a hand in many more successful web series, whether be as the creator, writer, producer, or director. She talks about growing up in LA, telling an authentic story, and her struggles with the up and downs of this industry. Folks her show was picked up by HBO! She was so close. She discusses what happened with that. Definitely one of our favorite episodes and so much fun.
Aug 23, 201702:10:49
The Most Random Episode Ever

The Most Random Episode Ever

In this episode Joe and Gay Homie John discuss the fucked up world we live in (Trump and the Alt Left beef), Insecure and open relationships and a bunch of other info, so uh, tune in
Aug 16, 201701:09:56
Welp there goes our hope for sponsors...The Transgender Episode

Welp there goes our hope for sponsors...The Transgender Episode

We discuss dating transgender men and women, Lil Duval's breakfast club interview, Ray Lewis being a coon, and it's Tupac's Birthday (my dog).
Aug 03, 201701:05:54
Joe is boycotting the NFL! Are you joining him???

Joe is boycotting the NFL! Are you joining him???

The NFL is trying to shut up a man who is fighting against white supremacy and fighting for the lives of black and brown folks. Joe can't support this kind of business so he has decided to stop watching the NFL. We also discuss classic black movies while continuing to throw shade at Taye Diggs (we hate you).
Jul 26, 201747:24
R. Kelly peed on a child...NEVER FORGET

R. Kelly peed on a child...NEVER FORGET

R. Kelly is still chasing little girls at 50, Mike Vick wants Kapernick to start sucking dick to get back in the NFL, and BRO JOBS?
Jul 19, 201757:01
Episode 20 BIOTCH! Rob K loves hoes. Umar Johnson hates John. John loves mixed babies.

Episode 20 BIOTCH! Rob K loves hoes. Umar Johnson hates John. John loves mixed babies.

In this episode we discuss Umar Johnson and his questionable credentials, Jamie Foxx not being mentioned as a great comedian anymore, Rob Kardashian can't deal with the freedom that comes with hoeing, and more vegan talk! Have you seen What The Health?
Jul 13, 201701:06:51
Episode 19: BET AWARDS WEEKEND! Everybody gettin f**cked up! And Joe got a stripper story!

Episode 19: BET AWARDS WEEKEND! Everybody gettin f**cked up! And Joe got a stripper story!

It's BET Weekend so you know it's LIT! We got Safaree vs MEEK MILL, Joe Budden vs Migos, Mary J Blige on record vs Mary J Blige live, and Joe vs Smelly stripper vagina.
Jun 28, 201701:01:08
Episode 18: We are back and we are moving to Wakanda!

Episode 18: We are back and we are moving to Wakanda!

Took a little break but we are back folks. In this episode we discuss a few issues in the trans community. Is it important to disclose you are trans to people you plan on dating? Is it fair for trans-women to compete in women's sports even though they have a physical advantage? We also talk about the Tupac movie, moving to Wakanda because we are not wanted in America, and we show some love to Prodigy from Mobb Deep who recently passed away.
Jun 22, 201756:47
EP 17: We Couldn't Agree on a Title

EP 17: We Couldn't Agree on a Title

We finally have a guest!!! In this episode our guest Amirah opens about dating as a plus sized woman and also gives us a quick tutorial on what "beards" are. Oh and why are folks coming after Tank for performing at DC pride?!
May 31, 201701:01:52
Episode 16: The "Nigga" Debate

Episode 16: The "Nigga" Debate

In this episode John and Joe get into a heated debate about the "N-word", Monique asks for Oprah's fade, we discuss black folks' LOVE for Champagne parties (pre-prom parties), Melania Trump is trying to GET OUT, and WTF is happening to our political activists in Ferguson, Missouri.
May 25, 201701:09:37
Ep 15: Culture Vulture Hall of Fame!

Ep 15: Culture Vulture Hall of Fame!

In this episode we discuss the super important "coming out" episode of Master of None and Lena Waithe's awesomeness, Uncle Ruckus becomes a dean of a college, we remember Big Black, white cop finds out why black lives matter, John and Joe go get fitted for custom rompers, and we induct folks into our Culture Vulture Hall of Fame.
May 18, 201701:05:43