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By David Mills

Men's Alliance is Tribes of men across the nation that meet weekly for rugged, outdoor workouts and real-world devotions around a fire. We're bringing men out of isolation, out of their comfort zones, and into something Tribal, Rugged, and Real. Join the Tribe at www.mensalliancetribe.com.
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Mission Briefing 22: Never Retire!

Men's AllianceMay 06, 2024

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Mission Briefing 22: Never Retire!

Mission Briefing 22: Never Retire!

Don’t plan to stop working; plan for your next mission and make it impactful! God gave you specific time and talents to use for Him!

Poem by Marianne Williamson:

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
May 06, 202415:04
Ep 175: How Great Men Grieve

Ep 175: How Great Men Grieve

Johanna Stamps, a licensed grief counselor, talks about how we have to acknowledge grief and mourn in order to continue to move towards God’s vision for our life.  Many items can be lost such as a job, pets, friendships, and marriages.  As men, we need to take time and space to let our brain catch up to the event that has happened. Johanna shares her 7 steps included below and talks about the power of writing a closure letter on the grief you are going through.


How to connect with Johanna:
johannastamps.com
804 944 5158
Johanna.Stamps@gmail.com


Men’s Alliance | How Great Men Grieve


“If you loved it, and lost it, then grieve it” Grief is like an epic hike through a desolate land. 7 Steps of the Journey: 1. TRAILHEAD: AT THE BEGINNING OF THE JOURNEY a. Set the intention to heal, to integrate b. Look for a sign you are grieving: Cognitive, Affective, Physical, Spiritual c. You ONLY work where grief is coming up, that’s the beginning d. Feel the pain (No pain, No gain)... It brings healing 2. LOOK AT THE MAP (Pssst... it’s a magical map) a. The magical map only appears as you walk forward in your grief b. It’s completely unique to you (circumstance, personality, etc.) c. Dispel misconceptions (don’t look for stages) 3. BEGIN WALKING a. Small doses as it comes up b. One thing at a time c. We cannot grieve all at one time. We wouldn’t be able to take it! d. Be creative... example: recognizing important dates (or your body will tell you) 4. GATHER WITH OTHERS - DON’T GRIEVE IN ISOLATION a. Grieving is internal - Mourning is your external or public experience of grief b. ESSENTIAL - speak about the experience of the loss, memories, etc. c. Moves from the head to the heart (READ THIS AGAIN!!!) d. Look for the 1⁄3 who are good with grief (most likely someone who has dealt with their own grief) 5. STOP FOR REST a. Sustenance for your epic journey b. Maybe learn to rest for the first time 6. EXERCISE JOY AND PAIN MUSCLE a. Like any normal ruck or hike there is joy with the pain b. Practice this often when you are grieving 7. GET TO THE LOOKOUT a. Reflect on how far you have come (when you look at the loss with less pain) b. See parts of yourself that are becoming whole again - integrating the loss c. This is OFTEN understanding who you are (e.g. identity) Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® tlove@themainstreetgroup.com Craig Heah. craig.heah@themainstreetgroup.com ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/


May 02, 202401:21:36
Mission Briefing 21: Title IX Disaster

Mission Briefing 21: Title IX Disaster

This past week new updates were made to Title IX which will affect all public schools. Listen to what changes are taking place and how the changes matter to us as husbands and fathers. As leaders of our household we need to be aware of what is going on and advocate for our families.
Apr 29, 202412:33
Ep 174: America a Christian Nation w/ Alex Mcfarland
Apr 25, 202401:07:16
Mission Briefing 20: Fuel Additive

Mission Briefing 20: Fuel Additive

Men’s Alliance is the fuel additive to your church’s gas tank. MA gets men off the sidelines and deployed in their church by training men in leadership & discipleship! Request a custom built MA weekend at your church: https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences
Apr 22, 202403:32
Ep 173: Nutrition, Fitness, & Testosterone

Ep 173: Nutrition, Fitness, & Testosterone

Your body is a temple, so glorify God in your body. This week Nick ‘Coach’ Hawkins helps share knowledge about nutrition, sleep, metabolism, and testosterone. Coach also shares about the struggles of his fitness journey and becoming a personal coach.
Book Mentioned:

Salt Sugar Fat: How the Food Giants Hooked Us - Michael Moss
Connect with Coach:
Hawkins Health and Fitness
Nick 'Coach' Hawkins
804-638-1386


Apr 18, 202401:23:02
Mission Briefing 19: Bad Medicine

Mission Briefing 19: Bad Medicine

When things get hard what do you reach for? What we reach for when things get hard and uncomfortable, may become the next challenge that we need to overcome. The right medicine is setting your eyes and focus on God in all situations.

Apr 15, 202406:22
Ep 172: Get Off the X w/ Jason Redman

Ep 172: Get Off the X w/ Jason Redman

Jason Redman, former Navy SEAL who was shot eight times in an ambush, talks about overcoming adversity. Jason shares what to do when we go through hard times and how to get off the X (the point of ambush/attack where you are under fire). Don’t miss this incredible story of getting back up every time, and how it’s never too late to take action. Learn More about Jason: https://jasonredman.com/ - website Books by Jason: The Trident: The Forging and ReForging of a Navy Seal Leader Overcome The Point Man Planner Invincible Marriage - Coming February 2025 https://getoffx.com/store/ - Purchase Here

Sign up for Start The Fire: https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences/start-the-fire

Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® tlove@themainstreetgroup.com Craig Heah. craig.heah@themainstreetgroup.com ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/


Apr 11, 202401:07:18
Mission Briefing 18: Will or Skill
Apr 08, 202412:20
Ep 171: Strong Daughters w/ Patti Garibay
Apr 04, 202452:45
Mission Briefing 17: A Quality Cigar

Mission Briefing 17: A Quality Cigar

Men we need to seek quality over quantity. Whether that is food, experiences, or a cigar. In our life we need to focus on the quality of going a mile deep instead of spreading ourselves too thin and going a mile wide. Focus on deepening relationships instead of adding more acquaintances. Support MA: https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/support


Apr 01, 202407:27
Ep 170: Near Death w/John Burke

Ep 170: Near Death w/John Burke

God communicates to us in a variety of ways. This week John Burke joins the podcast to discuss his years of interviewing people who have had Near Death Experiences (NDEs). 1 in 15 Americans have had a near death experience, happening to both believers and non believers. Before you doubt the experiences listen to how most follow a similar pattern, and how they lead us to know more about Heaven and the glory that awaits us. Books by John: Imagine Heaven Imagine the God of Heaven https://imagineheaven.net/


Sponsor: Chris 'Coop' Norwood w/ Towne Bank Mortgage Phone: 804-439-3206 ⁠⁠https://townebankmortgage.com/officers/chris-norwood/⁠ ⁠ ⁠Support MA's Mission⁠ - https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/support

Mar 28, 202401:21:22
Mission Briefing 16: Go Far, Go Together
Mar 25, 202410:51
Ep 169: Underground w/Matt Osborne
Mar 21, 202451:25
Ep 168: Church Hurt w/ Stephen Mansfield

Ep 168: Church Hurt w/ Stephen Mansfield

Have you been hurt by fellow church members? Most Christians have. Don’t miss this incredible discussion w/ Stephen Mansfield about the snare of resentment and other big issues affecting men!

Learn More:
stephenmansfield.tv/ - website
Men on Fire - Book
Building Your Band of Brothers - Book
Mansfield's Book of Manly Men - Book
The Search for God and Guinness - Book
Healing Your Church Hurt - Book

Register for Start the Fire:
www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences/start-the-fire

Sponsor:
Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® tlove@themainstreetgroup.com
Craig Heah. craig.heah@themainstreetgroup.com ⁠⁠⁠⁠
www.themainstreetgroup.com/
Mar 14, 202401:05:54
Mission Briefing 15: Real. World.
Mar 11, 202411:43
War Stories 11: Second Chances

War Stories 11: Second Chances

Men’s Alliance Founder Dave 'Goose' Mills talks about his past failures, and while Satan wants to use our past sins to keep us quiet, we need to get back up and get back in the game.

Podcasts Referenced:Ep 2: One degree off https://open.spotify.com/episode/46petkSfKz4tKtjtcrJaaG?si=7tMYB-VlTXqAdjVBCIW64A

Ep 32: High Terrainhttps://open.spotify.com/episode/4hSGAXG3mtDD2wbWn3OoDr?si=J2SPrJM7SjO2BOO52nElHAEp

49: Be More Offensivehttps://open.spotify.com/episode/6VLGE5frda3mM7BmoYPjno?si=00286ea33fee4ec3

Support the MA mission:https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/support


Mar 07, 202451:39
Mission Briefing 14: Hide the Bible
Mar 04, 202413:26
War Stories 10: Spirtual Warfare

War Stories 10: Spirtual Warfare

Berek ‘Next’ Dostie shares about his warfare with intrusive thoughts and his decision to share this struggle openly with his tribe. When we are doing kingdom work we will be attacked, but in Men’s Alliance we do not struggle alone.

Learn More:
National Suicide Hotline: 988
Use the ACE method:
Ask - Ask questions to determine how they are doing
Care - Demonstrate that you care about their situation
Escort - Stay with the person until they get help

Sponsor:
Hawkins Health and Fitness
Nick 'Coach' Hawkins
Find out more: 804-638-1386
Feb 29, 202438:55
Mission Briefing 13: Start the Fire

Mission Briefing 13: Start the Fire

Registering for Start the Fire might just be the decision that changes your life. We will train you in leadership, discipleship, and will equip you for what’s next. Register for Start the Fire April 19th &20th: https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences/start-the-fire
Feb 26, 202413:04
Leadership Lesson 3: Lead by Example
Feb 22, 202448:29
Mission Briefing 12: Unpromotable

Mission Briefing 12: Unpromotable

In the military, the steps to become promotable require sacrifice and discipline, but they are clearly laid out for us. And if we want to be used by God to accomplish great things, we have to make sure we’ve done the basics that He clearly defines for us as well.
Feb 19, 202412:17
Leadership Lesson 2: Major Dick Winters
Feb 15, 202401:09:03
Mission Briefing 11: Groundhog Day

Mission Briefing 11: Groundhog Day

Don't focus on winning the girl. Focus on being becoming a better man.

Feb 12, 202412:52
Leadership Lesson 1: Band of Brothers
Feb 08, 202401:14:56
Mission Briefing 10: Jesus vs the Church

Mission Briefing 10: Jesus vs the Church

Men don't want to be invited into a relationship, they want to be challenged with a difficult adventure. And that’s exactly what Jesus offered everyone he spoke with. Are you up for the challenge?
Feb 05, 202413:12
War Stories 09: Incarceration and Islam
Feb 01, 202459:29
Mission Briefing 09: Don't Need Your Wife

Mission Briefing 09: Don't Need Your Wife

When a man depends on his wife to do his cooking and cleaning, he unwittingly creates a dependent, mother-child dynamic that kills sexual intimacy. So do your own laundry and stop playing the role of child.
Jan 29, 202408:39
Ep 167: Semper Fidelis w/ Oliver North
Jan 25, 202435:24
Mission Briefing 08: Win Your Wife

Mission Briefing 08: Win Your Wife

If we aren’t having daily conversations with our wife about things other than kids, bills, and scheduling then we are drifting apart. Period. Stop saying you don’t have time and make it a priority today!
Jan 22, 202417:04
Ep 166: Becoming a Man w/ Don Ross

Ep 166: Becoming a Man w/ Don Ross

Many cultures use a rite of passage to mark the passing from boyhood to manhood. Don Ross explains why it is crucial for a young man to know when this passage has occurred. Men, it is never too early to start teaching your son what it means to be a man.

Learn More:
Manhood Tribes -
www.manhoodtribes.com/

Raising a Modern Day Knight - Robert Lewis
The Crossing Rite of Passage- Richard Rupp
If- Rudyard Kipling

Start the Fire-
www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences/start-the-fire

Sponsor:
Chris 'Coop' Norwood w/ Towne Bank Mortgage
Phone: 804-439-3206
⁠⁠https://townebankmortgage.com/officers/chris-norwood/⁠ ⁠

⁠Support MA's Mission⁠ -
www.mensalliancetribe.com/support
Jan 18, 202401:09:44
Mission Briefing 07: Start Here
Jan 15, 202411:55
Ep 165: All Things Possible w/ Victor Marx
Jan 11, 202459:28
Mission Briefing 06: Default to Training

Mission Briefing 06: Default to Training

Are you prepared for questions or statements about your beliefs? As men we are the spiritual leaders and we need to engage questions. We default to our training, so if you aren't already, then sign up for Start the Fire or the ultimate training with Carry the Fire which will equip you to explain what you believe and why. Learn more about how to launch a Tribe - ⁠Start the Fire⁠ Strengthen your Leadership & Discipleship (Patch) - ⁠Carry the Fire⁠ https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/experiences Support the growth of Men's Alliance https://www.mensalliancetribe.com/support
Jan 08, 202410:17
Ep 164: Tribe Leadership

Ep 164: Tribe Leadership

Jonny 'Torque' Hester and Berek 'Next' Dostie discuss the hardest challenges and the most rewarding aspects of being a Tribe Leader. Men’s Alliance builds leaders and the Tribe Leader is the heartbeat of MA!

Sponsor:
Hawkins Health and Fitness
Nick 'Coach' Hawkins
Find out more: 804-638-1386
Jan 04, 202401:01:11
Mission Briefing 05: Take it Back

Mission Briefing 05: Take it Back

Did you lose something last year? Financially? Physically? Spiritually? Relationally? Then take it back in 2024!Find your tribe. Step up your game. Be the man you were designed to be. Learn more about how to launch a Tribe - Start the Fire Strengthen your Leadership & Discipleship - Carry the Fire Support the growth of Men's Alliance - Support MA
Jan 01, 202408:48
Ep 163: Combat and God w/Fernando Arroyo

Ep 163: Combat and God w/Fernando Arroyo

Fernando Arroyo shares his incredible story of multiple combat deployments, coming home, hitting rock bottom, and the moment God reached out to him.
Find out More about Fernando:
⁠The shadow of Death ⁠- Book⁠Step forward academy⁠ - Organization
Sponsor:
Chris 'Coop' Norwood w/ Towne Bank Mortgage
Phone: 804-439-3206
⁠⁠https://townebankmortgage.com/officers/chris-norwood/⁠ ⁠
⁠Support MA's Mission⁠ - website
Dec 28, 202358:60
Mission Briefing 04: Merry Christmas!

Mission Briefing 04: Merry Christmas!

2023 has been an absolutely incredible year for Men’s Alliance! Merry Christmas! Learn more about how to launch a Tribe - ⁠Start the Fire⁠ Strengthen your Leadership & Discipleship (Patch) - ⁠Carry the Fire⁠ Support the growth of Men's Alliance - ⁠Support
Dec 25, 202307:12
Ep 162: Man Enough to Forgive w/ John Smithbaker

Ep 162: Man Enough to Forgive w/ John Smithbaker

John Smithbaker discusses the vital importance of forgiveness, and every father’s role of being a Pastor, Provider, and Protector. Find out More: Man Enough to Forgive - Book Fathers in the Field - organization Sponsor: Tom 'Doc' Love CFP®, CRPC®, CRPS® tlove@themainstreetgroup.com Craig Heah. craig.heah@themainstreetgroup.com ⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.themainstreetgroup.com/ Support MA's Mission⁠ - website



Dec 21, 202346:42
Mission Briefing 03: Stop Hinting

Mission Briefing 03: Stop Hinting

Too many pastors are tiptoeing vaguely around the edges of truth. Watch out for what is said and not said by articulate speakers trying not to offend. The gospel is offensive. Be bold and call out sin. This is no time to coward away from biblical truth.
Dec 18, 202312:01
Ep 161: Christianity and Science w/ Rob Webb

Ep 161: Christianity and Science w/ Rob Webb

Robb Webb, aerospace engineer and writer for Answers in Genesis, discusses how science and Christianity are not at odds, and only in an orderly, rationally designed universe is science even possible. Learn more : Answers in Genesis website (Also Creation Museum and Ark Experience) Dissent from Darwinism Sponsor: OnTrak Insurance - Car, Home, Life and Health insurance Robert 'Risk' Kelly 804-931-6646 https://www.ontrakinsurancesolutions.com/


Dec 14, 202355:36
Ep 160: Wives of MA

Ep 160: Wives of MA

Wives of three Tribesmen share their perspective of what MA means to them and their family. MA is not just about the weekly meetings, but doing life together. This looks like coffee meetups, hikes, cookouts, and other ways that bring MA families together.

Support MA - website
Dec 11, 202358:04
Ep 159: Teens of MA
Dec 07, 202348:55
Mission Briefing 02: Sideways

Mission Briefing 02: Sideways

In this world you will have struggles. In this Mission Briefing hear about an angry situation that turned around after prayer and support of a band of brothers.

Dec 04, 202310:16
Ep 158: Defy the World w/Dr. James Spencer
Nov 30, 202350:60
Mission Briefing 01: Breaking the Mold

Mission Briefing 01: Breaking the Mold

MA's new model of getting men engaged with Start the Fire and Carry the Fire experiences are breaking the mold for men’s ministry in America.
Nov 27, 202309:15
War Stories 8: No Weakness
Nov 23, 202359:46
Ep 157: Made for People w/ Justin Earley

Ep 157: Made for People w/ Justin Earley

Author Justin Earley discusses isolation and how loneliness affects our health. Justin shares that as men we need to: Show up, Speak up, and Turn it off!

Learn more about Justin:
justinwhitmelearley.com - website
Made for People - Book
Habits of the Household - Book
The Common Rule - Book

Podcast mention:
MA Podcast Ep 8: Who's Dating your Wife?

Sponsor:
Chris 'Coop' Norwood w/ Towne Bank Mortgage
Phone: 804-439-3206
⁠https://townebankmortgage.com/officers/chris-norwood/⁠ - website

Support MA's Mission - website
Nov 16, 202356:17
Ep 156: Evidence for Christianity w/ J. Warner Wallace
Nov 11, 202354:11
Ep 155: Why Homeschool w/ David Nunnery

Ep 155: Why Homeschool w/ David Nunnery

David Nunnery from Teach Them Diligently, joins Goose this week to talk homeschooling, and leading your family in discipleship. There doesn't have to be a reason you are running away from traditional school such as a bad teacher or a bully. The important thing is making sure you have a mission for why you are homeschooling. Need more resources or want to learn more about homeschooling? Check out the links below:

Find out more about David:
Teach them Diligently -website
Homeschooling Families - Podcast
Meet other Home school Parents - conventions

Sponsor:
Hawkins Health and Fitness
Nick 'Coach' Hawkins
Find out more: 804-638-1386
Nov 02, 202301:16:21