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Metacog Misfits

Metacog Misfits

By Metacog Misfits
Join us in being social misfits and laugh with us as we fumble through life trying to be good humans.

We produce How to be a Good Human, Abnormal Humans, and Story Corner - all found here under Metacog Misfits!

For H2BGH, We focus on one social science research article and discuss how this article applies to being a good human.

For AH, we focus on the pasts of notorious abusers and speculate what made them tick.

Through our discussions, we include social and political commentary, as well as periodic comic relief.
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Abnormal Humans Ep 7. Diane Zamora + David Graham
TW: Murder, Talks of consensual sexual encounters It's just me, Oona, this week and my allergies are acting up but we couldn't leave you hanging this week! Listen to this episode about the murder of Adrianne Jones and hear our cat play obnoxiously loud in the background, occasionally.  Zamora, Graham,  and Jones were in a love triangle... or were they? Who manipulated who, here? ----- Music by Rafael Krux ----- Source: https://murderpedia.org/female.Z/z/zamora-diane.htm With a special thanks to Chris Newton and Bryan Robinson
20:47
June 26, 2020
What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder and What Tactics do Narcs Use to Control Others?
All Narcissists seem to use the same playbook and they sure do love to play games. In this episode we introduce narcissism, talk about overt versus covert narcissists, and outline common tactics they use on their victims. >>>>> Music by Rafael Krux
55:07
June 24, 2020
The Dread of Aging and Death - How to Overcome & How to Good Human it up
We all age and show signs of aging. Yet aging is considered a horrendous, awful thing that eventually befalls even the prettiest, most put together individuals on the planet. Why? Whats behind this? How do we change this? And most importantly, how can we be good humans to ourselves and others when it comes to this topic? Spoiler: You’re way more beautiful and wonderful than society will allow you to believe. Because, if you actually like yourself, then how will businesses continue to sell you crap you don’t need to supposedly make you “better”? >>>>>  Music by Rafael Krux
36:43
June 19, 2020
Abnormal Humans Ep 6: Jane Toppan
TW: Murder .... Ever wonder what murder was like in the 1800s? Now you don't have to! Cause this episode focuses on a murderous nurse lady. That's the official job title, probably.  >>>> Music by Rafael Krux
31:20
June 17, 2020
Black Lives Matter Protests and the Agitators Giving it a Bad Rap
Listen to our black cat protest for BLM from the other room. Seriously, she is next level and somehow our mic picked up on it . On a serious note, this episode is run by Steve, yay Steve! He informs us of agitators looking to invalidate the BLM movement via violence and looting. Have a listen with a cuppa and learn about this very real phenomenon coloring your perceptions. Love y'all! Even if we disagree. >>>> Music by Rafael Krux
40:14
June 10, 2020
Update: Blackout Tuesday! Educate Your Beautiful Brains.
Recommendations for support of BLM can be found here: https://metacogmisfits.com/blog/post/72350/black-lives-matter-period. Transcript: "Hey hey hey, today is blackout Tuesday and in solidarity with the BLM movement we will not be releasing podcast episodes this week. As a group of white art punks, we are muting ourselves to allow other voices to be heard. Please use this time to educate yourself on systemic racism in the US and, because it is Pride Month, I'd also like to advocate for people looking into the Stonewall Uprising of 1969. Knowledge is power, friends! Also, we posted an article yesterday full of ways you can support people of color, so please check out that article and consider donating to bail funds, BLM movements, or find local vigils protests to attend (peacefully). Have a lovely week. Stay safe and healthy. Don't forget to advocate for your fellow humans and while we would love to hear from our listeners on social media, please spare us the All Lives Matter BS because that's a given. All lives matter once black lives matter, so say it with me... Black lives matter. "
01:18
June 2, 2020
How to Communicate Effectively
Oona is a silly betch in this one. Steve delivers a savage #StephenKingBurn. Laughs all around. Also, humans aren’t great at communication. WHY?! Listen to this and let us help you find new ways to communicate your ‘stuff’ to others. >>>> Music by Rafael Krux
44:50
May 29, 2020
Abnormal Humans Ep. 5: Peter Manfredonia
{TW: Murder}Quarantine has led us to adding guests to our audio from afar. The quality is not great (we tried!). This case is hella important because the manhunt for Peter Manfredonia has just ended (as of 5/28/20), as they sought to prevent him from committing further atrocities.  Join us and our bud Mallard for this short true crime episode discussing the case deets and what we know of Peter's life thus far.. >>> Music by Rafael Krux <
27:42
May 27, 2020
Climate Change is REAL. So Why Do We Still Disagree?
GAIS. Climate change, global warming, whatever you'd like to call it, is happening as you read this. Does the thought of this make you uncomfortable? According to the article we reference in this episode, cultural values plays a big role in the discomfort and disagreement surrounding this current phenomenon.  >>>>>> Music by Rafael Krux
29:16
May 22, 2020
Abnormal Humans Ep 4: Amy Bishop, When Ambition Turns Deadly
Trigger Warning: Murder Amy Bishop was, by all accounts, a successful person but she harbored a darker side that seemed to periodically take over. Colleagues and students described her as odd, crazy, and out of touch with reality. Dive into her past with us and let us know what you think! Find us on instagram @metacog_misfits. >>>>> Sources: 1. Murderpedia and the statement provided by the state of Massachusetts it includes 2. New Yorker article https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2013/02/11/a-loaded-gun Music by Rafael Krux
49:51
May 20, 2020
Abnormal Humans Ep 3: Jodi Arias
Trigger Warning: Murder; overkill >>>> What the heck happened to Jodi Arias to create this perfect storm of lust, obsession, and murder? 
32:42
May 15, 2020
Judy Mikovits, Conspiracy Theories, and Research Ethics
There's a video being shared on Facebook where Mikovits makes false claims about coronavirus and vaccines. It was important to us that we address this issue head on and shine light on falsities that can cause imminent harm if not rebutted. >>>> Source: Science Mag article on Judy Mikovits' upcoming Plandemic documentary and the false claims she makes.
54:19
May 13, 2020
Want to be Powerful? Violate Social Norms. But Don't be a Twat About it.
Norm violation = power according to this 2011 study. In this episode we talk about how they found evidence for this theory and make jokes about Republicans, while making fun of ourselves. >>>>> Send us a voice message! We'll include it in our next episode.  As always, check out our site and the article at https://metacogmisfits.com >>>> Music by Rafael Kruz
35:03
May 6, 2020
Abnormal Humans Ep 2: Ed Kemper
Trigger warning: Murder, Mutilation, Animal Cruelty, Sexual Assault. Ed Kemper, the Co-ed killer, is a charming, manipulative arsehole. He has provided invaluable insight into his mind and his past but can we believe him? Tell us what you think! [Music by Rafael Krux] >>>> Send us a voice message and we'll include it in our episodes!
33:35
April 30, 2020
The Kids Ain't Alright - Dark Triad Personalities
Dark triad personality traits like psychopathy, narcissism, and machiavellianism are perhaps more common among 14-18 year olds than we ever thought. I guess all you elders out there yelling about how the kids aren't getting enough face-to-face social interaction were somewhat right.  >>>>> Check out this episode and our terrible impressions of "Milkshakes" by Kelis.  < Music by Rafael Krux Production and editing by Obezz
36:48
April 29, 2020
Abnormal Humans Ep 1: Richard Evonitz
Trigger Warnings: Sexual assault on minors, murder, animal abuse < Welcome to the first episode of Abnormal Humans!  Today we're talking about Richard Evonitz and how his past may have influenced his crimes.  Spoiler: Baths seemed to play a larger part in his life than anyone probably imagined. >>>>>>>>> Production and Editing by Oona Bezzerides Music by Rafael Krux Episode Resources: https://metacogmisfits.com/resources A special thank you to Jim Hall and Kari Pugh for your excellent articles found on Murderpedia.
42:58
April 22, 2020
Quick Update: Short Break
Hey all! We are taking the next 2 weeks off from releasing episodes. We will be back on April 22, 2020. Stay tuned!
00:22
April 9, 2020
Story Corner: Dissociative Identity Disorder
Dissociative identity disorder, formerly known as multiple personality disorder. Is it real? Most probably.  Do we understand it? Not even a little bit. Listen to us chat about DID, as well as a specific case study on a woman with DID from 2018.  -------------- Production and editing by Oona Bezzerides Music by Rafael Krux
27:44
April 2, 2020
SUPER.HUMAN - Your Attachment Style Might Save Your Life
Dear regular humans, super humans, furries, what-have-you, >>>>>> Attachment styles - we all have them, but we don't all have the same one. Check out this episode to learn more about how we develop attachment styles and how each one provides us with a unique superpower. >>>>>> Production and editing by Oona Bezzerides Music by Rafael Krux
36:06
March 25, 2020
Very Quick Update re: Masks
We might have been wrong about not wearing masks.
00:54
March 20, 2020
Coronavirus- What You Need to Know and How to be a Good Human
Join us for an episode about COVID-19 and the most recent CDC updates from March 18, 2020. We also include some tips on how to be a good human during this outbreak. Take this sh*t seriously but don't panic. Balance, people!  ------------------------- Production and editing by Oona Bezzerdies Music by Rafael Krux ------------------------- Website: https://metacogmisfits.com
29:03
March 19, 2020
Story Corner: The Life of Genie
This is a somber episode with occasional laughs but Genie deserves to be remembered and people should be aware of what she went through. --------------------------------------------- Join us for wicked interesting story-based episodes, released periodically. ----------------------------------- **This content is not suitable for all listeners. --------------------------- If you need support: --> https://www.traumasurvivorsnetwork.org/pages/peer-support-groups --> https://metacogmisfits.com/resources --->https://vtt.ovc.ojp.gov/what-is-vicarious-trauma
31:38
March 5, 2020
Self-Transcendent Experiences & Connection with Others
Dear Net Lizard's, eBAE's, Misfits and others, This episode is cool. Topics include: "Pentagons", Dick Cheney, "Pooping" Toms and a bunch of other random stuff to accompany the main topic(s) of mindfulness, flow, mysticism, and self-transcendence. This one's a bit longer but still awesome. Silly and serious. Check it. TL;DR: Meditation, mindfulness, flow, mysticism - all the buzzwords - actually hold some meaning. Engaging in self-transcendent experiences allows you to tap into positivity and experience that happiness you chase but rarely find (because you're always chasing it). Production and editing by Oona Bezzerides Comic relief by Steve Music by Rafael Krux
49:28
February 27, 2020
Bible, Realtalk, Positive Thinking May Help Generalized Anxiety Disorder
This episode is gucci, fam. Lots of anecdotes and random banter.Some conversation around generalized anxiety disorder and positive thinking. Y'all gonna like it. Guest host: "Mallard". Heckin' weird name, man.  As always, check out our articles HERE. Editing and production by Oona Bezzerides Music by Rafael Krux
45:53
February 19, 2020
Self-compassion + Virtual Reality = Depression Treatment?!
GUYS, THIS IS THE BEST EPISODE EVER. NO JOKE, FAM We talk about self-compassion, depression, virtual reality, Jeff Bridges (Notice me, Senpai!) and other random stuff. We love y’all. Have a kick-ass week. Articles can be found at https://metacogmisfits.com Music by Rafael Krux Production and Editing by Oona Bezzerides
38:12
February 6, 2020
Boundary Violations (Part 2!)
MOAR BOUNDARIES. We're so sorry. This is the last one. In fact, this is the second part to last weeks episode. Listen, or don't! Just know you have the option. Article can be found at https://metacogmisfits.com/blog/post/28041/parent-child-boundary-violations-and-bpd-part-2-ish Production and editing by Oona Bezzerides Music by Rafael Krux
30:22
January 29, 2020
Boundary Violations (Part 1)
Boundaries are cool. Having them violated is less cool. Listen to us make jokes and talk about boundary violations relative to the following study and article on our website. https://metacogmisfits.com/blog/post/25939/types-of-boundary-violations-part-1 Music by Rafael Krux Production and editing by Oona Bezzerides
39:43
January 22, 2020
Spilling the Tea on Boundaries. I Hope They Don’t Mind
Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries! Buzzword galore.  In this episode, we identify what boundaries are and outline 5 steps of healthy boundary setting.  For more information check out the corresponding article HERE.   Music by Rafael Krux Production and editing by Oona Bezzerides
45:34
January 13, 2020
Broh, Do you even have a Bromance?
TL;DR Bromances are real, and they are more than a TV trope. A marked decrease in homophobia has led to an increase in male friendship and bonding to such a degree that male relationships can be considered intimate, and men appreciate these relationships. Like a lot.     Check out the article on our site at https://metacogmisfits.com Music by Rafael Krux Production and editing by Oona Bezzerides
46:52
January 5, 2020
Who Falls for Fake News?
This week we’re talking about fake news and the type of individual that tends to fall prey to this psychological manipulation tactic.  The researchers, from MIT and the University of Regina, respectively, recruited 1,606 participants from Amazon’s Mechanical Turk for three online surveys. Their aim was to unearth the psychological profile of individuals who fall prey to fake news.   For more info check out https://metacogmisfits.com Have a great week everyone!   PS: Mike, we’re sorry about that wink.
47:04
December 23, 2019
Do the Right Thing: But Wait, That Guy Didn't Hold The Door...
Today we are discussing the research of Bicchieri and Xiao, where they uncover how social norms influence our behavior. We talk about the use of dictator games as part of the experiment as well as American politics, and Matthew McConaughey.  You can find a link to the research article and our very distilled summary of it on our website HERE.  ---------  Production and editing done by Oona Bezzerides;  Music by Rafael Krux  Article: Bicchieri, Cristina and Xiao, Erte, Do the Right Thing: But Only If Others Do So (August 25, 2007). Journal of Behavioral Decision Making 22: 191-208.
41:15
December 16, 2019