The Average Joe
By Michael Kuhlkin
The Average JoeApr 16, 2024
Ep 57 Biblically Masculine Men
Great conversation about how we as men can take steps to lead in our homes and church. We also talk about the movie the Patriot and the difference between Biblical Masculinity and Toxic Masculinity.
Ep 56 A Look at Passivity in Society and a New Guest on the Show.
This week we look briefly at the statement about abortion that was put out by a certain presidential candidate and talk about how passivity has lead to a sense of not caring in our society. We also welcome to the show for the first time, a new guest speaker.
Ep 55 Godly Men Bracket Challenge Pt 2
In week 2 of our bracket challenge
1 Seed Hosea goes up against 4 Seed Gideon
2 Seed Danial goes up against 3 Seed Joseph (Mary's husband)
You can vote for one in each match up.
Ep 54 Godly Men Bracket Challenge Pt 1
This week in honor of March Madness we have a little fun and create our own "bracket" of men from the scriptures and we debate their contributions. We need you as listeners to participate by voting in our polls here or on Facebook! We will announce who will face the winners of next week's bracket.
Ep 53 So Long Levi
Levi's final episode as he takes a new job.
The theory of evolution vs the truth of creation - the root of our faith.
Finding a small group for 40-somethings.
Intergenerational Ministry
52 Episodes in...
On our 52nd episode we realize that we start repeating ourselves from over the course of the year. Topics discussed include self defense, and looks at community and vulnerability within the church and how that is important for men.
A Garbage Plate of an Episode
On this episode, we forge ahead without a topic. It's the Seinfeld episode of The Average Joe podcast episodes, a podcast episode about nothing. Also, stay tuned for a bonus episode where Mike talks with the Guest of Honor at the Game dinner on March 15 that will be posted later this week.
Ep 50 Spiritual Squirrels
The 3 Amigos cover a lot of ground in this one. We even came to the belief that ADHD is contagious. Enjoy trying to keep up with us!
He Didn't Just Wash Feet... He Changed People
This week we forge ahead without Mike again. On this Episode, we look at the newest "He Gets Us" commercial that aired during the Superbowl. We dissect and look at this commercial from a Biblical view.
Ep 48 Mike Unhinged
The Joes talk this week about how to determine when to engage in debate and how to do so with grace. Mike gets a bit heated and Brad pushes him further into a righteous rage. The intro didn't record but the conversation is worth the listen.
When The Adults Are Away, The Kids Will Play
The Guys forge on without Mike and Ryan for yet another week. this week, money talks.
Ep 46 Spoons, Racquetball, and Bedtime Prayers
Continuing our discussion of Nehemiah, we zoom in a bit more this week on what leadership looks like and if we are all called to be leaders. The drive to do something big often distracts us from doing the things God wants us to do.
Ep 45 Dude, Why are you So Mad?
The fellas discuss Nehemiah chapter 4 this week once they get the technical issues sorted out. Listen to the end and see if Brad can truly keep his prayer short.
Nehemiah 4
This week we mention the Iowa Caucus, and dive into Nehemiah 4.
Ep 43 Nehemiah goes Undercover
This week the boys take an average look at Nehemiah 2. Nehemiah proves to be bold in his request to go home and rebuild his city but oddly leaves out any reference to God directing him to do it or the fact that he was to restore the temple. Every feel like you aren't being bold enough speaking about your faith? Worry no more, Nehemiah shows us that sometimes we have to be as wise as serpents.
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Ep 42 Nehemiah Weeps!
This week the Average Joe's begin a series of exploration through the book of Nehemiah. Follow along as we journey with Nehemiah as he helps to rebuild and defend Jerusalem - the city of God.
A Die Hard CHristmas
We finish of this year's Christmas series with the movie Die Hard. We look at why men are drawn protecting and defending, and if it is even Biblical. This will also be our last episode until the new year.
Ep 41 Redeeming the Grinch
Continuing in our series of Christmas movies and drawing out biblical and masculine themes - this week we take on Jim Carry's the Grinch.
Ep 40 The Joys of Family During the Holidays
This week the Joes discuss ways to manage expectations and lead our families during the holidays. They talk about how to decide where to spend the holidays, driving on Christmas, and the guys add in some appropriate comedic relief via quotes from "Christmas Vacation."
Will The Real Thanksgiving Please Stand up!
Figuring out what is really true about Thanksgiving. History, context, time, and individualism can blur our understanding of history. How can we find what is true?
Dude You Smell! That's Just the Aroma of Christ
as per the usual for the Average Joes, we go down several rabbit holes this week. We start out with the idea of seeker sensitive churches and worship and end on a discussion of alcohol in the Christian Community.
End Times?
It is a question that Christians have been asking each other a lot recently, given the events in Israel and the Jewish community. Are the end times here? On this episode we attempt to make sense of this question by looking a little bit into the history of Israel, as well as looking into scripture to answer this question.
The Mikeless Episode
Tonight we forge ahead without Mike behind the Mic. Some of our topics include Sunday services, pastor appreciation month, and how true love is giving your spouse the good spoon. Oh, and do you put your toilet paper on the roll so it folds over the top or around the back?
Growing Family by Leaving
The old dudes talk about watching their children grow up and start their own families, while the young bucks share their thoughts on starting new families.
Nothing Says Appreciation Like Tofu
This week we are joined by guests: Josh Smith, Kim Boyles, and a surprise guest Shawn Bowman.
We discuss peeing on Bee-Stings, Hag Fish, and a new podcast coming soon - "Average Janes"
A Small Discussion on Small Groups
Tonight we discuss small groups and if they still have a place in the church. We also discuss some obstacles when it comes to attending small groups, and what makes people not want to attend.
Don't Mean to Get Political, Oh Wait Yes We Do.
On this episode we discuss if churches should talk about and get involved in politics. We look at the two different political parties and the flaws in both of those parties, and how a Christian should vote during elections.
No More "Yes Dear"
"Yes Dear". We have all said it to our wife at some point, but it never seems to progress the conversation, and what if that statement does not do the trick and solve the situation? On this episode, we attempt to tackle how to maintain a healthy and happy relationship with our spouse, we also look at the importance of teaching the next generation this act as well.
An Evening in Prison and Fixing our Slip Ups
We check with Brad, Ryan, and Mike about their average days and talk a bit about how we as men deal with slip ups. Text or email us topics you would like discussed in coming podcasts.
Putting the "Men" in Mentorship
Did you ever have a mentor of some sort? What did you gain from that relationship? Tonight we talk about mentorships and why it is necessary for Christian men to mentor the younger generation. We also tease an upcoming event that will be happening in late winter.
What is Reverence?
This week we mull over the idea of reverence and look at what it means to be reverent. we look at what the Bible says about reverence, and discuss what culture says about reverence as well. we also introduce the sound board to the podcast.
In The Name of Jesus, That Sucks.
In staying with out trend of talking about the uncomfortable and un-talked about topics in the Church, we attempt to tackle depression, anxiety and fear. We understand that people often struggle with this and that a solid foundation in Christ is the first step towards conquering this, but we also understand that sometimes more needs to be done.
A Camp Fire Analogy
We are men, we like fire and we like a certain three letter word. Since this is a man's podcast, we have decided to tackle the idea of sex and the beauty of it when is is celebrated in the Biblical context of a husband and wife. And yes, we equate sex to a camp fire. This is likely the first installment of more conversations to come around this topic.
Out of The Wilderness
This week we welcome Mike back to the podcast after his 9 week sabbatical. We look at his sabbatical from his perspective and from the our perspective as a church. Topics include Senegal, writing a book, and crying while running. Tune in and welcome Mike back to the podcast.
An Account of Accountability
This week we talk about the importance of accountability and how it is necessary for Christians to have accountability with each other. We look at Bible Verses that show the importance of accountability within Christian circles. Other topics discussed include the Niagara Falls, honeymoon destination as well as a destination for other more morbid things.
Blue Collar or White Collar, all are Called to Work
1.7 million men are admittedly unemployed. They are willingly unemployed even when there is a tremendous surplus of jobs available. On this episode, we attempt to understand why this is, and what our response as Christians should be. We also have a Mike sighting as he has joined us for the first time in several weeks.
The Doubting Joes
Immediately the boy's father exclaimed I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief." Mark 9:24 This is a very common thought among Christians, so common that the church as an institution tends to shy away from talking about doubting God, and going through difficult times. This episode we discuss the times in our lives when we ask those tough questions of God, and in one case may even want to cuss out God.
Devotions and Intentional Time in the Word.
This week we discuss devotions and why they are important. We look at what it takes to be intentional with both of time in the word, and our time in prayer.
A Night at the Movies
Join the Joes as they reminisce on tv shows and movies of yesteryear and the examples they set for us as men. We also discuss the movies and shows of today and how they may not exactly provide the best example for Christian Men to live by.
From Weakness to Meekness
Awake But Not Woke
On this episode, an absentee host of the podcast proposed a question that a few others bat around and discuss. Topics discussed include: The truth vs. your/my truth, being well informed on what you support, getting to know other men in the church, and the necessity for leaving the path for discussion open.
Fake Christians. A.K.A. Christians by Name Only
Did you know that more that 70% of women who are married to "true" Christian men say that they are happier in their marriage? Well you do now!
In this episode, three of the Joes wrestle with the idea of nominal Christians and "true" Christians, and how this can affect fatherhood and marriage. They discuss what should come first in a marriage and how society and culture today tends to have it backwards. Also, a first for the Joes, a guest caller calls into the show.
Neanderthal in the Church
Average is what you can expect from us! The knuckle dragging Neanderthal. "Spaghetti with a Chance of Meatballs meets The Incredibles." Meek is not weak.
"Boys to Men"
When did you realize you were a man? Our pastor swore, but at least he didn't teach it to his kids. Ryan is a gopher. We are missing the hallmarks of moving from boyhood to manhood.
It's not good for a Dr. to be alone!
Leaving a legacy. Evangelism and discipleship. The church isn't just the pastor.
Church of the Holy Moose Head
More Earl Grey. Shootout Recap - more meat please. Why are people coming to our church? Church Pew or Barstool?
Men Doing Manly Things
Smoked Brisket. Battling Demons. Saving the world one marriage at a time.
What to look for in a man!
An Average Show! Christian man or Man of God? Taking initiative. Hearing the voice of God.
Sign up for our cookout and shootout on May 18th at Pastor Mike's cabin.
Saved, Being Saved, Will be Saved
Tobacco Theology. Evangelism and being Saved. Controversial Topics.
Episode 9
Brad's day in prison. Marriage counseling never ends. Why rescue someone from a burning building - just put the fire out. The gauntlet has been thrown down - Average Joe's vs Cavemen on the paintball field.