But What's Next? with Michelle Reed

In this episode, I chat about not feeling like myself and how I’m getting back to finding joy again. I share my perspective on if our emotions define us, how to manage when we feel upset, and ways I like too ‘get out’ of a rut. I also share some listener feedback on what helps you guys feel better on your down days. I hope you enjoy this episode! 

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In this episode, I answer your life advice question submissions. We touch on dealing with spiritual dry spells and not feeling close to God, how to save money during a costly move, and being single in your 20's. I also share on the pros and cons of living in Texas, feeling insecure in your marriage, and tips for switching jobs when it feels risky. I hope you enjoy this chatty episode! 

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In this episode, I share 24 lessons I've learned by 24! I touch on living abundantly and what it really means to have real joy, dealing with criticism, and having unique relationships with God. I share about being rich in experiences, living more simply, and how most good things in life take effort. I hope you enjoy this episode!

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In this episode, I share my summer bucket list! I touch on wanting to be a better wife, enjoying small moments, and focusing more on understanding my body. I also share some thoughts on body image, as it relates to the summertime + feeling confident in your own skin. I hope you enjoy this episode all about ~seizing~ the summer!

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In this episode, I share my thoughts on what it means to protect your peace (or allow the peace God gives us to protect us). From some recent personal struggles with anxious thoughts and sleepless nights, I give tips for armoring yourself with peace, straying away from worry, and really finding hope in God's promises. I hope this episode brings you some comfort if you're striving for peace in your own life!

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In this episode, I share a chatty life update + answer your life advice questions! I touch on our move and how I'm feeling in the new apartment and answer questions about roles within marriage (am I being a good wife?!?! what does it mean to be a good wife!?!?!), scaling your business despite imposter syndrome, and how to keep things ~spicy~ when things get lackluster. Love y'all and hope you enjoy this episode!

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In this episode, we have a more ~juicy~ girl chat Q&A! I answer all your questions, on Brazilian waxes, intimacy within marriage (should we start scheduling it...?), and my journey of going off the BC pill (and symptoms I haven't shared about). I also touch on dealing with social anxiety, making other girl friendships, and how to address cold feet before marriage. I hope you guys enjoy this more personal episode!

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Freelancing 101! In this episode, my friend and fellow self-employed photographer Melissa answer all your questions about being self-employed. We touch on how we left our full-time 9-5 jobs, grew our businesses, and manage our finances and time while working for ourselves. Melissa also touches on how she grew her photography client base, learned to shoot photos, and how organizes her business. I answer questions on becoming a full-time content creator, dealing with criticism online, and how brand deals work. I hope this episode is helpful if you're looking to pursue a self-employed career path!

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In this episode, we talk about trusting God’s timing for your life! We often build artificial timelines for ourselves (get married by XX age, get promoted by XX age, buy a house at XX age…). These timelines can leave us feeling empty and lost when we don’t meet them. These are ways I’ve learned to *try better* at trusting God’s timing for my life MORE than my own, along with some of your personal stories as well.

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In this episode, I answer your life advice questions! I chat about pre-engagement anxieties (is this really the right decision?!), toxic friendships (that seem more negative than positive), and what minimalism means to me (how to romanticize life's small joys!). I love sharing these monthly advice episodes, so I hope you all enjoy! Feel free to email me at butwhatsnextpod@gmail.com if you have a submission you'd like me to read in a future episode :)

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In this episode, we have a chatty Q&A about all your questions... including how to mend friendships and my thoughts on drinking, modesty, and if I idolize working out. I also touch on newlywed advice, saving money in your 20s, and how to get into content creation. I hope you enjoy this chatty episode!

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In this episode, we talk about positivity! I share my thoughts on 'just being positive' and a Christian perspective on positivity, including when it gets toxic. I share my personal advice on having a positive outlook on life + answering some life advice q's on losing drive for life. I hope you enjoy this episode!

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In this episode, I answer your life advice questions with my husband Aidan! We share our thoughts on IF you should keep secrets within your marriage, how to deal with competitive friendships, and dealing with post-grad 'what am I doing with my life' feelings. I hope you enjoy this casual chat with me and Aidan!

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In this episode, I share a chatty life catch-up, including how I've found my spark for life again. I share about some recent mindset/lifestyle shifts that have led me to live a more abundant life... from regaining my curiosity for life, investing more in people around me, and working WITH my body instead of against it, I've found my life to feel much more full lately. I hope you enjoy this catch-up episode!

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In this episode, I chat with my two new internet friends, Rachel and Anna of A Small Amount of Drama. We talk about allll the things, including how to balance a side gig with a full-time 9-5, being content in your 20s, and financial stability when you're young (including buying a HOUSE when you're young). We also get DEEP and play 'We're Not Really Strangers'... we discuss our insecurities, embarrassing stories, and what we wish we could have more of in life. I hope you enjoy this casual and chatty episode!

Rachel and Anna's Podcast (A Small Amount of Drama)- https://apple.co/3tqCFN2

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In this episode, I share life advice with my girlfriends, Melissa & Karissa! We answer all your life advice submissions on a whole range of topics, including making friends in your 20s, getting cold feet before marriage, and when to quit a job you don't love. We also talk about being emotionally ready for marriage, romanticizing old crushes, and dealing with homesickness. I hope you enjoy this *long* and casual episode with my gals!!

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In this episode, we talk about the importance of ROUTINES! I share why I think routines are important and how to craft routines that you love. While doing the same thing each day can be mundane, I truly believe you can love your life by building healthy, daily habits. I also share my current morning and night routines and why I love them!

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Things get SPICY as we touch on your unpopular (but maybe more popular than you think) opinions. Are anti-aging treatments dangerous? Is TikTok even more dangerous? Is society getting more selfless? Is college really necessary? Do people rush into marriage? This is a light-hearted (but deep at parts) episode that I hope you all enjoy!

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Today's episode is a special Valentine's Day episode! I'm answering your relationship advice questions. We touch on managing reoccurring conflict, what to do if you didn't love your boyfriend's proposal, and how to trust again after being cheated on (and if someone can be forgiven after cheating...). I also share on intimacy running stale within marriage, moving in with your partner (and his siblings), and bringing up engagement with your parents. I hope you enjoy this special Valentine's Day episode! 

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In this episode, we talk about imposter syndrome— what it is, a Christian outlook, and practical steps for moving past imposter syndrome. Whether you’re doubting your abilities at work, struggling to find your identity by comparison, or never seeming to gain lasting confidence in your gifts, I hope this episode encourages you!

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In this episode, we get ~personal~ and I answer some deeper questions! I touch on placing more boundaries in life, if we'd ever move states, and how we keep things intimate with a dog. I also share my long-term dreams, my current favorite devotions + worship playlists, and my thoughts on manifestation.

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Chill Worship Playlist- https://spoti.fi/3g6V2PD

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In this episode, I answer your life advice submissions in a very chatty episode! We touch on leaving your 9-5 for a side hustle, how to enjoy singleness when you long for a spouse, and how to ACTUALLY make the leap to start a YouTube channel. We also touch on when you know you should break up + finding the time to pursue new passions!

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In this episode, we talk about CONSISTENCY. Why is being consistent import? What does it mean from a faith-perspective? How do we actually KEEP promises we make to ourselves and others? From fitness, friendships, relationships— we explore how to actually become be more consistent in our habits.

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Welcome back! In my first episode of 2022, I share my 2022 intentions and goals. Some of these are *big* and some are small, tiny ways I hope to improve my life + care for others more. From hosting more, to buying our first home, to continuing to get STRONGER, these are the goals I hope and plan to accomplish in 2022. 

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In this episode, I answer your life advice q's + I share my current thoughts about feeling down leading up until Christmas... We touch on dealing with the winter blues and how to find energy during the wintertime. I also touch on weight insecurities in a relationship, having *frenemies*, and how to be more disciplined in the small things in your life. I hope you enjoy this chatty episode... I missed y'all!! 

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In this episode, I share my top red flags in dating and also share YOUR stories of your worst red flags in dating. We talk about gaslighting, manipulation, and having differences in faith. I also share your stories from dating apps, being too controlling, and just being somewhat ~shady~...

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In this episode, we have a chatty q&a about lots of different topics. I answer questions about if I've ever regretted a sponsorship, my therapy experience and if I'm still in therapy, and when I actually want kids. I also touch on being motivated in your fitness routine, our house-buying plan, and what to do when you feel behind in your 20s. I hope you enjoy this episode!

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My Utmost for His Highest Devotional- https://bit.ly/311zvnD

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In this episode, I share 10 hard lessons I've had to learn. These are some *hard pillows to swallow* that have helped me grow as a person! We talk about learning to not be offended by harsh words, prioritizing your relationship with God, and learning to slow down. I touch on friendships that have fizzled and why that's a good thing. We also touch on the fact that *maybe* comparison isn't the thief of joy. I hope you enjoy this chatty, solo episode! 

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In this episode, my friend Melissa and I answer your life advice questions! We touch on all the things-- splitting holidays with your boyfriend's family, finding work-life balance as a free-lancer, the pressure to have kids, and dealing with comparison in your 20s. I hope you enjoy this chatty episode!

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In this episode, I chat with Tori and Chad Masters about setting healthy boundaries in marriage and how to prepare for marriage in an engagement season. We touch on how they started their social media platform and what it means to step into your calling. We also share their backgrounds before finding Jesus and how they fell in love!

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In this episode, my fellow Dallas friend Kenzie Elizabeth joins me for a chat about all the things! We touch on building a brand and growing an audience online, tips for becoming an influencer, and what it's like to grow up on social media. She shares her experience dating in her 20s, how she meets quality friends and things to do in Dallas.

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In this episode, I answer some MORE life advice questions with my husband Aidan! We get a guy's perspective on the right timing to get engaged, commitment, and wrestling with doubting your faith. We talk about going to grad school, red flags in dating, and how to divvy up chores when living with your significant other. I hope you enjoy this ~long~ and chatty episode with Aidan!

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In this episode, I answer your life advice questions! We touch on drama with sisters and competing for engagement dates, saving before a wedding and sticking to a wedding budget, and dealing with uncomfortable relative situations. We also touch on if it's a good idea to hide your love life from your fam and my experience with saving money while planning a wedding. I hope you enjoy this episode!

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In this episode, I talk about the importance of self-discipline and why it's important to be disciplined in your life. I share areas of my life that I struggle to be disciplined in but how I'm working to have better habits throughout my life! We touch on relationships, health, marriage finances, and your environment, and how to have better habits in all spheres of life! If you're feeling unmotivated and ready to get back after it, I hope this episode helps you!

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Emergency Rations Devotional- https://bit.ly/3EXvQGa

Got Questions- https://bit.ly/3B6lT7a

Augustine's Confessions- https://bit.ly/3oQ3YhS

Atomic Habits- https://bit.ly/2YvlOvn

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In this episode, I share a few of the biggest disappointments I've gone through and how I find HOPE when I'm struggling. We talk about losing a loved one, getting disappointing news, and not getting the job you wanted. I share how I work through trials + read your personal stories about facing hardships and how you've pulled through. 

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In this episode, we catch up about my trip back to NYC after moving out and the feelings that came from that. I answer if I'd ever move back, along with other frequently asked questions. I touch on some marriage-related advice, my current devotional plan, and how I choose to deal with conflict.

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In this episode, I have a casual girl chat with my sister Lyndsey. We talk all things motherhood— including what it was like having an unmedicated birth, balancing raising kids with running a business, and transitioning from one kid to two. We also dish on our first impressions of our spouses, if we ever fight, and when to start having kids.

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In this episode, I answer your life advice questions! We talk about boundaries in dating when waiting until marriage while also touching on purity culture, drama with in-laws, and handling toxic friendships. We also touch on moving out of your home, moving to NYC, and how to time when to get married.

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If you're feeling stressed, anxious, and exhausted in an area of life, listen to this episode. In this episode, I talk about burnout! I share how we feel burnt out in different phases of our lives, where we can find rest, and practical ways to deal with our burnout. I hope this episode leaves you feeling HOPEFUL and inspired to deal with your burnout!

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In this episode, I answer your *very random* q&a questions! We get personal and chat about what I've been learning, feeling overwhelmed, my hair loss journey, and future kids plans. We also touch on conflict within marriage and how to solve disagreements, moving to NYC, and various puppy-related questions. I hope you enjoy this more casual episode!

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In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Zenovia, a board-certified dermatologist and founder of her own skincare line. We talk about all things hormones and how they affect our skin, how to actually have clear skin, and the simplest skincare line for minimalists. She also touches on her personal career journey, the ins and outs of starting her own business and health practice, and balancing being a mom and having a career. 

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In this episode, I share my *honest and vulnerable* struggles with social media... 

• Is social media really good for us? 
• Why do we feel so much happier, fulfilled, and content offline?  
• How do we reconcile using it for a job when it makes us feel so insecure? 

I open up about living in an online world and if it's really helping us mentally. I also share what others believe are the best and worst parts of social media, along with ways to have a healthier relationship with our phones. While I know this is a heavier subject, I hope it makes you feel less alone if you struggle with comparison, not living in the moment, and discontentment as it relates to social media. 

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How to Break Up With Your Phone by Catherine Price- https://amzn.to/3fkMXqk

The Minimalists Podcast Episode- https://spoti.fi/3fkTQrN

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In this episode, I answer your life advice questions about many different topics. We chat about managing anxiety that relates to your relationship, dealing with unmet expectations, and advice on waiting for marriage within your relationship. We also talk about being closer to God within your personal faith, planning a wedding, and many more topics!

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In this episode, I have a chit-chat q&a with my husband Aidan! We answer lots of frequently asked questions, including what our first impressions of each other were, some struggles we've had in our first year of marriage, and Aidan's thoughts about me doing social media full time as a content creator. We talk about moving to the south, our pet peeves of each other, some of our dating red flags when we first started dating, and many more things! 

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In this episode, I talk about feeling lost in your 20s. Recently, I've felt a bit lost navigating my career, family life, and relationships in my 20s. I talk through what brought on these thoughts and how others feel lost in their 20s. I share 10ish things that help me feel less stuck in my 20s, including focusing on the day at hand, navigating envy, embracing the uncomfortable, and opening up to other people.

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Workism Article- https://bit.ly/3AHcnb0

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In this episode, I sit down with Christy Wright, #1 national best-selling author, and host of the Christy Wright show. We talk about if life balance really exists and how we can shift our perspective to find balance in our lives. She gives her tips on managing our time, avoiding common time traps, and what we get right and wrong about prioritization. We also share a faith-based perspective on happiness and if God means for us to live happy lives. 

In this episode, I share habits we have within our marriage that help strengthen and protect our marriage. I explain why I think it's important to cultivate intentional habits within your marriage and a few of my favorite books on marriage. These habits include going to bed together, having check-ins, and not undermining one another. I also share some audience feedback, including habits they have within their marriage that help strengthen their relationship. 

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The Marriage Journal by The Roloffs- https://bit.ly/34RdfdH

The Power of Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian- https://amzn.to/3d1GgbO

Then She Was Gone by Lisa Jewell- https://bit.ly/3j4yYYE

Mingling of Souls by Matt Chandler- https://bit.ly/2TZItxO

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In this episode, I answer your life advice questions about many different topics. We talk about finding contentment in seasons of waiting, dealing with judgmental friends, and birth control within marriage. We touch on dicey friendship situations, arguments within relationships, and living simply.

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This is a special Father's Day episode with my dad! I sit down and ask him questions you don't normally think to ask your relatives. We talk about marriage advice, parenting tips after raising 5 kids, and being faithful in your job and your commitments. We also talk about his first jobs, going through different moves, and things my dad appreciates about my mom. I hope you enjoy this special episode with my dad!

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In this episode, I share about habits I do and don’t subscribe to as a Christian. I was inspired to share these from one of my favorite podcasts, As For Me and My House. I believe we all have different convictions as of how we want to live our lives, so I wanted to share habits I personally follow- including sticking to a morning routine and investing, and those I don’t follow- like gossiping about my husband and drinking only in certain scenarios. I hope you enjoy this episode!

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Take Back Your Time: The Guilt-Free Guide to Life Balance- https://bit.ly/3iqTl1F

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