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In the Middle with Mira

In the Middle with Mira

By Mira Rollins

The most relevant and reliable hub of all things related to women 40 and beyond. We discuss and give resources for physical, emotional, relational and spiritual issues specifically targeting women 40 and beyond. This is where conversations are had and community is built. Come join the conversation and be a part of the community.
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Episode 35: Surface Pressure

In the Middle with Mira Feb 11, 2022

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Episode 35: Surface Pressure

Episode 35: Surface Pressure

Disney movies be preaching. Like for real. I often watch a Disney movie and come out this a life and spiritual lesson that would rival any pastor in a pulpit. 

Encanto was no exception. And I'm not talking about Bruno, no, no!

I'm talking about "Surface Pressure". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQwVKr8rCYw All about one sister who is carrying the weight and the expectations of her entire family and she is breaking under the pressure, but no one notices or cares. 

Is that you, sis?

If so, take a listen and be free. 


Feb 11, 202230:27
Episode 34: The Comparison Trap

Episode 34: The Comparison Trap

Hey, sis. 

Do you have a serious case of the wow is me's? 

Does your sister, cousin, and all them "have a better life than you"?

Listen to this quick "minute with Mira", and hopefully this will help. 



May 26, 202109:44
Episode 33: What's a Mistake vs a Pattern!

Episode 33: What's a Mistake vs a Pattern!

Hey Ladies. 


It's been a minute. Sorry about the gaps in uploading new podcasts. I am in the process of relaunching and session break. 

So for the next few weeks, I will be doing short segments of "Minute with Mira"!

So enjoy the first one, discussing the differences between mistakes and patterns. 



May 10, 202105:42
Episode 33: Let's Talk about Sex, Ladies!

Episode 33: Let's Talk about Sex, Ladies!

Hey Ladies in the Middle. 


Last week, in episode 32, we discussed "cheat proofing" marriage. We all agreed, there AINT no such thang. 

However, we discussed that wives should be intentional about breeding an environment where toxic behavior, including infidelity, is more difficult to grow. 

We are picking up today where we left off last week. At the conversation of Sex and a wives "role" in the bed room. 


Apr 08, 202130:40
Episode: 32 How to "Cheat Proof" Your Marriage

Episode: 32 How to "Cheat Proof" Your Marriage

In the wake of "relationship guru" Derrick Jaxn being exposed for multiple incidents of infidelity, coupled with the every growing popularity of Love and Marriage Huntsville (largely due to the drama centered around the separation of the Holt's), there has been lots of discussion centered around relationships, marriage and divorce. 

So we are going to continue that discussion here in the middle. 



Mar 29, 202128:44
Episode 31: My response to Kirk, I mean my response to Ya'll!

Episode 31: My response to Kirk, I mean my response to Ya'll!

An unfortunate "leaked" recording of Kirk Franklin and his son surfaced a few days ago. Kirk has since apologized and acknowledged his actions were inappropriate. 

However, the overwhelming response from the church has gone far beyond supporting him. The response has drifted into support of his behavior. 

I have my own thoughts on the mater. 

Tune in and let me know what you think. 

Mar 16, 202131:01
Episode 30: Overcoming Being Overwhelmed

Episode 30: Overcoming Being Overwhelmed

Sis, are you tired? 

Overwhelmed?

Exhausted?

And see no end in sight?

You are not alone.

I'm so glad you stopped in the middle today. Here are a few tips to help you catch your breath and overcome being overwhelmed! 


Mar 01, 202132:44
Episode 29: Happy Valentine's Day, SIS!

Episode 29: Happy Valentine's Day, SIS!

Just a quick sister love letter from me to you.

Hope it encourages you. 

Feb 13, 202131:16
Episode 28: Working Out the Details Of Your Work Out

Episode 28: Working Out the Details Of Your Work Out

New year, new your, Right?

OK, let me get in on that and help you out with some tips on exercise.

In this weeks episode we discuss critical elements that need to be included and considered with any workout routine. 

Whether you are just starting exercise, returning to an exercise or wanting to step it up, this podcast will be full of gems to help you on your way. 

 

Jan 16, 202130:44
Episode 27: Losing Weight Ain't Easy, But It's Simple

Episode 27: Losing Weight Ain't Easy, But It's Simple

Whether you are doing Whole 30, Aikens, Keto or whatever, the formula for loosing weight is the same. 

I have that formula and 5 amazing and effective tips to catapult you on your way to fitness and weight freedom. 

You got this, girl! You got this!  

Jan 06, 202129:49
Episode 26: Let's get Ready for 2021!

Episode 26: Let's get Ready for 2021!

Before you make your resolutions, take a minute to listen to this episode. It will surely give you several encouraging and practical tips at to start AND FINISH this upcoming year right . 

Dec 28, 202031:54
Episode 25: What 2020 has Taught Me

Episode 25: What 2020 has Taught Me

I have nearly made it one more revolution around the son. I will be 41 in less than a week. 

This year has taught me so much. And I am grateful. 

Listen in as I share with you all of my hard knocks, gut checks and life lessons from 2020. 

Dec 07, 202020:02
Episode 24: Struggling with Anxiety

Episode 24: Struggling with Anxiety

Sis, you are not alone. Many women struggle with anxiety. 

Our resident counselor, Shundria Riddick, gives us perspective and practical tips to conquering anxiety. 

See links below for Shundria's previous episodes. 

Episode 2:  

https://anchor.fm/mira-rollins/episodes/When-You-have-Drama-with-your-Mama-Full-Version-ed3a10

Episode 13:  

https://anchor.fm/mira-rollins/episodes/Episode-13-Conquering-Food-Addictions-and-Eating-Disorders-eg4sgl

Nov 23, 202042:21
Episode 23: I'm Afraid of Handling Conflict

Episode 23: I'm Afraid of Handling Conflict

When you think of handling conflict, do you immediately envision The Real House Wives of Anywhere, Jerry Springer or WWE. 

Well sis, it does not have to be that way. 

Tune in to this week's podcast to get practical techniques to handle conflict. 

It's not as hard as you think! 

Nov 09, 202042:55
Episode 22: I'm Afraid to Be Alone

Episode 22: I'm Afraid to Be Alone

The month of October, we are discussing things that spook and scare women in the middle. 

Today, we are discussing the fear of being single and alone. 

To my single sisters, do you have fears about being "alone"? What are they? How are you dealing with and conquering those fears?

I know you all are tired of married people telling you to "girl, enjoy being single", but too bad because that is my message for you today as well. LOL.  

Listen in and be encouraged.

Also, if you or someone you know is in an abusive relationship, please contact the domestic violence hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) 

Oct 20, 202040:58
Episode 21: Living Life Well with Dr. G

Episode 21: Living Life Well with Dr. G

Hey Ladies In the Middle. 

Today we are chatting with Dr. Kristen Guillory.  Dr. G is a speaker, trainer, consultant, coach and authentic encourager. 

If you need a hype woman, then here you go! She will give you practical and proven (backed by research in psychology) methods to improve your life's situation. If you are seeking personal or professional growth and freedom, you will be blessed by this episode. 

Make sure to follow Dr. G on Instagram and Facebook at @drgspeaks 

 E mail :drg@kristenguillory.com

Website Address: https: www.kristenguillory.com 

Oct 05, 202045:35
Episode 20: Branding Your Business with WHOA
Sep 28, 202039:09
Episode 19: To Plunge or Not To Plunge

Episode 19: To Plunge or Not To Plunge

Thinking of leaving your job. Like for real, for real. 

Today we having a quick chat on whether it is right for you to leave, stay or modify. 


Check it out !

Sep 21, 202019:56
Episode 18: Christina Garrett on Managing Marriage, Motherhood and Motivation

Episode 18: Christina Garrett on Managing Marriage, Motherhood and Motivation

Hey ladies in the middle. Today, we are chatting it up with Christina Garrett, founder of the Momathon Diaries. 

Christina Garrett is YOUR personal Priority Management Coach, helping you master Marriage, Motherhood & Motivation!

Please check out the link to a Facebook video where 3 million viewers were blessed by her testimony of her husbands survival after being hit by a car. 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RunningAMomathon/events/?ref=page_internal

Instagram: @themomathondiaries

Website: www.runningamomathon.com

Conference Details: www.eventbrite.com/e/the-running-a-momathon-conference-2020-tickets-96179157449

Sep 15, 202045:17
Episode 17: Knowing If, When and How to Leave Your Job

Episode 17: Knowing If, When and How to Leave Your Job

Hey Ladies in the Middle. 

This week we are discussing the tip of the iceberg of job transitioning.  I plan to do a full hour youtube video going into more specific details, but for now, this should get you started in the right direction. 


Sep 07, 202030:34
Episode: 16 What the "Black Panther" has Encouraged Me

Episode: 16 What the "Black Panther" has Encouraged Me

Actor Chadwick Boseman passed away yesterday. 

Her are my thoughts and reflections. 

Aug 29, 202009:28
Episode 15 d :Lot’s Wife

Episode 15 d :Lot’s Wife

Today is the last in the series of women of the Bible . We are learning from the lessons of Lots wife.
Aug 21, 202027:32
Episode 15 c : Mary and Martha

Episode 15 c : Mary and Martha

This is 3 of 5 in a series of women of the bible.

Today we are discussing sisters Mary and Martha from the passage Luke 10: 33-41.




Aug 19, 202024:51
Episode: 15 B

Episode: 15 B

In this 5 part series of women of the bible, we are talking about Sarai today. 

Make sure to read Genesis 16.


Aug 18, 202015:12
Episode: 15 a

Episode: 15 a

Let's learn a little bit from the women of the bible. 

Do they really have relevance to us today?

YES MAM they do!!!

We are starting today with Eve. 

Sis, do you have any Eve-ish tendencies that are negatively impacting your life?

Find out now. 

Aug 17, 202026:50
Episode 14: Girl, Grow!

Episode 14: Girl, Grow!

Are you looking at your life in a particular area and wondering why you have not been able to consistently achieve, master and conquer it? Is your relationship with Christ, on again, off again? Have you been to counseling, read books, attended workshops, and still, no consistent growth? 

Then sis, tune in to today's podcast and lets talk! 

Aug 10, 202032:56
Episode 13: Conquering Food Addictions and Eating Disorders

Episode 13: Conquering Food Addictions and Eating Disorders

Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired as it relates to your weight? Do you feel food is your enemy? Do you turn to food for comfort? Are you ready to win the battle of healthy lifestyle as it relates to eating and diet management?

Then lets go!

On today's podcast friend of the show, Shundria Riddick, LPC helps us unpack our issues with food and gives great encouragement. 

Websites/Contacts

shundriariddick.com

psychologytoday.com


Link to episode with Shundria discussing navigating difficult relationships between mother and daughter: https://anchor.fm/mira-rollins/episodes/When-you-have-Drama-with-your-Mama-ecuvp2

Jul 26, 202032:46
Episode 12: Run Girlfriend Run.

Episode 12: Run Girlfriend Run.

Is running after 40 healthy? Safe? Attainable? Possible?

The answer to those questions is an emphatic YES!

On today's podcast, my friend Tish Davis, Certified Run Coach, gives you all the details about safe running training. 

She is also offering any interested runner a free 30-minute consultation.

You can find her on:

 Facebook @ iRunic 

Instagram @ iRunic29

email address: iRunic29@gmail.com

Remember, we run the run girls. So believe you can run!

Jul 20, 202033:04
Episode 11: Answering Your Questions about Teeth, Breath and Oral Health

Episode 11: Answering Your Questions about Teeth, Breath and Oral Health

My good friend, Corinne Pearson Lusk offers her professional expertise as  dentist on today's podcast. You answers all the questions that we have regarding our not so pearly whites, embarrassing bad breath and oral habits. 

Her practice is Pearson Family Dentistry in Red Oak, Tx.  Her website and Facebook pages are @ Pearson Family Dentistry. 


  


Jul 12, 202026:54
Episode 10: How to Get your Groove Back

Episode 10: How to Get your Groove Back

Have you lost your groove? You know, that light-hearted, fun loving and easy going person you used to be? That "something" about you that once made people gravitate towards you? Your vigor, vitality or your peace?

Often times life and age takes slowly squeezes your groove out, but today we are discussing ways to get it back!

Let's go. 

Jul 06, 202035:53
Episode 9: Tips from a Great Girl Dad

Episode 9: Tips from a Great Girl Dad

This month has been all about dads. We are wrapping up this month with an interview with my long time friend, Daryl Jones. He and his wonderful wife Kamica have 7 children, 4 of them girls. He shares personal experiences and general encouragement regarding the role of dads in daughters lives. 

Daryl is the founding and senior pastor of The Rock Fellowship Church in Miami, Florida. 


Jun 29, 202030:00
Episode 8: Dealing with Daddy's Death

Episode 8: Dealing with Daddy's Death

The role of a father in a child's life is critical. We often focus on dad's being absent by choice or force, but what about death? Today, we are chatting with Shenikwa Bailey Cager (daughter of Pastor E.K. Bailey). She gives a refreshingly authentic and encouraging look into the process of moving through the grief and growth process after the death a father. 

You can follow her and her ministry on Facebook at "That Wife Life". 

Jun 22, 202035:04
Episode 7: Why God says No

Episode 7: Why God says No

Often times we feel distant from God our father because we feel abandoned, or neglected or even mistreated by Him. We feel that he has told us “no” to what we consider good prayers. This episode explores reasons for the Devine “no”s and prayerfully brings you closer in your relationship with Him.
Jun 08, 202024:45
Episode 6: Resources Regarding Racism in America
Jun 03, 202008:42
Episode 5: Foster care and Adoption
May 25, 202028:34
Episode 4: Fertility after 40

Episode 4: Fertility after 40

We are answering all of your questions regarding fertility. Causes. Symptoms. Options. and more.

Dr. Lisa King, is a reproductive endocrinology and infertility specialist in Desoto, Tx. She has been practicing for over 22 years. In this episode she gives us a thorough crash course in Fertility after 40 101.

You can contact Dr. King for consultations and appointments at:

The Women's Place

(972) 709 - 9777 

For additional resources visit the National Fertility Association at  https://resolve.org/



May 18, 202036:56
Episode 3: When mom is gone

Episode 3: When mom is gone

Are you a woman coping and moving through grief after the death of your mom? On today's podcast, 3 woman who share your experience and journey shed light on how to move through life without your mom along side you. 

These woman are founders of an organization called "Daughters Of...". The annual Daughters Of ... Brunch was designed to give women who have experienced the loss of their mother an opportunity to celebrate their legacy while fellow shipping with other women who share the same experience. 

Website: thedaughtersof@gmail.com

May 08, 202028:36
When You have Drama with your Mama: Full Version

When You have Drama with your Mama: Full Version

Completed unedited version of our conversation with Shundria Riddick, LPC. 

When Mother's Day rolls around, do those Hallmark commercials just not resonate with you at all? Do you stand in the greeting card aisle struggling to find a card that encapsulates the complexity of your relationship with your mother? Does this day cause anxiety and unhealed childhood wounds to resurface?

I recognize that many women struggle with pain and resentment from unhealthy relationships with their mothers. Today, I invited Shundria Riddick, Licensed Professional Counselor to help dissect and deal with this topic.

Websites/Contacts

shundriariddick.com

psychologytoday.com

May 05, 202034:18
Episode 2: When you have Drama with your Mama

Episode 2: When you have Drama with your Mama

When Mother's Day rolls around, do those Hallmark commercials just not resonate with you at all? Do you stand in the greeting card aisle struggling to find a card that encapsulates the complexity of your relationship with your mother? Does this day cause anxiety and unhealed childhood wounds to resurface?

I recognize that many women struggle with pain and resentment from unhealthy relationships with their mothers. Today, I invited Shundria Riddick, Licensed Professional Counselor to help dissect and deal with this topic. 

Websites/Contacts

 shundriariddick.com

psychologytoday.com



May 04, 202025:20
Episode 1: Our First Meeting in the Middle
Apr 27, 202016:27