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Modern Romance

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Modern Romance is a podcast about navigating the unconventional dating scene. Each week, your host Nicole invites her friends, real daters and experts to share their authentic stories about relationships and love.
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Should You Be Friends Before Dating?

Modern RomanceJan 05, 2022

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Should You Be Friends Before Dating?
Jan 05, 202230:11
How To Attract Your Dream Partner
Sep 29, 202101:00:13
Are the Roaring Twenties Back in Dating?
Sep 22, 202131:13
Toxic Relationships & Why we Fall for the Emotionally Unavailable

Toxic Relationships & Why we Fall for the Emotionally Unavailable

How can you tell if you are in a toxic relationship? Relationship coach, Alex Scot, shares the signs from her own personal experience and how to cope when you find yourself in a toxic situation. We discuss what it means to be 'unemotionally unavailable' and why we find them attractive.

If you want to work with Alex, you can learn more about her program Pathway To Partnership where you can learn:

- how to fight fair

- how to communicate effectively

- how to compromise

- how to identify self sabotaging patterns

- how to identify and manage triggers

- identify values & priorities

- how to amp up their sex life (guest coach)

- how to budget as a team (guest coach)

- how to get pregnant naturally (guest coach)

- & more!

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Apr 28, 202130:13
Couple's Corner: The 10th Hour Date

Couple's Corner: The 10th Hour Date

Married couple, Darryl and Chyanne from the We Got This Podcast, join me in this episode to talk about how their first brunch date went. Breaking all the rules, they spent 10 hours together and asked all the questions we dare bring up when getting to know someone early in the game. Darryl not only challenges me on why brunch dates are the best, but he also shares what it was like introducing his daughters to Chayanne and how they all came together as a family. Grab your breakfast and dig into this episode!

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Apr 21, 202143:50
Resiliency in Dating and Shooting Your Shot

Resiliency in Dating and Shooting Your Shot

On this week's episode, Reese from the God, Coffee and Resiliency Podcast joins me to talk about what resiliency means to us and how to be strong while dating. Later n the episode, Reese shares how she met her current partner on Clubhouse and why you just gotta shoot your shot!

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Apr 14, 202121:30
The Modern Approach To Courting With Sandro D' Abruzzo
Apr 07, 202140:33
Single in The City

Single in The City

Is it harder to find love when you live in a metropolitan area? This week, I chat with Brittany and Jill, founders of the dating app tool SCOOPS, on our dating experiences in NYC. We open up about being single during the pandemic and the joys of being single in your 30s.

If you want to become a beta tester for SCOOPS, send a DM to @scoopslink. You can find Brittany's blog at: ww.thirtywaves.com

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Mar 31, 202158:10
Navigating The Male-Female Dynamics In Relationships

Navigating The Male-Female Dynamics In Relationships

Ms. Amanda Chen is a mindset coach and started off by writing for a sex toy ecomm site and evolved into magazine articles but her love and passion was really for talking about everything relationships. She's also the podcast host of The Miss Amanda Chen Show where she talks to men in all walks of life about dating, sex and relationships. She shares her insights and how we can challenge existing norms between men and women.

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Mar 24, 202129:52
Couple's Corner: From Quarantine To Moving In Together
Mar 10, 202133:24
Dating Other People If You're Not Exclusive
Mar 03, 202114:12
How To Give Up The Ghost
Feb 24, 202118:52
Keeping a Friend with Benefits
Feb 17, 202120:46
When Love Meets Wanderlust
Feb 10, 202126:24
Finding Your Soulmate in 2021

Finding Your Soulmate in 2021

On this Episode, Nicole sits down with relationship coach, Rachel Scheer. They discuss her new book "Date to Find your Soulmate" and some of her dating experiences that shaped the chapters of her book. They reflect on the dating scene of 2020 and where they think dating is going in 2021.

Rachel Scheer is a Relationship Coach who helps singles find love. She wrote a book called "Date to Find Your Soulmate" that's launching on Amazon on February 2nd. Check out her website, www.lovelaughleisure.com, for articles and info about relationships, love, sex, and dating and follow her on social media for all her latest updates:

facebook.com/HelpingSinglesAttractLove

instagram.com/lovelaughleisure/

twitter.com/lovecoachforall

"Date to Find Your Soulmate," will be on Amazon on Feb. 2. You can get the ebook for 99 cents the first week it's launched. She also have an 8-week group coaching course called "Your Road to Romance" that will help singles clarify their relationship needs and attract the right partner. If you sign up with a friend, you'll both get 50% off. You can email rachel@lovelaughleisure.com for questions or go to her website to sign up for a free coaching session and learn more.

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Feb 05, 202124:58
Getting Sensual with Boudoir
Feb 03, 202126:05
Is Love Really Blind?

Is Love Really Blind?

On this episode, Nicole is joined by Catherine creator and founder of siena & co. They talk about if they have ever experienced love at first sight and how what you see isn't always what you get while dating. They discuss why they think compatibility doesn't always lead to a perfect match and what really matters when it comes to a committed relationship.

"There are a lot of people who are in love with the idea of falling in love and often let their emotions get the best of them"

The literature mentioned in this episode:

The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships by John Gottman

The Four Loves by CS Lewis

Find out more about siena &co. on their website and follow them on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter.

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Jan 27, 202125:02
My First Date of 2021
Jan 22, 202109:02
Case of The Ex: Should You Give Them Another Chance?
Jan 20, 202135:09
Why Modern Dating is So Hard
Jan 13, 202123:46
What is Modern Romance?
Jan 06, 202104:25
Sex and The City: Then and Now
Dec 16, 202053:40
Relationships in the Time of the Pandemic
Dec 09, 202044:02
Dating as a Single Parent
Dec 02, 202034:39
Balancing Career and Dating
Nov 25, 202026:20
Expectations Of Dating an Older Man
Nov 18, 202030:57
Are You Too Independent to Date?

Are You Too Independent to Date?

You're successful and kicking ass in your career. You seem to have it all, but you're struggling to find love. Are you afraid men are intimidated by you? Christine Chang, author of Show Up: Finding Love for Independent Women, joins Nicole this week as they discuss the right way to create the relationship you want. 

You can buy Christine's book on Amazon or Kindle and follow her on Instagram at @cchangandco

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Nov 11, 202033:56
Américaine in Paris: A Long Distance Romance
Nov 04, 202021:49
The Power of Style with Jordan Stolch

The Power of Style with Jordan Stolch

On this week's bonus episode, Nicole talks with Image Strategist and Style Advisor Jordan Stolch on the importance of holding true to your authentic style. She shares tips on building confidence from the inside out and how the clothes we wear can help us succeed in our career and dating lives. 

Find out more about Mikado: https://mikadopersonalstyling.com

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Oct 30, 202030:34
Finding Love on The Dating Apps

Finding Love on The Dating Apps

Nicole's friends, Kristina and Nathan, join her this week as they discuss their dating experiences before they met on the dating apps. We get to hear a guy's perspective from Nathan and Kristina's journey adjusting to dating from the Philippines.
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Oct 28, 202024:46
Age 'Aint Nothing But a Number

Age 'Aint Nothing But a Number

As Nicole turns 30 this week, she reflects on her 20s and looks forward to a new decade. She discusses why we are more than our age, not listening to that “biological clock” and how we can feel young at any age.
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Oct 21, 202008:05
Dating Rules

Dating Rules

On this episode,  Nicole and Rush discuss some rules they follow when dating.

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Sep 23, 202025:01
Twenty Guys You Date in Your Twenties with Gabi Conti

Twenty Guys You Date in Your Twenties with Gabi Conti

This week, Nicole sits down with author Gabi Conti of Twenty Guys You Date in Your Twenties. Gabi and Nicole discuss the different types of men that you encounter while dating, their personal experiences and what's it's like dating at age 30 vs 20. You can buy Gabi’s book on Amazon or audible follow her on Instagram at @itsgabiconti
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Sep 16, 202026:23
First Date Rituals

First Date Rituals

Let's go on a date! On this episode, the girls discuss how they get ready for first dates and think back on some of the best and worst first date experiences.

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Sep 13, 202053:21
NYC Dating Bingo

NYC Dating Bingo

Sit down, print your boards, gather your friends and let’s play The NYC Dating Bingo! On this episode, the girls go through all the different types of dates they have had while living in NYC. 

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Sep 08, 202041:09
Dating in 2020

Dating in 2020

This week, the girls sit down and discuss dating in the modern era. They talk about the different dating apps, websites, what they love and hate about profiles and modern dating techniques.
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Sep 02, 202058:32
Once Upon a Pandemic...

Once Upon a Pandemic...

This week, the girls sit down and discuss what dating during COVID-19 has been like for them and what dealing with virtual dates and face-to-face meets are like in the “new normal.”
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Aug 26, 202043:46
Do Standards Really Matter?

Do Standards Really Matter?

On this episode, Nicole and Rush continue their quarantine adventures by discussing dating standards and what really matters to them when trying to find “The One.”
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Aug 19, 202028:23
Don’t. Be. Crazy. Girl.

Don’t. Be. Crazy. Girl.

Welcome to Modern Romance, a podcast where we discuss being in your late 20’s-early 30’s and dealing with the adventures of dating, career and all those other ups and downs of life that happen when you are in New York. On this episode, Nicole and Rush discuss the “Crazy Girl” phase that we all go through and how to keep yourself in check.

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Aug 12, 202017:54