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Monogam-ish Podcast

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Monogam-ish Podcast is a sex-positive podcast about swingers, ethical non-monogamy, and more. We are on a mission to end stigma and shame surrounding all types of consensual non-monogamy and to show you have options! Love, Love.
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Episode 23: A Different Kind of Fire

Monogam-ish PodcastOct 19, 2020

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Episode 67: Balancing The Femme and The Masculine

Episode 67: Balancing The Femme and The Masculine

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Rowan Thomas, an educator, artist, and poet. Rowan is working on their dissertation on "Identity Battle Fatigue," a cumulative result of an identity-related stress response to distressing mental and emotional conditions. They talk about growing up in Houston, Texas as a "queer man in a woman's body."

Nov 06, 202301:01:08
Episode 66: Discovering the ENM Lifestyle

Episode 66: Discovering the ENM Lifestyle

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji sit down with Shelley and Nick. They chose to celebrate their 9th anniversary on our show, discussing their first steps into the Ethical Non-Monogamy Lifestyle. They talk in-depth about what they want from each other and some of the escapades they have gotten into.

Oct 30, 202301:29:20
Episode 65: BDSM, Comedy, and Accepting Yourself

Episode 65: BDSM, Comedy, and Accepting Yourself

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji have a riveting conversation with Chris Wellman, a stand-up comedian who has boldly intertwined his humor with kink and BDSM. In this episode, Chris delves into his strict upbringing, a stark contrast to the liberation he found in both the comedy scene and the kink community. Discover how Chris's journey through these seemingly divergent paths has led to a unique blend of entertainment that challenges taboos and tickles the funny bone. From his early days falling in love with stand-up comedy to hosting racy, out-of-the-box shows like The Knotty Show and The Slut Down, Chris has become a sensation in Denver's entertainment scene. His shows are performances and experiences, breaking down barriers and inviting audiences to embrace a world where comedy meets kink. Listen in as Chris shares insights into his creative process, anecdotes from behind the scenes, and his perspective on the power of comedy in challenging societal norms.

Oct 23, 202347:09
Episode 64: Manifesting Your Ideal Polyamorous Relationship
Oct 16, 202301:13:38
Episode 63: How To Find Yourself In the Kink Community
Oct 09, 202301:04:44
Episode 62: Healing Sexual Trauma Through Kink and BDSM
Oct 02, 202301:19:06
Episode 61: Pleasure Rituals, Masturbation and ENM Newbies
Sep 25, 202354:31
Episode 60: The Secret of Finding Happiness as a Unicorn
Sep 18, 202301:06:14
Episode 59: How To Re-Open A Relationship
Sep 11, 202354:23
Episode 58: Turning Poison into Medicine - A Guide To Living Your Erotic Potential

Episode 58: Turning Poison into Medicine - A Guide To Living Your Erotic Potential

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Sex Coach and Author of "Living Your Erotic Potential," Mark Casey. He also talks about the importance of breathing and how it can affect your sexual performance. As an adult, Mark was a business coach, and when he chose to become a sex coach, he discovered those skills were still applicable. Mark felt he had a lot of erotic energy flowing through him from an early age but had no constructive guidance until much later in his life. That and more in this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. 

 Check out Mark Casey's book in Audiobook 

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Mar 07, 202201:09:11
Episode 57: No Labels, Only Love Part 2 - Coming Out To The Family
Feb 28, 202256:39
Episode 56: No Labels, Only Love Part 1 - How To Build A Triad Relationship Successfully
Feb 21, 202248:34
Episode 55: Learning To Be The Best - How To Be A Single Man In The Lifestyle

Episode 55: Learning To Be The Best - How To Be A Single Man In The Lifestyle

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Duane Allen, Director of Colorado Center of Alternative Lifestyles (COCAL); Duane is a retired, disabled veteran and a self-described "hedonist." He has participated in alternative lifestyle communities for the last two decades.  Duane tells us how he got curious about kink from when he saw Hellraiser the first time and when a friend dared him to go to a stranger's house for a naughty engagement.  He also speaks about how he navigates the lifestyle as a single man and how he's been successful at it. 

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Feb 15, 202201:24:45
Episode 54: We're The Ones We've Been Looking For - Self-Love, Tantric Practices, and Healing Trauma with Shadow Work
Feb 07, 202201:22:04
Episode 53: Vicarious Joy - What Is Compersion?
Jan 31, 202201:00:04
Episode 52: Making Your Own Path

Episode 52: Making Your Own Path

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji talk to Brenden and Danielle about their exploration into the Lifestyle. Brenden came from a traditional Christian family where those rules suffocated him to the point he needed to escape. Danielle was the black sheep of her family and refused to be shaped by her family. They both discovered their paths to the Lifestyle through trial and error. Listen more to find out how. Explore more: https://linktr.ee/monogamishpodcast

Jan 24, 202201:06:15
Episode 51: A Safe Space For Us All
Jan 17, 202201:01:17
Episode 50: This Poly-Thing Over There
Jan 11, 202258:05
Episode 49: That Offensive Pinwheel

Episode 49: That Offensive Pinwheel

In this Episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome an extraordinary guest, Ken, and Danyell, the owners and operators of Summit House Parties.  They talk about how they first started running a Bead and Breakfast and throwing house parties and how vindictive and envious people in the lifestyle community attempted to shut down Ken and Danyell's parties.  That and more.  Don't forget to visit our website to see their Open Letter to the community.  

Jan 03, 202256:15
Episode 48: Trial By Fire

Episode 48: Trial By Fire

On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Nathan Travis onto the show. He is a part of a seven-person polycule and will be appearing in the Netflix show "Sacred Spaces," involving him and his polycule. Nathan tells us about his early days in polyamory, while he made every mistake he could. In doing so, he cultivated enough wisdom to teach those curious about polyamory and guide them. Don't forget about his Couch Confessional seen on our Patreon! Listen to his episode today.

Dec 27, 202155:28
Episode 47: This Too Shall Pass

Episode 47: This Too Shall Pass

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Erin and Lucas onto the show. Erin has been a primary care and gynecology/obstetrics practitioner for six years.  Lucas owns his security company.  Before she met Lucas, Erin had been in the lifestyle for many years.  Listen to the episode to learn more. 

Dec 22, 202101:08:27
Episode 46: Embracing The Joy Of People
Dec 15, 202101:06:55
Episode 45: Forever Fox
Dec 06, 202145:24
Episode 44: Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink

Episode 44: Risk-Aware, Consensual Kink

On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Mistress Saskia and Mike Charming to talk about BDSM and running The RACK room here in colorado.  Mistress Saskia graces us with her decade's insights being a professional dominatrix, like how to remove someone who's passed out on a cross safely.  Mike Charming tells us of how he started in DC and brought his experiences to Colorado.  Make sure to check out the RACK Room by visiting their website here.

Nov 29, 202157:37
Episode 43: Friends & OnlyFans
Nov 22, 202140:13
Episode 42: 95/5
Nov 15, 202151:52
Episode 41: Partners in Crime

Episode 41: Partners in Crime

In the Season 3 Premiere of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji welcome; Helen and Roy are onto the show.  These two sexy beasts talk about their journeys to the ENM lifestyle.  Helen hails from a small town in Colorado, rife with conservative, abstinence-only sex education, and became the "Virgin Slip Collector" to many boys. Roy, also coming from another small town, was told repeatedly by his mother that he would have multiple girlfriends, which culminates in Roy losing his virginity in a threesome in high school.  Their paths finally converge when they have a chance encounter at The Mon Chalet, and the rest, as they say, is history.

Nov 04, 202154:26
Episode 40: Fierce Love

Episode 40: Fierce Love

On our Season Finale Episode of Monogam-ish Podcast.  Justina and Kenji welcome Michael and Bev onto our show. Michael and Bev are both famous for hosting the "Raven's Nest" house parties in Colorado.  Michael had been active in the San Francisco swinger scene for years after discovering his innate need to have sex with multiple people, or as he puts it, "He was Multi-Sexual."  Bev, on the other hand, discovered her newfound sexuality after a butt-dialing incident with her ex-husband.  When the two finally rediscovered each other, they had been inseparable since.  Listen to our latest episode now!

Aug 02, 202152:59
Episode 39: Collaboration, Not Competition
Jul 26, 202101:09:35
Episode 38: Thank You, Queen Victoria
Jul 05, 202157:55
Episode 37: More Than Monogamy

Episode 37: More Than Monogamy

Justina and Kenji, welcome to the show, Award-Winning Documentary Filmmaker Dillon Birdsall.  Dillon talks about his first documentary, "V-Card: The Film," and his journey to find out what people thought about virginity while he was a virgin at the time.  For Dillon, if he hadn't had the group of friends and family he had, he thinks he might have become an Incel, full of self-loathing, hate, and fear.  His next film, which is in production, "More Than Monogamy," seeks to normalize and educate about different relationships that aren't strictly monogamous.  Dillon is also raising funds for his project, if you would like to support his film, follow the link here.

Jun 28, 202101:15:05
Episode 36: Profiting Off Pleasure

Episode 36: Profiting Off Pleasure

Justina and Kenji welcome back on to the show, Torrey Lisa AKA The Polyamorous Cougar, AKA #WhorreyTorrey.  Torrey regales us with stories from her solo, month-long trip through Europe, where her philosophy on how to live her life was reaffirmed.  How her living her best life has continued to shower her with amazing opportunities and experiences.  Listen to provocateur extraordinaire Whorrey Torrey Lisa, and either be inspired or offended; either way, your reaction is your own. 

Jun 22, 202101:26:35
Episode 35: In a Mirror, Brightly

Episode 35: In a Mirror, Brightly

Justina and Kenji leave the -Ish Tank and make their way to Las Vegas, where they meet their mirror versions of themselves, Jen and Gabe.  These two have their hands in many lifestyle businesses, including running a house for private lifestyle parties.  Jen and Gabe share stories about how they met their partners and how they became a happy family. And how, while the four of them were in the same social circles, they managed to miss each other until now.  They also discuss the differences between the Colorado Lifestyle Scene and the Las Vegas Lifestyle scene.  That and more in this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast.  

Jun 16, 202101:06:06
Episode 34: Keeping Up With The Boys
Jun 14, 202159:42
Episode 33: Sometimes It's Not All Sunshine

Episode 33: Sometimes It's Not All Sunshine

Justina and Kenji bring welcome to the show, Sherrie Murray LMT, a Licensed Massage Therapist, Ashiatsu Practitioner, and lover of Men's Prostate.  Sherrie talks about her early years, growing up in a dysfunctional household, where her own mother slept in Sherrie's bedroom with her.  To when Sherrie and her ex-husband were recruited to perform on Playboy TV.  She explains her unique fetish of urethral sounding to Kenji's detriment. That and more on this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast.  

Jun 09, 202156:56
Episode 32: The Queen in Cuckquean

Episode 32: The Queen in Cuckquean

On this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Rich and Lea onto the show.  Lea and Rich tell their tale from their southern upbringings in Alabama, to living in a nudist colony near Denver, to finding out that Lea is actually a "cuckquean", but didn't know it, yet.  

Jun 07, 202153:22
Episode 31: Monogam-ish 101 - Etiquette and Protocol

Episode 31: Monogam-ish 101 - Etiquette and Protocol

This has been an episode we meant to do much earlier, and now we have finally got around to making it. In this episode we talk about Etiquette in the lifestyle, the Do's and Don't's of the lifestyle, and how following these simple steps can make your entry into the lifestyle that much easier.
Jun 02, 202139:27
Episode 30: Queer Vibes

Episode 30: Queer Vibes

On this enthralling episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. Justina and Kenji welcome Ace and Sweeney Gray onto the show. Bringing so much needed Exxxtra energy into the "-Ish Tank" with their tantalizing stories about exploring their sexuality as young men, finding what their preferences are, and pontificating on what being "Queer" actually means. If you want to see more of Sweeney Gray, you can check out his YouTube, his Instagram, or his Twitter.
May 31, 202101:05:42
Episode 29: Everything is Negotiable
May 26, 202155:41
Episode 28: Because of Love

Episode 28: Because of Love

Justina and Kenji welcome back Brianna, and her new fiancée Amber.  We find out what they have been doing since her last time being on the show, and they discuss their adventures and obstacles as transwomen in the lesbian community. 

May 24, 202101:06:49
Episode 27: Monogam-ish 101

Episode 27: Monogam-ish 101

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast.  Kenji and Justina bring out Producer Drew, the man behind the camera onto the show to talk about where the show has been, where the show is at now, and what our plans for the future entail.  We also go over numerous terms and phrases that people use inside the lifestyle.  Consider this your non-monogamy cheatsheet.  

May 18, 202101:38:44
Episode 26: If You Make A Girl Laugh

Episode 26: If You Make A Girl Laugh

Justina and Kenji return in this enlightening episode of Monogam-ish Podcast. We speak to Anna and Skylar about how they work as a couple in the lifestyle.  Anna's desire for women lead Skylar to discover a Lifestyle Resort in Southern California, which kicked off their adventure into the lifestyle.  

May 11, 202101:04:40
Episode 25: Sin & Hypocrisy

Episode 25: Sin & Hypocrisy

Justina and Keji talk to Kenneth, Erin, and Tom about how they all got into the lifestyle and became throuple.  From Erin and Kenneth's beginnings as a swinging couple, to how Erin and Tom bonded through a tumultuous experience.  Kenneth shares his views on how he rationalized being in the lifestyle of a Christian man.  

May 04, 202101:11:04
Episode 24: More Swinger-y than BDSM-y

Episode 24: More Swinger-y than BDSM-y

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Kathy Sloan AKA Kiki Stone, The Property Dominator, to talk about how the BDSM and the Swinger communities are subtlety different. The unforeseen pitfalls of selling a house with a dungeon in the basement. And how it's far too common that people are afraid to express their desires to their partners. That and much more!
Oct 26, 202001:05:45
Episode 23: A Different Kind of Fire

Episode 23: A Different Kind of Fire

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji welcome Sante and Vera onto the show as they talk about their on-and-off relationship finally blossomed into an engagement, and Sante talks about his new Lifestyle App,  PlayLove, a truly lifestyle-friendly application to talk to other members in the lifestyle around the world.

Oct 19, 202001:01:46
Episode 22: Rules of Enlightenment

Episode 22: Rules of Enlightenment

In this episode of Monogam-ish Podcast, Justina and Kenji are jointed by Daniel, a single male in the lifestyle, as he discusses his philosophy and rules for navigating the tumultuous seas of lifestyle.  Listen as he breaks down his rules to find success and peace of mind.  

Oct 12, 202001:02:04
Episode 21: The Guaranteed Bullet Man

Episode 21: The Guaranteed Bullet Man

On this triumphant episode of Monogam-ish Podcast.  Our hosts, Justina and Kenji welcome Dave and Ruth onto the show to talk about their journey into ethical non-monogamy, from their fateful voyage on a swingers cruise to starring in adult films.  Dave and Ruth prove that, even after two decades of marriage, you can still find ways to surprise each other. 

Oct 05, 202001:04:51
Episode 20: A Pleasant Surprise

Episode 20: A Pleasant Surprise

Kenji and Mike speak alone, without Jen and Justina and they talk about their personal experiences in the lifestyle.   Mike tells his journey as a single man as a swinger before meeting Jen. Kenji talks about his observations in the lifestyle. 

Jul 01, 202024:55
Episode 19: Free Like a Unicorn

Episode 19: Free Like a Unicorn

On this episode of Monogamish Podcast.  Jen and Justina speak to the super sexy, Liz on living the life of a highly desired unicorn.  Liz also talks about her upbringing from a country girl dodging tornados at her family farm, to unraveling the misconceptions people have about relationships.  This Episode was previously a Patreon Exclusive.  

Jun 24, 202045:11
Episode 18: Will There Be Boobs?

Episode 18: Will There Be Boobs?

In his episode of Monogam-ish. Jen and Justina converse with Roger and Jessica about their success and failures while navigating the swinging lifestyle. From their trepidatious beginnings to keeping track of limited and discontinued stylish footwear.
Jun 17, 202049:46