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Mental Dialogue

By Montoya Smith

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Mental DialogueJun 23, 2019

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Do We Need DEI Initiatives To Get More Blacks And Women Pilots?

Do We Need DEI Initiatives To Get More Blacks And Women Pilots?

UNITED AIRLINE'S CEO SCOTT KIRBY recently stated he plans to train 5000 new pilots by 2030 and he wants 50% of them to be women and people of color (POC). ELON MUSKCANDACE OWENS, and others publicly disagreed with KIRBY'S initiative by suggesting it might allow unqualified pilots into the cockpit. Special guests commercial airline pilot BRANDT HOUSE and DEI consultant LATRICE ROSS join the show to discuss if they think this DIVERSITY, EQUITY, and INCLUSION (DEI) initiative by KIRBY will be effective in getting more minorities and women to become commercial pilots or will the "UNQUALIFIED" stigma hurt their advancement in the industry. MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Mar 24, 202402:00:56
Is The System Broken, Or Working By Design?

Is The System Broken, Or Working By Design?

When it comes to SYSTEMIC issues such as RACISMGUN CONTROLGENDER EQUALITY or LGBTQ rights, some people suggest our systems are broken, whereas others argue the SYSTEM is working just as designed. Special guest ANTI-OPPRESSION educator DR. SUNDIATA drops by to discuss a different way to view these issues through the lens of SYSTEMS THINKING. Is SYSTEMS THINKING a viable solution for these issues that seem to stalemate our society, or is it another idealistic approach that misses the mark?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Mar 18, 202402:01:19
Infidelity: Stay, Leave, Or Depends?

Infidelity: Stay, Leave, Or Depends?

In Western society, early MONOGAMY laws only applied to women, until the women's movement forced it to apply to men.  In those times men were expected to cheat and women would often stay.  However, today one psychologist suggests that women CHEAT more than men. Is CHEATING a deal breaker for you and if so why? Are there circumstances in which you would forgive your spouse?  What if there are children, and does their age factor into your decision?  Some people forgive repeat CHEATERS, why and what does that say about that person?  Can you cheat if you're single? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Mar 11, 202401:59:46
MD ThrowBlack: Is Child Support Designed to Help Children or Destroy Fathers? (2016)

MD ThrowBlack: Is Child Support Designed to Help Children or Destroy Fathers? (2016)

When it comes to CHILD SERVICES, some men prefer to take care of their children without government involvement, while others won't pay CHILD SUPPORT, or be involved without government enforcement.  Did Child Services create the "WEEKEND DAD?"  Should single fathers seek child support on an absentee mother?   After a DIVORCE is ALIMONY and CHILD SUPPORT fair?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. "ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK"

Mar 07, 202401:58:39
Why No One Ever Tells You This About Being In Business?

Why No One Ever Tells You This About Being In Business?

Special guests, business coaches LANEE JAVET (monetization) and KIMBERLY FOWLER (taxes) drop by to discuss the aspects of BUSINESS people tend to leave out when discussing ENTREPRENEURSHIP.  While business and entrepreneurship can be rewarding for those who endure and succeed, there is still a lot of grief and loss associated with launching a business. Both coaches discuss the level of anguish that comes with business, from their very own experiences, and how they coach and manage their clients through the process of becoming successful business owners. Beyond business acumen, what other issues often derail entrepreneurs on their path to becoming business owners? How do they know when a client is mentally prepared to succeed in business?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Mar 02, 202402:01:05
Is It Unrealistic To Fix Childhood Trauma, While Dating?

Is It Unrealistic To Fix Childhood Trauma, While Dating?

Special guest, PSYCHOTHERAPIST MONIQUE KNIGHT, and founder of the Secret Sauce Relationship Boot Camp drops by to discuss dealing with CHILDHOOD TRAUMAS, that specifically affect how we show up in our RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGES. How do we discover and deal with the childhood traumas that hamper our relationships?  Should we seek THERAPY before pursuing serious relationships or MARRIAGE?  How do we determine if the CHILDHOOD TRAUMA our mate displays is too much to stay or worth fighting through? MENTAL DIALOGUE is asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Feb 26, 202402:00:05
Are Men Still Men?

Are Men Still Men?

Special guests CHRIS JAMES, mental health advocate, and ROYCE RICHARDSON (finance and wealth management) discuss the status of today's MEN and how they size up to men of the past. Why were so many men bothered by USHER groping ALECIA KEYS during their SUPER BOWL performance? Why are SUICIDE RATES so high and increasing for BLACK MEN?  Should men have more SAFE SPACES?  Is there a concerted effort in the media to make men more EFFEMINATE?  What is the role of a man today inside of his family? MENTAL DIALOGUE is asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Feb 17, 202402:00:58
My Biggest Investment Mistakes: What Did I Learn From Them?

My Biggest Investment Mistakes: What Did I Learn From Them?

Special guests Chief Investment Officer MICHAEL SUTTLAR II at SC Capital, and serial entrepreneur WILLIAM AGNEW drop by to discuss their biggest STOCK MARKET, REAL ESTATE, or BUSINESS INVESTMENT mistakes, and what they learned. What led to their big INVESTMENT mistake?  Did they research enough? Is it truly possible to keep your emotions out of INVESTMENT decisions? Are big INVESTMENT mistakes part of the process of becoming an INTELLIGENT INVESTOR?   What type of investments do they prefer, and why? CALL-IN 646.787.1691 and share some of your INVESTMENT MISTAKES in hopes that others can learn from your mistakes as well. MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Feb 11, 202402:00:58
Black History: Who Are Our Unsung Heroes?

Black History: Who Are Our Unsung Heroes?

We have an exciting show featuring BLACK HISTORY TRIVIA as special guest Urban Intellectuals founder FREDDIE TAYLOR and special guest co-host BLACK HISTORY children's book author AKUA AGUSI-ELEBUIBON drop by to discuss unsung heroes of BLACK HISTORY. Is learning BLACK HISTORY still necessary in 2024? Who are the BLACK HISTORICAL figures they won't teach you about in the public education system, and why? Should parents leave it up to the school system to teach BLACK HISTORY?  Where can parents find resources to supplement their child's education? Also for this show PLEASE CALL IN and share your favorite historical figures, especially those within your own family or local to your area. MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Feb 04, 202402:05:32
What Does It Mean To Be Black?

What Does It Mean To Be Black?

Special guests, anti-oppression educator DR. SUNDIATA SOON-JAHTA, and motivational speaker JOHN COLTRANE drop by to discuss what it means to identify under the RACIAL CONSTRUCT of BLACKNESS. MR. COLTRANE grew up BI-RACIAL and struggled with his RACIAL IDENTITY as a youth. Are BI-RACIAL children still expected to choose a race? Today is BLACKNESS more identified by culture than race?  Historically when did the Government implement the ONE-DROP rule and when did it no longer apply? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jan 28, 202402:00:26
Have We Taken God Out Of Marriage?

Have We Taken God Out Of Marriage?

Special guests, Enduring Love Ministries' ROOSEVELT and RENITA QUICK drop by to discuss whether society still recognizes MARRIAGE as a covenant under GOD. For the last two decades, according to the U.S. Census, half of all MARRIAGES ended in DIVORCE and in 2nd MARRIAGES the DIVORCE RATES were even higher. Did BIBLICAL principles play a big role in keeping marriages strong in the past? Or did those same principles specifically keep women in ABUSIVE MARRIAGES? Does GOD approve of churches that recognize SAME-SEX MARRIAGES?  Are the BIBLICAL principles for MARRIAGE simply misunderstood in today's society?  MENTAL DIALOGUE is asking the questions America's afraid to ask in the mainstream media. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jan 21, 202402:00:56
Sexless Marriage: WTF?

Sexless Marriage: WTF?

Special guest co-host ANGELA CONNER aka The Mistress of Sexuality drops by to discuss how MARRIAGES can become SEXLESS and what can be done about them, especially since 74% of SEXLESS MARRIAGES typically end in DIVORCE. Some stats show up to 50% of women and up to 30% of men lose their SEX DRIVE in these SEXLESS MARRIAGES. We ask our special guest what tools MARRIED can couples rely on to avoid this scenario.  Currently, SEX seems to no longer be sacred, could this be playing a role in the growing number of SEXLESS MARRIAGES?  Beyond health problems, at what point should couples seek professional help? MENTAL DIALOGUE is asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jan 17, 202402:00:05
Did You Hear The Best Of Mental Dialogue 2023

Did You Hear The Best Of Mental Dialogue 2023


THE BEST OF MENTAL DIALOGUE 2023 as BLACK SOCRATES and co-host HILARY WINFIELD invite special guest ATTORNEY EDWARD C. HOPKINS to discuss cuts from the top shows of 2023. CALL-IN 646.787.1691 and #GIVEUSYOUR3CENTS as we listen to cuts from some of our most listened-to shows, including 1. RE-EDUCATION OF THE NEGRO: Necessary Conversations on RACE, SEX, and CULTURE. 2 Do Men Want To Be HUSBANDS? 3. MENTAL HEALTH: Can I Unplug To Find Myself? 4. Who Taught You How To Be Broke? 5. Good Relationship, BAD SEX, How Can We Fix It? 6. Should We Teach BLACK YOUTH It Is OK To Be ARRESTED? 7. TRUE LOVE: How Real Is It? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jan 08, 202402:03:45
Open Call!!! What Do You Want To Discuss? #GIVEUSYOUR3CENTS

Open Call!!! What Do You Want To Discuss? #GIVEUSYOUR3CENTS

This SPECIAL EDITION show is an OPEN CALL for the INTELLECTUAL OUTKASTS (LISTENERS) to call in and dialogue about issues on RACE, SEX, AND CULTURE, whether it's THE COLOR PURPLE, TARAJI P. HENSON AND EQUAL PAY, SEXUAL ASSAULT ALLEGATIONS, PULPIT SCRUTINY, ETC.). This show belongs to you. MENTAL DIALOGUE is asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Dec 31, 202301:54:45
Do Men Love Promiscuity/Hoes?

Do Men Love Promiscuity/Hoes?

There is an old saying that says you can't turn a HOE into a HOUSEWIFE but in 2023 the new saying is HOES ARE WINNING. Special guests former SEX WORKER, LESLEY TARVENIER, and RELATIONSHIP COACH VAUN THE LOVE ALCHEMIST drop in to discuss the Truth about how men feel about PROMISCUOUS WOMEN. There was a time when women with a certain reputation would only be pursued for SEX, but has the SEXUAL REVOLUTION forced men to respect PROMISCUITY, or does it leave them no choice? Mega rap star MEGAN THE STALLION recently announced she is no longer for the streets; will this matter to men? Also, why do some men step outside of their MARRIAGES with SEX WORKERS, because they don’t want their wives too raunchy? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Dec 18, 202301:55:30
Assimilation: Is It All Bad?

Assimilation: Is It All Bad?

A deep dive into the effects of AFRICAN AMERICANS and other minorities adapting to American society via assimilating into the majority culture. Is it possible to maintain your BLACKNESS (culture) when you assimilate or is necessary to CODE SWITCH to maintain your BLACK CARD? Some other races and cultures encourage full assimilation into American culture, why is this mostly frowned upon in BLACK CULTURE?  Can assimilation be used as a strategy (i.e. "The Spook Who Sat By The Door")? What about self-identifying as AFRICAN and rejecting American culture? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Dec 11, 202302:00:34
Today's Youth: Disrespectful Or Misguided?

Today's Youth: Disrespectful Or Misguided?

After rapper TI's altercation with his son KING on IG Live we are discussing are today's youth more unruly or more misguided in the information age. We ask special guests, cognitive behavioral therapist, Marilyn Oduenyi, and retired teacher, Chinwe Obijiofor is it more difficult for parents to demand respect from their children today?  Are parents failing to pass along enough structure and guidance to their children?  Is society afraid of today's youth, or have we simply failed them?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Dec 03, 202302:01:09
When Did You First Fall In Love With Hip Hop (50 Years)?

When Did You First Fall In Love With Hip Hop (50 Years)?

As we celebrate 50 years of HIP-HOP, our special guest MINISTER SERVER founder of Hip Hop Bridge Builders and spiritual advisor at the Temple of Hip Hop not only knows the origin of HIP-HOP CULTURE but has made it his life mission to live by the motto coined by KRS-ONE himself "Hip Hop is not something you do, Hip Hop is something you live." Call in (646.787.1691) and tell us the moment you fell in Love with this thang of ours, we call HIP-HOP.  Take a trip down memory lane as we discuss pivotal moments in HIP-HOP history and ask where THE CULTURE is headed over the next 50 years. MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Nov 27, 202302:01:27
Nia Long And Jeezy: What Did We Learn?

Nia Long And Jeezy: What Did We Learn?

For this show we break down the NIA LONG and JEEZY interview in only the way MENTAL DIALOGUE can. Special guest, HILARY WINFIELD, drops by to discuss her unique insights on their interview and some takeaways not currently being discussed on social media. What childhood experiences impeded NIA and JEEZY's desire to have healthy relationships? Do real NIGGAS cheat or not? Is their interview a great or bad example of BLACK MEN and WOMEN sticking together? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Nov 20, 202302:00:59
Does Black Culture Raise Black Boys To Be Real Niggaz Or Real Men?

Does Black Culture Raise Black Boys To Be Real Niggaz Or Real Men?

Special guest VAUN the Love Alchemist drops by as we explore the transition of BLACK MALES into manhood. Throughout American Media, BLACK MALE MASCULINITY is depicted as thugs, pimps, and cheaters. Are BLACK MALES encouraged to live out extended adolescence in American Society? This week in an interview with NIA LONG, the rapper YOUNG JEEZY said REAL NIGGAZ don't cheat, is that true, and if so is this a step in the right direction? Currently, two-thirds of BLACK MALES are not married compared to 50% of other races of men in American culture, what does it mean for the BLACK COMMUNITY going forward? Are too many boys left to raise themselves? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Nov 12, 202302:00:44
Boss Up: Can Everyone Become Entrepreneurs?

Boss Up: Can Everyone Become Entrepreneurs?

In an era where everyone claims to be a boss, we ask Orange Strategy founder and BUSINESS CONSULTANTTERRY SIMMONS his unique perspective on ENTREPRENEURSHIP and the path to actually becoming a BOSS. In his time as a consultant and BUSINESS STRATEGIST are there specific traits he finds common among successful ENTREPRENEURS? Should BLACK PEOPLE take advantage of CAPITALISM to groom more ENTREPRENEURS? Why should you work just to finance someone else's dream?  What about BUSINESS COACHES, are they worth it? What is the best way to transition or get financing for your ENTREPRENEURIAL dream? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Nov 06, 202302:01:12
Why Should I Get Married? Pt. 2

Why Should I Get Married? Pt. 2

RELATIONSHIP COACHDERRICK CLARK, author of The 30 Love Laws along with casts from the upcoming play Why Should I Get Married? drop by to discuss why we should get MARRIED. We revisit this show from two years ago as we once again explore the INSTITUTION of MARRIAGE and why it still matters today. How do you determine if your mate is MARRIAGE-MINDED? Does the place for the 1st date matter if you are pursuing someone for MARRIAGE? Is MARRIAGE two people coming together as one, or should two people experience a personal journey within the union?  What does the future of our society look like if alternative family structures are prioritized over the union of MARRIAGE? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Oct 30, 202302:02:28
Suicidal To High Achiever: Can A Morning Routine Save Your Life?

Suicidal To High Achiever: Can A Morning Routine Save Your Life?

Have you ever had thoughts of SUICIDE? If so tune into this show featuring psychotherapist DR. CURTIS JASPER and special guest MIKE LAWSON as they discuss the depths of SUICIDAL IDEATIONS and how to develop a MORNING ROUTINE that can, not only, pull you out of SUICIDAL THOUGHTS but thrust you into HIGH ACHIEVEMENT and progress you can be proud of. MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Oct 22, 202302:01:10
Heaux Culture: Dangerous Or Fake Outrage?

Heaux Culture: Dangerous Or Fake Outrage?

BLACK SOCRATES and guest co-host, AKUA AGUSI-ELEBUIBON challenges SUPREME RA and DASIA ROBINSON, hosts of the Hip Hop School: Past And Present podcast to a debate on Heaux Culture in hip hop and Black society in general.  Are female artists like SEXXY REDD and CARDI B worse for BLACK CULTURE today, or are they simply following in the footsteps of LIL KIM?  Even hip-hop fans who regularly support misogynistic GANGSTER RAPPERS, seem to be outraged by SEXXY REDD's lyrics. As older hip-hop fans are we hating on the youth, or should we allow these new artists to express themselves and make their money?  Should parents be more responsible despite what some hip-hop artists may do? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Oct 16, 202302:01:24
Why Am I Attracted To Trauma Relationships?

Why Am I Attracted To Trauma Relationships?

Special guest co-host EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE coach, ALEASA WORD, and special guest EMOTIONAL WELLNESS coach FILA MCMILLAN-ANTWINE drop by to discuss our attraction to trauma relationships. Do you ever wonder why you have a tendency to attract people with TRAUMA in your INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS? Why do you attach yourself despite the RED FLAGS?  Are you too EMPATHETIC? Since we often come with our own TRAUMA in relationships how do we distinguish when to avoid or let go versus working through the trauma with someone. MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK 

Oct 08, 202301:59:51
Can You Answer My Questions About Investing?

Can You Answer My Questions About Investing?

In the U.S. 61% of Americans either indirectly or directly own STOCKS and 90% of American millionaires invest in REAL ESTATE. Our special guests Chief Investment Officer MICHAEL SUTTLAR II at SC Capital and Senior Lending Consultant JOHN C. MCGHEE II at Vi Capital Lending drop by to answer questions about getting into investing in either the MARKETS (Stock or Foreign Exchange) or REAL ESTATE. We ask our experts what FINANCIAL INDICATORS they look for in sound INVESTORS. Personally, what was their biggest investment mistake and what did they learn from it? What is a REIT or OPTION TRADING? What is the difference between a REALIZED GAIN vs a RECOGNIZED GAINMENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask**ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK 

Sep 30, 202302:01:51
Do Men Still Want To Be Husbands?

Do Men Still Want To Be Husbands?

Rap Star JEEZY files for DIVORCE from his wife, and rappers PAPOOSE and wife REMY MA are caught up in a cheating scandal that has some men skeptical about whether or not MARRIAGE is for them. Historically men have controlled access to MARRIAGE, but in modern times it seems as if fewer BLACK MEN want to MARRY.  Are BLACK MEN less concerned with legacy than other races?  Are BLACK BOYS still being raised to be MARRIAGE-MINDED?  If more BLACK MEN choose not to MARRY, what does this mean for future generations of BLACK CHILDREN?  For BLACK MEN who want to MARRY, what are their biggest concerns before entering a MARRIAGE in modern times?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK 

Sep 24, 202302:00:12
Mental Health: Can I Unplug To Find Myself?

Mental Health: Can I Unplug To Find Myself?

In the age of SOCIAL MEDIA, the latest CELEBRITY GOSSIP, POLITICAL, or SOCIAL ISSUES (Trump/Biden, economy, police brutality, LGTQB, etc.) are available online 24/7. We ask our special guests psychologist DR. GERALD HASSELL, and author KEBA RICHARDSON The Journey of UN-BECOMING how to properly unplug to find our true and authentic selves to live a more fulfilling life. Is taking a break from social media enough?  How can we be more intentional when we take a break?  What about self-discovery trips to beautiful places in nature or out of the country?  What does SELF DISCOVERY truly look like?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Sep 16, 202302:03:60
Race Mixing: Why Do We Date/Marry Outside Of Race?

Race Mixing: Why Do We Date/Marry Outside Of Race?

In 1967 The Supreme Court unanimously struck down laws banning marriage between individuals of different races, 106 years after Maryland became the 1st state to enact MISCEGENATION laws banning INTERRACIAL MARRIAGES. However, despite the legal right to marry outside of one's race that alone has not changed the sentiments of many who still think it is wrong to do so, and some even argue it is detrimental from a COLLECTIVE RACE standpoint. For this show, we have a guest who married outside his race, another who dated outside her race most of her life, and a guest against INTERRACIAL DATING due to his PAN-AFRICAN ideology. Tune in as MENTAL DIALOGUE asks the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Sep 09, 202302:03:03
What Can We Do To Support Single Mothers?

What Can We Do To Support Single Mothers?

Special guest MENTAL HEALTH counselor SHANAE BENITO drops by to discuss how we can support SINGLE MOTHER from a psychological and cultural standpoint in the BLACK COMMUNITY. Are there psychological issues SINGLE MOTHERS contend with more than MARRIED WOMEN? How do they psychologically deal with an ABSENT FATHER? Should SINGLE MOTHERS aim to find a good man to help raise their children and how is that process different for them versus women without children? What about the father who wants to be involved, but the mother is still hurt by the breakup, how can they better process their pain? Are there affordable ways for some SINGLE MOTHERS to get the MENTAL HEALTH therapy they need? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Sep 04, 202301:59:48
Is Homeschooling Better For Black Children?

Is Homeschooling Better For Black Children?

Special guests LEO SMITH, CEO at Engaged Futures, and BROTHER ANHK of the Pseudo Killas join us to discuss why AFRICAN AMERICAN parents are the leading group deciding to HOMESCHOOL their children since the pandemic. Are BLACK PARENTS turning to HOMESCHOOLING with concerns about the WHITEWASHING of history in public schools or the indoctrination into WOKENESS/GENDER IDENTITY? Are BLACK STUDENTS still being mislabeled as troublemakers or into special education at high rates? What are the risks associated with HOMESCHOOLING? If there are great public/private schools in your area is HOMESCHOOLING a better or riskier option?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Aug 27, 202302:02:53
Should Porn Be Introduced Into A Marriage/Relationship?

Should Porn Be Introduced Into A Marriage/Relationship?


Special guests, psychotherapist DR. KATRINA PITTMAN and ANGELA CONNER aka the Mistress of Sexuality drop by to discuss introducing PORNOGRAPHY into MARRIAGES/RELATIONSHIPS. Is PORNOGRAPHY a fun way to spice up a couple's sex life? What if one spouse Loves PORN, but the other doesn't? Is the introduction of porn a potential warning sign for other problems? What about filming your own porn? Can it lead to an addiction? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK
Aug 22, 202301:59:25
MD Throwblack (2017) : Child Sexual Abuse, Are We Failing Our Children?

MD Throwblack (2017) : Child Sexual Abuse, Are We Failing Our Children?

If you are SEXUALLY ABUSED as a CHILD, or RAPED (statutory included) as a TEENAGER what should you do about it?  This is a question too many children, even in the AFRICAN-AMERICAN community, face with no answer.  Does our society fail our children who experience sexual abuse on any level, and what if the perpetrator is a public figure, ala R. KELLY or EDDIE LONG? Our special guests for one of our MOST IMPORTANT SHOWS EVER include psychotherapist, DR. KATRINA H. PITTMAN, LPC, Fear Coach (life coach), COACH DEMECOS, and empowerment speaker, TALISIA D. ROWELL (victim of childhood sexual abuse).  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask.  "ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK"

Aug 14, 202301:59:59
True Love: How Real Is It?

True Love: How Real Is It?

Special guests, cognitive behavioral therapist, MARILYN ODUENYI, author of The 30 Love LawsDERRICK CLARK aka SINSEAR, and creator of the Why Should I Get Married series LAWANDA JORDAN discuss TRUE LOVE and what it really is. Do we underestimate or over-romanticize LOVE and its role in our RELATIONSHIPS?  Is it harder to keep your commitments without LOVE or do we misunderstand how TRUE LOVE and commitment work?  If we better understood LOVE could we create realistic expectations that improve relationships and MARRIAGES today? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Aug 06, 202302:00:60
African-Americans Were Once Bred Like Animals, What Does That Mean Today?

African-Americans Were Once Bred Like Animals, What Does That Mean Today?

Currently, in the news, there are discussions about CRITICAL RACE THEORY and what should or should not be included in AMERICAN HISTORY texts. BROTHER ANHK  and DR. FREE drop by to discuss a topic rarely approached in the AMERICAN SCHOOL system or in private discussions: the BREEDING OF BLACK PEOPLE in AMERICAN HISTORY. How prevalent was it, what toll did it take on ENSLAVED BLACK PEOPLE at that time, and does it affect AFRICAN AMERICANS at all today?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK.

Jul 29, 202302:02:06
My Husband/Boyfriend Is Struggling With Mental Health, What Should I Do?

My Husband/Boyfriend Is Struggling With Mental Health, What Should I Do?

Often when BLACK MEN suffer from MENTAL HEALTH issues they become distant and often refuse to speak about their issues, even with their significant other. Special guests, psychotherapist, DR. GERALD HASSELL, and mental health advocate CHRIS JAMES, drop by to discuss the best approaches for BLACK WOMEN to assist their men on their MENTAL HEALTH journey. What if he has some MENTAL HEALTH concerns but refuses to get help? Is his refusal to discuss his issues, related to their relationship dynamics or something else?  If she does convince him to get therapy, what are the best ways to approach seeing a therapist for the 1st time and what are realistic expectations afterward? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jul 26, 202302:00:08
THOUGHTFUL RANT Ep. 022 Gathering Spot Fires CFO and Black Co-Founder

THOUGHTFUL RANT Ep. 022 Gathering Spot Fires CFO and Black Co-Founder

A 45-Minute rant between BLACK SOCRATES & ELREDGE WASHINGTON, host of JustEldredge Podcast and member of The Gathering Spot discussing the recent firing of TK Peterson, now the former CFO, andBLACK CO-FOUNDER of The Gathering Spot and allegedly replacing him with a WHITE PERSON as the new CFO. 

Jul 17, 202352:42
Men With High Body Counts, Does It Matter?

Men With High Body Counts, Does It Matter?

Special guest mental health therapist DR. ANTHONY GRADY and special guest co-host Mistress of Sexuality, ANGELA CONNER drop by to discuss MEN'S BODY COUNT and whether it matters. Society has long encouraged young boys and men to sow their wild oats, before settling down for marriage, but can a man have too many SEXUAL PARTNERS?  If a man avoids STDs and UNWANTED PREGNANCIES should his BODY COUNT matter? Do a lot of SEXUAL PARTNERS make it more difficult for a man to settle down with one woman? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the question America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jul 17, 202301:57:49
Do A Lot Of Men Pass Up On Good Women?

Do A Lot Of Men Pass Up On Good Women?

Special guest DR. LANEE JAVET and guest co-host attorney ASHLEY JOHNSON-ALFORD drop by to discuss if men regularly pass up on good women. BLACK MEN are often seen online complaining about the type of men BLACK WOMEN choose to mate with, but does the dynamic play out similarly amongst men?  KEKE PALMER'S baby father caused a stir when he complain about her attire via TWITTER during the USHER concert. Did he fail to understand KEKE's nature, or is he trying to control and change her into something she is not?  Do today's men live out an extended adolescence by chasing a certain type of woman, but attempt to marry another type?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jul 08, 202301:59:46
Is Your Cutoff Game Too Strong?

Is Your Cutoff Game Too Strong?

Special guests, psychologist DR. CURTIS JASPER, and emotional intelligence instructor ALEASA WORD drop by to discuss why so many people are triggered to CUTOFF friends, and/or relationships relatively quickly but deem it as a form of SELF-CARE.  Are some people choosing to be alone due to MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES and the inability to co-exist with others? When we make major changes in our lives to level up, how do we best determine who stays and who goes? Are there unintended consequences to constantly GHOSTING people?  Also cutting off family is never easy, but when is it necessary? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jul 01, 202302:00:17
Is Perpetual Struggle A Hustle?

Is Perpetual Struggle A Hustle?

On this show, we explore the concept of those who genuinely work on behalf of the BLACK COMMUNITY versus those who simply use RACE as a way to hustle the BLACK COMMUNITY out of money. If a BLACK person talks down on America, it will resonate within the BLACK COMMUNITY, but is this approach the best way to uplift the community?  Several leaders in the AFRICAN AMERICAN COMMUNITY, to include, LOUIS FARRAKHANAL SHARPTONDR. UMAR JOHNSON, and others, have been called "ambulance chasers" when it comes to race, but are their solutions effective or outdated?  Can the BLACK COMMUNITY find a better way to move past the struggle? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jun 25, 202301:59:50
What Would You Ask A Black Republican?

What Would You Ask A Black Republican?

Former REPUBLICAN US Senate candidate KELVIN KING and his wife, JANELLE KING, conservative panelist on Fox 5's Georgia Gang drop by to answer questions about why they are BLACK REPUBLICANS. Some Black people consider BLACK REPUBLICANS to be RACE TRAITORS, whereas many BLACK REPUBLICANS think the REPUBLICAN party is a better choice for the AFRICAN AMERICAN community. Were they ever DEMOCRATIC VOTERS?  As BLACK REPUBLICANS which PRESIDENTIAL campaign are they more excited about Senator TIM SCOTT’S or former PRESIDENT DONALD TRUMP'SMENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jun 18, 202301:59:16
Hip Hop: Self Destruction or Government Controlled?

Hip Hop: Self Destruction or Government Controlled?

Special guest, SUPREME RA, co-host of Hip Hop School: Past & Present podcast drops by to discuss the age-old debate of why mainstream HIP-HOP lyrical content seems limited to SEX, DRUGS, & VIOLENCE. Did the GOVERNMENT or RECORD-LABELS conspire to destroy the redeeming messages in early HIP-HOP or did the demand of young consumers dictate the direction of the content?  Does HIP-HOP empower or degrade BLACK WOMEN? In recent times HIP HOP LYRICS have even come into question in CRIMINAL CASES, is this an attack on FREE SPEECH, or should HIP-HOP artists be held accountable for destructive lyrics? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jun 11, 202301:59:48
Do We Still Have Black Cultural Values That Serve Us?

Do We Still Have Black Cultural Values That Serve Us?

Special BABA OSHI, Black Afrikan Perspectives Radio, joins us to discuss BLACK CULTURE. We often say FOR THE CULTURE, but do we maintain any values pertinent to AFRICAN AMERICAN culture, or has our value system in the BLACK COMMUNITY been completely hijacked?  Has STREET CULTURE or HIP-HOP culture replaced BLACK CULTURE? Historically how have our values and culture been successfully passed down? How can parents protect their children's minds to pass down these values in the information age? Can focusing on BLACK CULTURAL VALUES limit our thinking as the world becomes more global? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the question America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Jun 08, 202301:59:37
Is "Respect" Different For Men And Women?

Is "Respect" Different For Men And Women?

Are modern women more disrespectful than in the past, or do men today struggle with the idea of having to respect women? Special guest, and relationship coach, VAUN THE LOVE ALCHEMIST drops by to address the differences. Do men and women respond differently to respect and disrespect? If there are differences can understanding these nuances improve our relationships with each other? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

May 27, 202301:59:55
Are Some Collegiate NIL Deals A Step Back For Women?

Are Some Collegiate NIL Deals A Step Back For Women?

Former gymnastic Olympic Gold Medalist, DOMINIQUE DAWES, recently expressed her concern about how the NAME, IMAGE, and LIKENESS (NIL) deals for women collegiate athletes, basically require the women to BARE IT ALL. Legendary Stanford University Women's basketball coach, TARA VANDERVEER, recently stated "Some NIL deals are a step back for women." Our special guest co-host AUTUMN SONATA is a tech architect that also models, and we ask her view on NILs as it relates to women's college athletics. What should be the expectations and what might parents do to combat the exploitation of their girls? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America is afraid to ask. ALL I IS THAT YOU THINK

May 22, 202301:59:57
Should Black Women Feel Protected Around Black Men, Strangers Or Not?

Should Black Women Feel Protected Around Black Men, Strangers Or Not?

According to FBI crime data, BLACK WOMEN are assaulted and raped more than other races in America. Some BLACK WOMEN say they feel protected by BLACK MEN, whereas others feel unprotected by them, WHY the difference?  Are other RACES and CULTURES better at protecting their women, or does BLACK AMERICAN CULTURE misunderstand what protection of women should look like? Can we enforce cultural values or put in mechanisms to make BLACK WOMEN feel more protected?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK 

May 14, 202302:00:13
Uplifting Black Culture: Are We Missing Something?

Uplifting Black Culture: Are We Missing Something?

Special guests, psychotherapist DR. KATRINA PITTMAN, AND successful business owner DUANE DRAUGHON drop by to discuss why some BLACK PEOPLE focus on negativity and some even push mediocrity as the standard by ridiculing other AFRICAN AMERICANS. Also, this week EBONI K. WILLIAMS set off a firestorm with her elitist comments to IYANLA VANZANT about not dating BUS DRIVERS and how some successful Black people look down on others. WILLIAMS defended her position by citing a recent study that showed INDIAN IMMIGRANTS by far exceed other groups financially in America; she challenged The BLACK COMMUNITY and BLACK MEN specifically to learn from their example. Collectively does she have a point? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

May 08, 202302:00:48
Empowering Black Youth: Do We Really Care?

Empowering Black Youth: Do We Really Care?

During the pandemic lockdowns, Atlanta KEISHA LANCE BOTTOM initially released an ordinance to remove the "WATERBOYS" off the corners via POLICE ENFORCEMENT, until our special guest KACEY VENNINGS, co-founder of Helping Empower Youth stepped in and created an alternative to ensure those young men were not disregarded by the system. Second-hour guest DERRICK STANDIFER, founder of Life Is Like A Rubik’s Cube, has taught 1000s of Black youth how to tap into their genius via the Rubik’s Cube.  We ask each of our guests in their opinion does the overall community truly care about BLACK YOUTH. Are today's youth prone to not listening, or have we as adults simply failed to listen? Does the Black community unfairly stigmatize our youth, or can the parents fairly be blamed for the problems we see? MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Apr 30, 202301:59:37
Shame Shifting: How Do I Overcome Feelings Of Inadequacy And Shame?

Shame Shifting: How Do I Overcome Feelings Of Inadequacy And Shame?

SHAME often makes people feel deeply flawed as a human, WORTHLESS, and in many cases, UNLOVABLE. Special guest psychologist DR. CURTIS JASPER drops by to discuss GUILT versus SHAME and overcoming feeling INADEQUATE or overcoming the abuse of a SHAME-SHIFTING NARCISSIST. When does GUILT turn into SHAME? Can we heal our SHAME alone or should we seek THERAPY?  What techniques can be used to find SELF-WORTH again for those dealing with TOXIC SHAMEMENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK

Apr 24, 202302:00:07