Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl
By Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl
Join me, Hikmat'llah Oni, a spirited young adult from Nigeria, as I delve into the depths of life's musings on my podcast, 'Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl.' As a passionate young Nigerian under 30, I invite you to tune in and engage with my candid opinions and insightful thoughts on an array of topics. From culture and society to personal growth and beyond, my podcast is a journey through the lens of a Nigerian girl navigating the complexities of the world. Available on all podcast platforms.
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Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl Oct 04, 2022
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POST EID BLUES
Monday 15th April 2024
Eid was great,post Eid was gbas-gbos nonetheless, Allhamdulillah
Apr 19, 202423:06
Let Me Tell You Something
In this episode, we delve into the spiritual significance of Ramadan and the importance of nurturing our connection with Allah. We also address contemporary societal challenges and their impact your faith at community.
Apr 08, 202401:13:48
Trophy Wife Ft My Dog
Ramadan, Announcement & a Dilemma, let's go!!!
Apr 01, 202439:05
Ramadan Mubarak!
On this episode I talk about Ramadan I talk about Faith I talk about struggling and planning everything for Ramadan and I share my tips and what works for me to unlocking that “Ramadan-y” feeling. Again I apologize about the audio quality, it’s so much better going forward.
Mar 25, 202426:33
The Reunion: Conversations on Life, Growth, Books and Friendship
In this special episode of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," join us,two tired Nigerian girls, Hikmah & Farida, after about 3 long years of not being able to record together. Our friendship has weathered the storms of time and distance, and this episode is a testament to the enduring bond we share.
As we sit down together, reminiscing about the past and catching up on the present, our conversation delves deep into the essence of life, books and the journey of growth. We offer honest reflections on the twists and turns of our respective paths.
But our dialogue goes beyond mere nostalgia; it's a celebration of the transformative power of friendship. We explore the role of friendship in fostering personal development, offering support, book chat and finding joy amidst life's chaos.
Books and laughter have always been a shared passion between us, and in this episode, we dive into our latest literary discoveries. From thought-provoking novels to insightful make- your -harlequin guides, we exchange recommendations and explore the profound impact that literature has had on our lives.
Throughout the episode, our laughter echoes the familiarity of years past, while our shared wisdom reflects the growth we've undergone individually. It's a conversation filled with warmth, honesty, and the unspoken understanding that comes from years of shared experiences.
Join us for this intimate reunion as we offer a glimpse into the essence of our friendship and the beauty of life's journey. This episode is more than just a podcast recording—it's a cherished gem, a testament to the enduring power of connection and the richness of shared experiences.
Tune in to "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl" and experience the magic of friendship, growth, and the joy of reunion.
GET READY TO LAUGH
Mar 11, 202402:04:11
Book Club: The Fetish
I have decided that we are not quitters! So therefor we are back to this book which we shall be finishing by fire or by force LOL. Also we are back!
Mar 02, 202436:15
It’s The New Year, Yay!
Happy New Year guys!!! Its the new year guys, I round up the podcast for the year on this catch up episode. Some thing light for you. Do listen until the very end and I will catch up with you next year (which technically is in few minutes!) LOL
Dec 31, 202314:06
Morally Grey & Spotify Wrapped!
On this long awaited episode of Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Gyal I take you on a book trip and chat to you guys about books and what I’ve been up to in that regard. Honestly just relax, listen and laugh, I also chat to you about our Spotify Wrapped.
Dec 13, 202301:20:34
Sunk Cost Fallacy
On this episode we talk about everything really, relationships aka relationships of future past lol, mustaqeemah also enlightens us about the concept of sunk cost fallacy. Honestly this episode is just two gyals chatting free!
Nov 30, 202301:11:36
The Side Hustle
Navigating the chaos of a 9 to 5 while fueling my creative passions – join me on 'Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl' as we delve into the art of side hustling. From mastering time management to setting achievable goals, discover how to find fulfillment in juggling creativity with the demands of a day job.
Nov 13, 202331:35
Weekend Recap
Diving deep into the weekend vibes! 🎉 In this episode of 'Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl,' I spill the tea on Kaduna's bustling Buy and Sell event, Kaduna Polo Clubs tournament, and the soulful acoustic performance at Fasaha Cafe. Join me as I reflect on weekend filled with excitement and explore topics like New Year's resolutions, hobbies, and more. Tune in for a dose of insightful musings! 🎙️✨ #WeekendRecap #PodcastLife #KadunaAdventures #TheKdBulletin #MusingsOfATiredNigerianGirl
Nov 06, 202325:23
Simp with caution ⚠️ 👻🎃
In this episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl," I delve from my own perspective, personal experiences, and observations about the prevalent trend of "northern/Muslim” guys pursuing relationships with girls of other faiths and share some bitter truths about this culture 80% of the time.
Additionally, I address the negative implications of recent administrative changes for creatives in Kaduna. Discussing how these changes impact the local creative scene, and challenges faced by artists. I highlight the resilience of the creative community amidst these challenges and emphasize the importance of creating our own platforms and not waiting on the government.
Tune in to this episode to listen to the complexities of love, faith, and creativity in the diverse cultural landscape of Kaduna State.
Also Jorja Smith 🎶🎧
Additionally, I address the negative implications of recent administrative changes for creatives in Kaduna. Discussing how these changes impact the local creative scene, and challenges faced by artists. I highlight the resilience of the creative community amidst these challenges and emphasize the importance of creating our own platforms and not waiting on the government.
Tune in to this episode to listen to the complexities of love, faith, and creativity in the diverse cultural landscape of Kaduna State.
Also Jorja Smith 🎶🎧
Oct 30, 202320:19
Social Media Influence
In this episode, I dive deep into the complex world of social media influence in Nigerian society. Join me as I unravel the multifaceted layers of online activism, shedding light on the power of digital voices in driving social change. We'll also address the dark side, discussing the alarming rise of cyberbullying and its profound effects on individuals. Delving into the realm of body image issues, I explore how social media molds perceptions and self-worth. Additionally, we analyze the role of influencers, deciphering their impact on trends and opinions. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that explores the far-reaching consequences of social media influence in the vibrant tapestry of Nigerian culture.
Oct 23, 202334:23
Creative Submission. “Into the art of making”
In this episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl," I dive deep into my personal journey with creativity, unveiling my audio application for an Art and Fashion Festival submission themed "Into the Art of Making." Join me as I candidly discuss the challenges faced in a creative industry dominated by written forms of expression. I shed light on the limited opportunities available for visual artists and how the tide is slowly turning. Tune in to explore the evolving landscape of creative submissions and discover how people are now embracing diverse forms of creativity beyond poetry and prose, as we venture together into the art of making.
Oct 09, 202317:21
Embracing Boundaries
Welcome to this weeks episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl,” today, we dive deep into a topic that's close to my heart: boundaries. In this insightful episode, I'll share my personal journey of setting and respecting boundaries while drawing inspiration from valuable tips I discovered on Psych Central.
I'll take you through my own experiences, the challenges I faced, and the transformative moments that made me realize the importance of boundaries in our lives, especially in the bustling Nigerian context.
We'll explore the complexities of cultural norms and societal expectations that often test our ability to establish and maintain boundaries. I'll discuss how these factors can affect our mental and emotional well-being.
We'll delve into practical tips for respecting boundaries, ensuring that our relationships, both personal and professional, thrive in an atmosphere of mutual respect and understanding.
Expect engaging anecdotes, heartfelt revelations, and a few laughs along the way as we navigate the journey of self-discovery and growth through the lens of boundaries.
Tune in to "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl" and let's embark on this enlightening exploration together. Whether you're from Nigeria or anywhere else in the world, this episode will resonate with anyone who's ever grappled with the art of setting and respecting boundaries. Join me on this empowering journey!
I'll take you through my own experiences, the challenges I faced, and the transformative moments that made me realize the importance of boundaries in our lives, especially in the bustling Nigerian context.
We'll explore the complexities of cultural norms and societal expectations that often test our ability to establish and maintain boundaries. I'll discuss how these factors can affect our mental and emotional well-being.
We'll delve into practical tips for respecting boundaries, ensuring that our relationships, both personal and professional, thrive in an atmosphere of mutual respect and understanding.
Expect engaging anecdotes, heartfelt revelations, and a few laughs along the way as we navigate the journey of self-discovery and growth through the lens of boundaries.
Tune in to "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl" and let's embark on this enlightening exploration together. Whether you're from Nigeria or anywhere else in the world, this episode will resonate with anyone who's ever grappled with the art of setting and respecting boundaries. Join me on this empowering journey!
Sep 18, 202335:23
Story Time 🎼
In this bonus episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl," I take you on a wild ride through one of my most frustrating experiences as an online shopper. Join me as I spill the tea on my misadventures with an Instagram vendor who promised the world but failed to deliver – quite literally! Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions, from anticipation to disappointment, as I recount the absurdities of this online shopping debacle. If you've ever had your patience tested by unreliable vendors, you won't want to miss this storytime episode. So grab your headphones and join me in venting and laughing at the absurdity of it all.
Sep 14, 202320:26
Educational System in Nigeria
In this episode of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," I sit down with the incredibly talented Oni, who wears many hats as an entrepreneur, activist, avid reader, poet and student. Together, we dive deep into the heart of a matter that resonates with every Nigerian – the educational system.
Join us as we dissect the strengths and weaknesses of the Nigerian education system, drawing from our own personal experiences and insights. We explore the challenges students face, the gaps in the curriculum, and the pressing need for reform. But we don't stop there; we're also bringing you fresh ideas and solutions for improving the quality of education in our beloved country. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to spark change and inspire action.
Join us as we dissect the strengths and weaknesses of the Nigerian education system, drawing from our own personal experiences and insights. We explore the challenges students face, the gaps in the curriculum, and the pressing need for reform. But we don't stop there; we're also bringing you fresh ideas and solutions for improving the quality of education in our beloved country. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to spark change and inspire action.
Sep 11, 202339:04
Book Club(The Day of the Politician’s Milk)
The Day of the Politician’s Milk, on todays episode I read chapter 6 from Book 2 of Ben Okri’s Famished Road and in this installment we continue on, on the part of politicians and false promises
Sep 09, 202312:06
Intro to Boundaries
In this introspective episode of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl," Join me in an introductory episode to “Boundaries” exploring the importance of setting boundaries and the consequences when they are not respected.
Through my own story, I hope to shed light on the challenges we face when our boundaries are crossed and how this can affect us mentally, emotionally, and even physically.
And of course birthday shenanigans, I’m coming across fellow Virgorians this year, I honestly never realized how many we are ♍️🧁
Through my own story, I hope to shed light on the challenges we face when our boundaries are crossed and how this can affect us mentally, emotionally, and even physically.
And of course birthday shenanigans, I’m coming across fellow Virgorians this year, I honestly never realized how many we are ♍️🧁
Sep 07, 202313:18
Toxic Relationships: Signs & Addressing & Recognizing Toxic Dynamics with Fatima
Join me, and my incredible guest, Fatima, in this powerful episode of where we delve into a topic that hits close to home for many of us: Toxic Relationships. We're pulling back the curtain on those sneaky signs that often creep into our connections, the ones we might not notice at first. Together, we're unravelling the layers of toxic dynamics, discussing how they can drain our energy and self-worth.
Fatima and I share personal stories, anecdotes, and insights that shed light on the dark corners of toxic relationships. We're not just stopping at identification; we're also exploring strategies to address and untangle ourselves from these harmful patterns. Our goal is to help you recognize the red flags, empower you to take action, and provide a space where you don't have to navigate this journey alone.
Whether you're currently in a questionable relationship or you've moved past one, this episode offers relatable experiences, practical advice, and the reminder that you deserve healthy, uplifting connections. So, grab your earbuds and join us as we have an open, honest, and sometimes even humorous conversation about toxic relationships. It's time to reclaim your strength and prioritize your well-being.
Fatima and I share personal stories, anecdotes, and insights that shed light on the dark corners of toxic relationships. We're not just stopping at identification; we're also exploring strategies to address and untangle ourselves from these harmful patterns. Our goal is to help you recognize the red flags, empower you to take action, and provide a space where you don't have to navigate this journey alone.
Whether you're currently in a questionable relationship or you've moved past one, this episode offers relatable experiences, practical advice, and the reminder that you deserve healthy, uplifting connections. So, grab your earbuds and join us as we have an open, honest, and sometimes even humorous conversation about toxic relationships. It's time to reclaim your strength and prioritize your well-being.
Sep 04, 202301:05:32
Book Club 8
Diving into Dreams and Destinies: Unpacking Ben Okri’s Famished Road Book 2 In this episode, I finish Book 2,5 of Ben Okri’s Famished Road.
Sep 02, 202308:56
The Synergy Of Creativity: Powering through together
Episode 4 of "Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl" brings a captivating conversation to the forefront as I am joined by the insightful guest Ofem Ubi. Together, we delve into the dynamic world of creativity, exploring the theme of "The Power of Collaboration, Overcoming Isolation, and Finding Support."
In this episode, we reflect on our personal journeys as creative individuals, highlighting the challenges and triumphs we’ve experienced while navigating the artistic landscape. We candidly share our encounters with isolation and the struggle to find like-minded souls who understand the creative process. This episode is a testament to the power of connection, showcasing the transformative potential of collaboration and camaraderie. "The Synergy of Creativity: Powering Through Together" serves as a beacon of encouragement for all creative individuals seeking to break free from isolation, find their tribe, and amplify their artistic voices in unison.
In this episode, we reflect on our personal journeys as creative individuals, highlighting the challenges and triumphs we’ve experienced while navigating the artistic landscape. We candidly share our encounters with isolation and the struggle to find like-minded souls who understand the creative process. This episode is a testament to the power of connection, showcasing the transformative potential of collaboration and camaraderie. "The Synergy of Creativity: Powering Through Together" serves as a beacon of encouragement for all creative individuals seeking to break free from isolation, find their tribe, and amplify their artistic voices in unison.
Aug 28, 202301:18:23
Book Club 8
"Diving into Dreams and Destinies: Unpacking Ben Okri's Famished Road Book 2, Chapters 5 with the Musings Of a Tired Nigerian Girl Book Club 📚✨ #LiteraryJourney #DreamsAndDestinies #MusingsOfaTiredNigerianGirl
Aug 26, 202315:49
Breaking Barriers: Maryam Shetty
“Breaking Barriers: Maryam Shetty's Journey. Women in Nigerian Politics"
In this episode of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," we delve into the inspiring journey of Maryam Shetty, a former political ministerial candidate whose recent departure from the race has sparked important conversations about the role of women in Nigerian politics.
Join us as we explore Maryam Shetty's path to candidacy, the challenges she faced, and the reasons behind her withdrawal. How she served as a catalyst for other women’s political aspirations.
Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on how one woman's pursuit of political office ignited a flame of hope and ambition among many, marking a significant milestone in the ongoing journey towards gender equality and representation in Nigerian politics.
In this episode of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," we delve into the inspiring journey of Maryam Shetty, a former political ministerial candidate whose recent departure from the race has sparked important conversations about the role of women in Nigerian politics.
Join us as we explore Maryam Shetty's path to candidacy, the challenges she faced, and the reasons behind her withdrawal. How she served as a catalyst for other women’s political aspirations.
Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on how one woman's pursuit of political office ignited a flame of hope and ambition among many, marking a significant milestone in the ongoing journey towards gender equality and representation in Nigerian politics.
Aug 21, 202317:30
Rebirth and Resonance
🎙️ In the long-awaited return of "Musings of a Tired Nigerian Girl," join host Hikmah as she breathes new life into the podcast, unveiling a vibrant new season filled with captivating content, diverse topics, and engaging guests. 🌟
This season promises to take you on an exhilarating journey through the diverse landscapes of Nigerian culture, society, and beyond. 🇳🇬✨
Tune in, subscribe, and follow us on Instagram [motng_] to be part of this exciting journey! 📲🔊👂 #NigerianPodcast #Season4Premiere #RebirthAndResonance
This season promises to take you on an exhilarating journey through the diverse landscapes of Nigerian culture, society, and beyond. 🇳🇬✨
Tune in, subscribe, and follow us on Instagram [motng_] to be part of this exciting journey! 📲🔊👂 #NigerianPodcast #Season4Premiere #RebirthAndResonance
Aug 20, 202307:24
Book Club 07
Azaro gets lost on this episode, listen to the end to find out if he found his way home or continued his journey to the end.
Jul 23, 202333:19
My Experience As A Hijabi In Nigeria
On this episode the topic is Unveiling the Veil: My Experiences as a Hijabi in Nigeria. When I say South I mean the South Western part of Nigeria. This episode I share my experience and opinion on wearing the hijab in Nigeria.
Jul 10, 202327:44
Book Club 06
On this episode, book club continues. The lovely Habiba Shehu reads book 2. The journey of Azaro continues but this episode we get introduced into the mystery of Madame Koto’s Bar.
Jul 08, 202352:12
Appropriation vs Appreciation
On this episode I talk about the appropriation vs appreciation debate and if intention matters. I look forward to hearing from you guys!
Jun 25, 202320:31
Book Club 05
On this episode I TNG reads to you episode 13 & 14. This episode brings us to the end of Book One of Ben Okri’s Famished Road. Madam Koto has finally been introduced, I personally find her “interesting” as a character but yeah! Listen, enjoy and catch up with us on the next episode as usual!
Jun 17, 202352:36
Book Club 04
Can this boy be normal? We know the answer to that lol
On this episode Farida continues to take us through the adventures of Azaro and let's just say... It goes down the hill from here
On this episode Farida continues to take us through the adventures of Azaro and let's just say... It goes down the hill from here
Jun 10, 202326:43
Book Club 03 (House of Ghosts 2)
Still on "Famished Road" by Ben Okri. On this episode of book club Maryam reads episode 7-9. She takes us through Azaro's experience in the house of ghosts...
Jun 03, 202328:53
10 Things I've Learnt In My 20's
On this episode I share 10 things I've learnt in my 20's. Sometimes I'm shocked by how far I have come, the fact that I'm on the road to 30's is just wow for me. In my head I'm a baby gyal lol.
I hope I'm able to give some direction at least to my young-ings and if you're on this road with me, share somethings' you've learnt in your journey to adulthood with me on IG @motng_ . Until the next episode, toodles XOXO.
I hope I'm able to give some direction at least to my young-ings and if you're on this road with me, share somethings' you've learnt in your journey to adulthood with me on IG @motng_ . Until the next episode, toodles XOXO.
Jun 03, 202352:22
Some Days Really Do Be Like This.
Feeling very depressed. Started off excited ended the day void. Some days really do be like this.
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Jun 02, 202310:43
Book Club 02 (House of Ghosts 1)
On this episode, Farida takes us on a journey behind Azaro's eyes and his escape from the Island women. Frying pan to fire comes to mind lol... Enjoy!
May 27, 202319:17
Book Club 01 (The Beginning)
On this episode, we start our "Book Club" reading of Ben Okri's Famished Road. I initially wanted reading chapter 1 only but that took like 7 minutes and that was it?! So I read more. Here we have chapter 1-3. Tune in Saturday for chapter 4-7. ***Edit***. For some reason I didn't end up posting on the day I recorded but I'll tell you all about that on IG @motng_.
May 19, 202338:47
Summer Time Sadness
On this episode I chat to you guys about life and some sad quotes from books... Bad description I know, I'm tired. xoxo
Apr 27, 202345:19
29th January Pod
Happy new year! So this is an old pre-recorded episode. On this episode I give you guys a recap into my new year and how life had been going up until 29th Jan. Enjoy!
And I am doing much better now 25th April Allhamdulillah. xoxo
And I am doing much better now 25th April Allhamdulillah. xoxo
Apr 25, 202330:36
Eid!
On this episode I just talk honestly, the theme is Eid so listen, enjoy and have a beautiful Eid celebrations my love.
Apr 22, 202318:49
Ramadan!
On this episode, I chat to you guys about Ramadan, spirituality and how I keep myself on track despite not having that "connection" with the season.
Apr 17, 202320:27
New year, New season with Farida PT 2
Honestly I had fun editing as much as I had fun recording 😜. Why does it sound like Farida is tired of me 💀. Y'all this is part 2! Have fun listening 🎧
Apr 03, 202328:10
New year, New season with Farida PT 1
The long awaited season is here my lovelies, on this episode I am hosting with Farida and we basically laugh, tell stories and catch up. This segment has been split in two parts so stick around for Part 2. A gift that keeps giving 😌😉
Mar 26, 202337:32
Season Finale (Audio vlog)
Miss me? I decided to round up the season per your vote on Instagram (@motng_). It's been a while, I apologize. In this episode, I discuss yesterday's Election, casting my vote, and the overall experience.
*Nicest*
*Nicest*
Feb 26, 202330:12
Just do YOU BoO
You know how Cookie said “I gats to put me first Lucious” yeah… thats the vibe. On this episode I talk about letting go and the bigger person culture. Lets get into it!
Oct 29, 202222:04
Assurance
On this episode I talk about some Insta gossip, Naija strezz and bants in between
Oct 08, 202221:49
Audio Vlog!
On this episode I talk to you guys about how I spent Saturday as well as some good advice! *moon face* . Also… I came up with a new word… you heard it here “Audio Vlog”
Oct 04, 202227:14
29/08/22
This episode I talk a bit about growth and changes? #Birthday vibes. Note this should have come before the previous episode hence the name *DISCLAIMER*
Sep 27, 202217:30
Kaba-Vibe
Missed me? Same here! On this episode I give you guys a breakdown of Kaba Fest (Kaduna Art and Book Festival which took place from the 14th -17th of September! It was vibes on vibes
Sep 26, 202231:25
The hate you give
On this episode I talk on a bunch of random topics as usual lol. The love we fake and the hate we spread
Jun 25, 202250:09
Content Creator 101
On this episode I talk about content creating and some of the challenges content creators face in Nigeria.
Jun 10, 202234:24