Before Marriage 21

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STARTS JANUARY 24th, 2021

2020 started off with a bang, we had huge dreams, and set big goals, but nobody could have predicted the level of uncertainty we experienced last year.

2021 is here, and you are probably asking yourself "is there any point setting  any goals, if this year will just be as unpredictable as last year?" 

In this video, we share 3 things you must know before setting goals in 2021, and these 3 things will ensure you stay stable in the midst of change and uncertainty this year 

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- Discover your True Identity & Purpose  

- Discover the Freedom & Confidence you need to be your version of the self you were made to be 

- Heal from past emotion wounds & heartbreaks that keep destroying your relationships 

- Discover and express your unique gifts and talents  

- Attract & choose the right person for marriage  

- Finally take charge of how your story will be told

There are some things men think are attractive, that actually are turn offs for women, or are they? 🤔

If men find that women who wear overly tight clothes, or take bum pics are a turn off, then why do most men keep chasing those types of women? And if you want to know why men hate it when women play hard to get, we answer these questions and more in this video...

YOU ARE SINGLE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT REALLY SINGLE!!!

In 2006, i experienced the worst heartbreak, and it literally changed me, i became single again, but i wasn't really single. I was still carrying the rejection and pain from that relationship which changed my perspective on women and my ability to trust again. I still had my ex in my head, i still had the hurt and betrayal lodged in my heart, and you may be going through the same thing after experiencing multiple failed relationships that didn't lead to marriage. 

Can you imagine asking your ex's to pick your future husband/wife? How well do you think they would do?   If you are single and wondering how you can become the right person for marriage, in this interview with Kehinde Onasoga, i share 4 things every single person MUST do before they choose their life partners, so you can have a 100% chance of succeeding in marriage.  

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Has anyone of us mistakenly peed/pooped on ourselves in public? Have we lied about being sick just to get out of having sex? Have we admired someone of the opposite sex since we've been married? We answer these questions and many more as we play the interactive game "Never Have I Ever"

YouTube Video link: https://youtu.be/n8HohsupwJg

After 5 years of marriage, most couples face the regular challenges with their finances, some start getting bored with their sex life and begin experiencing a significant drop in intimacy, which leads to an increased possibility of infidelity or sometimes even irreconcilable differences that have ended some of these marriages. 

Today, OG & I are celebrating 5years of being happily married, we are literally experiencing the reward that comes from doing marriage Gods way. In this video, we share some tips on how we've been able to avoid regular  challenges that are plaguing most marriages today. 

So, if you want to know how we've been able to keep a healthy sex life after 5years, resolve conflicts and maintain our peace? This videos gives you just that 😀

You cannot effectively use what you criticize!!! 

Dating has definitely changed over the years, we've gone from sending love letters to shooting shots in the DM, and even though social media has opened the door to a lot of opportunities, there is still a lot of skepticism using it as a dating tool.  

Should Christians embrace social media as a potential way to connect with their life partners? It's definitely not without its dangers, but OG & I share some ways you can begin to use this tool the right way

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If your girlfriend has hair on her legs & arm pit, is that a red flag or deal breaker? What if he has smelly breath or body odour? or he beats his sister?  Is every Red Flag a Deal Breaker? 

What if you've lost the right relationship because of a red flag that could have been ignored or handled better? 

OG shares 5 RED FLAGS she saw in me while we were dating, and we share a tip to help you know when a Red Flag should definitely become a Deal Breaker!!!

Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/gaRrHZq5Zs8

Rapper Young Jeezy & "The REAL" Host Jeannie Mai recently got engaged, and in one of her posts on social media, she spoke about how she wanted to be submissive to her husband, and you guessed it, she got dragged by feminist sympathizers who see submission in marriage as a step backwards.  

In this video, OG & I discuss the effects modern day feminism is having on marriages today, and if the feminism movement was borne out of the desire of women wanting to be including in the decision making in the home, should men also have a say in if a baby is born or not? 🤔

After the horror of 20-10-20, where we saw peaceful protesters get shot & killed by the Military, followed by the speech that left everyone speechless, you may have felt discouraged, you may even feel like giving up on the idea of a new Nigeria, but we believe as Christians we are called to be LIGHT in this dark world. OG & I share some tips we can begin to do as Christians to deliver the change we need between now and 2023  

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With the ongoing protests going on in Nigeria to #EndSARS, OG & I share our take on it, and how the current Nigerian system negatively affects relationships. Plus, we answer 2 questions from last weeks episode!!!  

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Should a woman feel entitled to financial support from the guy she is currently in a relationship with?   

What if he has money, but doesn't want to help her out? Is that a red flag?  

Do guys lose respect for girls if they have to fund their lifestyle? 

These are some of the questions OG & I discuss in this video with some personal experiences. What are you thoughts? Have you been in a similar situation?

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After her 3month hiatus after giving birth to our second son, OG is back as we share how we discovered our passion and purpose for relationships. We also share tips on how you can discover yours

In this video i share the story of how an Uber rider disrespected my marriage while driving him to work...what he said was so disrespectful, Uber considered terminating his account with them. Listen and share you thoughts, did i over react???  

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