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My life on the line

My life on the line

By REFCOACH

My Life on the Line is a podcast about referees made by referees for anyone interested in football (soccer). Ale, Jack and Benji welcome guests from all over the world and any level of experience to share their stories, anecdotes and advice for all referees. My Life on the Line aims at being an educational podcast with a humorous twist to educate about refereeing but also humanising the figure of a referee, showing the men and women behind whistles and flags.
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E06 - My Life in Dutch With Jan Ter Harmsel

My life on the lineJul 03, 2020

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E14 - My Life As A Performance Psychologist With Daniel Dymond
Oct 27, 202001:10:48
E13 - My Life Doing It All With Christina Unkel

E13 - My Life Doing It All With Christina Unkel

In this week's episode, Ale, Jack and Benji welcome Christina Unkel, PRO and ex-FIFA referee, Attorney at law, Referee Analyst on CBS HQ, Mother and co-owner of a gym. Christina talked with them about balancing all her activities in her life, how being a referee helps her being an attorney and about her endeavour to educate the public about the Laws of The Game via her role as an analyst. 

Oct 06, 202001:09:00
E12 - My Life On The Court with Bill Mildenhall

E12 - My Life On The Court with Bill Mildenhall

Football and Basketball seem to have nothing but the round ball in common. However, in this episode, the crew welcomes Bill Mildenhall, a legend of international basketball refereeing to find out how similar the roles of the officials are in both disciplines. Bill tells us amazing stories about his experience as an official and as a referee coach and manager at tournaments such as the Olympics, World Cups and domestic leagues. Along his amazing career, Bill had the pleasure to referee the Dream Team (USA), starting the one and only Michael Jordan, at the Barcelona Olympics in 1992.

Sep 22, 202001:05:31
E11 - My Life As A Performance Coach with Tom Frost

E11 - My Life As A Performance Coach with Tom Frost

In this episode Ale, Jack and Benji have a guest they know really well: Tom Frost, their former Performance Coach. A trip down memory lane for the trio, but also some great insights from Tom, who has extensive experience in performance and strength & conditioning coaching, having worked in PNG with the local Olympic Team, a professional UFC fighter, and many referees of all levels, from grassroots officials to FIFA referees.

Sep 08, 202052:15
E10.5 - My Life In The MLS Bubble

E10.5 - My Life In The MLS Bubble

In this bonus episode Ale, Jack & Benji look at what has been happening in football all around the world and talk about what's coming next for the RefCoach community. John Westbrooks, guest on the 4th episode of the podcast, makes a special appearance from the Orlando MLS bubble to give the guys some insights of how the MLS and PRO is getting the seasons back on track.

Sep 01, 202032:48
E10 - My Life on the Line Live With Isaac Trevis

E10 - My Life on the Line Live With Isaac Trevis

A special episode of My Life On The Line: Ale, Jack & Benji recorded this live on the RefCoach Facebook Group. This time the hosts were joined by Isaac Trevis, FIFA AR from New Zealand, reminiscing from the times they spent together refereeing in Melbourne (AUS) and talking about the challenges managing travel, life and refereeing.

Aug 25, 202001:08:34
E09 - My Life Finding My Mojo With Ben Crowe

E09 - My Life Finding My Mojo With Ben Crowe

In this episode of My Life On The Line, Ale, Jack & Benji welcomed Ben Crowe from Mojo Crowe. Ben worked with Nike for over 20 years and has been helping athletes achieving great results and being the best version of themselves. He has been coaching many Australian athletes, including the Women #1 Ranked tennis player Ash Barty, the Bulgarian Grigor Dimitrov, and also coaches many CEOs across world, including some of the decision-makers at Facebook. However, Ben doesn't simply focus on helping his clients developing a performance mindset: he helps them unlocking unconditional love and self-worth, so they can accept they are and become better humans before better athletes or CEOs. Ben talked to us about how to use the power of self-acceptance and how referees can improve their performance and enjoy their games without extra pressure and unrealistic expectations.

If you are interested in finding out more about Ben's work visit his website www.mojocrowe.com, or search for Mojo Crowe on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram or LinkedIn.

Aug 11, 202001:04:24
E08 - My Life in the Commentary Box With Derek Rae

E08 - My Life in the Commentary Box With Derek Rae

What a special episode this was! Ale, Jack & Benji welcome a football legend: Derek Rae. Together with Derek the RefCoach crew approached refereeing from a different angle, the one of a commentator, only to find out of the many similarities that both roles have. Derek was an amazing guest and gave us so many interesting insights and stories from his illustrious career. 

Jul 28, 202001:12:26
E07 - My Life First Times
Jul 15, 202053:49
E06 - My Life in Dutch With Jan Ter Harmsel

E06 - My Life in Dutch With Jan Ter Harmsel

In this episode of My Life on the Line, we caught up with Jan, the man behind Dutch Referee Blog. Jan shared with us his amazing journey creating his blog and his refereeing story. Visit Jan's blog at www.dutchreferee.com or find him on social media searching Dutch Referee. He is also part of our Facebook Group RefCoach.

Jul 03, 202045:27
E05 - My Life Refereeing Abroad With Daniele Curcio

E05 - My Life Refereeing Abroad With Daniele Curcio

In this episode, we were joined by Daniel Curcio, the founder and president of Referee Abroad. Daniel took us on a journey to discover all about the amazing work Referee Abroad does to facilitate referees from all over the world join international tournaments in some amazing countries like France, Spain, Portugal, China and more. 

If you are interested in finding out more or how to join their movement, visit www.RefereeAbroad.com or visit their Facebook Page.

Jun 23, 202049:17
E04 - My Life as a Sport Scientist With John Westbrooks

E04 - My Life as a Sport Scientist With John Westbrooks

We had the pleasure and luck to welcome John Westbrooks, Sport Scientist at PRO (Professional Referees Organisation). John and we discussed how he and PRO keep their referees fit during the season and in pre-season, how they deal with flying, recovery and nutrition. We also discussed the mental aspects related to keeping your fitness up in times where life is getting in the way.

In this episode, we learned a lot about referees and training, not just from a physical perspective, but also from a mental point of view, both as a trainer or coach and as a referee.

Jun 16, 202001:00:56
E03 - My Life In a Smartwatch App with Hassan Rajwani

E03 - My Life In a Smartwatch App with Hassan Rajwani

Ale, Jack & Benji are joined by the first-ever guest on My Life on the Line: Hassan from REFSIX, the referee smartwatch app adopted in 90+ countries in 95k+ matches worldwide. Hassan provides some amazing insights into the power of technology and data, enabling referees at all levels to access pro data and improve their performances, all accessible through their smartphone.  To find out more about REFSIX, visit www.refsix.com or join us on REFCOACH and reach out to Hassan!

Jun 10, 202001:02:44
E02 - My Life Before a Game
Jun 02, 202035:19
E01 - My Life Intro

E01 - My Life Intro

Ale, Jack & Benji get together (virtually due to COVID restrictions) to introduce My Life on the Line and talk about how they met, how Refcoach started and the goals they have for the Refcoach community, the podcast and much more.
May 23, 202022:08