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It’s Hard Because We Say It Is™ with Coach Reggie

It’s Hard Because We Say It Is™ with Coach Reggie

By Reginald G. Jackson, Sr. PCC

There's a lot to be said about the inner critic. Our internal dialogue impacts our moods and our emotions, not to mention our outlook on life. Being intentional with our speech can have an incredible impact on everything we do. How we choose to interpret our circumstance is also how we choose to respond to it. Sometimes life can be hard. Other times, it's hard because we say it is. Words have power, and because of that, words matter. On each episode we explore how to make the most out of the words we use so we can get the most out of the life we live.



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It’s Hard Because We Say It Is™ with Coach ReggieJan 03, 2022

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What do we control?

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We're not always comfortable saying yes or no to the things in our life. Sometimes, what's before us can be unnerving, unsettling, or just plain scary. Procrastinating or perhaps not even attempting to take action can turn into a paralyzing situation. At some point, we need to "make it happen". In this episode, I talk about a personal experience that had an incredible impact on my life and my business. Because of the choice I made, it taught me a very valuable lesson. Because of this, I'm suggesting to do it, even if it means doing it scared.

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Be sure to listen to Mick's podcast, Tragedy To Triumph" on your favorite podcast platform. You can also connect with Mick on Facebook and LinkedIn.
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Dee Bowden - The "Secret Sauce" to Overcoming Adversity

Dee Bowden - The "Secret Sauce" to Overcoming Adversity

Dee Bowden the founder of BCS Solutions has built her small business helping other businesses perform one of their most important functions - collecting (ageing) accounts receivable. Her success was born out of a similar adversity when the company she was employed by tasked her with collecting unpaid invoices to the tune of more than 8 million dollars. She captures this three step process in "Collect the Cash: The Sale In Not Complete Unless the Money Is In the Bank". Featured in Forbes magazine, and recognized as one of VIP Global magazine's Top 40 Most Influential Women, Dee is considered an expert in her field as a cash recovery consultant. These are just a few of many accolades. During our conversation, you get the benefit of her expertise, as well as the high vibration of her energy. What comes across when speaking with her is while tough times can knock you down, they don't have to take you out! Gratitude will always prevail. 

As a highly sought after speaker and trainer, Dee is more than happy to share how gratitude is her "Secret Sauce". Her upcoming speaking engagements are at the Systems Summits October 27 & 28, and as the featured speaker at the Sister Leaders Conference Oct 29 & 30 (2021). Also be sure to follow her on Facebook and connect with her on LinkedIn.

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Patrick Chapman talks about Adversity and Resilience

Patrick Chapman talks about Adversity and Resilience

Patrick Chapman wears many hats - all of them equally well. First of all, he is the founder and owner of Inward Action Coaching where he uses his coaching, conflict management, and mindfulness expertise to help professionals design a more fulfilled and balanced work-life. He is recognized by the International Coaching Federation as a Professional Certified Coach (PCC), credentialed as a Co-Active Coach from the Co-Active Training Institute, and a Certified Conflict Management Coach from Cinergy. In addition, Patrick has practiced law in the public and private sector and member of the state bar of Georgia. Patrick's calming nature and compassion for humanity makes him especially gifted to lead his clients to a deeper understanding of themselves and the capacity to embrace a fuller life. 

Be sure to follow Patrick on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. He also welcomes you to email him at
patrickchapman@inwardactioncoaching.com

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Sia Spence - From Bermuda With Love

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Ron Godfrey - Accomplished actor and author

Ron Godfrey - Accomplished actor and author

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Jenifer Madson - Executive & Leadership Coach: Dedicated to paying it forward
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Christine Kamienski - A Top 10 Clean Cooking Chef of 2020

Christine Kamienski - A Top 10 Clean Cooking Chef of 2020

Mother,  chef, doctor, lawyer, author, musician, lover seeker. Christine Kamienski wears a lot of hats and wears them all incredibly well. While she would never consider herself a force to be reckoned with (although those who know her would say otherwise), she definitely recognizes her power. Chris is a prime example of how to meet life head on without batting an eye. Also known as Chef Chrissy of Chrissy's Kitchen, she recently decided to follow her love and passion for food, and completely recreated herself as a personal chef. A reflection of that gift can be found in the amazing recipes of Chrissy's Clean Cookbook. She's also recognized as one of the 'Top 10 Clean Cooking Chefs of 2020'. All of the above is done in the wake of being the single mother of two daughters, which she would definitely say is her greatest passion. 

To get updated cooking tips and recipes, be sure to follow Chris on Instagram and Facebook.

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Lori Ann King - inspiring you to live a life of true health, love, laughter, and freedom.
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Frank Felker - International Online Marketing Pro

Frank Felker - International Online Marketing Pro

Published author, entrepreneur, and digital marketing expert Frank Felker has taught over 25,000 entrepreneurs from 170 countries with his online business courses. With his 40+ years experience starting, running, and helping small businesses, his signature book "Unlocking The M Cube, How To Master The Six Sides of Business Success", has guided countless business owners along their journey. He shares the good AND bad of being a business owner, as well as the key to gain and maintain a winning attitude.
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Kenya Carr - Life Coach, speaker, and author of Battling the Flames
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Catherine Wood - Executive and Business Coach
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Natalie Fikes - The World's Greatest Emcee!

Natalie Fikes - The World's Greatest Emcee!

Named one of John Maxwell’s Top 100 Leaders, and “Best Speaker of Today”, Natalie Fikes is a life coach, the CEO of The Greater Purpose Society, and the creator of The Greater Purpose System™, designed to help people overcome The Cycle of Sabotage and start living life the way they want. She's also the best-selling author of "Empowered To Prosper: Discover How To Become The Woman You Were Created To Be". However, her greatest creations are her two sons who have the pleasure of being her partners on the incredible journey that is their life! Natalie has an amazing resilience, born of adversity, and firmly rooted in her faith. Be prepared to hear some serious gems. You won't be disappointed. 

If you're in need of a "money plan" for your business, it's a must for every entrepreneur to visit the visit thebreakthroughstore.com

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Sophia Casey - Helping you create the life you desire with ease and flow.

Sophia Casey - Helping you create the life you desire with ease and flow.

Sophia Casey is known as a dynamic International speaker, entrepreneur, corporate trainer, executive coach, author of the best-selling Ease & Flow Journal, and Amazon #1 best seller Fierce Vulnerability - A Colored Girl's Truths, Trials and Triumphs are merely titles and accomplishments. She is that and so much more! Most importantly, she's a wife and mother, and a child of the King. While she is a dear friend of mine, after listening to this interview, you’ll feel connected too. Her wit, candor, and insight will surely captivate you to stay with us until the end. To stay connected and up to date with Sophia’s book tour and speaking engagements, you’ll find this information and more at https://sophiacasey.net/fierce-vulnerability/ 
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What This Podcast Is All About

What This Podcast Is All About

Henry Ford said, "Whether you think you can, or you think you can't - you're right." Therefore, it's hard because we SAY it is. 

Since none of us are strangers to adversity, what's helpful is to have effective ways to work through it. That's what this podcast is all about.  

Each week my guest shares how they meet their inner critic head on. They've learned that adversity isn't meant to define you...it's meant to refine you.

I've taken just a few minutes to tell you about some of the situations I've faced in my life and how I dealt with them. I also introduce myself to let you know who I am, what this podcast is all about, and who I believe will get something out of it. I look forward to you joining us.


Mar 01, 202106:11
Podcast Trailer: It's Hard Because We Say It Is

Podcast Trailer: It's Hard Because We Say It Is

As a certified personal and professional coach, I help my clients break down their own barriers and create the life they want to live - on their own terms - at work, at home, and in their community. I'm introducing my brand new podcast where on each episode, I'll feature a guest who has had their share of difficult times, but manage to persevere in spite of adversity. We'll talk about that; and a whole lot more. 

Every single one of us faces adversity in our life. There are times when we literally talk ourselves out of doing things, simply because we've said it's too hard. However, once we decide to BE different, we DO different. 

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