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TALK IT HOW IT IS

TALK IT HOW IT IS

By Natalie and Ashley

Talk it how it is!!!
Bringing everything and anything to the table with my self Natalie and Ashley.
Real life, unfiltered conversations about day to day life and situations.

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Episode 3 - Body Image

TALK IT HOW IT IS Jul 05, 2020

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Episode 17 - When is the right time to discuss finances when getting into a relationship?
Jun 14, 202101:07:15
Episode 16 - Unplanned Children

Episode 16 - Unplanned Children

Hello and welcome back to Talk It How It Is...

In todays episode we will be discussing Unplanned Children, and if we think men and women should be accountable for the birth of an unplanned child. Should there be talks at the beginning of the relationship so both parties are aware of each others concerns and plans. 

We will also discuss if we think men should be held accountable for their actions and their lack of fatherhood towards the child. 

Take a listen tell us your opinions @talkithowitis_uk, email: talkithowitis@mail.com, twitter: NatalieashL1


Sponsors: @spongedlove insta, @wbvendors and @whispasboutique 



Mar 30, 202101:10:01
Episode 15 - Personal Hygiene

Episode 15 - Personal Hygiene

Hello and welcome back to Talk It How It Is...... hope you are all well and the fact that you've returned means your as crazy as we are. 

If your new to Talk It How It Is welcome and thank you foe listening, In todays episode we will be discussing the importance of personal hygiene. We are strong believers in Cleanliness is next to Godliness. 

Growing up how were you taught to take care of your personal hygiene?  We will be discussing if we we're taught or self taught? How do we know we're doing it right?  how important it is to teach our children personal hygiene?

Personal Hygiene is  touchy subject so please be kind if you have to deliver this message to any one. 

Go follow us on instagram "talkithowitis_uk 

sponsonrs @ spongedlove, @wbvendors, @whispasboutique

Mar 21, 202158:30
Episode 14 - My Hair Journey

Episode 14 - My Hair Journey

Hello and welcome back to Talk It How It Is. 

We hope you are all well and enjoying the time at home, using it wisely, teaching the children or just relaxing. 

In todays episode we will be discussing Ashley's hair journey. What motivated her to start a new hair journey and how this made her feel. We will also be discussing if we believe our hair define us. Are we judge for the colour of our hair, for our protective styles and if the hair industry in the UK helps us when we are lost. 

Thank you for taking time out to listen to our podcast and hope we can continue to bring you much more content.


Hosts Natalie @natabritish and Ashley @asr7784

Sponsors @spongedlove, @whispasboutique and @wbvendors

Outro India Irie - I am not my hair 



Mar 08, 202101:19:18
Episode 13 - Closure, Betrayal and Letting Go

Episode 13 - Closure, Betrayal and Letting Go

Hello and welcome back to Talk It How It Is, if you've come back to listen to us it means your just as crazy as we are or you generally like our content and enjoy listening to us. Either way we're glad to have you. If your new to Talk It How It Is welcome to our mad house, lol. In todays episode we'll be discussing self worth, closure and letting go. Also how we make it through this crazy thing we call life. Hope you enjoy. Please feel free to message us insta: @talkithowitis_uk, email: talkithowitis@gmail.com, Twitter: NatalieandAshl1 Sponsors Insta: @spongedlove, @whispasboutique, @wbvendors
Feb 15, 202101:13:02
Episode 12 - Budget or Gourmet

Episode 12 - Budget or Gourmet

Hello and welcome back to Talk It How It Is, if you've come back to listen to us it means your just as crazy as we are or you generally like our content and enjoy listening to us. Either way we're glad to have you, if your new to Talk It How It Is welcome to our mad house, lol. 

With this lockdown I think we are all having withdrawals of some sort, need it be gym, coffee, shopping etc, ours is dining. 

 So on this weeks episode we will be talking you through our top 10 best Budget restaurants and our top 10 best Gourmet restaurants in and around London. 

As well as our personal favourites we have also included a few of our worse, which we personally did not enjoy. 

As an extra dose of love Ashley also added a Hidden treasure to our list, an all time favourite of ours. 

We hope that these restaurants help you out for a special occasion for your loved ones regardless of your budget we have provided a bit of something for everyone.  Please if you have had different experiences at any of the restaurants mentioned please feel free to let us know your views. Also please feel free to email us or DM us with any restaurants that you have personally been to and enjoyed very much. 

Thanks guys and make sure your taking care of your self, we'll see you next week. xxx 

insta: @talkithowitis_uk, email: talkithowitis@gmail.com, Twitter: NatalieandAshl1

Sponsors Insta: @spongedlove, @whispasboutique, @wbvendors


Feb 10, 202101:09:20
Episode 12 - STAYING MOTIVATED

Episode 12 - STAYING MOTIVATED

Hello and welcome to our first episode of 2021.
Firstly we would like to wish every one of you a Happy New Year, though we are in unprecedented times I hope we can all some what be grateful for the little that we have.
Condolences to any one that has lost some one during this time and hope that the comfort you need is near.
In this episode we will be talking about staying motivated during these crazy times. What we have and have not done to stay motivated and how we have gotten through it or if we just stayed hanging.

Please feel free to message us on insta @talkithowitis_uk, Twitter NatalieandAshl1, Email
talkithowitis@gmail.com
Our Business shout out for today is @kiki_does_podiatry - she specialises in Podiatry needs for people with diabetes etc and loves what she does.
and @b_linkonline - they are on app that locates black owned businesses in and around London so get downloading guys.

Sponsors @spongedlove - Cupcakes made with love by Ashley, @wbvedors - Vendors list by Natalie if you are looking to become self employed within the fashion industry, @whispasboutique - if you are in the Caribbean and looking for affordable fashion go check it out.
Jan 25, 202155:08
Episode 11 - Setting a Foundation
Nov 11, 202052:28
Episode 10 - Being Black in 2020
Sep 07, 202001:15:50
Episode 9 - This Thing We Call Life

Episode 9 - This Thing We Call Life

Hello Guys, hope your all well and some what adapting to the norm of life. 

We decided to take a Monday off, but we are back and ready to give you what we got. 

Today's episode was us reasoning on life, answering questions that we thought would open our eyes to how fortunate we are and what we are most grateful for. 

Sometimes it feels like we are not trying hard enough, we slack, or we live in fear of wanting to try or we just plan out procrastinate and not do anything. 

Do not live in fear of your goals, set goals, work towards them, if you fail dust your self off and try again. NO ONE CAN FAIL YOU BUT YOU. 

The reality is your journey and their journey is not the same. We all have our season. 


Hope you enjoy


Aug 24, 202001:23:28
Episode 8 - Being a Child in the 21st Century

Episode 8 - Being a Child in the 21st Century

Hello guys and welcome back for our 8th episode on Talk It How It Is, my we're slowly climbing up the ladder with these episodes. 

We hope you have enjoyed our content this far and aim to do better each week.


This weeks episode was a short one, as we are joined with our special guest Kiya,  who is 13 years old and gives us a brief insight of what it is like  being a teenager in the 21st Century. 


Young Children and Parents this episode is for you. Maybe hearing another child's point of view on being a child in the 21st century can help you understand the struggles children face daily and to realise that you are not alone. 


In this episode we discuss schooling, the educational system, what she finds beneficial, what she feels is missing from education and much more. 


We was quiet shocked how much has not changed for children in the 21st Century and may need to find ways to make a change. 

Without giving too much away please feel free to take a listen and hope that this is helpful to you and yours.


follow us on Instagram @talkithowitis_uk, @natabritish and @asr7784 

feel free to email us @talkithowitis@gmail.com


Sponsors instagram @spongedlove, @wbvendors, @whispasboutique 

Aug 10, 202032:50
Episode 7 - Side Chicks

Episode 7 - Side Chicks

Hello and welcome to Talk It How It Is.

If your new here welcome and if not thank you for returning, means your as crazy as we are. lol 

Today Ashley and I will be discussing Side Chicks and how this affects relationships.

Can a side chick ever become a main chick?

Is being a Side chick or side man wrong? 

Some may people may agree this is  wrong, but the reality is a lot of us have been side chicks or side men regardless of if we know or if we do not.

Join us as we discuss this topic, where we agree to disagree. 


If you have feedback on today’s episode, please feel free to tweet us @Natalieandashl1, DM us on insta @talkithowitis or email us @talkithowitis@gmail.com.

Insta @natabritish and @asr7784

New sponsors @spongedlove, @wbvendors @whispasboutique

Podcast intro by @don_capone



Aug 02, 202001:05:22
Episode 5 - Absent Fathers

Episode 5 - Absent Fathers

This week we're talking about Absent Fathers.
At some point some of us have had the lack of or the non existence of a father figure and wanted to discuss how this affects us as grown adults.
We also discussed how this could affect children in their past, present and future decisions in life.
Does the lack of a father change a child's upbringing?
Do you think "Fathers" realise the effects they have on their child/children when they chose not to be there?
Does the lack of a father steer you in the wrong direction?
Who do you think you would have become today if you had the support of your father?

Hosts: @natabritish and @asr7784
Sponsors: @spongedlove, @wbvendors and @whispasboutique
Big Something @ officialdoncap1
Jul 20, 202001:19:06
Episode 4 - Mental Health
Jul 14, 202001:51:04
Episode 3 - Body Image
Jul 05, 202042:52
Episode 2 - Dating In The 21st Century...
Jun 30, 202001:01:00
Episode 1 - Friendship

Episode 1 - Friendship

Friendship - What is your definition of friendship? Are they Loyal?
Are friendships meant to be challenging?
Are they for you? Do they have your back?
Jun 22, 202043:35