I’m scared. But not about getting the virus but being able to live and go to the store and buy stuff, pay my bills. Maybe in these times it’s preposterous to think like that, but that’s a reality of my everyday life. I just wanted to share
I’ve learned a lot over the years. Some things aren’t easy to admit and yet I believe in my mom’s wisdom and the reality of things, reality of change. It is inevitable and it’ll have to come at some point
To get out of the rut - get out of the rut. It’s easy to say, definitely not easy to do. But once you start with smth small, you’ll be inclined to do more, that’s how it usually works. So let’s do it !!!
“The practice of course waiting - choosing to wait for sex and denying instant gratification so that you can see clearly, make better decisions, and position yourself for blessings - is the key to finding not just happiness but spirit-deep fulfillment.” - The Wait, DeVon Franklin
I wish I was a person I am now today 5 years ago, but it doesn’t work like that. I am who I am because of all the shit I’ve been through and apparently that’s the way in this world. Otherwise, you can’t grow as a human as a mind.
People talk about how they feel behind because they don’t have the relationship, the house 🏡, the dog 🐶 or the babies they want. Well, I actually feel extremely grateful to be single and to have time to do everything I want and figure out my heart ❤️
I hate fit people. Something I might say while actually being jealous and proud, extremely proud and respectful since I actually love fit people. They are my role models, inspiration and motivation. Recording this one after my run 🏃♀️ Love, Natalie
I don’t mean, stop going out or hanging out with friends. What I’m saying is be selective, be better with your time-shares 😊 make it count. Life isn’t as long as you think. It’s mostly just “blink” and you’re on your deathbed..how that happened, no clue 😲😩😭😂😂😂
Time isn’t precious at all, because it is an illusion. What you perceive as precious is not time but the one point that is our time: the NOW. That is precious indeed. The more you are focused on time - past and future - the more you miss the Now, the most precious thing there is. - Eckhart Tolle
In this episode I’m talking about Mel Robbins’ e-mail sessions that are connected to the “5-Second Rule” 📚 book and that I’m working through these days. If you get a chance, pick up the book and subscribe for the e-mail sessions because those are great 👍🏻
Don’t worry about those who talk behind your back, they’re behind for a reason. Reach out to me on Fb: Nataliia Totka, Medium, Instagram (iamnataliiatotka; nataliia_totka) ♥️😌 and stay safe, hopefully also from people who talk shit about you
Well, yeah....this article was long overdue. And since I’ve experienced all that, I thought I’d write about. I mean, that’s what I do anyway, right??)) write about my experiences 😌 thank you for listening, love - Me
Imperfection is tough. Especially when the whole world thinks you’re ugly. The whole world can go to hell. You gotta claim your imperfections and flaws and embrace the beauty of it. ♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏love, Natalie. I know it’s easier said than done, I still struggle with it.
Very often in life we hate certain things and then somehow come to realize that it’s not so bad after all, it could be real nice actually. Everything has its advantages and disadvantages. Stay tuned for more 😌🤗♥️
This is not a sponsored episode. I have yet to get paid for whatever I’m doing online 🙄. I am merely sharing my experience with you and how I like to spend my spare time which is learning and getting certifications from online courses.
“God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.” The Stoics wanted to push past simply “accepting” what is - they wanted to be grateful and happy with what is.
The episode’s name is the exact name of Matthew Hussey’s video you definitely should watch on YouTube. About that and more on the new episode 😘♥️♥️😘😍😍😍 love you guys and wish you a good start of the week
It happens once in a while. Today it’s just caught me off guard...wanting to feel smth...smth similar to what I had felt with Christian and Damon)). I’m mostly happy being single right now and I prefer it that way but there are times I wish something hugged me from the back. Someone who loves me and who I love.
This is important!!!!! Listen carefully !!!! You matter, your life matters. You have to take care of yourself: your needs, your insecurities, your mind and your body and only then you can go and save the world 🌎❤️ love, N
Give yourself time. Don’t stop the tears. Don’t try to swallow every little bit of your expression because it is inconvenient and seems weak to the outside world. Live with it. Bear with it. Write some shitty poetry. Go to the bookstore.
Is there such clothes anyway??))) I’ve struggled my whole life to buy clothes. It either didn’t fit or didn’t look as good or costed too much...I wish there was a place you could go and put on stuff that you know already would look good on you and doesn’t cost much 😫😫😫🤔🤔🤔🤔😂😂😂😂
That was a weird one because my roommate came in and I couldn't say everything I wanted....she doesn't know I have a podcast, I don't like sharing my private things that much 😂other than for the whole internet to read and to hear to 😂 but not for the people I work with. I weirdly don't want them to know this part of me.
I let myself forget I want him...because that\u2019s what I need; I let myself forget I want him next to me...because that hurts less; I let myself forget we share a world and I let myself forget we are bound by the invisible red thread... because I\u2019m afraid. I better let myself forget
Have faith in your ability to make it happen, have faith in yourself, have faith in the process and have patience for life, because some things take time. And because the most important things in life don\u2019t happen in one day, it all happens overtime. Your growth, your evolution takes time and when the majestic TIME will be done with you, - you\u2019ll be an impeccable piece of art. \ud83d\udc95\u263a\ufe0f
There are choices we make every day. Whether they are the right choices or wrong ones we can\u2019t possibly know. We live with the choices we make; we walk around like we didn\u2019t choose these lives for ourselves. But we did.
We all grow up and become more uninterested in people who talk behind our backs. We change. The older we get, the less time we have for bullshit. With age we stop putting up with lies. The time will come and you will admit that a lot of things stopped being important.
It is easy to go back to the familiar; it is easy to walk the well-trodden path; it is also easy to settle in and give up; it is easy to conform and adapt. But don\u2019t fall for that, don\u2019t fall for the person y u once were, because you can be better
I want to believe again. I want to find again. I want to feel that indescribable feeling. That impossible thing that rarely happens in the world, the love that defies all odds. I want the kind of love that stays and waits if needed. I want my picture frame with him not to be a waste, I want him to be the person. The One. But whoever it is, whoever it will be - I\u2019ll be happy and I will get what I want.
God has a plan for us and we are here to fulfill our destiny. To make something of ourselves, to live life fully and to love love love. \ud83d\udc95 God wants us to walk a different way if he erases people from our life. It might hurt us and it might torture our hearts just a little bit more than too much already. But that is just how it is. Transformation is painful, change is painful, loved one leaving is painful. But it is needed for us for the reasons we will only understand in the far future. For now, enjoy the path you\u2019re walking and have a great weekend. \ud83d\ude0c\u263a\ufe0f\ud83d\ude0a
I hope you don\u2019t hate my voice \ud83d\ude02 I never preview/prehear my recordings because then I would hate them and delete everything \ud83d\ude02 that\u2019s why I really really hope I didn\u2019t sound that bad. And if I did, well, tough shit.
I\u2019ve been doing silly things. I\u2019ve been thinking and I\u2019ve been thinking but then I went with the flow and ended up who knows where. I don\u2019t know what I\u2019m doing but maybe the path will appear as I walk it?
So I'm back at the gym - happy and sore and happy \ud83e\udd17 Had some work-related happiness past couple of days \ud83d\udc95\ud83d\ude0d\ud83d\udc96kinda unexpected but really really nice \ud83d\udc4d development
Bright beautiful world \ud83c\udf0e I really appreciate the call-in and your concern \u2764\ufe0f\ud83d\udc95 it touched my heart and made me emotional \ud83d\ude2d again. I thank you a lot \ud83e\udd17\ud83d\udc96from my heart to yours, just a bit of love
Let's drink champagne and enjoy the last day of this year. Prepare for 2018 and hope that it's better, hope that it's smarter and brighter than 2017 and 2016 altogether \u2764\ufe0f happy new year, guys \ud83c\udf8a\ud83d\udc96\u2744\ufe0f
Remember that 30 books \ud83d\udcda left to read I've told you about? Well, there are 10 left and I feel very motivational and very determined to finish this challenge. Yuhu \u2764\ufe0f\ud83e\udd17\ud83e\udd17\ud83e\udd17
Does everything have to be a struggle? Aren't you sick of it? Because I am sick of life being hard, I am sick of things that never ever come easy to me. Thank you God, for today, because it was a revelation in a way but now I don't know what to do about it, how to live with myself, how to go on, how to be the girl I always knew I could be... how?
I used to say that home is where your heart is.... well, my heart have been at my parents house for almost all my life...but then something changed and except wanting sweets and books for Christmas, the only thing I wanted for Christmas was a man...a very tall, attractive man who made me feel something. And then took it away. But then someone else came by and healed my heart, just to break it again...and my heart is with him this year, wherever he is...although part of it will always be at home in Ukraine \ud83c\uddfa\ud83c\udde6
Let's do this !!! 19 books to go \ud83d\udcda\ud83d\udcda\ud83d\udcdait feels like a reading sprint rather than normal reading challenge \ud83d\ude02 but I gotta crush this goal \ud83d\ude0e\ud83d\ude0e\ud83d\ude0e
We have to stop accepting less. We have to fight for what we deserve. We gotta fight our laziness, our comfort, our minds to get where we want to get. We have to stop sleeping in, we have to stop lying in bed depressed all day. We have to get up and get going.
It's time to get out of bed and do what you're supposed to do rather than staying in bed and do what is easier, more comfortable. Depression is a disease and laziness too. But we have the tools to conquer it so maybe at least try?
Life is short and life is long. Life is depressing and hopeful. Life is full of people who'll hurt you and people who will bring you joy. And there's also one person who will kiss you like no other and who will make you believe that love could be like in the movies \ud83c\udfa5 \u2764\ufe0f\ud83d\ude4f\ud83e\udd17
We need to start cherishing ourselves. Need to start celebrating our journey and accept all the lessons we should learn and all the ways we are blessed more than we are hurt. We need to stop judging ourselves for the past and celebrate our broken hearts as much as the organs which are still more or less whole
I can invent all kinds of reasons and pick fights with him all I want, but he is a boy who looks at me like no other, the boy who holds my hand tight, the boy who is on his knees when the mere "sorry" isn't enough, he is a boy who took my breath away by not doing anything special and maybe he is not the boy for me, but I will try not to push him away because of my messed-up, clich\351d personality.
It all comes down to your mindset and your attitude. You can't change people, but you can change YOU. You can change your view, your perspective, your mindset and your attitude. Color your life bright red or depressive black, it is for you to decide
Hope and faith always dominate. They have to. Otherwise we'd stay in "pain and struggle" mode forever. We gotta believe in the better days, in happiness, in no-matter-what goals, in love that comes back and in new love, in love that is always there and in the heartbreak that is always temporary.