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Dads Who Try

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Nate and Tommy are two dads navigating life & fatherhood. Together they share stories of surviving fatherhood and the shenanigans of raising children, being decent husbands to their wives (Steph and Leah, respectively), and all the hijinks in-between.
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The First Cup | Ep. 08 Money Myths with Guest Andrew Martz

Dads Who TryMar 18, 2019

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Being a sports dad, love is blind, and happily ever after.

Being a sports dad, love is blind, and happily ever after.

On this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate talk about fatherhood, the problems with sports dads, whether or not love is blind, and living happily ever after!


Mar 27, 202429:09
Dealing With In-Laws and Wedding Night Horror Stories

Dealing With In-Laws and Wedding Night Horror Stories

In this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate respond to comments from their social media and how to handle In Laws. Per usual they also talk about getting into shenanigans

and having wild wedding nights.

Mar 11, 202436:46
Beating Work Fatigue and Being the Best Dad You Can

Beating Work Fatigue and Being the Best Dad You Can

In this episode of Dads Who Try, Tommy and Nate discuss the challenges of growing up with out dads themselves. Tune in as they give insight in how to beat work fatigue and do their best to be active parents!

Feb 28, 202443:37
SPECIAL GUEST: Jon Taylor Sweet: How to make the world better

SPECIAL GUEST: Jon Taylor Sweet: How to make the world better

In this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate, are joined by fellow father Jon Taylor Sweet:


"I am Wedding, Commercial, and Lifestyle Photographer here in the greater Seattle area! I love life, love coffee, and love to celebrate moments with the finest people. Married to my beautiful wife Caryn who makes every day a better day! We made a beautiful child together and her name is Maeve! I started taking photos on my iPhone in 2012 using ⁠Instagram⁠ as the vessel to share my work. After a couple years of shooting on my iPhone a friend gifted me a camera so I could jump into photography as a career. Was truly blessed to have people in my life that believed in me. With Instagram being a perfect platform to connect with people all over the world I began to realize how great the photo world really is. Being inspired to shoot weddings, shoot lifestyle content that provoked creativity, and to be in spaces in the commercial world that are uncomfortable(not a mountain in sight to help create "the bangerz"). In the last few years I have been fortunate enough to be apart of so many couples proposals, weddings, and even capturing photos to share that they are having a baby. I have been able to shoot album covers for friends which was a brand new experience. I have had the chance to shoot for massive marketing campaigns for companies that I never thought I would have had the chance to work with. More importantly photography has brought life long friendships with everlasting memories that I will be eternally grateful for. Capturing moments is something that I cherish and am so thankful for every opportunity. God is good! All the time! "


Check out his work at jontaylorsweet.com

Feb 20, 202455:52
Should You Let Your Kids Watch the Super Bowl?

Should You Let Your Kids Watch the Super Bowl?

Welcome to another episode of DWT where Tommy and Nate discuss Super Bowl 58, nostalgic music, and how to gauge appropriate content for their children.

Feb 14, 202430:45
Dealing With Fatherhood While Having Father Issues

Dealing With Fatherhood While Having Father Issues

In this episode of Dads Who Try, Tommy and Nate are joined by returning guest Balem Barretto! Tune in as they discuss fathering through questions, doubts, and insecurity. As always there are plenty of laughs and a mild lack of maturity.

Jan 22, 202431:29
DWT Ep 53 | The Rhythm of Chaos & SPECIAL GUEST

DWT Ep 53 | The Rhythm of Chaos & SPECIAL GUEST

In this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate are joined by long time friend, returning guest, father of three girls Roman Bozhko. Together they discuss the chaos of parenting, challenges that come with raising girls, and the importance of daily tradition.

Dec 12, 202352:31
DWT Ep 52 | Dealing with Bitterness and Victim Mentality

DWT Ep 52 | Dealing with Bitterness and Victim Mentality

In this episode of DWT, Tommy and Nate discuss early childhood memories and the dangers of always being offended.

Dec 11, 202328:22
DWT Ep 51 | How To Be A Better Parent

DWT Ep 51 | How To Be A Better Parent

In this episode of Dads Who Try, Tommy and Nate discuss 4 ways to becoming a better parent that doesn't have anything to do with your kids.

Dec 08, 202325:40
DWT Ep 50 | My Son's Butt Fell Out, LIVE Q&R

DWT Ep 50 | My Son's Butt Fell Out, LIVE Q&R

On this 50th Episode of Dads Who Try, Tommy and Nate go live on IG and TikTok and spend time talking to the DWT community responding to questions, shouting people out, and talking about the struggles of starting a podcast while being parents.

Dec 07, 202348:16
DWT Ep 49 | Are You Ready To Be a Parent? & How to Keep the House Clean

DWT Ep 49 | Are You Ready To Be a Parent? & How to Keep the House Clean

In this episode of DWT, Tommy and Nate talk about the signs of being ready to be a parent and take to their audience to hear the best ways to keep the house clean!

Dec 06, 202327:09
DWT Ep 48 | Is it okay to lie to your kids?

DWT Ep 48 | Is it okay to lie to your kids?

In this episode of Dads Who Try, Tommy and Nate talk CFP's, whether or not lying to your kids is okay, and how to create values in the home!

Dec 05, 202337:35
DWT Ep 47 | Getting Through Guilt and Parenting on Purpose

DWT Ep 47 | Getting Through Guilt and Parenting on Purpose

In this episode of Dads Who Try, Tommy and Nate discuss all sorts of stories and shenanigans while focusing on topics like, guilt, shame, comparison, and parenting on purpose!


Dec 04, 202332:42
SPECIAL: DECEMBER CHALLENGE

SPECIAL: DECEMBER CHALLENGE

Lets head into the new year hitting the ground running! Why wait for the new year to improve... LETS GET IT NOW!

Dec 01, 202309:36
DWT Ep. 46 | Struggles, Gratitude, and The Holidays

DWT Ep. 46 | Struggles, Gratitude, and The Holidays

In this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate talk about struggles surrounding the holidays, creating values for your home, and sing a little karaoke!

Nov 30, 202340:15
DWT Ep. 45

DWT Ep. 45

In this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate discuss the temptation of living lives for themselves instead of their families. They debate when to set up Christmas decor and raising boys.

Oct 17, 202339:03
DWT Ep 44 | Is Keeping Your Kid Too Safe Unsafe?

DWT Ep 44 | Is Keeping Your Kid Too Safe Unsafe?

In this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate talk Kanye West, Taylor Swift, and how far you should let your kids go before its unsafe.

Oct 02, 202328:03
DWT Ep 43 | Disappointment, Commitment Issues, How to Handle Failure

DWT Ep 43 | Disappointment, Commitment Issues, How to Handle Failure

In this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate talk about dealing with the disappointments of life. How do you handle commitment issues?

Sep 19, 202326:58
DWT Ep 42 | Bullies, Tantrums, and Fatherhood Failures

DWT Ep 42 | Bullies, Tantrums, and Fatherhood Failures

In this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate discuss all the hijinx that come with being fathers and reply to questions from the DWT community.

Sep 13, 202357:31
DWT Ep 41 | WERE BACK! When to have the SEX talk, RACE, and loving your spouse

DWT Ep 41 | WERE BACK! When to have the SEX talk, RACE, and loving your spouse

In this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate are back at it again!


Episode 1 of Season 2 is full of funny stories, personal struggles, and real moments from the lives of a couple Dads Who Try.

Sep 05, 202351:54
DWT Ep 40 | This Episode Will Change Your Life...

DWT Ep 40 | This Episode Will Change Your Life...

Welcome to the latest episode of Dads Who Try, featuring special guest Joey Odom, the Co-Founder of Aro. Join hosts Tommy and Nate as they delve into an engaging conversation about sports highlights, hilarious parenting anecdotes, and effective solutions to tackle a pressing challenge in modern parenting. Get ready to immerse yourself in laughter, introspection, and an in-depth exploration of the joys and complexities of fatherhood. Don't miss out on this must-listen episode!

Jun 30, 202301:01:08
DWT Ep. 39 | Public Discipline, Tiger Balm, Toxic Competition

DWT Ep. 39 | Public Discipline, Tiger Balm, Toxic Competition

On this 39th episode of DWT Tommy and Nate discuss the difficulties of disciplining in public, staying competitive, and Asian parent sickness remedies.

Jun 22, 202336:53
DWT Ep 38 | Living Sleep Deprived, Being "good" Husbands

DWT Ep 38 | Living Sleep Deprived, Being "good" Husbands

In this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate discuss raising children, getting enough sleep, and the challenges of being good husbands.

Jun 10, 202335:47
DWT Ep 37 | Tantrums, Sleep Overs, and Learning to Process Emotions

DWT Ep 37 | Tantrums, Sleep Overs, and Learning to Process Emotions

In this 37th episode of DWT Tommy and Nate discuss tantrums, sleep overs, and the day to day life of Dads Who Try.

May 02, 202358:12
DWT Ep 36 | Its Circle Time, Taking Wins and Lessons, Life with Twins, Finding Sunshine Where You Least Expect It

DWT Ep 36 | Its Circle Time, Taking Wins and Lessons, Life with Twins, Finding Sunshine Where You Least Expect It

In this episode of Dads Who Try, Tommy and Nate are joined by Youtube greats @itscircletime (https://www.youtube.com/@ItsCircleTime). Tune in as they talk about life, success, screen time, and taking W's & L's!

Apr 25, 202359:58
DWT Mini Pod: Tips for Expecting/Newborn Dads...(Lets talk about sex)

DWT Mini Pod: Tips for Expecting/Newborn Dads...(Lets talk about sex)

In this mini pod Tommy and Nate discuss some tips, tricks, and hacks for expecting and new fathers. Tune in as they discuss how to prepare for fatherhood and how to help your spouse!

Apr 15, 202309:24
DWT Ep 35 | Dad Bod Bad Bod? How to maintain and create health in parenthood.

DWT Ep 35 | Dad Bod Bad Bod? How to maintain and create health in parenthood.

In this 35th episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate are joined by fitness specialist and fellow father Jake Stapleton. Join in on the discussion as they talk about health, fitness, and whether or not KD is an all time great!

Apr 11, 202301:07:53
DWT Mini Pod: Are you Stunting Your Kids Growth?

DWT Mini Pod: Are you Stunting Your Kids Growth?

In this mini episode of DWT we take a look at three ways we can stunt our children's growth.

Apr 06, 202303:43
MWT Ep 34 | How to create a home your kids are excited about, Not letting fear win, living a value driven life

MWT Ep 34 | How to create a home your kids are excited about, Not letting fear win, living a value driven life

Join Leah and Stephani as they discuss all things motherhood! In this episode of MWT they are joined by mother of 5, Becky Delval!

Apr 01, 202322:22
DWT Ep 33 | 13 Things More Likely to Kill You Than a Shark

DWT Ep 33 | 13 Things More Likely to Kill You Than a Shark

In this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate discuss parenting, the risks of raising a child, and 13 things more likely to kill you than a shark.

Mar 07, 202340:02
DWT Ep 32 | I fought an old man and got destroyed...

DWT Ep 32 | I fought an old man and got destroyed...

In this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate talk about the most influential books and moments in their life and fatherhood. Tune in as they discuss their challenges and trials as parents!

Mar 03, 202347:14
DWT Ep. 31 | 31 can you do something for me?, AI take over, Nipsey Hustle

DWT Ep. 31 | 31 can you do something for me?, AI take over, Nipsey Hustle

On this 31st episode of DWT, Tommy and Nate are joined by returning guest Zach Franklin! Tune in as they discuss parenting with confidence, building connections with their kids, and laughing a ton!

Feb 07, 202359:22
DWT Ep 30 | Our Studio Flooded, Is Social Media Melting Our Brains?

DWT Ep 30 | Our Studio Flooded, Is Social Media Melting Our Brains?

In this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate are back from a few weeks off after their studio flooded. Tune in as they pick up where they left off talking about fatherhood, difficulties of raising strong willed children, and scary movies.

Jan 24, 202339:18
DWT Ep 29 | My kid said the "F" word in class, Special Guest Mark Johnson, Nose Suckers

DWT Ep 29 | My kid said the "F" word in class, Special Guest Mark Johnson, Nose Suckers

In this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate are joined by first time recurring guest, Mark Johnson. Tune in as they discuss getting calls from the school, preparing for fatherhood, and the biggest life saver for a sick kid.


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Dec 28, 202201:00:55
DWT Ep 28 | Balenciaga Scandal, Working from Home with Kids, Special Guest Shane Lance

DWT Ep 28 | Balenciaga Scandal, Working from Home with Kids, Special Guest Shane Lance

In this comeback episode of DWT Tommy and Nate are joined by close friend and fellow dad, Shane Lance (@wshanelance)! Tune in as they discuss topics ranging from Balenciaga, Donald Trump, the Duggers, and actual dad stuff too.

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Dec 20, 202201:17:50
DWT Ep 27 | Dealing with A Drinking Addiction (24 Shots a Day)

DWT Ep 27 | Dealing with A Drinking Addiction (24 Shots a Day)

On this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate discuss how much is too much to drink. Tune in as they continue the conversation about their moms who try, the challenges of forgiveness and whether or not they could spend a billion dollars.

Dec 01, 202254:08
DWT Ep 26 | What if Happy Gilmore was a dad?, Special Guest Balem Barretto, From the Links

DWT Ep 26 | What if Happy Gilmore was a dad?, Special Guest Balem Barretto, From the Links

On this episode of Dads Who Try, (brought to you by Manscaped.com/dadswho), Tommy and Nate are joined on the golf course by good friend and fellow Dad Who Tries, Balem Barretto. Tune into this unique Happy Gilmore Edition of DWT!

Nov 15, 202227:01
DWT Ep. 25 | How to Parent Kids in School Today, The Ryan Cross-Over Episode

DWT Ep. 25 | How to Parent Kids in School Today, The Ryan Cross-Over Episode

In this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate are joined by Ryan Cross as they talk about growing up in a different world. Did you have a "horse girl" in your school?

Nov 10, 202250:14
DWT Ep. 24 | Why are fathers so under appreciated?

DWT Ep. 24 | Why are fathers so under appreciated?

In this "KOBE" episode Tommy and Nate discuss a variety of sleep deprived topics. Is it EVER okay as an adult to order a glass of milk at a restaurant? Is Nate the best player ever at Super Smash Bros (no)? Why does it feel like fathers are so under appreciated at times?


Oct 25, 202254:43
Dads Who Try Ep. 23 | You would do what!? For how much?!

Dads Who Try Ep. 23 | You would do what!? For how much?!

In this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate discuss the best player of all time, how to be the famous where it matters, and how much money they would be willing to risk their lives for.

Oct 19, 202250:32
BONUS Ep. 1 | When your kids try to take your soul.

BONUS Ep. 1 | When your kids try to take your soul.

On this bonus episode of DWT Tommy and Nate discuss the difficulty of staying easy going and fun at home!

Oct 15, 202204:13
DWT Ep. 22 | Chasing Your Dreams and Raising Your Kids, Facing our Fears, and Dealing with Bad Yelp Reviews

DWT Ep. 22 | Chasing Your Dreams and Raising Your Kids, Facing our Fears, and Dealing with Bad Yelp Reviews

On this episode of Dads Who Try, Tommy and Nate are joined by a pre-coffee guest in the early hours of the morning. Tune in as they discuss with Mark Johnson how to balance chasing your dreams while having kids. 

Oct 11, 202257:52
DWT Ep 21 | I Wish I Would've..., Conspiracy Theories, Horrible Shows That Are SOOOO Good

DWT Ep 21 | I Wish I Would've..., Conspiracy Theories, Horrible Shows That Are SOOOO Good

On this episode of Dads Who Try, Tommy and Nate debate their favorite TV shows, discuss their regrets, and whether or not conspiracy theories are more than theories...

Oct 04, 202245:08
DWT Ep. 20 | Struggles of Raising Kids in a Changing World, Making Cold Calls, Shenanigans

DWT Ep. 20 | Struggles of Raising Kids in a Changing World, Making Cold Calls, Shenanigans

On this TWENTIETH episode of DWT Tommy and Nate are back at it again doing a 5AM podcast. Still disoriented from waking up before God, they attempt to discuss the struggles of raising kids in a world they didn't grow up in themselves, how to develop work ethic in their kids, and general sleep deprived shenanigans.

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Sep 21, 202242:33
DWT Ep. 19 | Growing Up in Broken Homes, Raised in the Midst of Racism, & General Shenanigans

DWT Ep. 19 | Growing Up in Broken Homes, Raised in the Midst of Racism, & General Shenanigans

In this episode of Dads Who Try Nate and Tommy are joined by long time friend, fellow father, and cultural icon, Zach Franklin. Tune in as they address growing up without their fathers, facing racism, and fathering in a world that's different from the one they grew up in.

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Sep 06, 202252:33
DWT Ep 18 | Special Guest Anthony Pasquelone, Parenting Boys, Trying to Navigate Hard Talks

DWT Ep 18 | Special Guest Anthony Pasquelone, Parenting Boys, Trying to Navigate Hard Talks

In this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate is joined by long time friend and fellow father Anthony Pasquelone. Tune in as they laugh, debate, and talk about what its like to father boys.

Aug 30, 202240:52
DWT Ep 17 | Parenting is really hard... but its the best thing ever.

DWT Ep 17 | Parenting is really hard... but its the best thing ever.

On this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate discuss growing up in the time of home phones, anime, and the difficulties of being parents.

Aug 24, 202247:17
DWT Ep 16 | Good Parents Have Nice Butts

DWT Ep 16 | Good Parents Have Nice Butts

On this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate discuss the tension of protecting your children and exposing them to the world at the same time.

Aug 16, 202224:25
DWT Ep. 15 | Best episode ever? Special Guest: Josh Anderson

DWT Ep. 15 | Best episode ever? Special Guest: Josh Anderson

On this episode of DWT Tommy and Nate are joined by long time friend and fellow father: Josh Anderson. Tune in as they discuss parenting misses, successes, and dating in elementary school.

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Aug 09, 202201:02:38
DWT Ep. 14 | Is Burnout Real?... Zoom Zoom Zoom You Make My Heart Go...

DWT Ep. 14 | Is Burnout Real?... Zoom Zoom Zoom You Make My Heart Go...

On this episode of Dads Who Try Tommy and Nate are reunited and it shows! They talk about burn out, Disney Channel original movies, and how to survive an airplane with a toddler.

Aug 04, 202248:16