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THE BORNGREAT SESSIONS

THE BORNGREAT SESSIONS

By Ndo Dlakadla

“The fearful might hesitate ,but the bold will move !”
This is the journey for the willing ……
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THE BORNGREAT SESSIONS

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SELF SUFFICIENCY: A MUST
SELF SUFFICIENCY: A MUST
We often get deceived in to thinking that depending on others intellectually and emotionally will help us be better human whereas all we need to do is to reach deep into our souls and read our own instinct in Oder for us to know when we’re being used and played or deceived . Listen to more of this on this session .
20:26
July 04, 2022
OVER-EXAGGERATED IMPORTANCE
OVER-EXAGGERATED IMPORTANCE
over-exaggerating your importance to other people is like setting yourself up for disappointment , this session unpack that truth, take a listen till the end .
19:54
June 23, 2022
Emotionally dependent: A TRAP
Emotionally dependent: A TRAP
To be emotionally dependant on others has the potential to do more harm than good when you allow others have more say over your life than you do for yourself . Do take a listen to this session to have more insight on this perspective.
24:07
June 09, 2022
Common sense is not always COMMON
Common sense is not always COMMON
we are not always going to reason the way other do . Our reasoning is mostly inspired by our upbringing and the society we grew up around . Who we are plays a role in what we become . Tune in to this session for more as we explore on this subject of Common sense not being common for everyone .
30:38
May 26, 2022
MESSENGERS OF CHANGE : THE AWAKENING
MESSENGERS OF CHANGE : THE AWAKENING
When we face challenges we get scared and unsure if the outcome ,yet we fail to recognise the reality of surviving those challenges as we get a ticket to the next chapter of our lives victorious.
07:39
May 12, 2022
Unworthy : UNPRETTY
Unworthy : UNPRETTY
People who project their negative feelings when they see you are often the reason you find yourself in doubt of your existence. Never believe a criticism that is not constructive it might destroy your self esteem.
19:54
May 05, 2022
A TREE WITHOUT ROOTS
A TREE WITHOUT ROOTS
The deeper the roots the bigger &higher the tree….listen to this session for more
13:02
April 21, 2022
My TRUTH
My TRUTH
We all experienced being discussed without our knowledge due to people who believe they should own our story with or without our consent. On this session we discuss such .. so tune in to listen
08:09
April 20, 2022
Faith or Denial?!
Faith or Denial?!
Well we learn everyday with everything happening around us we try not to miss the life lessons life is going to teach us in every second of our lives .this session is about Faith and being in denial … which is the truth ?! Do tune in
14:43
April 17, 2022
When a subconscious mind envies toxic authority .
When a subconscious mind envies toxic authority .
Naturally the position of authority is aspired by most, due to the fact that power and superiority is what makes one be seen or heard , as the narrative of the society portrays . Well it is possible to escape from such environments and be free from mental oppression . Take a listen.
11:51
March 22, 2022
LET IT SINK IN
LET IT SINK IN
For every challenge there is a solution . We just need to take a moment and let it all sink in .
09:47
January 11, 2022
GREATNESS IN A BOX
GREATNESS IN A BOX
In this session we chat about how our fears attract exactly what we hope to NOT become ! Nothing in this world is as easy as ABC unless it’s an actual ABC
10:55
November 03, 2021
SUBCONSCIOUSLY AT FAULT
SUBCONSCIOUSLY AT FAULT
We Sometimes hurt the people we claim to love due to our subconscious mistakes.and those mistakes costs us if pride gets in a way . Our expectations out of them may be too high for them to meet . However when we learn to reason first before we conclude their intentions lost relationships would be saved . No one is perfect . Learn to love with their flaws as long as they don’t drain or kill you .
15:58
October 17, 2021
FORGIVENESS/PASSPORT TO THE NEXT LEVEL
FORGIVENESS/PASSPORT TO THE NEXT LEVEL
We hold ourselves hostage in our own mind believing by harbouring pain and grudge we will avenge and receive our justice whereas we only punish ourselves for something done by others to us . Only this time we’re doing it to ourselves and they have no idea that we’re going through what they put us through . Pain can eat a person away until they throw themselves to toxins and if they’re lucky they will come out alive but some aren’t hence they’ll end up dying young before their time . Before this become your fate please pay attention to this session perhaps you may find a new perspective.
18:21
September 27, 2021
THE IMPACT OF A TOXIC SOCIETY
THE IMPACT OF A TOXIC SOCIETY
No one is born knowing what is right or wrong . We are taught these things . No one is born with hate or love .. we learn these things from those who raised us … on this session we chat about that and more . Do listen til the end .
12:10
September 12, 2021
I AM A WOMAN, A QUEEN
I AM A WOMAN, A QUEEN
I wear my crown with pride and my pride is in my ability to heal, love , nurture and provide serenity to those around me . My presence is felt in a room not by defining myself as something persisted as strong as masculinity but by defining myself as something i believe make me to be who I really am and that’s my femininity. I am a WOMAN ! A Queen ! Take a listen to the rest !
12:49
August 09, 2021
THE GLOVES ARE OFF !
THE GLOVES ARE OFF !
Some people are selfish to an extent that they don’t even see how much damage they do to you when they demand things from you while they won’t even blink to tear you down with their selfish desires . On this session we chat about that and more ! Lesson learned !
10:13
July 06, 2021
INTROSPECTION
INTROSPECTION
We sometimes blame ourselves for things we have no control over . We beat ourselves up for things we cannot change . The more we spend enough time with ourselves the more we’ll come to the realisation of our potential and greatness from within . On this session we go deeper on introspection.
19:29
June 23, 2021
LISTEN TO REASON NOT TO JUST RESPOND ….
LISTEN TO REASON NOT TO JUST RESPOND ….
One of the reasons we have social issues that are unnecessary it’s because of communication . It’s easy to hear , but to listen takes time to process what the sound heard was about .
18:29
June 08, 2021
Insecure; love is
Insecure; love is
Sometime we find ourselves in situations where we don’t feel like we are worthy of any good thing in our lives because we’ve lawa ready judged ourselves and this cloud blind us and makes us believe the fog not clear for us. Because we don’t believe we are worthy we end up chasing every good thing coming into our lives .
19:46
May 29, 2021
The uncontested lie converted into the Truth .
The uncontested lie converted into the Truth .
What if the truth you believed was or is actually the uncontested lie planted as a seed that the unsuspecting generation believed from those who wanted to convert the lie into a truth that will make them comfortable at the time ? Think about it ...?!
13:34
May 13, 2021
SCARS FROM THE PAST: FLOWERS THAT BLOOM &WITHERS BEFORE THEIR TIME
SCARS FROM THE PAST: FLOWERS THAT BLOOM &WITHERS BEFORE THEIR TIME
Our scars are a reminder of the journey we have been to... they tell a story only WE can tell the way we remember it ! Our stories help us learn life lessons . It’s up to us to get stuck in the past or to take the first step forward tho our healing .
18:29
April 28, 2021
HUMBLE OR TAMED ? I wonder ?!
HUMBLE OR TAMED ? I wonder ?!
people buy face , front and behave according to that specific occasion to receive acceptance . Some hide behind religion some hide behind culture . They act humble yet they’re true self is hidden behind their act .
23:46
April 03, 2021
A means to an end. A Reverse psychology Version
A means to an end. A Reverse psychology Version
There are people who would do anything to get closer to you only to use your resources not because you’re important in their lives or anything but because you’re close to someone they regard as more important than you so they behave and treat you like you’re that person to make you feel special in a way that you’ll be so free around them enough for them to take and suck everything from you until you run dry . And when they are done they move to the next big thing . Unfortunately because they were never for you from the start they won’t even care what damage they leave behind .
19:52
March 27, 2021
How High can you go ? How deep can you reach? Wait ! But First ARE YOU WILLING TO GO THAT FAR?!
How High can you go ? How deep can you reach? Wait ! But First ARE YOU WILLING TO GO THAT FAR?!
These are the questions one asks when they find themselves in situation where they need to decide if it worth the effort or not . On this session we chat about that and more .
25:30
March 17, 2021
Your Truth ,their lie ! Why the need to explain ?!
Your Truth ,their lie ! Why the need to explain ?!
Some people are wired in a way that whatever they’ve assumed and concluded is their truth and there is nothing you or anyone else can do to convince them otherwise especially when it comes to what they identify your character as . No matter how much you’ve changed or improved to them you’ll always be that which they’ve always believed you to be , because in their eyes whatever the truth is in your reality to them will always remain that which they believe is . Your truth to them is a lie because they’ve never been exposed to your reality hence it’s unreal to them .
24:10
March 11, 2021
*Terms and Conditions APPLY* ! I will help you But!
*Terms and Conditions APPLY* ! I will help you But!
Often times when one seeks help there will be those who have the resources but their intentions and motives are of their benefit and not yours as the one in need . They set up rules that will favour only them and make them look good at your expense. They find your need for help as their opportunity to manipulate and use your situation to their own advantage and usually their help becomes a burden to you seeing they believe that you no longer have a say or power once you’ve taken their help .
22:35
March 06, 2021
NO IT’s NOT A CULT ! It’s Just INNOCENCE CORRUPTED BY A CORRUPT SEED
NO IT’s NOT A CULT ! It’s Just INNOCENCE CORRUPTED BY A CORRUPT SEED
No! It’s not a cult ,It’s the fruits of a CORRUPT MINSET that corrupted innocence. A corrupt seed that was planted in an innocent mind produced a corrupt mindset due to the teachings of the past created by corrupt teachers . Hence we live in a world where wrong is right and right is wrong ...mhm...follow through as we chat about that and more...
19:07
February 28, 2021
FRENEMIES OR JUST COMPETITIVE ACQUAINTANCES?!
FRENEMIES OR JUST COMPETITIVE ACQUAINTANCES?!
Often time we give ourselves away and give all of us to people with different motives and those motives exclude us in the end of their goals ... as much as we usually the ones who put in much work but the end goal does not include us in their world because to them we’re just “a means to an end “ a “ladder to access the next level “ and that’s it! Nothing more than that ...while they make us believe otherwise . Mhm! I wonder if they knew you knew !!!!!
22:14
February 11, 2021
ENABLERS OF ARROGANCE & BAD BEHAVIOUR!
ENABLERS OF ARROGANCE & BAD BEHAVIOUR!
How we allow people with aggressive and arrogant behaviour to dominate us even when we’re uncomfortable and enabling them to keep doing what they do somehow make them believe their behaviour is ok because we allow them to operate in that way without question. When we laugh at their uncomfortable jokes and their childish behaviour we enable them to be that way and they use us who lough at their foolishness as reference to justify their behaviour.
14:53
February 08, 2021
I LOVE YOU BECAUSE ! Mhm?! OH THE REASON!
I LOVE YOU BECAUSE ! Mhm?! OH THE REASON!
We all have our definition of love , but our expectations stop us from experiencing what our loved ones has to offer . Maybe this time we need to let them show us what is their definition of love so that we can be able to show them what our expectations are but not impose our definitions to their definitions of how to love . Their version may be different but the LOVE language is universal we all just need to listen and take time to learn how to see things through the eyes of those we claim to love .
15:42
February 03, 2021
SUBCONSCIOUSLY BROKEN!
SUBCONSCIOUSLY BROKEN!
A Road to healing is a long journey which requires the willing heart and eager to change mentality!
19:15
January 26, 2021
“IS IT A GOOSE CHASE OR NOT ?!”
“IS IT A GOOSE CHASE OR NOT ?!”
We like chasing after things we believe are better than what we have or things that other people have achieved and think that if we chase after those people who seem successful we too will be as successful as they’re! Whereas it’s highly unlikely for them to share their core secrets to their success ! So you might be chasing after people who are also chasing after something you are NOT part of ! In their world you DO NOT exist and you never will! even if you introduced yourself !unless you have something to offer them something that will benefit their image and Not yours ! Maybe they might give you a chance but never their wealth!
14:25
January 20, 2021
THAT PHRASE ! “I WAS PROTECTING YOU”
THAT PHRASE ! “I WAS PROTECTING YOU”
That’s the phrase people use to justify their actions after they’ve decided for you . The decision to do things behind your back and c Assume you’re incapable of knowing what is best for you . Now I wonder what is it that made them come to that conclusion?! It is due to the previous encounters or due to your regular responses or due to their selfish feelings or fear to be opposed ? Well I have learned the lesson of life ! Some people will project their fears onto you and make you be the one who needs help and feel like they need to protect you from yourself whereas they are helping themselves at your expense .With the hope that when you happen to catch-up you’ll be the least to realise their actions they’ve done behind your back.
10:08
January 09, 2021
SEEKING ATTENTION OR NOT!
SEEKING ATTENTION OR NOT!
When we are desperate for attention we tend to believe we’re incapable of making our own decisions or we don’t have voices high enough to be heard ! On this session we chat about that and more ....
07:55
January 06, 2021
NOT A PREFERENCE!
NOT A PREFERENCE!
Ever been in a situation where you feel like you’re not a preferred candidate or a preference company or always seeking to be seen or noticed by those you wished would notice your efforts ? Ever feel like you’re just not good enough ? Well on this session we chat about that and more .....
16:50
January 02, 2021
A MESSAGE FOR THE NEW YEAR
A MESSAGE FOR THE NEW YEAR
Happy new year as you rise this new year !
06:47
January 01, 2021
When potential is a threat to POWER
When potential is a threat to POWER
What if the people you’ve been sharing your dreams and vision with are the ones who are destroying your potential to become great! What if you’re a threat to their power ? What if because you’re too desperate to see you keep sharing your ideas and they’re benefiting from them and they won’t share their profits with you because they don’t want you to see or realise how great you are ! So they’ll keep you where they want you because you’re like a cow in their backyard they enjoy milking . What if Just what if ?
25:21
December 21, 2020
It’s NOT ENVY
It’s NOT ENVY
Sometimes people don’t applaud or respond to your achievements because they are going through things in their lives that they can’t ignore and you’re not the centre of their attention at that moment ! It’s not about you just consider that before you declare them as enemies.
12:12
December 18, 2020
JOKES ON ME!
JOKES ON ME!
Some people will make fun of you as you build . In their world your efforts are a waste of time and not worth supporting. They make it look like you’re in sane and your imagination is just craziness .
09:44
December 17, 2020
REALITY CHECK
REALITY CHECK
when you start accepting your reality and not be in denial of your current situation you start gaining confidence in finding ways to deal with your reality as you pursue change to a better you .
11:14
December 14, 2020
SELF LOVE
SELF LOVE
You have the power to draw a line when you feel like it’s been crossed ! No one has the right to invade your space without your permission...! Protect your peace .
12:10
December 13, 2020
FROM A DISTANCE
FROM A DISTANCE
It’s ok to love some people from a distance sometimes , for your your own peace and growth . Don’t feel guilty it’s part of life and it’s the reality you need to accept sometimes .
12:56
December 10, 2020
“WORK ON IT”
“WORK ON IT”
Criticism is not a killer but a drive to help us do better . Whether it’s coming from a good or bad place . Don’t take it personal if you believe in your vision than just WORK ON IT !
20:32
December 07, 2020
The missing puzzle 2.0
The missing puzzle 2.0
Extension .......
00:48
December 03, 2020
THE MISSING PUZZLE
THE MISSING PUZZLE
Being a missing puzzle doesn’t mean you’re a reject but it only means you’re not looking in the right places your board mates are somewhere where you’re not looking don’t beat yourself up and think you’re useless or you don’t belong just keep looking and you’ll find your board mates and when you do you’ll fit perfectly you won’t even remember you ever felt like you don’t belong ! Just don’t give up on yourself just yet ....
10:44
December 02, 2020
HEALING WHILE HURTING ...it’s time
HEALING WHILE HURTING ...it’s time
Often times we grieve for too long such that we forget to live our lives and before we know it time has lapsed and we’re filled with regrets because we wasted too much time trying to figure out what went wrong and trying to rewrite the history instead of focusing on what is ahead! Heal it’s time
09:30
December 01, 2020
RELEASE
RELEASE
This episode contains more insight on life lessons ,music and poetry! Enjoy!
09:36
November 27, 2020
NOW RISE
NOW RISE
I had to shrink myself to accommodate your ego and ignorance ! NOW I RISE !
08:36
November 24, 2020
Limping On
Limping On
When we feel tired and we feel like we’re limping through life .....
04:57
November 23, 2020
TOO HURT TO REASON TOO ANGRY TO SEE
TOO HURT TO REASON TOO ANGRY TO SEE
Sometimes when we’re too angry our judgement becomes clouded and we end up taking decisions that will destroy any good thing we have in our lives because when in that mode we fail to reason and usually a solution we choose is never a solution that will help us improve .
23:42
November 20, 2020
Assuming insignificance
Assuming insignificance
When we feel insignificant we tend to believe that we are not capable and that we don’t have a voice to be heard due to our belief that we are not visible enough to be heard .
14:55
November 13, 2020
Be grateful and LOVE
Be grateful and LOVE
No matter how rich or amazing you think you are but if you don’t have love you’re like an empty tin that makes a lot of noise .
14:57
November 10, 2020
FLAWS
FLAWS
Accepting your flaws might be difficult but when you do , you gain power to control on how you want your life to be like . No criticism will have a hold on you because you have owned your own flaws .
19:38
November 09, 2020
DEALING WITH REJECTION
DEALING WITH REJECTION
When we are rejected we tend to think that it is because we are worthless and not deserving but that is not true . Take a listen to the full session and find out why it hurts ! Hope this will help .
17:55
November 06, 2020
When you’re too desperate you’re easily deceived .
When you’re too desperate you’re easily deceived .
Being desperate makes you a target to manipulators and they know how to sell you a lie in Oder to get what they want from you especially if they see that you’re too desperate to reason .
02:25
November 02, 2020
Forgiveness &Scars
Forgiveness &Scars
Your scars are a decoration of your past victories. They are a reminder of how much experience you have and how much wisdom you’ve acquired during that phase of your life . Embrace your beauty that was meant to be a reminder of pain& because you embraced your scars now receive healing by allowing growth in your journey . Your past should never dominate your present and your future should never be influenced by your past . Life is a journey . We fail forward together . Don’t hoard your pain because it will be your downfall . Release it and you will see how beautiful life is without resentment consuming you .
16:03
October 26, 2020
Letting go is hard but necessary .
Letting go is hard but necessary .
Let go of the past before it consume you. Move on and try to live in the present . Because your past mistakes were life lessons but your present decisions will be your future results .
14:44
October 23, 2020
Expectations & superiority
Expectations & superiority
Never expect things that were never promised to you . Also never expect things from people who never promised you anything .
10:60
October 19, 2020
WELCOME TO TBS with NDO DLAKADLA
WELCOME TO TBS with NDO DLAKADLA
“The fearful might be hesitant but the brave will move ….” My journey out journey …this is the journey for the willing !
00:38
October 16, 2020