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THE BORNGREAT SESSIONS

THE BORNGREAT SESSIONS

By Ndo Dlakadla

“The fearful might hesitate ,but the bold will move !”
This is the journey for the willing ……
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When a subconscious mind envies toxic authority .

THE BORNGREAT SESSIONS Mar 22, 2022

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Meet me at my level of reasoning as I figure out how to meet you at yours

Meet me at my level of reasoning as I figure out how to meet you at yours

We find ourselves fighting over thing we agree on because of a wall created by our assumptions about each other. Break the wall and meet me at your level of reasoning and let’s find a solution without arguing over assumptions made subconsciously.
Jan 29, 202414:49
Amusing misery is expensive

Amusing misery is expensive

At times we find ourselves entertaining Misery at our expense subconsciously due to misfortunes that made us believe we’ve somehow become immune to pain in a sense that it has become our lifestyle … this episode we go deeper into this notion of being unable to detach from it .please do take a listen for more insight
Aug 02, 202317:26
Unwarranted Self inflicted wounds/Pain!

Unwarranted Self inflicted wounds/Pain!

In this episode we discuss self inflicted wounds that are unwarranted. Ignorance often clouds our understanding and judgement simply due to unwarranted self inflicted pain for lack of accountability and misdirection of blame . Full discussion on this matter lies on this episode .
Jun 07, 202318:23
A seed that won’t grow : A soil not ready to receive the seed.

A seed that won’t grow : A soil not ready to receive the seed.

We sometimes get frustrated when we try to plant a seed and it doesn’t grow or it doesn’t get received by the soil we planted it on. Well this session unpacks that theory and more take a listen … share your views and subscribe
Mar 29, 202314:55
SELF SUFFICIENCY: A MUST

SELF SUFFICIENCY: A MUST

We often get deceived in to thinking that depending on others intellectually and emotionally will help us be better human whereas all we need to do is to reach deep into our souls and read our own instinct in Oder for us to know when we’re being used and played or deceived . Listen to more of this on this session .
Jul 04, 202220:26
OVER-EXAGGERATED IMPORTANCE

OVER-EXAGGERATED IMPORTANCE

over-exaggerating your importance to other people is like setting yourself up for disappointment , this session unpack that truth, take a listen till the end .
Jun 23, 202219:54
Emotionally dependent: A TRAP

Emotionally dependent: A TRAP

To be emotionally dependant on others has the potential to do more harm than good when you allow others have more say over your life than you do for yourself . Do take a listen to this session to have more insight on this perspective.
Jun 09, 202224:07
Common sense is not always COMMON

Common sense is not always COMMON

we are not always going to reason the way other do . Our reasoning is mostly inspired by our upbringing and the society we grew up around . Who we are plays a role in what we become . Tune in to this session for more as we explore on this subject of Common sense not being common for everyone .
May 26, 202230:38
MESSENGERS OF CHANGE : THE AWAKENING

MESSENGERS OF CHANGE : THE AWAKENING

When we face challenges we get scared and unsure if the outcome ,yet we fail to recognise the reality of surviving those challenges as we get a ticket to the next chapter of our lives victorious.
May 12, 202207:39
Unworthy : UNPRETTY

Unworthy : UNPRETTY

People who project their negative feelings when they see you are often the reason you find yourself in doubt of your existence. Never believe a criticism that is not constructive it might destroy your self esteem.
May 05, 202219:54
A TREE WITHOUT ROOTS

A TREE WITHOUT ROOTS

The deeper the roots the bigger &higher the tree….listen to this session for more
Apr 21, 202213:02
My TRUTH

My TRUTH

We all experienced being discussed without our knowledge due to people who believe they should own our story with or without our consent. On this session we discuss such .. so tune in to listen
Apr 20, 202208:09
Faith or Denial?!

Faith or Denial?!

Well we learn everyday with everything happening around us we try not to miss the life lessons life is going to teach us in every second of our lives .this session is about Faith and being in denial … which is the truth ?! Do tune in
Apr 17, 202214:43
When a subconscious mind envies toxic authority .

When a subconscious mind envies toxic authority .

Naturally the position of authority is aspired by most, due to the fact that power and superiority is what makes one be seen or heard , as the narrative of the society portrays . Well it is possible to escape from such environments and be free from mental oppression . Take a listen.
Mar 22, 202211:51
LET IT SINK IN

LET IT SINK IN

For every challenge there is a solution . We just need to take a moment and let it all sink in .
Jan 11, 202209:47
GREATNESS IN A BOX

GREATNESS IN A BOX

In this session we chat about how our fears attract exactly what we hope to NOT become ! Nothing in this world is as easy as ABC unless it’s an actual ABC
Nov 03, 202110:55
SUBCONSCIOUSLY AT FAULT

SUBCONSCIOUSLY AT FAULT

We Sometimes hurt the people we claim to love due to our subconscious mistakes.and those mistakes costs us if pride gets in a way . Our expectations out of them may be too high for them to meet . However when we learn to reason first before we conclude their intentions lost relationships would be saved . No one is perfect . Learn to love with their flaws as long as they don’t drain or kill you .
Oct 17, 202115:58
FORGIVENESS/PASSPORT TO THE NEXT LEVEL

FORGIVENESS/PASSPORT TO THE NEXT LEVEL

We hold ourselves hostage in our own mind believing by harbouring pain and grudge we will avenge and receive our justice whereas we only punish ourselves for something done by others to us . Only this time we’re doing it to ourselves and they have no idea that we’re going through what they put us through . Pain can eat a person away until they throw themselves to toxins and if they’re lucky they will come out alive but some aren’t hence they’ll end up dying young before their time . Before this become your fate please pay attention to this session perhaps you may find a new perspective.
Sep 27, 202118:21
THE IMPACT OF A TOXIC SOCIETY

THE IMPACT OF A TOXIC SOCIETY

No one is born knowing what is right or wrong . We are taught these things . No one is born with hate or love .. we learn these things from those who raised us … on this session we chat about that and more . Do listen til the end .
Sep 12, 202112:10
I AM A WOMAN, A QUEEN

I AM A WOMAN, A QUEEN

I wear my crown with pride and my pride is in my ability to heal, love , nurture and provide serenity to those around me . My presence is felt in a room not by defining myself as something persisted as strong as masculinity but by defining myself as something i believe make me to be who I really am and that’s my femininity. I am a WOMAN ! A Queen ! Take a listen to the rest !
Aug 09, 202112:49
THE GLOVES ARE OFF !

THE GLOVES ARE OFF !

Some people are selfish to an extent that they don’t even see how much damage they do to you when they demand things from you while they won’t even blink to tear you down with their selfish desires . On this session we chat about that and more ! Lesson learned !
Jul 06, 202110:13
INTROSPECTION

INTROSPECTION

We sometimes blame ourselves for things we have no control over . We beat ourselves up for things we cannot change . The more we spend enough time with ourselves the more we’ll come to the realisation of our potential and greatness from within . On this session we go deeper on introspection.
Jun 23, 202119:29
LISTEN TO REASON NOT TO JUST RESPOND ….

LISTEN TO REASON NOT TO JUST RESPOND ….

One of the reasons we have social issues that are unnecessary it’s because of communication . It’s easy to hear , but to listen takes time to process what the sound heard was about .
Jun 08, 202118:29
Insecure; love is

Insecure; love is

Sometime we find ourselves in situations where we don’t feel like we are worthy of any good thing in our lives because we’ve lawa ready judged ourselves and this cloud blind us and makes us believe the fog not clear for us. Because we don’t believe we are worthy we end up chasing every good thing coming into our lives .
May 29, 202119:46
The uncontested lie converted into the Truth .

The uncontested lie converted into the Truth .

What if the truth you believed was or is actually the uncontested lie planted as a seed that the unsuspecting generation believed from those who wanted to convert the lie into a truth that will make them comfortable at the time ? Think about it ...?!
May 13, 202113:34
SCARS FROM THE PAST: FLOWERS THAT BLOOM &WITHERS BEFORE THEIR TIME

SCARS FROM THE PAST: FLOWERS THAT BLOOM &WITHERS BEFORE THEIR TIME

Our scars are a reminder of the journey we have been to... they tell a story only WE can tell the way we remember it ! Our stories help us learn life lessons . It’s up to us to get stuck in the past or to take the first step forward tho our healing .
Apr 28, 202118:29
HUMBLE OR TAMED ? I wonder ?!

HUMBLE OR TAMED ? I wonder ?!

people buy face , front and behave according to that specific occasion to receive acceptance . Some hide behind religion some hide behind culture . They act humble yet they’re true self is hidden behind their act .
Apr 03, 202123:46
A means to an end. A Reverse psychology Version

A means to an end. A Reverse psychology Version

There are people who would do anything to get closer to you only to use your resources not because you’re important in their lives or anything but because you’re close to someone they regard as more important than you so they behave and treat you like you’re that person to make you feel special in a way that you’ll be so free around them enough for them to take and suck everything from you until you run dry . And when they are done they move to the next big thing . Unfortunately because they were never for you from the start they won’t even care what damage they leave behind .
Mar 27, 202119:52
How High can you go ? How deep can you reach? Wait ! But First ARE YOU WILLING TO GO THAT FAR?!

How High can you go ? How deep can you reach? Wait ! But First ARE YOU WILLING TO GO THAT FAR?!

These are the questions one asks when they find themselves in situation where they need to decide if it worth the effort or not . On this session we chat about that and more .
Mar 17, 202125:30
Your Truth ,their lie ! Why the need to explain ?!

Your Truth ,their lie ! Why the need to explain ?!

Some people are wired in a way that whatever they’ve assumed and concluded is their truth and there is nothing you or anyone else can do to convince them otherwise especially when it comes to what they identify your character as . No matter how much you’ve changed or improved to them you’ll always be that which they’ve always believed you to be , because in their eyes whatever the truth is in your reality to them will always remain that which they believe is . Your truth to them is a lie because they’ve never been exposed to your reality hence it’s unreal to them .
Mar 11, 202124:10
*Terms and Conditions APPLY* ! I will help you But!

*Terms and Conditions APPLY* ! I will help you But!

Often times when one seeks help there will be those who have the resources but their intentions and motives are of their benefit and not yours as the one in need . They set up rules that will favour only them and make them look good at your expense. They find your need for help as their opportunity to manipulate and use your situation to their own advantage and usually their help becomes a burden to you seeing they believe that you no longer have a say or power once you’ve taken their help .
Mar 06, 202122:35
NO IT’s NOT A CULT ! It’s Just INNOCENCE CORRUPTED BY A CORRUPT SEED

NO IT’s NOT A CULT ! It’s Just INNOCENCE CORRUPTED BY A CORRUPT SEED

No! It’s not a cult ,It’s the fruits of a CORRUPT MINSET that corrupted innocence. A corrupt seed that was planted in an innocent mind produced a corrupt mindset due to the teachings of the past created by corrupt teachers . Hence we live in a world where wrong is right and right is wrong ...mhm...follow through as we chat about that and more...
Feb 28, 202119:07
FRENEMIES OR JUST COMPETITIVE ACQUAINTANCES?!

FRENEMIES OR JUST COMPETITIVE ACQUAINTANCES?!

Often time we give ourselves away and give all of us to people with different motives and those motives exclude us in the end of their goals ... as much as we usually the ones who put in much work but the end goal does not include us in their world because to them we’re just “a means to an end “ a “ladder to access the next level “ and that’s it! Nothing more than that ...while they make us believe otherwise . Mhm! I wonder if they knew you knew !!!!!
Feb 11, 202122:14
ENABLERS OF ARROGANCE & BAD BEHAVIOUR!

ENABLERS OF ARROGANCE & BAD BEHAVIOUR!

How we allow people with aggressive and arrogant behaviour to dominate us even when we’re uncomfortable and enabling them to keep doing what they do somehow make them believe their behaviour is ok because we allow them to operate in that way without question. When we laugh at their uncomfortable jokes and their childish behaviour we enable them to be that way and they use us who lough at their foolishness as reference to justify their behaviour.
Feb 08, 202114:53
I LOVE YOU BECAUSE ! Mhm?! OH THE REASON!

I LOVE YOU BECAUSE ! Mhm?! OH THE REASON!

We all have our definition of love , but our expectations stop us from experiencing what our loved ones has to offer . Maybe this time we need to let them show us what is their definition of love so that we can be able to show them what our expectations are but not impose our definitions to their definitions of how to love . Their version may be different but the LOVE language is universal we all just need to listen and take time to learn how to see things through the eyes of those we claim to love .
Feb 03, 202115:42
SUBCONSCIOUSLY BROKEN!

SUBCONSCIOUSLY BROKEN!

A Road to healing is a long journey which requires the willing heart and eager to change mentality!
Jan 26, 202119:15
“IS IT A GOOSE CHASE OR NOT ?!”

“IS IT A GOOSE CHASE OR NOT ?!”

We like chasing after things we believe are better than what we have or things that other people have achieved and think that if we chase after those people who seem successful we too will be as successful as they’re! Whereas it’s highly unlikely for them to share their core secrets to their success ! So you might be chasing after people who are also chasing after something you are NOT part of ! In their world you DO NOT exist and you never will! even if you introduced yourself !unless you have something to offer them something that will benefit their image and Not yours ! Maybe they might give you a chance but never their wealth!
Jan 20, 202114:25
THAT PHRASE ! “I WAS PROTECTING YOU”

THAT PHRASE ! “I WAS PROTECTING YOU”

That’s the phrase people use to justify their actions after they’ve decided for you . The decision to do things behind your back and c
Assume you’re incapable of knowing what is best for you . Now I wonder what is it that made them come to that conclusion?! It is due to the previous encounters or due to your regular responses or due to their selfish feelings or fear to be opposed ? Well I have learned the lesson of life ! Some people will project their fears onto you and make you be the one who needs help and feel like they need to protect you from yourself whereas they are helping themselves at your expense .With the hope that when you happen to catch-up you’ll be the least to realise their actions they’ve done behind your back.
Jan 09, 202110:08
SEEKING ATTENTION OR NOT!

SEEKING ATTENTION OR NOT!

When we are desperate for attention we tend to believe we’re incapable of making our own decisions or we don’t have voices high enough to be heard ! On this session we chat about that and more ....
Jan 06, 202107:55
NOT A PREFERENCE!

NOT A PREFERENCE!

Ever been in a situation where you feel like you’re not a preferred candidate or a preference company or always seeking to be seen or noticed by those you wished would notice your efforts ? Ever feel like you’re just not good enough ? Well on this session we chat about that and more .....
Jan 02, 202116:50
A MESSAGE FOR THE NEW YEAR

A MESSAGE FOR THE NEW YEAR

Happy new year as you rise this new year !
Jan 01, 202106:47
When potential is a threat to POWER

When potential is a threat to POWER

What if the people you’ve been sharing your dreams and vision with are the ones who are destroying your potential to become great! What if you’re a threat to their power ? What if because you’re too desperate to see you keep sharing your ideas and they’re benefiting from them and they won’t share their profits with you because they don’t want you to see or realise how great you are ! So they’ll keep you where they want you because you’re like a cow in their backyard they enjoy milking . What if Just what if ?
Dec 21, 202025:21
It’s NOT ENVY

It’s NOT ENVY

Sometimes people don’t applaud or respond to your achievements because they are going through things in their lives that they can’t ignore and you’re not the centre of their attention at that moment ! It’s not about you just consider that before you declare them as enemies.
Dec 18, 202012:12
JOKES ON ME!

JOKES ON ME!

Some people will make fun of you as you build . In their world your efforts are a waste of time and not worth supporting. They make it look like you’re in sane and your imagination is just craziness .
Dec 17, 202009:44
REALITY CHECK

REALITY CHECK

when you start accepting your reality and not be in denial of your current situation you start gaining confidence in finding ways to deal with your reality as you pursue change to a better you .
Dec 14, 202011:14
SELF LOVE

SELF LOVE

You have the power to draw a line when you feel like it’s been crossed ! No one has the right to invade your space without your permission...! Protect your peace .
Dec 13, 202012:10
FROM A DISTANCE

FROM A DISTANCE

It’s ok to love some people from a distance sometimes , for your your own peace and growth . Don’t feel guilty it’s part of life and it’s the reality you need to accept sometimes .
Dec 10, 202012:56
“WORK ON IT”

“WORK ON IT”

Criticism is not a killer but a drive to help us do better . Whether it’s coming from a good or bad place . Don’t take it personal if you believe in your vision than just WORK ON IT !
Dec 07, 202020:32
The missing puzzle 2.0

The missing puzzle 2.0

Extension .......
Dec 03, 202000:48
THE MISSING PUZZLE

THE MISSING PUZZLE

Being a missing puzzle doesn’t mean you’re a reject but it only means you’re not looking in the right places your board mates are somewhere where you’re not looking don’t beat yourself up and think you’re useless or you don’t belong just keep looking and you’ll find your board mates and when you do you’ll fit perfectly you won’t even remember you ever felt like you don’t belong ! Just don’t give up on yourself just yet ....
Dec 02, 202010:44