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Neal Lemery

Neal Lemery

By Neal Lemery

My blog and my books: Building Community, Finding My Muse on Main Street, Homegrown Tomatoes, and Mentoring Boys to Men
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Laurel Hedges and the Evil Lurker, by Karen Keltz, a book review

Neal LemeryJul 24, 2021

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Waiting for a Change

Waiting for a Change

A friend struggles with addiction, depression, anxiety, and his fear of failure. What is my role, as the caring, concerned friend?

Mar 02, 202404:32
Self Care; Community Care

Self Care; Community Care

Taking care of myself and taking care of my community. A conversation about using technology and helping others, while also taking care of yourself.

Feb 22, 202407:56
Reaching Out

Reaching Out

Reaching out in a dark month, remembering good times, good deeds, good friends, and the beauty of nature. Part of community caretaking

Feb 13, 202404:41
It's All About Relationships

It's All About Relationships

Living a good life depends on healthy relationships, with others, and with yourself. Life experiences gives me opportunities for self-reflection, and for being motivated to be a caring, sensitive, engaged friend. And, being a good friend for myself.

Feb 10, 202404:57
Taking on a Challenge

Taking on a Challenge

Dealing with the complexities of today's life, let's get back to the basics of introspection, contemplation, and thoughtful citizenship and artistic expression.

Feb 07, 202403:37
It's the Write Time

It's the Write Time

Often, it is the right time to sit down and write down your thoughts and share them with the world. We all have stories, and we need to share them, to create a better world.

Feb 04, 202404:52
Refusing to be Silent

Refusing to be Silent

There's a time to be quiet, but there are also times to speak up, to address injustice and inequality, and to share your thoughts about a more just society.

Feb 04, 202405:18
Hunkering Down

Hunkering Down

When cold, windy weather comes, we all respond. It is a great time to hunker down at home with a good book, some tea, and lots of projects. A time of productivity, rest, and contemplation.

Feb 04, 202405:18
Tillamook County Historical Society Looks Ahead to 2024

Tillamook County Historical Society Looks Ahead to 2024

The Tillamook County Historical Society is a busy, engaged group of dedicated volunteers, looking ahead to a busy 2024.

Feb 04, 202403:36
Sunday Morning Contemplation

Sunday Morning Contemplation

Sunday mornings are quiet and contemplative in my house. My thoughts on peaceful thoughts and looking ahead at a productive week.

Feb 04, 202405:23
Holding Space

Holding Space

Being present with someone is the essence of friendship and good communication. Holding space is the idea of being fully present, being a true and active friend.

Feb 04, 202404:56
Struggling With Loneliness

Struggling With Loneliness

We all struggle with loneliness. We aren't alone, but it is important to be aware of our feelings, and our ability to work through those feelings and move ahead. Here are my thoughts.

Feb 04, 202408:18
Towards Purposeful Work
Mar 30, 202302:40
Work Your Hard
Mar 12, 202304:08
Quiet Time and Simple Gifts
Feb 27, 202303:36
Doing the Right Thing
Feb 11, 202304:11
Through the Eyes of a Child
Feb 02, 202302:58
Special Moments With Jim
Jan 22, 202304:11
Savoring the Silence
Dec 24, 202205:11
Yet Another Review of my Book, from the Tillamook County Pioneer
Dec 19, 202203:23
Another Nice Review
Dec 15, 202200:40
Quiet Time

Quiet Time

 Early morning thoughts. A time to hold space, find yourself, and organize the day with calming rituals. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2022/11/25/quiet-time/

Nov 25, 202203:33
Some Post-Election Thoughts: Standing Up for Myself
Nov 14, 202202:58
Roundabout: Struggling With Addiction
Oct 05, 202204:33
Guerrilla Gardening: Bringing Light Into Our World
Sep 13, 202204:05
What I Learned This Summer
Aug 30, 202204:47
Listening Can Be The Change
Aug 22, 202202:47
Each of Us Can Be a Force for Change
Aug 04, 202204:09
Finding Determination in an Old Family Photo
Jul 27, 202203:44
Ranked Choice Voting: Is It In Our Future?
Jul 24, 202203:02
Taking Time to Grieve
Jul 14, 202204:29
The Bramblebush: A Look at the Law on Abortion
Jun 28, 202205:40
Learning From My Tomatoes
Jun 19, 202202:44
My Ten Minute Rule
May 28, 202204:35
The Power of Collective Silence
May 25, 202203:27
Free: Two Years, Six Lives, and the Long Journey Home, by Lauren Kessler. A Book Review
May 15, 202203:44
Planting Seeds

Planting Seeds

What I get out of gardening.  The miracle of planting a seed, and how it reverberates throughout my life. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2022/04/20/planting-seeds/

Apr 19, 202201:54
Revising an Old Family Story
Apr 18, 202205:35
The Unexpected Conversation

The Unexpected Conversation

How the unexpected conversation at the post office or the grocery store builds community, deepens friendships, and advances peace and compassion. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2022/03/13/the-unexpected-conversation/

Mar 13, 202203:12
Meth World — My Bitter Truth

Meth World — My Bitter Truth

Coping with a friend's relapse into the world of meth, and how I am trying to move forward. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2022/03/07/meth-world-my-bitter-truth/

Mar 07, 202208:03
Our Differences and the Coming Change

Our Differences and the Coming Change

Moving on from the pandemic.  How do we adapt to change, and move forward, building a healthy society and having productive conversations? This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2022/02/27/our-differences-and-the-coming-change/

Feb 27, 202205:36
Beginning

Beginning

A poetic look at creativity and the beginning of a project. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2022/02/16/beginning/

Feb 16, 202201:16
The Old Hay Fork

The Old Hay Fork

Remembering the guidance and love of my grandfather, who was more than just an old farmer.  He was my hero, my teacher,  and a teacher of love and neighborliness. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2022/02/07/the-old-hay-fork/

Feb 07, 202206:52
Pruning Time

Pruning Time

Pruning our lives and our community relationships and institutions to build a stronger community. How we can move forward. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2022/01/27/pruning-time-2/

Jan 27, 202204:34
Small Things

Small Things

The small conversations, the small actions of one person can change lives and build community. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2022/01/20/small-things/

Jan 20, 202203:50
Reaching Out — One to One

Reaching Out — One to One

We need to connect with each other, one person to another, and thereby change our lives and the world. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2022/01/09/reaching-out-one-to-one/

Jan 09, 202203:12
Filling Up the New Calendar

Filling Up the New Calendar

Building community, being mindful of the spirit of ubuntu, and planning for the new year. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2021/12/30/filling-up-the-new-calendar/

Dec 29, 202103:14
Unexpected Gifts: Giving From the Heart

Unexpected Gifts: Giving From the Heart

We can simplify gift giving and give from our heart, the gifts of time, compassion, and friendship.  This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2021/12/17/unexpected-gifts-giving-from-the-heart/

Dec 17, 202102:36
Simple Gifts

Simple Gifts

Coping with consumerism and the pressure to "give more" during the holidays.  A look at meaningful gift giving. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2021/11/30/simple-gifts/

Nov 30, 202103:17
The Verdict in Kenosha

The Verdict in Kenosha

Looking at the Kenosha verdict in the eyes of the law.  A call for reform and dialogue. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://neallemery.com/2021/11/21/the-verdict-in-kenosha/

Nov 21, 202104:03