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Beyond the Velvet Rope

Beyond the Velvet Rope

By Neal Oates, Jr.

Welcome Beyond the Velvet Rope. Join luxury expert and coach, Neal Oates, Jr. on a journey into affluence and luxury. I train minority-owned, service-based businesses to increase revenue quickly and efficiently by offering world-renowned services to affluent clientele & influential decision-makers. Enjoy. Subscribe. Comment. SHARE!
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Beyond the Velvet RopeApr 15, 2019

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Tips for Networking with HNWIs - 051

Tips for Networking with HNWIs - 051

Today, we'll explore the power of connections and how you can effectively engage with high-net-worth individuals to enhance your business prospects.

Jun 29, 202316:16
Tips for Excelling with Affluent Clients - 050

Tips for Excelling with Affluent Clients - 050

In this captivating episode of "Beyond the Velvet Rope," host Neal Oates, Jr. dives deep into the world of affluent clients, sharing invaluable tips and strategies on how to excel in working with this discerning group. Join Neal as he uncovers the secrets to building trust, understanding unique needs, and nurturing long-term relationships with affluent individuals.

May 19, 202323:07
From Corporate Superstar to Entrepreneur - 049

From Corporate Superstar to Entrepreneur - 049

You all are in for a treat because I stole some valuable time from Rae Rajkumar for an episode of The :26. Great content for everyone, but especially for the ladies. From corporate America "up and comer" to successful independent jewelry consultant, Rae shows what's possible when failure and sitting on the sidelines in self-pity is not an option.  Be sure to support everything Lady Raen does!

May 28, 202135:17
Becoming a Person of Influence: Pt 1 - 048

Becoming a Person of Influence: Pt 1 - 048

Whether you admit it or not, life is better when you have and use influence. How do true influencers leverage what they have to positively impact everyone they come in contact with? This video shares the a few key characteristics of influencers.  We hope that you enjoy, comment, share, and subscribe. Don't hesitate to let us know what's on your mind or what you would like to see covered here.

May 20, 202124:34
Become THE Authority - 047

Become THE Authority - 047

No longer is it good enough to be one of many. Today learn why true success requires you to become THE authority in your real estate niche and HOW to do it.

Jul 26, 201910:01
It's All About LEADS - Beyond the Velvet Rope

It's All About LEADS - Beyond the Velvet Rope

The lifeblood of any successful real estate business is leads! Have you accepted this truth? What are you doing to ensure your business has a bright future? Episode 7 of Beyond the Velvet Rope takes you into the questions every agent needs to answer to guarantee success in the luxury real estate niche.

Jul 24, 201903:29
How to be THE, not a - Beyond the Velvet Rope

How to be THE, not a - Beyond the Velvet Rope

The world's most discerning clients have a desire and a need to work with THE best in every arena of life. Are you THE go-to professional in your market or have you gotten lost in the sea of "a's"? Join us as we discuss tips to become THE real estate agent of choice for affluent clients.

Jul 22, 201902:57
Worth More Than GOLD - Beyond the Velvet Rope

Worth More Than GOLD - Beyond the Velvet Rope

To the affluent there are some things more valuable than gold. One of them is discussed in this episode of Beyond the Velvet Rope. When you grasp this truth and implement it into your dealings with affluent clientele you will see an immediate benefit.

Jul 19, 201903:43
Study to Show Yourself Approved - Beyond the Velvet Rope

Study to Show Yourself Approved - Beyond the Velvet Rope

If you're still on the journey with us Beyond the Velvet Rope, hopefully you have already come to understand that to attain and sustain success in the luxury niche will require work. A major determinant of your ability to thrive in the competitive, luxury niche will be your willingness to become more than a practitioner, and embrace the role of STUDENT! Find out why studying: more than the competition, the right information, and being able to communicate its value to an interested client base is the difference between success and failure.

Jul 17, 201906:31
Getting to AND Through the Gate Keepers

Getting to AND Through the Gate Keepers

Relationships are THE key to succeeding in luxury real estate. You probably already know this, but they aren't the relationships you have in mind. To be truly successful in this niche, building great relationships with the "gatekeepers" of affluent individuals is an avenue that is often overlooked and undervalued. This episode is all about finding & loving on the gatekeeper!

Jul 15, 201907:18
Can You Swim with Sharks - Beyond the Velvet Rope

Can You Swim with Sharks - Beyond the Velvet Rope

Do you want to dive into the world of luxury real estate? If so, you better be able to swim with sharks. This isn't meant to say that luxury real estate agents are mean or bad, but their simple presence in the marketplace or room can be intimidating. How well you prepare to "swim" in the same waters with them will make a world of difference. While there are many similarities between selling general real estate and high value properties, there are also nuances that if learned will improve your probability for success. Whether you are new to the real estate industry or simply looking to increase your selling price points, asking the question, "Can you swim with sharks?" and answering honestly is a terrific step towards real estate sales success.

Jul 12, 201907:14
Beyond the Velvet Rope - What it takes to succeed

Beyond the Velvet Rope - What it takes to succeed

This episode we discover the two necessary principles to moving Beyond the Velvet Rope and working in the high-end, luxury real estate market. It may be difficult, but it's not impossible!

Jul 10, 201908:51
There are NO Limits - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

There are NO Limits - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

You have the skills & the ability right now to sell and earn twice as much as you are earning today, and probably much, much more.

Make a decision today to become excellent in the field of selling.

Jul 08, 201907:47
Manage Your TIME Effectively - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

Manage Your TIME Effectively - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

You KNOW that we all have the same 24 hours to use. What are you doing with that knowledge?

People are highly paid b/c they spend more of their time doing things of higher value. People are underpaid b/c they spend more of their time doing things of lower value.

Jul 05, 201909:25
Keep Customers for Life - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

Keep Customers for Life - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

Why is the second sale so important?

Because you can get the first sale with discounts, deceit, or bonus offers. The second sale is the PROOF that you have delivered on the promises you made during the first sale.

Jul 03, 201907:28
Provide Excellent Customer Service - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

Provide Excellent Customer Service - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

The very best people and the best companies are obsessed with customer service. Peter Drucker wrote that "the purpose of a business is to create and keep a customer."

Listen as we discuss the four levels of customer service.

Jul 01, 201908:22
How to Handle Objections Effectively

How to Handle Objections Effectively

Are you like most people who shun objections? After watching this video you will learn to anticipate and welcome objections and why more objections mean MORE SALES!

Jun 28, 201910:20
Establishing Mega-Credibility - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

Establishing Mega-Credibility - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

How can you reduce the amount of time needed to close a sale AND increase the number of sales you complete? Establishing mega-credibility takes you and your business to new heights.

Jun 26, 201908:49
Practice the Power of Suggestion - Sale Success - Brian Tracy

Practice the Power of Suggestion - Sale Success - Brian Tracy

Are you harnessing the power of suggestion or are you missing golden opportunities to move prospects closer to the sale? Learn how to practice the power of suggestion to get more of the results you want!

Jun 24, 201910:54
Making Effective Sales Presentations - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

Making Effective Sales Presentations - Sales Success - Brian Tracy

What creates an effective presentation? Chapter 13 is full of ideas and tips we can immediately implement to deliver effective presentations to prospects. These best practices will put you in a better position to close more sales

Jun 21, 201907:10
Sales Success - 3 Keys to Persuasion

Sales Success - 3 Keys to Persuasion

Learn the 3 keys to persuasion. We also cover simple but powerful sales triggers you can "pull" to have customers wanting to buy from you almost every time.

Jun 19, 201911:26
Sales Success - The Friendship Factor

Sales Success - The Friendship Factor

We switch things up from a call to a dedicated podcast this week. Chapter 11 is all about The Friendship Factor and how it can lead to continued sales success with easier & faster results. Be sure to like, share, and comment.

Jun 17, 201911:39
Sales Success - Prospecting Like a Pro & Qualifying Your Prospects

Sales Success - Prospecting Like a Pro & Qualifying Your Prospects

The importance of prospecting and qualifying prospects are covered during today's episode. We uncover why prospecting is vital to your success and identify so truths to be remember when looking for our ideal customers.

Jun 14, 201927:51
Sales Success - Developing a Competitive Advantage AND an Effective Sales Strategy

Sales Success - Developing a Competitive Advantage AND an Effective Sales Strategy

Covered on this episode:

Developing Competitive Advantage (Chapter 7)

Developing an Effective Sales Strategy (Chapter 8)

Jun 12, 201929:34
Overcoming fears, newfound passions and running a business w/ Joanna Oates

Overcoming fears, newfound passions and running a business w/ Joanna Oates

 Va Va Vooooom! Today you are in for a treat. Instead of getting my lovely wife a gift for Valentine's Day, I've decided to share her with you. I guaranty that you'll learn more than you could imagine from this beauty I get to call Wife. The lovely, soft-spoken, bombshell talks with me about overcoming fears, starting and running her own business, and newfound passions.   Joanna even takes a moment to disclose how she really deals with me EVERY day (sometimes she doesn't). I did my best to be the bad guy and squeeze a few tears out of her, and it worked!  This will likely be our best interview and DEFINITELY our sexiest guest to visit The :26 

Jun 10, 201930:34
Sales Success - Excellent Product Knowledge & Analyzing Competition

Sales Success - Excellent Product Knowledge & Analyzing Competition

This episode of The :26 is all about chapters 5 and 6 of Brian Tracy's Sales Success book. We discuss why having excellent product knowledge is vital to success over the long-term and how analyzing your competition can turn your liabilities into assets.

Jun 07, 201932:10
Sales Success - Personal Management Skills - Brian Tracy

Sales Success - Personal Management Skills - Brian Tracy

We continue to study Brian Tracy's Sales Success book as chapters three and four are covered. Focusing on dollar productive activities and having a results-oriented approach are key to a successful sales career.

Jun 05, 201934:11
Family business, taking chances and more w/ Brian Sharpe

Family business, taking chances and more w/ Brian Sharpe

 Forest Gump was a fictional movie, but it could have very well been titled "Brian Sharpe."  The 2018 President of Miami Commercial cleared his calendar to chat with us about family, business, George Washington, and what it's like working in a family business.  Brian's commitment to growth was instilled by his father who still only works "half days" (8am - 8pm).   The more you know about Mr. Brian Sharpe, the more there is to like! 

Jun 03, 201925:15
Sales Success - Stay Enthusiastic - Brian Tracy

Sales Success - Stay Enthusiastic - Brian Tracy

Neal shares a few of Brain Tracy's tips and strategies for staying enthusiastic and why it's so important to your results as a sales professional.

May 31, 201914:10
Sales Success by Brian Tracy & Listing Agreements

Sales Success by Brian Tracy & Listing Agreements

First call covering the 7 results keys outlined in Brian Tracy's Sales Success book.

May 29, 201919:04
Go for It! - Real Estate agent Devana Johanson

Go for It! - Real Estate agent Devana Johanson

 Devana Johnson will definitely move to your Top 5 list of genuine guys after listening to this episode of The :26. 

May 27, 201934:32
How to find the RIGHT Realtor for you

How to find the RIGHT Realtor for you

There are endless choices when deciding to work with a Realtor. How do you know what to look for? We've got you covered in this show podcast.

May 22, 201908:54
20 yr old Entrepreneur, Alex Albarran chats with Neal

20 yr old Entrepreneur, Alex Albarran chats with Neal

 We sit down with founder & CEO of Albarran Sports Group, Alex Albarran. We chat about his entrepreneurial beginnings, leadership challenges, Toastmasters, and the "complicated" relationship status of a 20 year old. 

May 20, 201929:06
Broward County Vice Mayor - Dale Holness - Global Views & Leadership Tips

Broward County Vice Mayor - Dale Holness - Global Views & Leadership Tips

 Dale V.C. Holness, Vice Mayor of Broward County, dives deep into the value of attendance at a global conference.  

May 17, 201902:35
What Sellers & Buyers want from YOU

What Sellers & Buyers want from YOU

It's impossible to effectively work with home sellers and buyers, unless you first know what it is they want from you as a real estate professional.
May 16, 201939:05
Selling the Invisible - Keys to excelling in service based business

Selling the Invisible - Keys to excelling in service based business

If you are involved in any service based business, you'll want to watch this 5 minute video covering Selling the Invisible. The author explains how marketing a services are different from marketing products.   Learn the few key factors to succeeding easier and more frequently than your competitors who are still using outdated marketing techniques. 

May 15, 201905:17
Overcoming Adversity w/ Freeman White, III

Overcoming Adversity w/ Freeman White, III

My long-time friend who's closer than a brother, Freeman White, III joins me on The :26 to talk about overcoming adversity. Freeman opens up about the sudden passing of his father nine years ago, college football injuries, and the funny "tough love" we were both dealt from his Pops. Freeman discusses the impact of his father's legacy on him and how he plans on passing it on to his son, Freeman IV.  Don't let his smile or demeanor fool you into thinking there's not more than meets the eye. Freeman is representative of the best of us. Those who take life's blows, don't make excuses, and carry on with a smile. Hats off to my man, Freemo!!!!!!! 

May 13, 201926:27
Florida Realtors 2019 President - Eric Sain - Networking Globally

Florida Realtors 2019 President - Eric Sain - Networking Globally

Florida Realtors' 2019 President, Eric Sain takes a moment from a very productive World Strategic Forum to explain why it's important for agents and organizations to be in a room with global leaders. Neal couldn't resist the urge to ask an off the cuff question regarding President Sain's leadership advice either. 

May 10, 201904:21
Why focus matters & how fast do people really run?

Why focus matters & how fast do people really run?

Your focus will make all the difference in your business and life. In this video we cover this important fact, how to utilize it to achieve success and more. 

May 08, 201939:25
Errol Chung, CEO Miami DMT - How to create something that lasts

Errol Chung, CEO Miami DMT - How to create something that lasts

Errol Chung, founder of Miami DMT, shares his thoughts on the necessity of intense focus and positioning yourself in a noisy and busy world. We dive into what it takes to sustain a brand/image verses creating a gimmick. Errol also shares valuable tips to help avoid pitfalls that often derail those on the journey to creating something lasting.  We finish the interview on a personal note as Errol takes about the high price he paid to create Miami DMT, strained family relationships, and his desire to get artists & creative paid their true worth.  This was an amazing way to kick of our new series. Many thanks to Mr. Errol Chung for giving of his time and knowledge! 

May 06, 201926:07
Ana Gazzara - International real estate expert - All about the client

Ana Gazzara - International real estate expert - All about the client

Ana is an international real estate expert who has built a profitable career through a commitment to continuous learning. As she mentions in this brief interview, her efforts are all to benefit her clients. 

May 03, 201901:59
Neal interviews Miami Dade College Students attending World Strategic Forum

Neal interviews Miami Dade College Students attending World Strategic Forum

 What an amazing opportunity Neal had while attending the World Strategic Forum in Coral Gables, Florida. He was able to interview Professor Leneghan and many of the students who attended. 

Apr 29, 201908:44
Military Veteran & Realtor - Shawn Eubanks - People need people

Military Veteran & Realtor - Shawn Eubanks - People need people

 Veteran real estate advisor, Shawn Eubanks, talks about sustainable futures in regards to real estate and the need of individuals BY individuals. 

Apr 27, 201901:58
Talking to MYSELF. Wanna listen in?

Talking to MYSELF. Wanna listen in?

A dear friend came to me to vent and get some guidance. What did I do? I let him listen in as I gave myself the advice I needed to hear.
Apr 27, 201902:49
Interview w/ Carol Platt - Why attend International Events?

Interview w/ Carol Platt - Why attend International Events?

 Broker Associate, Carol Platt takes a moment to share with Neal Oates, Jr. why it's important for her to attend events like the World Strategic Forum in Coral Gables, Florida. 

Apr 25, 201902:38
Guard Your Calendar

Guard Your Calendar

Jim Rohn quoted, "Don't let your mouth overload your back." How well have you followed Jim's advice? Listen in as Neal share's why it's so important to guard your calendar with your life!

...because it is your life!

Apr 20, 201903:47
Time Management is DEAD - 007

Time Management is DEAD - 007

Are you tired of trying to manage your time effectively? Are your efforts to get everything done only making you more exhausted and frustrated; leading you to believe there's something wrong with you? Great NEWS! There IS something wrong with you... Find out what it is and how to "fix" yourself in this series on Productivity Master!

:c) You're not broken, your beliefs are!

Apr 19, 201904:16
11 yr old VP of WRRE - Trey Oates - 006

11 yr old VP of WRRE - Trey Oates - 006

 If you know me, then you definitely know this episode's guest! Neal Oates, III is the V.P. of World Renowned Real Estate and twice as entertaining as his dad. 

Apr 16, 201927:52
Sitting down with the Madeira Beach Mermaid - Cyndee Haydon - 005

Sitting down with the Madeira Beach Mermaid - Cyndee Haydon - 005

 Ever chat with a mermaid? Unknowingly, I sat down with the self-proclaimed "Madeira Beach Mermaid" and found out what drives her to be more than is required of average (yuck) people. Cyndee Haydon has been/is a lot of things, but short of passion and courage are NOT on the list.  Whether taking on political issues that threaten the well-being of her clients and friends or singing karaoke with her husband, Jack, (you'll love their choice of song), I'm willing to bet you will find something endearing and refreshing to take away from this interview.   As hard as we tried, Cyndee & I didn't make it long into the interview before the antics begin. Buckle up and enjoy the ride of The :26. 

Apr 15, 201930:46
National Champ & 1st Round Pick visits The :26 - Jerome McDougle - 004

National Champ & 1st Round Pick visits The :26 - Jerome McDougle - 004

Jerome McDougle, 2-time National Champion with the Miami Hurricanes & 1st round NFL Draft pick stops by The :26. You don't want to miss Jerome's views on Family, God, & Patience. 

Apr 15, 201931:58