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Find Your Soul. Find Your Soulmate

Find Your Soul. Find Your Soulmate

By Niki Johnson
A podcast about love, finding yourself, fun tips and reminders about dating, and about surrendering yourself to the unnecessary demands we put on ourselves as humans.
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Episode 44: Fighting over Finances?
Should couples have a separate bank account? Who should be in charge of the finances? Listen and find out what Niki Booker thinks.
September 11, 2019
Episode 43: How To Be Happy
Niki read a book on neuropsychology and evolutionary psychology and how that ties into happiness. Learn about what she read so that you can learn how to be happy and apply the methods to your life. Book is called "Hardwiring Happiness" by Rick Hanson, Pd. D. 
May 15, 2019
Episode 42: Mating Strategies of Men and Women
Learn why men and women display certain behaviors when dating and how these behaviors work to ensure reproductive success. Learn why men want sex and women want commitment, and why men and women argue about money.
May 4, 2019
Episode 41: Mother-Daughter Relationships... With Special Guest Niki's Mom!
Niki invites her mom on the podcast to chat about their relationship. They discuss specific reasons they believe they have such a great relationship and a strong bond. They also talk about the struggles of being a parent and some ways they worked through that together.
April 14, 2019
Episode 40: Backwards Relationship Thinking That Doesn't Work
My husband and I were chatting the other day about how people tend to approach dating. We discussed how often people approach it completely backwards. Listen and make sure that you're not doing this if you're looking for love.
April 6, 2019
Episode 39: Are You Tired of Being Used?
Niki discusses three types of users in relationships and what to do about it if you suspect you're being used.
March 23, 2019
Episode 38: Heal Yourself Through Journaling
Journaling is life’s homework you impose on yourself! Boo…why would you want to do that? Listen and learn why it's so important to journal in order to achieve personal growth. Listen to Niki's process for journaling as well.
March 9, 2019
Episode 37: How We Survived our First Year of Marriage... With Guest Rob Booker.
Niki and Rob chat about their first year of marriage. We talk about ways you can avoid conflict and also deepen your connection during that first year.
March 4, 2019
Episode 36: The Introvert's Guide to Dating
Are you Terrified of Dating? I know how scary it can be when you’re a shy person. I have a few suggestions for you if you’re a bit of an introvert. 
February 23, 2019
Episode 35: Two Things a Man Needs from the Woman He Loves
Learn about two things every man needs if you want his endless love and adoration. What type of woman does these two things and how do you actually accomplish them?
February 15, 2019
Episode 34: Do You Wear Relationship Blinders?
Do you keep getting dumped? Having a hard time getting a relationship to stick? Listen to two behaviors you may be taking that are working against you.
February 10, 2019
Episode 33: Are you Dealing with a Crazy Person?
Learn the signs of what I call crazy people. Learn how to identify this type of person and learn how to get out.
February 6, 2019
Episode 32: Three Traits Women Crave in a Man
Find out three traits that modern women crave in a man. It may not be what you think... 
January 26, 2019
Episode 31: Why Fear Based Decisions Don't Work
Afraid to make a decision? Afraid you will make the wrong one? Listen to this week's episode and learn why it doesn't matter if you make the wrong decision. Learn why bad decisions help you.
January 20, 2019
Episode 30: Please Take a Shower...Dating Advice from my Husband
Niki records a conversation she had with her husband Rob. Listen as they discuss relationships including  behaviors of men and women who are entertaining the idea of a romantic relationship with each other. 
January 13, 2019
Episode 29: The Most Common Dating Mistake
Learn about the most common dating mistake that men and women both make and how to STOP making it!
January 6, 2019
Episode 28: Signs of Emotionally Unavailable People
Listen to find out signs that the person you're dating is emotionally unavailable. Will this person ever change? What should you do? Listen to find out.
December 30, 2018
Episode 27: It's Never Too Late
Do you feel like quitting? How do you change your frame of mind when you can't seem to accomplish your goal? How do you stop the self sabotaging and just do it already?
December 22, 2018
Episode 26: Are You Resilient?
Learn the #1 driving factor that leads to happiness in your life and about what's stopping you from achieving the life you want.
December 16, 2018
Episode 25: Have You Hit Rock Bottom?
Learn about the number #1 thing you must do in order to move forward once you've hit rock bottom. Learn why this is so important so that you move on and get yourself in a better place.
December 8, 2018
Episode 24: Your Plan for Happiness in 2019
We get super strategic about creating your plan for happiness in 2019, and how that relates to meeting someone special to spend your life with.
December 1, 2018
Episode 23: What to Look for on a First Date
What are those qualities you should look for on a first date? Also learn the #1 turn-off on a first date.
November 24, 2018
Episode 22: How To Get Your Guy Back
Just when you start to get comfortable and you're super happy, your guy starts to pull back a bit. He may seem distant. He may begin to test you and put up boundaries. What's a girl to do? Listen to my advice.
November 18, 2018
Episode 21: Don't Be Attractive. Be Irresistible.
Listen to me talk about the five traits that I believe take you from attractive to irresistible to the opposite sex. Also, listen to me rant about society and the cultural shifts that I see.
November 11, 2018
Episode 20: Do Soulmates Really Exist?
People ask me if I really believe in soul mates? Do I really believe there is only one person for each of us? Listen and find out what I think about soulmates and also how to achieve intimacy in your relationship.
November 4, 2018
Episode 19: Are You a Lazy Partner?
Do you appreciate your spouse or significant other? Do you play the tit for tat game? If you're not feeling appreciated by your spouse listen and find out what to do.
October 28, 2018
Episode 18: Do You Fight Dirty?
Do you fight dirty or do you keep it clean when fighting with your spouse or significant other? Learn how to keep it clean so that you can build intimacy and not ruin your relationship.
October 21, 2018
Episode 17: When Should You Have Sex With Him?
Not sure when you should have sex with him? Listen to find out behaviors he should display in order for you to have sex with him and advice I give no matter your religion, life style, or political views.
October 15, 2018
Episode 16: Is Feminism A Turn Off?
Learn how feminism effects relationships. Are you struggling to find a good and evolved man? There are still good men out there, so why is it so hard to find one now? Listen to how feminism has effected relationships in a good ways and not so good ways...
October 7, 2018
Episode 15: Did the Guy You Like Go MIA?
There's a period of time between dating someone new and being exclusive that can be difficult to maneuver. If a guy pulls back a bit and goes on a small hiatus, how you handle yourself when he comes back is mission critical. Listen to what you should do if your guy goes MIA.
October 1, 2018
Episode 14: Are You Afraid to Be Alone?
We discuss actions people take who are afraid to be alone and how to stop. Learn why it's so important to learn how to be alone and to be happy on your own. You can't rely on outside sources. Learn to be alone and learn how to be happy.
September 28, 2018
Episode 13: Feeling a Little Moody Lately?
Part two of the 5 main components of emotional intelligence. Also learn why some people have multiple failed marriages.
September 28, 2018
Episode 12: Nobody Cares About How Smart You Are
Learn what it takes to be emotionally intelligent and why it's so important. There are 5 main components to achieving emotional intelligence that we go into in this episode
September 28, 2018
Episode 11: Why The Heck You Should Listen To Me
I talk about my story and what led me to where I am now. Basically, why you should listen to anything I have to say!
September 20, 2018
Episode 10: Never Chase a Man Again
Are you chasing men and can’t catch one? Please, never chase a man. It simply doesn’t work that way. If you disagree with me, I’m sorry but you’re wrong. Listen to 10 rules all single women should follow when dating.
September 20, 2018
Episode 9: Old School Dating
I have 3 pieces of advice for ladies who are dating that I WISH I knew when I was single. I learned the hard way, but once I practiced old school dating, my dating life went from non-existent to a woman in demand.
September 20, 2018
Episode 8: Is Your Mind in Constant Chaos?
Are you struggling to find happiness in your life right now? Maybe you have a ton of reasons to be happy, but you still aren't. Listen and learn how to be happy.
September 20, 2018
Episode 7: Who Determines Your Value?
Do people walk all over you? Do you accept less from others because you don’t think you deserve more? Do you let people take advantage of you? Listen here.
September 20, 2018
Episode 6: The Best Advice From My Father
When I finally started to use this piece of advice, I was able to make faster decisions on whether or not I should keep a guy, or throw him back. It really helped to simplify the process.
September 20, 2018
Episode 5: Don't Be Such a Jerk
Are you generally grumpy or stressed out? Are you always mentally beating yourself up? Is this effecting your happiness? Listen to find out how to stop!
September 20, 2018
Episode 4: Be Who You Want to Date
Do you have a wish list of traits you want in a partner? Kind, generous, physically fit, financially stable, emotionally mature…you know… the usual? How do you meet and keep this person? Listen to find out.
September 20, 2018
Episode 3: Get a Life
If you find yourself constantly getting dumped, or not getting call backs after dates, then you need to listen. I get straight to the point. Can you handle it?
September 20, 2018
Episode 2: Learn to Love Men Again
If you want to find the man to love forever, you have to first love men. This is for my ladies who are feeling a little pissed at men in general right now.
September 20, 2018
Episode 1: Who Should Pay for Dinner?
Should the man or woman pay for dinner when dating? Learn how our biology and evolutionary psychology answers this for us! Listen and find out who should pay.
September 20, 2018