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Adulting on Purpose

Adulting on Purpose

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Adulthood, I have come to realize, is such an illusion. Nobody knows what it means to adult. A constant balance is what it is. Here, we talk about all that ...
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Get bothered! What are you doing with the time you have?

Adulting on Purpose Mar 16, 2021

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Get bothered! What are you doing with the time you have?

Get bothered! What are you doing with the time you have?

Hello Good Human! 😃 This one will sound like a meditation session but stick with me. *I may or may not have lost my voice before I made my point* Still, some good reflections in there.
Mar 16, 202107:22
Don’t waste time in the pits!

Don’t waste time in the pits!

Glad that this month we are celebrating women #choosetochallenge is such a perfect hashtag and I feel plugged in because I am a challenger if nothing else. Still tackling the subject of productivity in this episode and in particular really grooving it back in. Yes, ‘tis my season to be funky. 😅 Welcome back!
Mar 09, 202114:08
Relax! Nothing is under control.

Relax! Nothing is under control.

It would be rude of me to just start back up so here’s where I have been and also some new lessons as we are bound to collect as we go through the seasons and days of our lives! Hello good human, I have really missed this little corner of the interwebs. Happy Tuesday!
Mar 02, 202109:06
Do not wait to exhale!

Do not wait to exhale!

Let’s talk about the days we just can’t! Is your mental health in check? Guys, I have been drowning but I am working on it. Today we talk about all that and what my red flags for deteriorating a mental environment are.
Feb 10, 202110:00
How to use systems to accelerate productivity

How to use systems to accelerate productivity

There are two kinds of people; goal setters and goal achievers. This week we talk about the one thing that sets them apart. How do the achievers do it? Let’s talk about systems and how you can create them around your goals this year. Happy New Month!
Feb 02, 202110:15
How to achieve your goals in 2021

How to achieve your goals in 2021

We all know that setting a goal is one things and achieving it is a whole different ball game. Today on the Podcast, we have the first installment of the ways you can make 2021 different and hit all the goals you made in 2021. In this episode we talk about the importance of planning.
Jan 26, 202116:33
The art of goal setting

The art of goal setting

This week we continue the conversation on change and the part that goal setting plays in your overall happiness. Let’s talk about the goals you set at the beginning of the year and what your data looks like 19 days in.
Jan 19, 202114:13
Resolutions and the mechanics of change

Resolutions and the mechanics of change

Are you one of those people who “do not do resolutions”? In this episode we dig into the mechanics of change in line with the resolution making season that is the new year! Welcome to Season 2. 🙌🏾
Jan 12, 202111:40
Let’s wind up Season 1

Let’s wind up Season 1

I really did have fun recording the past 29 Episodes and the first Season of this Podcast that y’all have listened to and loved. I really appreciate it. In here, it sounds a little insane and a little more fun than I care to remember 😅. I hope you enjoy this and see you next Tuesday , we have a fun line up of episodes for January. I cannot wait!
Jan 05, 202105:04
Podmass 🎄 Empire 4: Soulset

Podmass 🎄 Empire 4: Soulset

I can’t believe we have come to the end of 2020 & what an apt meditation episode to end it with. Enjoy the last episode of the Year. Get set for 2021 ... you are not ready for me. Promise, 😉.
Dec 29, 202004:14
Podmass 🎄 Empire Three: Healthset

Podmass 🎄 Empire Three: Healthset

I wonder if you are actually meditating over these empires of self-mastery. I really hope so. How is your health set up? Happy Holidays!
Dec 22, 202004:04
Podmass🎄 Empire Two: Heartset

Podmass🎄 Empire Two: Heartset

Happy Holidays! I hope you are enjoying your downtime within reason. I am . But I would be untrue if I didn’t pop in here to say a likkle something about your best life, you know, the one you wish you could be living? Well, this week, how is your heart set up?
Dec 15, 202005:46
Podmass 🎄Empire one: Mindset

Podmass 🎄Empire one: Mindset

‘Tis the season to be jolly!’😃 but also to chill out and relax. For me that means a productivity reset. In the next coming weeks, we talk about the areas in which we can reflect on the HOW to hit our goals for the year coming up. Enjoy!
Dec 08, 202008:38
Would you rather be bitter or vain?

Would you rather be bitter or vain?

Comparison is the thief of joy! Ain’t that the truth? Now, it only begets pride or bitterness. Choose better for yourself. Thank you for stopping by.
Dec 01, 202010:12
Boundaries, people!

Boundaries, people!

We all have all these excuses we make about why we cannot show up for ourselves the way we would like because of all the other things you have to do. BUT , do you really have to do anything? Also, my apologies to the a.m gang that I came in two hours late today. I hope you enjoy it all the same.
Nov 24, 202014:15
Silence is golden

Silence is golden

This week we do a loud and clear dive in to the merits of a self- retreat, why that is crucial at this time of the year.
Nov 17, 202013:60
Decisions, decisions!

Decisions, decisions!

First of all, apologies for my waning voice and the background noise. Life happens. But the choice I made was to make zero excuses and so here we are. Maybe this episode will tell you why I choose to show up here every Tuesday despite the myriad of challenges I have trying to get this done; but like we talk about in this episode you only need to keep making the right decisions little by little. That or get a persuasion coach. (😁IYKYK.)
Nov 10, 202011:04
Small steps give you staying power.

Small steps give you staying power.

Size matters! In the world of self-Development it is said that, “progress usually hides behind boring solutions.” Naturally, the episode is loaded with age old cliches because like I say here all the time; they hold true. Good week, good humans. Thanks for stopping by.
Nov 03, 202018:20
Confidence is evidence based.

Confidence is evidence based.

“Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in doing.” -Theodore Roosevelt-
Oct 27, 202014:07
Own your shit! It’s the only way.

Own your shit! It’s the only way.

Taking responsibility means pointing at yourself whenever things happen in your life- good or bad. It’s not the easiest thing to do and here we get into it and choose different for ourselves. Thanks for stopping by, catch you next Tuesday.
Oct 20, 202012:30
Forever and a day? Let’s get down and scrappy. Also, alas! A quiz!

Forever and a day? Let’s get down and scrappy. Also, alas! A quiz!

This is what it looks like when you resist! I am still on a rant but it’s still a vibe. Also, I might edit and re-publish this later. Let me know how it sounds to you. Thank you for stopping by. 😘
Oct 13, 202013:09
Are you in a slump? Sucks to be you. 🙃

Are you in a slump? Sucks to be you. 🙃

Welcome to the October installments of this Podcast. Today I jump on here with gratitude, learnings and a solocast. Did you miss me?
Oct 06, 202011:12
Adultery on purpose? With Alvin & Mbi

Adultery on purpose? With Alvin & Mbi

September has been a month of conversations. I am happy to be shutting that down with this episode. I had a lot of fun recording this one with Alvin and Mbi. I hope you enjoy it and also yes, 39 whole minutes. I’m sorry.
Sep 29, 202038:51
Relationships! In what state are yours? Let’s talk. 😉

Relationships! In what state are yours? Let’s talk. 😉

Ms. Kadzitu and I really get into it on this episode. As you will find out I am highly unqualified to tell you anything about this subject but who’s going to stop me, boo 😝? Enjoy and let us know what you think, how you feel, all that good stuff. Great week ahead!
Sep 22, 202016:28
Back again with Abu and James on the identity conversation.

Back again with Abu and James on the identity conversation.

Here is the rest of our conversation.
Sep 15, 202020:11
Who are you? A conversation between Abu, James and I.

Who are you? A conversation between Abu, James and I.

We met, we talked we laughed and at the end of it we could only say “I’ll figure it out”. Ain’t that the truth? We never really stop evolving. Even then, with every definition you carry, it has to be your own otherwise you run the risk of outsourcing the one life you have to the world and let me tell you, good humans, that is the worst kind of hell. Enjoy!
Sep 08, 202012:54
Thank you, taking stock and happy birthday to me!

Thank you, taking stock and happy birthday to me!

My heart is full. I am one year older and all that much wiser. I hope 😅.
Sep 01, 202009:45
Habits. Nobody needs good manners!

Habits. Nobody needs good manners!

Well, I read this novel many years ago where the mother character Vivi would reprimand her children and tell them, “Try good manners”. So, impressionable young girl that I was I believed that good manners were everything. Well, then adulting happened and I quickly realized that for what I needed I had to find something more. . .
Aug 25, 202014:05
Whatever the mind conceives . . .

Whatever the mind conceives . . .

Now it really gets warm in here. You can tell that I was fired up by this conversation (with myself but thankfully now with you), it really blows my mind how much control we truly have over our lives and yet ....
Aug 18, 202015:45
Show me your friends ....

Show me your friends ....

You are the average of the five people you spend most of your time with, or so the saying goes. So, how is your net worth set up?
Aug 11, 202009:23
Control your morning, control your life!

Control your morning, control your life!

There is a reason why all the greatest - writers, poets, artists, scientists, royals and presidents swear by the power of a good morning. ☀️
Aug 04, 202012:47
Know thyself!

Know thyself!

Ah, no subject is quite as touchy as YOU. You would think that at least one thing in this adulting life should be a no-brainer and it would be self-awareness. However, no such luck here good humans. You have to DIY that too. How? Press play, let’s talk about it.
Jul 28, 202014:12
Busting adulting myths with Mbithe _ The other part

Busting adulting myths with Mbithe _ The other part

Who knew adulting was so mythical? Ha! Well, all the more reason to keep it here, I keep it real, always. 😎
Jul 21, 202012:45
Singleness of purpose

Singleness of purpose

The best way to live your best life is to create it. We do this by first identifying our life’s purpose. If nobody taught you how then stick around we are all about that here but first, a synopsis. Welcome back! 🙌🏾
Jul 13, 202009:02
Busting adulting myths with Mbithe

Busting adulting myths with Mbithe

In this Episode, I have a guest in studio who identifies as a pre-adult. We react to some adulting myths floating around based on a Q&A she had running on her Instagram page. Enjoy 🙃.
Jul 07, 202012:21
Getting Shit Done!

Getting Shit Done!

We have all been there, in a slump, unmotivated to do anything. Meanwhile, adulting has no room for slacking. Today we talk about making a move and getting shit done.
Jun 30, 202012:21
There is no script to adulting, so can we attempt one?

There is no script to adulting, so can we attempt one?

I say, when there is no way you create one. In this episode I delve into my big 5. Also known as Njambi’s Adulting Template. Enjoy it if you dare! 🙃
Jun 22, 202010:14
What is adulting anyway?

What is adulting anyway?

In this episode I attempt to introduce the general concept of the conversations that we will have on here. All of it based on the fact that nobody really knows what the hell they are doing but, we can still talk about it. Can’t we?
Jun 17, 202008:28