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No Ma'am, Pam

No Ma'am, Pam

By West Wheeler

Just two grown ups having drinks and dinner
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S4:E2 Family History: Memere

No Ma'am, PamNov 19, 2023

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S4:E2 Family History: Memere

S4:E2 Family History: Memere

Melissa sat down with her mother, Dianne McKellar aka Memere. (Mah-mere). It's amazing to visit your family's history. You never realize what kind of things you'll find out about your people.
Nov 19, 202316:19
1993, What were you listenting to?

1993, What were you listenting to?

Melissa and West slip into the way back machine and go through the top 100 songs of 1993, trying to get through their first podcast with the new ZOOM Podtrak4. (West was being the producer....he's not very good at it.) Anyway, enjoy a quick run down memory lane...or take it as a short music history moment. Lots of great music came out that you may have forgotten about.

Check out the list here. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Billboard_Year-End_Hot_100_singles_of_1993


Oct 18, 202333:03
S3:E6; Sexual Intimacy

S3:E6; Sexual Intimacy

Tonight we have a pretty difficult conversation about sex and what God has to say about it.
Apr 19, 202328:56
Grow in Intimacy: Emotional Intimacy

Grow in Intimacy: Emotional Intimacy

Emotional Intimacy is probably more important than the physical. Take about a half hour to learn about yourself.
Apr 02, 202331:14
Adore & Respect; Understand

Adore & Respect; Understand

We talk about understanding our spouses and enjoying/celebrating their differences. Walk with us through it all.
Mar 14, 202336:07
Expectations; Adore & Respect

Expectations; Adore & Respect

Tonight we discuss unmet expectations. We all disappoint others and they do the same to us. Usually because of lack of communication and they don't know what we expect and vice versa. Let's look at it the way God deals with us.
Mar 09, 202333:20
S3:E2 Spotify's Top 5 in 2022

S3:E2 Spotify's Top 5 in 2022

Who did you think would be your Top 5 music for the year? Mine was off quite a bit.
Dec 02, 202230:16
Foods you hated vs Food you eat now

Foods you hated vs Food you eat now

What did you HATE to eat when you were young vs what you will eat now.
Nov 08, 202230:48
Give yourself away - Conflict

Give yourself away - Conflict

You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.
Matthew 7:5 NASB1995
Apr 21, 202222:45
Give yourself away: Communication

Give yourself away: Communication

We talk about the better ways to communicate with your spouse.
Mar 31, 202222:43
Nurture Truth

Nurture Truth

Discussing LIES vs. TRUTH
Mar 25, 202227:13
Nurturing the truth: Commitment

Nurturing the truth: Commitment

It is not your love that sustains the marriage, but from now on the marriage that sustains your love - Dietrich Bonhoeffer
Mar 04, 202230:37
Forgiveness In Action

Forgiveness In Action

We talk about how to forgive. "One of marriage's primary responsibilities is to teach us how to forgive." - Gary Thomas
Feb 11, 202237:14
Forgiveness-A must for all relationships

Forgiveness-A must for all relationships

I've been tryin' to get down
To the heart of the matter
But my will gets weak
And my thoughts s eem to scatter
But I think it's about forgiveness
Forgiveness
Even if, even if you don't love me anymore.
Feb 02, 202240:08
Embracing Humility- This is a look at how we can think about someone else before we think of ourselv

Embracing Humility- This is a look at how we can think about someone else before we think of ourselv

Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less. - C.S. Lewis
Jan 20, 202230:15
Re-Engage: Humility/Grace

Re-Engage: Humility/Grace

Tonight we discuss the importance of GRACE in a relationship. Just like God/Jesus gives grace, so should we do the same for our spouse.
Jan 14, 202230:31
Brokenness

Brokenness

Realizing our inability to Love along with how we harbor our brokenness.
Sep 01, 202132:15
Love

Love

Recognizing our inability to love
Feb 03, 202126:28
Re|engage: The 5 Love Languages

Re|engage: The 5 Love Languages

Well, sometimes we leave the house. We were asked to speak to our Re|engage group tonight and talk about Gary Chapman's 5 Love Languages. Enjoy! Http://www.reengage.org www.5lovelanguages.com Every marriage has room for improvement. Re|engage gives you a safe place to work on your relationship together, regardless of whether your marriage needs saving or you just want to take it from “good” to “great.”
Sep 14, 202018:00
The Fantasy Dukes of Hazzard Island

The Fantasy Dukes of Hazzard Island

So, in the late 70's we did not have all the options we have now. If you did not watch it live, you had to wait until the spring and HOPE you catch something you missed. We are talking about two of the most popular shows for people in our age range of that particular time. Enjoy and let us know what you loved!
Sep 10, 202054:10
Movies-our favs from childhood

Movies-our favs from childhood

Melissa loved her some Missy John Thunder and West "didn't even have his license, Lisa". What was your favorite growing up?
Aug 24, 202001:38:36
80's TV! WHAT did you watch?

80's TV! WHAT did you watch?

We went down memory lane and loved these shows growing up. If these are too old for you, please check them out! #nomaampam #tv #ifyoudontknownowyouknow
Aug 04, 202058:51
COVID Conundrum

COVID Conundrum

We are tired of this crap. It is real, but we are tired. Also, check out ZimmzyCool on SoundCloud....and ÜBlanK....they did our theme music.....we like it.
Jul 24, 202040:03
Pet Peeves

Pet Peeves

A quick rundown of things that just are not right
Jun 29, 202034:44
7f, Happy Father's Day

7f, Happy Father's Day

We just had a crapshow start up early in thedah
Jun 22, 202010:12
7e, Day 5 and we are still alive!

7e, Day 5 and we are still alive!

It's day five and it has not killed us....more to the point, we haven't killed the boys, but who has time for being on a true crime podcast?
Jun 21, 202007:54
7d..... day 4 of #5of5....

7d..... day 4 of #5of5....

They're going to kill us, but not before the sunburn does
Jun 20, 202008:36
Episode 7c, the boys are different

Episode 7c, the boys are different

Well, today was not a Disaster. There was a hiccup....Mel is awesome. Boys were pretty good, too.
Jun 18, 202007:04
Good lort!!!! These kids!!! Day 2

Good lort!!!! These kids!!! Day 2

Well, it was a different day. Wife is awesome. Husband worked too long. One kid screws up the whole dichotomy. How was your day?
Jun 17, 202007:43
Episode 7a

Episode 7a

We have boys. We will be updating daily about our adventures with these mawnkees
Jun 16, 202005:29
Dinner with West & Melissa

Dinner with West & Melissa

Well, we decided to talk about food and what it means
Jun 09, 202039:12
Funny Sayings....you have heard some, maybe not all

Funny Sayings....you have heard some, maybe not all

We use some saying all the time, but really do not know where they come from. Hopefully, you will enjoy some back story on your favorite sayings.....or at least give you some insight on what others say.
Jun 01, 202040:29
Country Music: Your Early Years

Country Music: Your Early Years

So, if you watched Her Haw or just had a time in your life where you resonated with country music at all......this is fun and real....come and take a journey with us
May 15, 202036:11
Books....what do you read? Do you read? Why? Why not?

Books....what do you read? Do you read? Why? Why not?

As we talked at dinner tonight, it dawned on us.....THIS is our next episode! Plans are organic...they grow and change......thanks for listening. We hope y'all enjoy!
May 04, 202027:58
Pearl Jammy Jam

Pearl Jammy Jam

West and Melissa make arguments about which Pearl Jam album flows better, "Ten" or "Versus".
May 04, 202015:42
Inaugural episode!

Inaugural episode!

We talk about pets, weird times, and we want to know what you are doing during the Coronavirus times....
Apr 10, 202016:09