Not Alone Today Podcast

Avoiding Distractions in a Long-Distance Marriage

Not Alone Today Podcast | Season 5 Episode 3

Welcome back to another episode of the Not Alone Today podcast! In this episode, Nike asks a follow-up question to Timothy's question which we treated in the last episode (titled When a Couple's Attraction Wanes). Nike asks,

“How can I maintain focus and keep the attraction alive in my long-distance marriage? I'm feeling emotionally confused and relying on my faith for support. I can't help but notice other attractive guys, but I've accepted the reality of our separation. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Managing three kids alone leaves me exhausted in the evenings, and sometimes I fall asleep before calling him. He always wants to talk, but I can't always find the time. 🫣 What should I do about these distractions and the temptation of other attractive men? 👀😁”

Some Resources Mentioned in the episode:

When a Couple's Attraction Wanes

Not Alone Today Podcast | Season 5 Episode 2

Welcome back to another episode of the Not Alone Today podcast! In this episode, we dive into a question from a listener named Timothy who asks,

“How can I handle the situation when I find myself getting less attracted to my wife due to certain habits or attitudes she wouldn't change? Communication is a major challenge between us. I value class and taste, while she seems more laid-back about appearances. How can I address this and understand her perspective better?”

Timothy's question revolves around how to handle the situation when he feels less attracted to his wife due to her unwillingness to change certain habits and attitudes. He also seeks guidance on addressing the issue of communication challenges and understanding his wife's perspective better.

Some Key Highlights

• The importance of valuing what God values in a marriage

• The significance of communication, vulnerability, and acceptance in fostering a loving and harmonious relationship.

• The power of laughter and finding joy in everyday moments to strengthen the connection between partners.

• Embracing each other's unique traits and differences rather than trying to change one another.

Biblical Insight 

Drawing from 1 Peter 3, we emphasise the value of inner beauty—a calm and gentle spirit—as being precious in the eyes of God. This insight encourages spouses to focus on the beauty that comes from within and align their values with what God values.

Practical Tips

• Encourage open and honest communication in the relationship, with a focus on understanding each other rather than trying to make a point.

• Find creative ways to express love languages to one another, making correction more romantic than confrontational.

• Embrace each other's differences and learn to find joy in them, recognising that attraction evolves over time.

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In this episode, we reflect on the previous year and the transition into a new year.

We discussed the following among others:

This is a 6-in-1 special episode bringing together over two hours of Relationship Content from the Not Alone Today Podcast.

For easy navigation, here's a guide:

• 0:00  ⏩  1. Help! I Don't Like Who God Wants Me To Marry 
• 19:07  ⏩  2. Marrying a Pastor 
• 45:14  ⏩  3. Becoming the Right Person While Waiting for the Right Person
• 01:12:40  ⏩  4. The Audacity of Marrying on a 'God Said' Basis
• 01:30:15  ⏩  5. Being Sure of Who to Marry
• 01:51:47  ⏩  6. Am I Ready for a Relationship?

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In today's episode, we respond to Chika's question sent in from Lagos, Nigeria. Here's her question:

"What do you do when you try to work out your relationship with other people and it seems like the more you try to 'express' who you are, they keep misunderstanding?"

We discussed a few possibilities for Chika's consideration including but not limited to:

✥ The possibility that God may be teaching Chika some patience

✥ The possibility that Chika may be surrounding herself with the wrong inner circle

✥ The possible flaws in Chika's attempt to "express who she is"

✥ The possibility that Chika may be unpacking the gift of 'not fitting in', which is often a prerequisite for a call into PIONEERING one form of ministry or the other.

In today's episode, we respond to Betty's question sent in from East Africa. Her main question goes thus:

"Pastor, I need your help. I've been married to a man I believe is God's will for my life for a couple of years. However, I have observed in recent times that my husband lies to me and hardly apologises! There are so many decisions we make as a family but sometimes he goes against them and, in turn, lies to me instead. I am so fed up. I feel it's not healthy for me, especially as we are currently expecting our first child. To be fair to him, he had previously confessed to me that while he was growing up, he never felt loved because both his parents passed on while he was still very young. However, the fact that he lacked any significant parental love while growing up seems to be affecting him in marriage. It also meant that he didn't grow up with a model of what a man does to his wife. Sometimes, when I am feeling down and in need of his support and encouragement, he doesn't know what to do. Yet, I feel like I need him sometimes to show me that he's concerned or understands how I feel, but he doesn't seem to care about it. As for me, I grew up around both my parents, so I am here battling in my mind about how I think "he's supposed to do this and that" or "this should come naturally to him" but those things are not happening. I am confused and need your help."

We discussed this in the episode, among other things, an exposition on 1 Peter 2 and 3 while also offering some practical insights into Betty's question.

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In today's episode, we respond to Helen's questions. Her main question goes thus:

"What can you say about a single lady who is waiting and working because she is not sure that it is time for her to get into a marital relationship yet? She is willing to walk according to divine timing; she is working on discovering herself, acquiring useful skills, working on her character flaws, maximizing her God-given potential, and receiving training on 'the art of authentic ministry.' Meanwhile, as she is doing all these things, proposals keep coming from Christian brothers; what should she do? I believe that some people see this kind of 'waiting' as being 'seemingly foolish' while some would tag it 'a fear of commitment' or 'fear of being vulnerable in a marital relationship'; perhaps, some would even call it 'pride.' Is this so, sir? What if such a person feels so strong about this inner perception of hers (to take her time and do all these preparations BEFORE getting into a relationship)?"

We discussed this in the episode.

Meanwhile, her other question came up in her mind while reading Echoes: Life Lessons from an Online Village (Joseph and Anu Ola's latest book). Helen wanted to know if Anu's fears prior to consenting to the beginning of her relationship with Joseph played a part in her waiting for almost 4 weeks before responding positively to Joseph's marriage proposal. To this, we pointed her to previous episodes where the reasoning behind this was already well discussed. See the following past episodes:

"What are your thoughts on how young moms can manage money in their marital context?" 

That's the summary of today's question. It is the concluding part of Tunde's question which we began responding to in our previous episode (S3E04) on balancing the roles of a wife, young mom and career person with one's spirituality. Here's Tunde's question once again:

"3 ladies who just got married have been struggling with balancing their spiritual life with child care, marriage and career. They wish they could get back the experience of their pre-marital days when they were able to maintain consistent spiritual growth by engaging in spiritual disciplines which they no longer seem to have time for. They all had their first child within their first year of marriage—just like Anu—and so I will like to ask her, how did she manage in those first few years of her married life? Secondly, how can these young mums also manage money concerns in their marriage?" 

Joseph and Anu reflected on the question and Anu shared various tips that worked for her (and continue to work for her). She drew her approach from Proverbs 14:8 (see also Proverbs 13:16) and also explains why, in her own context, she chose to pull all her income into a common purse with Joseph (while acknowledging that the same approach may not work for everyone).

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"How can a young mom balance spirituality, childcare, marriage and her career?" That's this week's question in a nutshell.

Today's question comes in from Tunde who sends a voice note to ask a question based on his recent interactions with 3 of his friends (all ladies) who share some things in common. In summary, here's his question: 

"3 ladies who just got married have been struggling with balancing their spiritual life with child care, marriage and career. They wish they could get back the experience of their pre-marital days when they were able to maintain consistent spiritual growth by engaging in spiritual disciplines which they no longer seem to have time for. They all had their first child within their first year of marriage—just like Anu—and so I will like to ask her, how did she manage in those first few years of her married life? Secondly, how can these young mums also manage money concerns in their marriage?" 

Joseph and Anu reflected on the question and Anu shared various tips that worked for her (and continue to work for her). 

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THE QUESTION: Today's question comes in from a listener who asks, "Do you ever worry about whether someone—or many people in fact—might have written about what you have in mind to write about?" Joseph and Anu reflected on this from their writing and publishing experience.

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THE QUESTION: Today's question comes in from Tejire, a young lady who has been in a godly courtship with the man she's truly and fully persuaded to be God's will for her life. However, as the wedding day draws nearer, it's been one challenge from her family or the other. She's feeling depressed from the various issues that are popping up (mostly pertaining to the wedding plans) so she reached out to ask how she could shield herself from allowing those issues to get to her.

Joseph shared his initial thoughts to her on the day she reached out drawing some prophetic insight from a hymn titled "We Shall See The Desert As a Rose" and Anu shared her more practical thoughts that help put Tejire's scenario in perspective.

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THE QUESTION: Today's question comes in from Ire, a young lady who feels a bit fearful being faced with a dilemma regarding her choice of a life partner. She asks, "How do I hear from God (regarding who to marry) when my heart is full of fear?" The backstory is elaborated upon in the episode.

BIBLE VERSES REFERENCED

• 2 Timothy 1:7 TPT - "For God will never give you the spirit of fear, but the Holy Spirit who gives you mighty power, love, and self-control."
• Psalm 32:8-9 TPT - "I hear the Lord saying, “I will stay close to you, instructing and guiding you along the pathway for your life. I will advise you along the way and lead you forth with my eyes as your guide. So don’t make it difficult; don’t be stubborn when I take you where you’ve not been before. Don’t make me tug you and pull you along. Just come with me!”"
• Isaiah 28:16 JUB - "Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD, Behold, I lay in Zion for a foundation a stone, a tried stone, a precious corner stone, a sure foundation: he that believes shall not make haste."

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"How can you help a younger believer who is addicted to masturbation when previous intervention doesn't seem to be effective?"

That is the summary to the interesting question we responded to in this episode. It comes in from Bimpe who asks, 

"Sir, please I need your counsel on a matter. There's this girl myself and [my fiancé] are discipling who is addicted to masturbation. I shared with her #Unaddicted. We read it together and encouraged her [but] she's still deep into the act. How else can we help her sir? (Plus we've prayed with her!) Thank you sir."

Welcome to this special episode of Not Alone Today Podcast. It's our ANNIVERSARY EPISODE! It's been ONE YEAR since this podcast began and we are grateful to God for the journey so far.

We began the episode by reflecting briefly on the TOP 5 EPISODES (the episodes that had been listened to the most) before diving into the question for the day.

The resource Bimpe mentioned in this episode is a book I wrote in 2019 titled #Unaddicted: Finding Freedom from Sex-related Addictions (link below). 

Anu and I discussed this by reemphasising the fundamentals of victory in managing any negative addiction: by taking our focus off of the act and viewing our sanctification process more holistically. God is not only after your victory over ONE particular sin; He wants you to enjoy your victory in Christ over ALL sins.

What will this look like? Have a listen to the episode to find out more.

BIBLE VERSES REFERENCED

• Romans 6:14 (NKJV) "For sin shall not have dominion over you, for you are not under law but under grace." 
• Hebrews 4:15-16 (VOICE) "For Jesus is not some high priest who has no sympathy for our weaknesses and flaws. He has already been tested in every way that we are tested; but He emerged victorious, without failing God. So let us step boldly to the throne of grace, where we can find mercy and grace to help when we need it most."

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"What if someone is addicted to sharing godly and edifying posts on social media?"

That is the summary of the interesting question we responded to in this episode. It comes in from Bisi who asks, 

"Sir, I have a question for your wife. I remember in one of the previous podcast episodes that I listened to, she spoke about how that when she has gotten certain godly piece of information, she's quick to share them on her social media handle. Like, for example, she sees an edifying post and then gbam! She has reposted it even before the quote “blesses” her. I’m finding myself in the same situation and it’s making me “addictive” to posting (godly and edifying) posts on my social media page -- WhatsApp especially. My question is: How can I control this sir? Thank you sir."

The episode Bisi is referring to is Season 1 Episode 9 - Lessons From the Pandemic (link below). 

Anu and I discussed this by reemphasising the need to understand the PURPOSE and PRIORITY with regards to how we use social media. We emphasised the need to first be truly BLESSED by a piece of knowledge (and this can take days, weeks, months or years!) before going on to share that knowledge from a lived-experience perspective. We asked, "What is the point of pointing people to a place you are not willing to go?"

Mark 3:14, for example, says that Jesus ordained 12 disciples "that they SHOULD be with him, and that he MIGHT send them forth..." In other words, the primary purpose is to fellowship with The Truth (Jesus), and if He so chooses, He MAY send us to others (through sharing and the likes).

Anu offered some practical tips, including taking time to let what the Holy Spirit is teaching you simmer in your heart before sharing the same, and considering using a different platform that will force you to "STOP and THINK" before you post or share.

BIBLE VERSE REFERENCED

Mark 3:14 KJV "And he ordained twelve, that they should be with him, and that he might send them forth to preach."

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In today's episode, Anu and Joseph both reflect on some highlights from their time in the Word in the past week. Anu zoomed in on different aspects and prayers from the life of David as recorded in 1 Chronicles while Joseph reflects on a conversation between Jesus, Peter and John in Luke 22. 

BIBLE VERSES REFERENCED

• 1 Chronicles 21:8; 22:9; 29:10f 
• Luke 22:7-13 

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"If the lady I'm convinced God wants me to marry has a bad attitude and character, should I still go ahead?"

That is the summary to the interesting question we considered in this episode. It comes in from Zachaeus who asks, "Please sir, there's this question I'd love to ask as well as seek clarity from you with regards to marriage/relationship. If God is leading me in the direction of a lady as my wife-to-be (God's will) and such a lady has a bad character and attitude, am I permitted to go on with such relationship?"

We discussed this by drawing Zach's attention to further reflect on some of the assumptions in his questions and we also shared from our own experience to give further perspective on Zach's interesting question. 

BIBLE VERSES REFERENCED

1. Proverbs 18:21 HCSB "Life and death are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit."

2. Luke 6:45 NKJV "A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart brings forth evil. For out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks."

3. Proverbs 18:22 NKJV "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord."

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Is it okay to sleep on a hotel bed on our wedding night?

That is the summary of the interesting question we considered in this episode. It comes in from Kwame who asks, 

"Hi. I have this question on my mind and I would want to know your thoughts about it and whether it is scripturally right or wrong. Myself and my wife-to-be have had a lot of discussions about our wedding day, especially the wedding night. However, I do have this concern. Is it advisable for us to spend that special moment (first-time sex) in the same bed that only God knows the number of people who have used and for whatever purposes. Kindly help me out Mr and Mrs Ola. Thank you."

We discussed this and reflected on our own considerations at that season, too. (Funny thing is, Eleos had the same question back in the day😄). 

BIBLE PASSAGE REFERENCED

1 Kings 18 (Elijah and the Prophets of Baal).

FOR MORE RESOURCES FROM JOSEPH & ANU OLA

Have you ever felt disappointed by God?

The question we responded to in this episode comes in from Henry who asks, "At those times when you felt disappointed by God, what were the things you did to keep you going and to still trust in God?"

We discussed this by sharing some personal case studies of times we have felt such an emotion and the practical steps we took which boosted our confidence and continued trust in God.

BIBLE PASSAGE REFERENCED

Romans 5:1-5 MSG

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Welcome to Season 2 of Not Alone Today Podcast. We want to thank those who have tracked with us and always sending in their feedback, questions and suggestions. We are very grateful.

We kick off this new season with a question from Angela who asks,

"Is it wrong to have a tattoo or get a second piercing as a lady?"

We discussed this and shared some principles that may guide us in coming to our personal conclusions and decisions about such amoral issues.

BIBLE VERSES REFERENCED

1. Leviticus 19:28 - “Do not cut your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the LORD”

2. Proverbs 16:2 TPT - "We are all in love with our own opinions, convinced they’re correct. But the Lord is in the midst of us, testing and probing our every motive."

3. Proverbs 16:2 ERV - "People think that whatever they do is right, but the Lord judges their reason for doing it."

4. 1 Corinthians 10:23 TPT - "You say, “Under grace there are no rules and we’re free to do anything we please.” Not exactly. Because not everything promotes growth in others. Your slogan, “We’re allowed to do anything we choose,” may be true—but not everything causes the spiritual advancement of others."

FOR MORE RESOURCES FROM JOSEPH & ANU OLA

The question we considered in this episode comes from Tina. She asks, 

"A while ago, my mum suddenly began to object to the church I attend and she never had issues with this in the past. I kept praying that she would change her mind while I kept attending church. She would give in for a while but begin to complain again later. Her point was that my church was a bit far hence I come home late whenever I go for weekly service. She threatened to kick me out of the house if I persisted and actually locked me out one night. But thank God she listened after I begged and my pastor intervened. I still attend the same church and to be honest with you sir, I don't think I wanna leave anytime soon because I believe God wants me there. Here's my question: Does refusing to listen to my mum where church and God's work is concerned dishonourable to her? Where does this honour thing start and where does it end really?" 

We discussed this and shared some personal experiences to put it in perspective.

RESOURCE MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE

Bola asks, "Sir and ma, I will like a clarification on when rapture will happen. I have always believed that believers will not witness the period of the Antichrist but I was recently in a discussion that brought in the idea that they will. What are your thoughts about this?"

This episode is our response to her question.

We discussed the different perspectives to understanding the 'timing' of the rapture vis-a-vis the events of the 'period of tribulation' described in an apocalyptic language in the Book of Revelation.

Anu also raised a sub-question about those who think that COVID-19 vaccine may be '666' or 'the mark of the beast.' This was also discussed.

PERSONS/RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE

1. David Jeremiah (The Book of Signs, Agent of the Apocalypse, Rapture, etc)
2. Warren Wiersbe (The Wiersbe Bible Commentary / The BE Series Commentary)
3. John Piper (Ask Pastor John Podcast, desiringgod.org)
4. R.C. Sproul ('Renewing Your Mind with R.C. Sproul' Podcast)
5. N.T. Wright (Ask N.T. Wright Anything Podcast)

FOR MORE RESOURCES FROM JOSEPH & ANU OLA

• Why would a lady marry a guy who is, to say the least, clueless about his future? 

That's the summary of the question we consider this week. It comes in from Pemi and was directed to Joseph. Pemi asks: 

"I read your book 'Bumpy but Sweet' again today. I noticed that you didn't particularly know so much about God's plans for you before you asked your wife to marry you. I have heard relationship coaches say that you shouldn't hitch your ride to someone you aren't sure is going your way (i.e. don't go into a relationship when you don't yet know your purpose). What was different in your case sir?" 

We revisited the context that birthed the question and proceeded to discuss the central principle behind such a seemingly foolish audacity that made Eleos agree to marry a guy who, from all indication as of then, did not quite look like the kind of person who God has been preparing her for. We pray that the episode blesses you.

REFERENCED IN THE EPISODE

• Can we actually trust any version of the Bible since we no longer have any of the original manuscripts? 

That's the summary of the question we consider this week. It comes in from Abigail and was directed to Joseph. Abigail asks: 

"So, tonight I was slightly disturbed about something, and then my heart raced back to a post I saw earlier and I just had to go look for it. The post (on Twitter) says "There is no single original copy of any book of the Bible. If God value (sic) his words, why has he failed to preserve his words?" Apart from this troubling tweet, someone said the other week that 'Good News Bible' wasn't authored by a Christian. He said all sorts of things about the GNB and concluded that it is not a Bible. I also remember that The Passion Translation Bible in my YouVersion Bible app would say some verses are missing. A lot of times, I've noticed that what we have in one version we may not have in another. I'm a little bit bothered about which of the versions to even read. Please help." 

Joseph responded to these questions by giving an overview of how English Bible translations are done and also explained the various types of translation approaches and specific examples of the different categories. 

MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE:

• 1. Word for Word translation approach.
• 2. Thought for Thought translation approach.
• 3. Robert Bratcher (Good News Translation)
• 4. Eugene Peterson (The Message)
• 5. Brian Simmons (The Passion Translation)
• 6. E-Sword Bible Software

ALSO MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE

How can long-distance relationships be well-managed? That's the question we consider this week. 

Should you be concerned if your fianc(é)e is waiting for both of you to be married before (s)he starts giving you anything? That's the summary of the question we consider this week. It comes in from Bimbo and was directed to Anu. Bimbo asks: 

"Ma, my fiance and I have been in a relationship for a few years. The nearer we get to our wedding, the more I'm having to feel more concerned about an issue but I am not sure if I'm overthinking it. My primary love language is GIFTS and he is aware of this. While he used to do this at the beginning of our relationship, he has stopped doing it for a long while now. Initially, I overlooked it since I'm aware he didn't have much at that time, but now he has the means but still wouldn't give. I confronted him about it recently and he said he can never give his fiancée money because that is not in the bible. He said that he can only take care of me when we marry, taking full responsibility as my husband. I was shocked when I heard this, but if I may ask, what are your thoughts about this?" 

We discussed this from different angles in this episode and concluded with a prayer for Bimbo and her fiance. Whether you are in a relationship or yet to be in one, this will be insightful. We pray that the episode blesses you.

REFERENCED IN THE EPISODE

In this episode, Joseph and Anu respond to Liz's question. She asks: 

"Sir, how does a lady overcome lustful desire coming from a married man, especially from someone she trusts so much and can't ignore? And how can she help such a married man to quench the fire apart from praying for him? Lastly, have you had any lustful desire towards another lady apart from your wife? If yes, how did you handle it?"

Joseph and Anu shared some thoughts in response to this.

OTHER RESOURCES TO CHECK OUT 

In this episode, we respond to Kate's questions. She asks:

• 1. How do you handle being sexually attracted to your hopeful future partner?
• 2. How do you handle being sexually attracted to someone else while you are in a relationship with your hopeful future partner?

This episode is our response to her question.

MORE RESOURCES

Joseph and Anu have many other resources which you can find via the links below:

In this episode, as we begin a new year (2021), we pause to reflect on the lessons 2020 and the global COVID-19 pandemic taught us. A snapshot of these lessons include the following among others:

• Growth is ALWAYS happening, whether or not we notice it.
• God likes to dwell in the GRADUAL.
• Serving God can be fun.
• Time Management - "Saying Yes" versus "Saying No"
• The profound powers of technology demand that we STEWARD it well.
• Personal discipline in sharing stuff on social media.                                                                                                                               
• PRIORITISING correctly is the breeding ground for fulfilment.

MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE

In this episode, we respond to Theresa's question. She asks: "I've been trying to get my partner to have a mentor since our relationship began two years ago but he's yet to do so. I believe that having a mentor will lessen our fights and help him identify and work on some areas of his life. He says that he looks up to some great men of God but I'd rather he has mentors whom he has direct access to. What would you say about this?"

EXCERPTS

"It's good to have mentors you are able to have direct access to, but sometimes, it's just good to enjoy the resources they are able to give to you, whether or not you have direct access to them." — Anu Ola

"I think the wisdom in mentorship, really, is tied to the wisdom in asking questions. . . The quality of your life will be based on the quality of the questions you are asking." — Joseph Ola

In this episode, we respond to Bibi's question on the differences between DATING and COURTSHIP. She asks: "I have a question to ask about Christian relationships. I read a statement that says 'Christians don't date; they court.' I'll like to know the difference between both. It will be helpful if could shed more light on the pattern a godly relationship should follow. Thanks."

In the episode, we:

• explored the differences between dating and courtship,
• highlighted the pitfalls of dating as it is practised in popular culture, and
• suggested a pattern for building a godly relationship

In today's episode, we respond to Felix's question. He asks: "I was addicted to masturbation but I'm on a journey of recovery. Prior to this, I had other girls that I use to satisfy my sexual urges with and I also masturbate to satisfy my urge. Whereas, I'm also in a relationship and practising no-sex-before-marriage with my partner. Now that I'm getting better and on a journey to recovery, my question is "Should I tell her about it?""

In this episode, we respond to two similar questions. The first from Tracy and the second for John.

Tracy says "I've just seen a result today. The lecturer for the course was very strict. In all the three sets of continuous assessments he gave us (which amounted to 30% of the marks obtainable), I tried all I could and I ended up with 14 out of 30. I prayed earnestly, believing in God for a better grade in the remaining 70% for the exams. I studied hard. He repeated past questions; they were easy and God was faithful to bring all I read to my remembrance . . . but I checked my grade today and I failed the course. I just can't believe it. I just can't fail! I trust God so much, like, without a doubt! Help!"

John asks, "What would you say to someone who continues to fail repeatedly in his academic journey?"

This episode is our response to the questions.

A listener, Susan, asks Anu: "When you were courting Joseph and your marriage was drawing closer, did you have any fears? If you did, how did you overcome them?" This episode is our response to her question.

A listener, Lynda, asks: "Many people come out boldly and say 'God told me this' or 'God told me that' but I can't boldly say the same. I know that the Bible says 'as many as are led by the Spirit are the sons and daughters of God.' I have tried to get messages on this subject but most of the messages I've found have no practical steps. Perhaps you may have some recommendations on messages and books on this subject. I pray and I don't want to live any trial-and-error life. I really want Him to lead me. Please help." 

This episode is our response to her question.

Resources Mentioned in the Episode