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Not Always Polite

By Selene Mayhew

A Canadian true-crime podcast featuring lesser-known Canadian cases.

Hosted by Selene Mayhew located in London ON, Canada
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Episode 116: The Horrific Murder of Noelle Paquette

Not Always PoliteJun 03, 2023

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Episode 116: The Horrific Murder of Noelle Paquette

Episode 116: The Horrific Murder of Noelle Paquette

This case begins with two people who were descried in an article as being “Like Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka, or Michael Rafferty and Terri-Lynne McClintic, who abducted, raped and killed girls, two morally bankrupt, violent people” who found each other on social media. This monstrous pair goes on to Murder a vivacious 27 year old Kindergarten teacher. Listen through to learn more.

Jun 03, 202311:22
Episode 115: Did Jeromka “Jerry” Willis Keeshig take his own life?
Apr 29, 202309:30
Episode 114: MURDERED - Pauline Dudley

Episode 114: MURDERED - Pauline Dudley

17 year old Pauline was last seen by her mother when she left their home to go back to her boyfriends where she had been living for her past year, but she didn’t make it. Listen through to learn more.
Apr 15, 202305:37
Episode 113: The Murder of Jeffery Johnson

Episode 113: The Murder of Jeffery Johnson

31 year old Jeffery Johnson was found dead in the basement of a home he was subleasing from Paul Jaglal. With his mothers persistence, police finally took his disappearance seriously resulting in the discovery of his body 4 days after his death. Listen through to learn more.
Mar 27, 202309:03
Episode 112: MISSING/RUNAWAY - Justin Pollari

Episode 112: MISSING/RUNAWAY - Justin Pollari

In 2001, Justin Pollari ran away. He was 14 years old. Justin has never been seen or heard from since. Listen through to learn more.
Mar 12, 202311:17
Episode 111: Sort of Unsolved? The murder of Morris Conte

Episode 111: Sort of Unsolved? The murder of Morris Conte

In mid 2010, 42 year old Morris Conte was reported missing by his family. Over the next few weeks dismembered body parts started being discovered more than 150 km away. 12 years later, an arrest is finally made but the family still hasn’t received answers to their burning questions. Listen through to learn more.
Feb 26, 202305:12
Episode 110: The Unimaginable Murders of Carla and Al Rutherford
Feb 12, 202327:06
Episode 109: The disappearance of Noreen Greenly

Episode 109: The disappearance of Noreen Greenly

In September 1963 13 year old Noreen Greenley ived in Bowmanville, Ontario. When she didn’t come home after a night hanging out with her friends; her father reported her missing. Listen through to learn about the theories behind her disappearance.
Jan 28, 202318:38
Episode 108: The Unsolved Murder of Sonia Varaschin

Episode 108: The Unsolved Murder of Sonia Varaschin

After not showing up for work, 42 year old Sonia was reported missing by her family. Her white Toyota Corolla was found with blood smeared on the front bumper. Listen through to learn more about Sonia.
Jan 22, 202311:16
Episode 105: The disappearance of Holly Painter

Episode 105: The disappearance of Holly Painter

On Monday, June 26th, 1995, 18-year-old Holly Painter disappeared from Toronto, Ontario.

Holly was last seen leaving her home at 359 Dawes Road at approximately 6:00PM. She was accompanied by two acquaintances, but was never seen again after fleeing from their dark coloured Ford Bronco. Listen through to learn more.
Jan 07, 202309:08
Episode 106: The Unsolved Murder of Simone Sandler

Episode 106: The Unsolved Murder of Simone Sandler

21-year-old Simone Sandler was last seen on Saturday July 23rd, 1994, in the Yonge Street and Gerrard Street area in Toronto, Ontario. When Simone’s parents, Linda and Stephen, notified the police on July 24th that their daughter had failed to return home the prior evening, the York Regional Police believed that Simone had merely skipped her curfew on purpose and was out living it up. Simone was never seen alive again. Listen through to learn more
Jan 07, 202307:21
Episode 104: UNSOLVED- The 8 Day Bride

Episode 104: UNSOLVED- The 8 Day Bride

In May 1947, Jack Kettlewell and Christina Mocon eloped and went on a cottage honeymoon. What went so horribly wrong that a mere eight days that led to Christina’s death and Jack being hospitalized? Listen through to learn more.
Dec 18, 202217:58
Episode 103: UNSOLVED - Irene “Frances” Gibbons

Episode 103: UNSOLVED - Irene “Frances” Gibbons

Irene “Frances” Gibbons was brutally murdered in her home in Strathroy, Ontario in 1975. Could her case be linked to a serial killer?? Listen through to learn more
Dec 03, 202219:44
Episode 101: DISAPPEARED - Lonnie Philip Bourdeau

Episode 101: DISAPPEARED - Lonnie Philip Bourdeau

Lonnie was a bright young boy who endured a lot in his short 10 years prior to his disappearance. His parents divorced when he was at the age of 5 and it seemingly was all downhill from there. Listen through to hear the rest of Lonnie’s story.
Nov 20, 202211:20
*UPDATED* Episode 35: MISSING - Meagan Pilon

*UPDATED* Episode 35: MISSING - Meagan Pilon

15 year old Meagan Pilon was last seen by her father leaving the hospital after a visit when she reportedly got into a dark green muscle car. Listen through to learn about her childhood, and some theories in the case.
Nov 13, 202223:07
Episode 100: Who Sent a Bomb to Wayne Greavette?

Episode 100: Who Sent a Bomb to Wayne Greavette?

On December 12, 1996, Wayne Greavette received a package that contained a flashlight and a “business proposal”. This package would change his life forever… by ending it. Listen through to learn more.
Nov 13, 202211:53
Episode 99: DISAPPEARED- Ingrid Bauer

Episode 99: DISAPPEARED- Ingrid Bauer

Ingrid Bauer, 14, disappeared from Kleinburg, Ontario, on Aug. 16, 1972. Ingrid was hitchhiking to her boyfriend’s Pine Grove home, about five miles from her family residence on Pennon Road. An extensive investigation produced few clues to her whereabouts.
Oct 22, 202211:25
Episode 98: Unsolved in London, Ontario - Anthony Manning & Bradley Allan Taylor

Episode 98: Unsolved in London, Ontario - Anthony Manning & Bradley Allan Taylor

These two cases have an insane lack of coverage stemming from London Ontario. Anthony was found shot dead in a home while Bradley seeming vanished without a trace. Listen through to learn more.
Oct 09, 202207:09
Episode 97: MISSING - Richard David "Peewee" Marlow
Oct 09, 202210:22
Episode 96: UNSOLVED - The Disappearance of Mabel Crumback
Sep 18, 202211:30
Episode 95: UNSOLVED - George and Marguerite Simpson

Episode 95: UNSOLVED - George and Marguerite Simpson

Was the brutal murder of siblings George and Marguerite Simpson the work of an unknown serial killer? Or that or a disgruntled client of George’s? We may never know, as it’s been nearly 35 years since their deaths and the police are no closer to finding answers. Listen through to learn more.
Sep 11, 202209:24
Episode 94: MISSING - Trever John Andrews

Episode 94: MISSING - Trever John Andrews

Trever John Andrews disappeared from London, Ontario on October 28th, 2009. The 26-year-old was last seen around 11:30PM on Oakville Ave. near Huron St. and Clarke Rd. 

Trever is a Caucasian male, with short light brown hair and green eyes. He is approximately 6 feet tall (183 cm) and roughly 170 pounds (77 kg). Trever has a birthmark on his left cheek. When he was last seen he was carrying a No Frills yellow shopping bag containing bottles of beer. When he vanished, Trever was wearing a white t-shirt, white hooded sweatshirt, and white Reebok running shoes with black trim.

If you have any information about Trever’s disappearance, call London Police Service at 519 661-5670 or Crime Stoppers at 1-800-222-TIPS. His family has advertised a $10,000 reward for information that leads to his whereabouts.

https://lfpress.com/news/local-news/inside-a-london-missing-person-case-12-years-fond-memories-no-answers

https://thetruecrimefiles.com/trever-andrews-disappearance/

Sep 03, 202209:39
Episode 93: The Zaman Family Slaughter

Episode 93: The Zaman Family Slaughter

This case very much gives Jennifer Pan vibes… a 23 year old man living in Markham was living a lie. He lied to his entire family about his education and because of this he decided to kill them so they wouldn’t find out the truth. Listen through to lean more.
Aug 20, 202215:46
Episode 92: MISSING - Marilyn Neely

Episode 92: MISSING - Marilyn Neely

Marilyn Neely was last seen at approximately 3:30 p.m. on September 18th 1983. She was seen by a friend driving her gold colored 1983 Dodge Dart southbound on Goodfellow road in the county of Peterborough. Her vehicle was located on September 23rd on the Fine Point Trail access road, north of Buckhorn, and approximately 11 km west of highway 507. A group of hunters going to a hunting camp found the Dodge Dart in their way, they pushed it out of the way and notified police.
Neely is a mother of two children and was an employee of Call-A-Cab. She was reported to be in a depressed and suicidal state. The morning after her disappearance her family reported her missing.
Aug 14, 202206:21
Episode 91: DISAPPEARED- Christina Calayca

Episode 91: DISAPPEARED- Christina Calayca

Christina Calayca (born 19 December 1986) was a young Filipino-Canadian woman who disappeared from Rainbow Falls Provincial Park, Ontario in 2007. As of 2022, her whereabouts and the circumstances surrounding her disappearance remain unknown. Listen through to learn more.
Jul 30, 202227:02
Episode 90: Mathew Charles Lamb

Episode 90: Mathew Charles Lamb

Mathew Charles "Matt" Lamb was a Canadian spree killer who, in 1967, avoided Canada's then-mandatory death penalty for capital murder by being found not guilty by reason of insanity. His life takes a turn that I definitely didn’t see coming. Listen through to learn more.
Jul 24, 202220:03
BONUS EPISODE: Weird Spam ft. Weird Distractions Podcast Host Alex!

BONUS EPISODE: Weird Spam ft. Weird Distractions Podcast Host Alex!

Hello everyone! This is an extra special episode. I was asked to record an episode of Weird Spam with my good friend Alex from Weird Distractions Podcast. If you enjoy this episode, please check out her platforms for more!
Jul 21, 202243:19
Episode 89: Julie Ann Stanton

Episode 89: Julie Ann Stanton

The family was left perplexed by the unexplained disappearance of a teenager in April 1990. The police investigating Julie Stanton’s abduction had a suspect, but no hard proof linking him to her disappearance. Listen through to learn more.
Jul 16, 202206:25
Episode 88: MISSING - Tatianna “Bijou” Cuevas
Jul 02, 202210:03
Episode 87: UNSOLVED - Debra Himmelman

Episode 87: UNSOLVED - Debra Himmelman

Debra Himmelman, a 49-year-old mother of four, disappeared from her home on the evening of Saturday, June 5, 2004. Her body was finally found lying face down in the brush off a rail bed, only 600m from her house, in the early afternoon of June 8, 2004. Her death was ruled a homicide, but the details surrounding it are still uncertain. Listen through to learn more.
Jun 28, 202206:56
Episode 86: MISSING - Pamela Harvey
Jun 18, 202207:03
Episode 85: MISSING - Wendy Rene Smith
Jun 11, 202212:45
Episode 84: The Untimely Deaths of Erika and Cindy Plein
Jun 04, 202210:31
Episode 83: The Murder of Donna Jones

Episode 83: The Murder of Donna Jones

When 30 year old Donna Jones was introduced to Mark Hutt by a mutual friend, she never imagined her life being turned upside down by an abusive husband. Listen through to learn about their relationship and the traumatic end to Donna’s life.
May 21, 202208:37
Episode 82: The Ryan Family Crossbow Murders
May 07, 202215:21
Episode 81: The murder of Farah Khan
Apr 30, 202211:33
Episode 80: The Webcam Murder of Qian Liu
Apr 23, 202212:17
Episode 79: The Murder of Richard Humble
Apr 17, 202209:15
Episode 78: Jesse Imeson
Apr 11, 202211:10
Episode 77: MISSING - Yves Jodouin
Apr 03, 202209:21
Episode 76: Luka Magnotta
Mar 26, 202225:56
75: How did John Connelly really die?

75: How did John Connelly really die?

22-year-old John Connelly was found laying on his back in the parking lot of his Toronto apartment complex on December 9th, 2001. John was a 3rd-year Pharmacy student at the University of Toronto in the midst of getting ready to write exams. He had just ended things with his fiance but his friends and family are adamant that he was enjoying life and happy. The police immediately ruled his death a suicide. There are some shocking details about this case I am going to discuss, including the fact that 12-13 minutes after being declared VSA- the paramedics arrived on the scene to find John to have a strong pulse... Listen through to hear more details about the case and how BADLY the Toronto Police *In my opinion,* botched this "investigation". https://nationalpost.com/news/canada/sons-suicide-was-actually-murder-and-toronto-police-bungled-probe-family-alleges-in-12-5m-lawsuit https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/connelly-family-toronto-police-lawsuit-dismissed-1.5046581 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w_IS0fKAFBw&t=294s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vk6zUNhB2eY&t=682s
Mar 20, 202225:28
Episode 9: MURDERED - The Rallo Family
Mar 20, 202244:51
Episode 6: MURDERED - Victoria “Tori” Stafford - PART 2

Episode 6: MURDERED - Victoria “Tori” Stafford - PART 2

Welcome back to Not Always Polite! This is the second part of a two part series on the abduction and murder of 8 year old Victoria "Tori" Stafford from Woodstock, Ontario, Canada. In this episode we will discuss the trials of both Terri Lynn McClintic and Michael Rafferty and learn more details about the murder.
Mar 20, 202250:17
Episode 74: Shawn & Leslie Jones

Episode 74: Shawn & Leslie Jones

Mar 13, 202206:09
Episode 73: Joe Moore

Episode 73: Joe Moore

49-Year-old Joe Moore was last seen on October 31st, 2012 near Jean's Family Restaurant on Sutton Street in Kincardine. Joe was also seen at the Davidson Centre in Kincardine during the same day.

Joe is described as being 5 foot 6 and 129 pounds with short brown and grey hair. H has hazel eyes and wears glasses.

Anyone with information on his whereabouts should call 1-888-310-1122 or Crime Stoppers at 1-800-222-8477 (TIPS)

Alternatively, please bring me home, a non-profit organization is also looking into Joe’s case and you can send them an email at pleasebringmehome@outlook.com

https://pleasebringmehome.com/cases/ontario/joe-moore/

Mar 13, 202204:11
Episode 72: Wesley Hallam
Mar 06, 202217:10
Episode 71: Who left baby Dusty Bowers in the snow?
Feb 27, 202222:36
Episode 70: Shayne Lund
Feb 20, 202212:21
**UPDATED** Episode 45: UNSOLVED - Francis Harris

**UPDATED** Episode 45: UNSOLVED - Francis Harris

On April 21, 1972 in Apsley Ontario, Francis was last seen after returning from an appointment with her husband Stanley. Listen through to hear the details of her case and my theory on who is behind this.
Feb 14, 202212:20