Note to Self

#41. Some of us aren't cut out for the ULTRA-productive 6AM morning routine, and that's OK. After years of attempting to craft the *ideal* 3-hour-long routine for morning optimization, Payton decided to give up the act and build a morning that relaxed & invigorated her. Think slow, calm, & full of simple, happy moments. Because you should enjoy your life... enjoying life is a core value of NTS, actually. So, grab your coffee, throw on this episode, and get your perfect morning started.

& thank you so much for listening. The next episode of Note to Self will be a Dear Media Production.

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After taking a bit of a break last week, Payton is back with another ASK P episode, this time in conversation with her boyfriend, Joe Ross. Some of you might know Joe as "strikeout daddy," a pitcher in the major leagues made even more *famous* by the many thirst-traps of him (created by Payton) circling around Tiktok. Today, he's advice-column Joe, a new character you've never seen before. So, here's some *solicited advice.

Have an ASK P question of your own? Email paytonsartain@gmail.com with subject line ASK P. Let us know if we can use your real name, or if you'd like a nickname, and give us all the details we need to give you some solid advice.

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In this *very* raw episode, Payton details her journey from political science major to full-time influencer. Over the course of the last 6 years in the space, she's picked up on a few over-arching tips that apply to content creation, entrepreneurship and growth on social media. Don't be offended by how blunt this episode is, plz. 

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For the first installment of the NEW monthly ASK P advice column segment, Payton is tackling listener questions about relationships. How do I break-up with my long-distance boyfriend? Is it normal to hold grudges in your relationship? How do I get over a guy I never dated? Payton is dishing out her best advice.

*If you have a question for the next installment of ASK P, email it, with lots of context and all relevant details, to paytonsartain@gmail.com with ASK P in the subject line.

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In this solo episode, Payton talks about simple practices for being a better partner in a relationship. Covering topics from independence in a partnership to actively listening to your partner, she gathers advice from listeners, draws on her own experience, and answers a meaningful listener question. 

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If you’re struggling with an abusive relationship and need some extra support, you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233, or text START to 88788.

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In today's solo episode, Payton is tackling quick, simple tricks to getting back on track after feeling unmotivated. Here are a few easy, actionable steps to take you from *bleh* to feeling reinvigorated.

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Friendships, as an adult, can be tricky. In this solo episode, Payton is talking about making new friends as an adult, friendship "breakups," & best friendship practices for adult friendships. If you have trouble in this area or feel like your friendships just aren't the same after high school or college, you aren't alone! Here's how to navigate relationships like these in your 20s and beyond.

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Payton sits down with long-time friend, Kimberly Landa, to discuss getting through a pandemic breakup and dating in New York City in this very casual episode. Kimberly is an art advisor living in NYC, and her life is... colorful. Listen to Kimberly's recent dating horror stories here and follow her art account below. xx 

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In this solo Q&A episode, we are tackling questions about comparison, confidence, body image, & finding motivation. 

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Bria Jones schools us on how to use abundance mindset in money matters, sharing her specific tips & tricks to earning her first 6-figure month.

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-- Note to Self Starter Pack - THE MUSTS IF YOU'RE NEW HERE

How to Live Your Best Single Life (Episode 20)

28 Life Lessons (Episode 28) 

How I Manifested My Boyfriend (Episode 3) 

To celebrate Payton's 28th birthday, she's talking about the 27 life lessons she has learned in 27 years and what she hopes to learn and lead with in her 28th year. 

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In today's episode, Payton shares her ULTIMATE favorites of 2021, from TV shows to beauty products to people she follows. This is the second-to-last episode of 2021, so we're chatting about some of the best things 2021 gave us. 

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In today’s episode, Payton talks making big moves, adjusting to life in a new place, managing your emotions, nostalgia, & thriving in your new home. This episode can apply to moves big and small, or simply to handling change in your life.

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Joe and Payton discuss their next big adventure, MOVING IN TOGETHER, for part 1 of the moving-in series. Reporting live from Napa Valley, the two discuss what they’re looking forward to, what makes them nervous, and so much more. This is a pre-move chat! Come hang.

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Payton sits down with friend and influencer-extraordinaire, Delaney Childs, to talk cultivating positivity, intentional content consumption & her top relationship tips for longevity. Make sure to follow Delaney across socials for a look at her day-to-day life and how she lives her message.

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Payton is leaving LA, and SHE CAN EXPLAIN. We're taking a deep dive into pre-move-in jitters, what makes LA so special, and how to maintain independence while living with a partner (or, how to PLAN to do so). 

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Today, Payton answers questions like "What do I do if I feel like the ugly friend?" and "How do you balance time for yourself and time spent on your relationship?" We discuss topics from men to moving across the country. 

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In today's episode, Payton sits down with Carissa Stanton, AKA Brocc Your Body, to discuss career, love & their mutual obsession with Le Bowls from Zinque. This episode centers on following your intuition in all areas of your life, from romance to eatings habits. Carissa is open about the very public ending of an engagement, her mental health status, and her current dating life. If you're going through a breakup or need some career inspiration, this episode is for you.  :: Follow Carissa :: https://www.instagram.com/broccyourbody/ https://www.tiktok.com/@broccyourbody https://broccyourbody.com :: Follow Payton :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Revolve Faves: https://rvlv.me/sMDAIA Amazon Store: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/

In today's episode, we have a lengthy discussion about the power of being single. Payton breaks down what she considers the pros of being single and talks loneliness, third wheeling, & dating. This episode if for the often-single and the newly-single alike. The episode ends with a Q&A and some parting tips, in summary. Let's chat.

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In this week's episode, Payton sits down with Ella McFadin over chilled wine and a view of New York City. You may know Ella on social media as Ella Rose, from her infamous 'Hot Girl Summer' antics or from women having their own viral 'Ella Rose Moments' in New York and beyond on Instagram & TikTok. The two talk break-up tips, living your best single life, personal style, and new relationships in today's episode.  :: Follow Ella ::  https://instagram.com/ellaarose https://www.tiktok.com/@ellamcfadin https://artoffoods.com https://skinbyella.com :: Follow Payton ::  Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Revolve Faves: https://rvlv.me/sMDAIA Amazon Store: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/

& exactly what she said to make it happen. In today’s episode, Payton interviews one of her long-time internet friends IRL. They talk just going for it (& how), being your most RAW self on the internet, and how to make your wildest goals a reality. :: Follow Alyssa :: Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tea-with-publyssity/id1545988835 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/publyssity/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@publyssity Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/311409916234137/ :: Follow Me :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Revolve Faves: https://rvlv.me/sMDAIA Amazon Store: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/

In today’s episode, Payton shares her one and only hobby: taking herself out on dates. She answers listener questions like “how do you build up the confidence to eat alone at a fancy restaurant?” and shares date-with-yourself ideas, best practices, etc. TAKE YOURSELF OUT, OK?

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In today's episode, Payton & fashion influencer Josi Pellicano talk all things Instagram growth & becoming an influencer full-time. Josi amassed an engaged, loyal following of over 200k in just 3 years. We get the the nitty gritty of how she did it. How does one become an influencer? How do you work with brands? How do you pay your bills when you're first starting out? The girls chat all of this and more over rose in the worm lair. :: Follow Josi ::  Instagram: https://instagram.com/josipellicano TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@josipellicano YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JosiPellicano  :: Follow Me :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/

In this week's episode, Payton is taking a deep dive into her college experience, answering listener questions about rush, balancing school & social life, and acclimating to the real world post-grad. She's also sharing a few of her favorite college memories (including spring break at the shit-horse and MAYBE throwing up in a fuckboy's bed) and the story of the fateful night she was arrested. 

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In today's episode, Payton sits down with long-time friend, and one of the brains behind the social-forward company, We're Not Really Strangers, Emon Abdullah. If you've been on Instagram in the last 2-3 years, chances are you've run across a post from We're Not Really Strangers, whether on your explore page, shared on a friend's story, or on your own feed. Starting as a card game to connect strangers, WNRS has grown into a social movement, showcasing the power of vulnerability in the digital space, and how that vulnerability can be used to connect & inspire us all. Emon talks effectively creating a feelings-forward, powerful social presence, as well as break-ups, friendships in your 20s and more. ALSO, Payton shares a few life updates in the intro that y'all need to hear.  :: Follow Emon :: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/emonabdullah/ We're Not Really Strangers Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/werenotreallystrangers/ :: Follow Me :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain?lang=en Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/

In this episode, Payton sits down with her friend Alex Georgy, the Founder & CEO of experiential marketing agency Bloggers Who Brunch to talk about building a company from the ground up. Alex shares a few golden entrepreneurship tips that helped her to create a highly successful marketing agency, including faking it until you make it and never passing up an opportunity to learn & grow (both as a person and as a business). She's giving us the TEA on becoming a badass woman in business.  Make sure to subscribe/follow & rate/review if you're cool.  :: Follow Alex ::  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alex_georgy/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexgeorgy?lang=en  Bloggers Who Brunch Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bloggerswhobrunch/  BWB Website - https://www.bloggerswhobrunch.com  :: Follow Me :: Instagram: http://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain?lang=en Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/

In this episode, Payton shares her experience with depression & anxiety since, well, birth. She answers your questions about depression &/or anxiety in an extremely candid and realistic tone, sharing perspectives, tips & tricks for dealing with these aspects of life that can make us feel heavy, guilty, uninspired and hopeless. This episode is for anyone experiencing depression or anxiety themselves, or for anyone who has a loved one experiencing these things. TW: Suicidal Thoughts, Depression, Panic Attacks If you or someone you love is experiencing suicidal thoughts, PLEASE contact the National Suicide Prevention Hotline at 1-800-273-8255.  Support Note to Self by Payton Sartain by subscribing, rating & reviewing. Forever grateful for you.  :: FOLLOW ::  Instagram: http://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh  Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain?lang=en Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/ REVOLVE Outfits + Favorites: https://rvlv.me/sMDAIA 

Payton sits down with her boyfriend, Joe Ross (aka Squish, aka Strikeout Daddy), to answer your juicy questions for the one-&-only Squishy Man. The two answer the age-old question: how does a couple have a successful long-distance relationship? Payton shares a few tips she's picked up over the course of the last year dating Joe, who currently lives on the other side of the country, playing Major League Baseball. Joe discusses the many (& strange) alternate career paths he considered, had he not chosen to play baseball for a living, as well as his ideal 5-year plan (children, marriage, dogs, the works). & of course, some talk about their favorite conspiracy theories.  Joe's Socials: http://instagram.com/_jross21 Follow NTS: http://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod?lang=en http://youtube.com/paytonsartainhh

In this episode of NTS, we are back for part II of Payton's chat with friend & instagram-extraordinaire, Claudia Graziano. In part II, the girls discuss very humble beginnings from internships, to starting fashion blogs, to adapting (or failing to adapt) to the current social media landscape. As P & C take us through their journeys from steaming clothes & shipping packages to creating Instagram feeds worthy of making a living off of, they sip their wine, and give us the pep talk no one asked for. This episode is dedicated to all the squishy people out there. Just fcking go for it. 

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TK is BACK to talk all things men, dating apps, and how dating in LA actually is. We give our hot takes on being unapologetic about what we want in a man, which includes him having a GREAT job, and we aren't sorry about that. TK gives us some tips for how to start memorable conversations on dating apps, and she explains her theory on which dating app is best for finding a husband vs finding a drunk texting buddy. Today's episode brings y'all into our nightly roomie chats, it's like y'all are sitting on the worm couch, overlooking downtown LA with us. Remember to rate & review if you're not a bitch, thanks!!!!!! 

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Today Payton sits down with Taylor King, whom she considers the best roommate she's EVER had. Taylor, better known as TK, talks about her career path from growing up in Indiana, to attending LA's prestigious Fashion Institute of Design & Merchandising, to working for a successful Youtuber (& becoming one herself). TK's vibrant energy that makes her a must-follow also makes her next-level at networking naturally, and she's sharing her juicy tips for how to become better at networking yourself. This is Part I of a 2-part series, so tune in next week for an episode all about dating experiences, dating app success, & juicy romance stories. 

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In this solo episode, Payton shares how she manifested a whole-ass MAN into her life by being specific, unapologetic, and focussing on feelings. Then, she walks us through what its like to move to a big city like Los Angeles, provides a step-by-step guide on how to thrive in a big city, and dishes tips on LA lifestyle. Lastly, we talk about how to acquire confidence through daily actions and developing a deep trust in yourself. 

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Today, we're sitting down with my boyfriend, Joe Ross, getting to know him a bit more, and discussing relationships, dating & baseball. I fielded a few of your questions for Joe via Instagram, and he gives us his two cents on dating me (the best girlfriend ever, obviously) and dating as a professional athlete in these streets. Forewarning- we did split a bottle of wine during this *interview,* and I'm sure you'll enjoy the conversation that ensues after a little *liquid courage.* Disclaimer- don't take either of us too seriously.  

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