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Not Relationship Goals The Podcast

Not Relationship Goals The Podcast

By Not Relationship Goals The Podcast

For raw, uncensored talk from the mutha$&@$@s you definitely should not take advice from. Kay and Dillon bring you NOT RELATIONSHIP GOALS, conversations from unprofessionals about life, love, bumping uglies and all the gray s**t in between. Follow us on Instagram @notrelationshipgoalspodcast @chefkaymarks and @chillin_dillon
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Episode 113: Standin On Bidnezz!

Not Relationship Goals The PodcastMar 19, 2024

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Episode 113: Standin On Bidnezz!

Episode 113: Standin On Bidnezz!

NRG Episode 113 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about dummies getting women pregnant, black men not feeling loved, break up decrees, black women raising the men they despise, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Mar 19, 202449:29
Episode 112: Attractive Confidence!

Episode 112: Attractive Confidence!

NRG Episode 112 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about asking for a woman’s hand in marriage, do you have to love someone before becoming an item, is confidence attractive, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Mar 07, 202401:13:47
Episode 111: Millionaire Tears!

Episode 111: Millionaire Tears!

NRG Episode 111 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about why women never apologize, black men’s feelings not being heard, black women not being heard, millionaires crying, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Feb 14, 202401:02:52
Episode 110: Gentrified Cuts!

Episode 110: Gentrified Cuts!

NRG Episode 110 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about how everyone is comfortable around black people, the fade haircut being gentrified, being someones first good man or good woman, do have the same requirements when it comes to dating studs, DM etiquette, Chillin turning all his exes gay, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Feb 08, 202401:15:09
Episode 109: They Uglied Her Up

Episode 109: They Uglied Her Up

NRG Episode 109 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about what makes women lose interest in a man, women who feel like a man is obligated to pay for everything, calling men sassy and more, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Jan 30, 202401:12:12
Episode 108: Happy New Year!

Episode 108: Happy New Year!

NRG Episode 108 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about how our year went how we want this year to go and more, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Jan 03, 202448:37
Episode 107: Naughty Teacher!

Episode 107: Naughty Teacher!

NRG Episode 107 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about compatibility, how sex is keeping most relationships afloat, arguing about other people’s problems, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Dec 19, 202301:16:05
Episode 106: Jail Ninjas!

Episode 106: Jail Ninjas!

NRG Episode 106 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about the most delusional thing you did while dating or in a relationship, who has the most game men or women, things to do before marriage, men taking feelings back from women, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Dec 05, 202301:11:35
Episode 105: Heat For The Streets!

Episode 105: Heat For The Streets!

NRG Episode 105 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about sex on the first night or make him wait, what is intimacy to you, 5 things that will make you stay, women being innately nurturing, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Nov 21, 202301:17:48
Episode 104: Spin The Block!

Episode 104: Spin The Block!

NRG Episode 104 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about getting that old thang back/spinning the block, trying to be more serious but we love playing, why more relationships don’t last nowadays, having team spirit while in a relationship, adults not understanding adulting, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Nov 14, 202301:16:44
Episode 103: Booty Camp!

Episode 103: Booty Camp!

NRG Episode 103 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about how amazing Kay looks, female workout influencers only working out the ass, manifesting vs staying silent about ur moves, upbringing playing a part in ur relationships, adults not understanding adulting, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Nov 07, 202301:38:14
Episode 101: One Wish!

Episode 101: One Wish!

NRG Episode 101 We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about one wish to change something about ur partner, how to weather the storm through the struggle years, overcoming toxicity, keeping score in ur relationship, chicks hyped up on dudes who are social media popular, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Oct 24, 202301:25:48
Episode 100: Keep It 100!

Episode 100: Keep It 100!

NRG Episode 100 This episode is a milestone episode. We finally have visuals back on our YouTube!! This episode we chopped it up about finding your someone, toxic women, taking relationship advice after a fight, myths about makeup sex, getting nasty in ur relationship, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Oct 17, 202301:23:59
Episode 99: Sassy Savages!

Episode 99: Sassy Savages!

NRG Episode 99 This episode we chopped it up about neglecting a good man, sassy savages, being with a cheater, irreconcilable differences, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Oct 09, 202301:05:49
Episode 98: Ran A Bunch Of Trains!

Episode 98: Ran A Bunch Of Trains!

NRG Episode 98 This episode we chopped it up about does a persons body count matter, what the perks of being in a relationship, women trying to find love earlier than later, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Oct 03, 202301:02:53
Episode 97: Must Be Nice!

Episode 97: Must Be Nice!

NRG Episode 97 This episode we chopped it up about women dating men who have potential, what work it takes to have a healthy relationship, women proposing, hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Sep 26, 202301:05:56
Episode 96: Attention Seekers!!!

Episode 96: Attention Seekers!!!

NRG Episode 96 This episode we chopped it up about men and women seeking attention, are black women raised to be independent, phubbing (phone snubbing) hot topics, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Sep 12, 202301:09:58
Episode 95: Pay Like You Weigh!!!

Episode 95: Pay Like You Weigh!!!

NRG Episode 95 This episode we chopped it up about our 8 year anniversary trip to Turks and Caicos, men and women catfishing, women dubbing men, hiding ur significant other from the internet, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Aug 22, 202301:03:27
Episode 94: Year Of The Hoodrat!

Episode 94: Year Of The Hoodrat!

NRG Episode 94 This episode we chopped it up about this being the year of the Hoodrat, comfortability being the devil, splitting the food bill, offending a stripper, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Jul 18, 202301:03:21
Episode 93: Cream Queens!

Episode 93: Cream Queens!

NRG Episode 93 This episode we chopped it up about boundaries in relationships, Keke Palmer’s night out, favorite porn categories, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Jul 11, 202301:02:03
Episode 92: Get My Lick Back!

Episode 92: Get My Lick Back!

NRG Episode 92 This episode we chopped it up about broke vs cheap boyfriends, strippers being robbed, ESPN fired everybody, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Jul 04, 202301:14:00
Episode 91: Breakdown A BBL!

Episode 91: Breakdown A BBL!

NRG Episode 91 This episode we chopped it up about what is considered cheating, Lil Uzi being assaulted, Black excellence, out of character relationship moments, ghetto gossip and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Jun 27, 202301:14:06
Episode 90: Pregnant Ballers!

Episode 90: Pregnant Ballers!

NRG Episode 90 This episode we chopped it up about Juneteenth celebrations, Sukihana being assaulted, pregnant women hooping, Travis Rudolph being found not guilty of murder, J Cole and NBA owner now and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Jun 21, 202358:17
Episode 89: Ozempic Butt!

Episode 89: Ozempic Butt!

NRG Episode 89 This episode we chopped it up about first love stories that are messed up, Ozempic Butt taking over, men slowly becoming women, “outside” etiquette while in a relationship and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Jun 06, 202301:08:34
Episode 88: Dick Data!

Episode 88: Dick Data!

NRG Episode 88 This episode we chopped it up about a woman marrying herself, white man can’t jump, how are dating time frames determined, dating a woman with a fine momma and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
May 30, 202359:49
Episode 87: The Lactade Latcher!

Episode 87: The Lactade Latcher!

NRG Episode 87 This episode we chopped it up finances in a relationship, should your spouse have to work for a good gift, Malcom x route on Crenshaw, rapper baby mommas vs ball players and some more ish. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
May 23, 202354:29
Episode 86: All Kinds Of Porn!

Episode 86: All Kinds Of Porn!

NRG Episode 86 This episode we chopped it up about intimacy, JaWick, beautiful women, the Utah pornhub fight, Surviving JLo, and some more shit. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
May 16, 202301:06:09
Episode 85: How Do You Cheat?

Episode 85: How Do You Cheat?

NRG Episode 85 This episode we chopped it up about being equally yoked, would you date a bus driver? The disconnect between black men and black women, writers strike, diddy and caresha an item? Gaye family took an L and some more shit. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
May 10, 202301:17:27
Episode 84: Brother Husbands!

Episode 84: Brother Husbands!

NRG Episode 84 This episode we chopped it up with our lil sis Arica about Brother husbands, Ai not the basketball player, Designer jacking off on a plane, Jerry springer, Lakers, Michael Jackson almost buying Marvel and some other bullshit. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
May 02, 202301:13:08
Episode 83: Lil Kay Kay!

Episode 83: Lil Kay Kay!

NRG Episode 83 This episode we chopped it up about Drake’s stylist, the big red boots, the operating cost of women going up, how long is the honeymoon phase, ugly and attractive people and some other bullshit. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Apr 25, 202301:00:53
Episode 82: High Value Vagina!

Episode 82: High Value Vagina!

NRG Episode 82 we are back officially this time 😂. This episode we chopped it up about what’s been going down since we’ve been away. We also chopped it up about high value men vs women, doing wifey things without the ring, style and confidence and some other bullshit. Tune in subscribe rate and follow
Apr 18, 202301:00:04
Episode 81: Roachin!!!! Ft: @Disruptingjane @Clean_Drawls

Episode 81: Roachin!!!! Ft: @Disruptingjane @Clean_Drawls

Dillon and Kay sit down with Janae (@Disruptingjane) and Nick (@Clean_Drawls) and discussed life, love, and the pursuit of happiness lol. No but seriously we touched on so many great topics tune into this great convo and enjoy!!!!!!
Aug 24, 202102:03:28
Episode 80: Mushy Mushy!!!!!

Episode 80: Mushy Mushy!!!!!

Kay & Dillon discuss celebrating every anniversary, keeping your relationship private, why OJ is scared to move back to LA, celebrities being responsible for their parents and much more…
Aug 17, 202158:36
Episode 79: Big Aries Energy!!!

Episode 79: Big Aries Energy!!!

Kay and Dillon discuss Dillon’s Big Aries Energy, breaking up with everybody, the difference between men/women flirting, if women get dressed for women, so men get dressed for men and so much more…
Jul 27, 202101:20:43
Episode 78: Won’t You Wrap That Thang Up!!!

Episode 78: Won’t You Wrap That Thang Up!!!

This week Kay & Dillon sit down and discuss to vax or not vax, dating money and bodies, racist Olympics, pass or ask and much more...
Jul 13, 202101:14:39
Episode 77: White But Off-White!

Episode 77: White But Off-White!

This week Kay & Dillon sit down and discuss girl/guy code and has it been broken before, hypocritical people, do you know how to pick em?, pass or ask and much more...
Jun 08, 202101:05:32
Episode 76: PPP And BOOTY!

Episode 76: PPP And BOOTY!

This week Kay & Dillon sit down and discuss normalizing women proposing to men, white men being silenced, ppp loans, pass or ask and much more...
May 25, 202155:59
Episode 75: Friendship Vs Business

Episode 75: Friendship Vs Business

This week Kay & Dillon sit down and discuss friendship and business, the game reboot, extra work benefits, pass or ask and much more...
May 18, 202101:05:19
Episode 74: Didn’t Go To Virgil! Ft: @Aricuuh

Episode 74: Didn’t Go To Virgil! Ft: @Aricuuh

This week Kay & Dillon sit down with Arica and discuss long distance relationships , Prerequisites for relationships, challenges for first timers, pass or ask and much more...
Apr 27, 202101:00:02
Episode 73: Let’s Get A Girlfriend!

Episode 73: Let’s Get A Girlfriend!

This week Kay & Dillon discuss how long is too long not to speak to your partner, Asian hate , slacking at work, pass or ask and much more...
Apr 13, 202101:02:04
Episode 72: Seeing Other People!!!!!

Episode 72: Seeing Other People!!!!!

This week Kay & Dillon discuss women monopolizing the “feelings” game, cheating in relationships, fear of becoming your parents, pass or ask and much more...
Mar 30, 202101:00:31
Episode 71: That’s On You!!!!

Episode 71: That’s On You!!!!

This week Kay & Dillon are back and discuss Respect in a relationship, ncaa, saweetie, talk or walk it, and much more...
Mar 23, 202101:12:40
Episode 70: Going For Ours!!!!!

Episode 70: Going For Ours!!!!!

This week Kay & Dillon discuss Black History Month, sharing your partner with others, talk or walk it, and much more...
Feb 03, 202157:43
Episode 69: Marriage And Mortgages!!!!!

Episode 69: Marriage And Mortgages!!!!!

This week Kay & Dillon discuss Talking Vs dating, competition in relationships, ghetto gossip, and much more...
Jan 20, 202101:16:35
Episode 68: 21, 21, 21

Episode 68: 21, 21, 21

Happy 21, 21, 21!!! This week Kay & Dillon discuss Black Ink’s Caesar, privacy in relationships, starting over, what we left behind in 2020 and much more...
Jan 06, 202155:38
Episode 67: Emotional Sponges! Ft: @Yo__Court

Episode 67: Emotional Sponges! Ft: @Yo__Court

Kay and Dillon sit down with @Yo__Court to discuss losing a partner, how to cope during the grieving process, moving on and much more....
Nov 24, 202001:22:27
Episode 66: Sex Schedule!

Episode 66: Sex Schedule!

Kay and Dillon, discuss Ice Cube and his election beef, Kanye saying Kanye things, Sex scheduling, Jared kushner comments on the black struggle and much more....
Oct 27, 202059:28
Episode 65: New Season!

Episode 65: New Season!

Kay and Dillon discuss Lakers championship, why is starting over so hard, how do you know when it’s over and much more....
Oct 13, 202058:49
Episode 64: Protect Black Women!

Episode 64: Protect Black Women!

Dillon and Kay sit down and discussed Motivating yourself, NBA finals, Meg thee Stallion Vs Tory Lanez, the presidential debate, the movie antebellum, being wifey material and much more....
Oct 06, 202001:16:32
Episode 63: Jew•Ish Ft: @Cordaro4u

Episode 63: Jew•Ish Ft: @Cordaro4u

Dillon and Kay sit down with CD (@Cordaro4u) and discussed whether or not money makes you look better, Lou Will dining at Magic City, Meg thee Stallion, the current economic state and the effects on relationships, dating someone with a mental illness, the federal stimulus and much more....
Jul 28, 202001:20:58