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Not So Newlywed Podcast

Not So Newlywed Podcast

By Flawless Noises Media Network

Not So Newlywed Podcast is hosted by Michael and Candice, a black newlywed couple nearing the end of the honeymoon phase. The duo are sharing their experiences navigating life, love, marriage, and parenting. Along the journey, they’ll have some amazing guests stop by from all walks of life to share their experiences on everything love, from single and dating, to divorced and dating, to marrying later in life. They explore love from different eyes and strip away the fairy tale filter.
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Ep. 17: Woman, Not Mule (feat. Bre)

Not So Newlywed Podcast May 02, 2019

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Ep. 30: Open To Pleasure

Ep. 30: Open To Pleasure

Let’s Talk About Sex (Reprise)

We hope we’ve been missed! On this episode, we discuss some of the common misconceptions surrounding sex toys, both individually and with your partner. We also discuss how communication is key in de-stigmatizing the use of toys in the bedroom.

Enjoy! We appreciate you taking a chance on us and welcome all feedback and commentary.

Articles
6 Myths About Vibrators
5 Biggest Misconceptions About Sex Toys and Pleasure

Flawless Noises 1 Year Anniversary Live Showcase
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Dec 12, 201948:18
Ep. 29: Fun for The Holidays
Nov 15, 201934:04
Ep. 28: The Birds & The Bees (feat. Bre, Jayden, Colin, Chelsea, & Jameson)
Oct 17, 201901:02:09
Ep. 27: Exploring The Unknown (feat. Beanie)
Oct 03, 201901:37:07
Ep. 26: Re-Thinking Male Sexuality
Sep 19, 201946:19
Ep. 25: Sex Outside The Box
Sep 05, 201933:35
Ep. 24: In Sickness & In Health

Ep. 24: In Sickness & In Health

On this episode, we discuss how to keep a relationship strong when one partner has a chronic illness. To aid us, we go over the 7 steps outlined in an article by Karen Bruno, 7 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Strong Despite a Chronic Illness. We also go fully transparent by revealing how we navigate Candice’s journey living as a Type 2 Diabetic.

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Aug 22, 201954:50
Ep. 23: Re-Thinking Female Sexuality

Ep. 23: Re-Thinking Female Sexuality

On this episode we discussed female sexuality. The discussion included debunking some myths regarding libido, monogamy, and how this can help men and women better connect sexually. 

Untrue: Why Nearly Everything We Believe About Women, Lust, and Infidelity Is Wrong and How the New Science Can Set Us Free by Wednesday Martin was cited during this episode

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Articles
Spontaneous Desire vs Responsive Desire
The Truth About Female Libido & Monogamy

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Jul 25, 201941:40
Ep. 21: Oh Baby

Ep. 21: Oh Baby

Let’s discuss keeping the romance alive after you add kids into the equation. So many of us forget we're people outside of our children once we have them, so we have 7 tips for keeping the romance in the green. 

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Article 
5 Steps to Keeping the Romance Alive After Baby is Born

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Jun 27, 201938:39
Ep. 20: The I Means
Jun 13, 201936:16
Ep. 19: Can You Hear Me Now? (feat. Curtis)

Ep. 19: Can You Hear Me Now? (feat. Curtis)

This episode is all about communication. We are joined by Curtis (from Gayside Stories and FNMN co-founder) as we discuss just how many people don’t communicate effectively and healthily in their romantic relationships, friendships, and otherwise.

Enjoy! We appreciate you taking a chance on us and welcome all feedback and commentary.

Guest Info
Twitter:
@trillificent
Instagram: @trillificent

Gayside Stories Podcast
https://linktr.ee/gaysidestories

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May 30, 201901:19:34
Ep. 18: Hi, Who Are You?

Ep. 18: Hi, Who Are You?

You knew it was coming. On this episode, the topic is Ayesha Curry’s sit down on Red Table Talk with her mother-in-law and sister-in-laws, where they discussed identities outside of marriage and kid(s) and insecurities in marriage.

Red Table Talk:
First Ladies of the NBA: Meet the Curry’s

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May 16, 201940:39
Ep. 17: Woman, Not Mule (feat. Bre)

Ep. 17: Woman, Not Mule (feat. Bre)

On today’s episode, we have a super special guest, Bre of Mama Meet World Podcast and Birth Stories of Black Mamas. We discuss an article called “It’s Not A Woman’s Job To Help A Man Become ‘A Better Person,” written by Kristen Mae.

Enjoy! We appreciate you taking a chance on us and welcome all feedback and commentary.

Guest Info
Instagram: @bretastical
Twitter: @_ItsMissBre

Mama Meets World Podcast
https://linktr.ee/mamameetsworldpod

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May 02, 201951:11
Ep. 16: Trust or Bust
Apr 18, 201957:29
Ep. 15: A Vicious Cycle (feat. Randi Simone)

Ep. 15: A Vicious Cycle (feat. Randi Simone)

March is Women’s History Month!

This episode is heavy, but real and transparent. We discuss the effects of growing up without seeing healthy romantic relationships, as well as being honest about growing up with an absentee parent. To help facilitate this conversation, we’re joined by special guest Randi Símone.

Guest info:
Twitter:
@peacelovenafros
Instagram: @simonebnfree
https://www.simonebnfree.com/

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Mar 28, 201957:32
Ep. 14: The New Normal (feat. Jamila M. Dawson)
Mar 14, 201901:02:46
Ep. 13: Womanist Fist?

Ep. 13: Womanist Fist?

March is Women’s History Month!

On this episode, we discussed what womanism/feminism is and how womanism and a healthy marriage go hand-in-hand. And of course, we laughed at a lot of the myths about womanism/feminism ruining marriage.

Reference articles:
What is Womanism
Feminist Marriage
Feminism Has Destabilized The American Family

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Feb 28, 201950:14
Ep. 12: The Chicken or the Egg?

Ep. 12: The Chicken or the Egg?

On today’s episode, we weigh in on who comes first: the husband (chicken), or the kids (egg)? The inspiration for the discussion comes from a USA Today interview from celebrity chef Ayesha Curry, where she explains the key to a lasting marriage is putting your spouse first, even over the kids.

Article:
https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/allthemoms/2019/01/20/ayesha-curry-puts-marriage-stephen-curry-before-kids/2633705002/

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Feb 14, 201936:18
Ep. 11: Bills, Bills, Bills

Ep. 11: Bills, Bills, Bills

Welcome to the premiere episode of Not So Newlywed Podcast on the Flawless Noises Media Network!

On this episode, we explore how to discuss and merge finances in a way that is beneficial to all involved in long-term relationships or marriages.

Enjoy! We appreciate you taking a chance on us and welcome all feedback and commentary. 

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Feb 01, 201935:35
Ep. 10: Mental Health and Love (feat. Byron)

Ep. 10: Mental Health and Love (feat. Byron)

Today we have a special guest, Byron Taylor (@Capt_Ingenuity), a master’s level Mental Health Therapist. Byron is here with us discussing ways to navigate mental illness within a romantic relationship and how to seek help.

Byron works with Canopy Children’s Solution, and you can find them at
www.mycanopy.org
Also if you’re suffering a mental health crisis, you can contact the Suicide Hotline: Suicide Prevention Lifeline or 800-273-8255, and/or the National Alliance on Mental Illness: Nation Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) or 800-950-NAMI.

Enjoy and we appreciate you taking a chance on us and we appreciated all feedback and commentary.

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Jan 17, 201901:06:39
Ep. 9: Back on the Scene (feat. DeeAsia Ali)

Ep. 9: Back on the Scene (feat. DeeAsia Ali)

Today we have a special guest, DeeAsia Ali (@BrainsNBuns) from the Bad And Boozy Podcast (@badandboozypod). Dee is here with us discussing her journey through love as a woman that’s been single for 9 years after ending an on again-off again engagement. 

DeeAsia is an avid supporter of Marian House, which offers rehabilitative services and housing to homeless women and their children. If you know someone in the area they service in need of housing and rehabilitation, or looking to donate to a foundation that’s been helping women in need in the community for over three decades, check out the link below. #TeamPamDukes

www.marianhouse.org 

Enjoy and we appreciate you taking a chance on us and we appreciated all feedback and commentary. 

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Jan 17, 201901:25:43
Ep. 8: No Such Thing As Late (feat. Kamala & Carla)

Ep. 8: No Such Thing As Late (feat. Kamala & Carla)

Today we have a special guests, Kamala (@KamTheLeo) and her wife Karla. They’re here to discuss their journey marrying later in life. 

If you’re in the LGBTQ community and looking for a great church home that will love, praise, and pray for all that you are and what you want to be, Kamala and Karla and their family belong to Oakland Presbyterian Church in Laurel, MD. Link is below: oaklandspres.org/#all-are-welcome 

Karla works with Pathways to Housing in Washington, DC, an organization committed to helping combat homelessness NOW. The link is posted below if you want to donate, or know of someone in need of housing. www.pathwaystohousingdc.org/ 

Kamala is an avid voice of protecting the voting rights of marginalized groups, as well as an active member of the National Lawyers Guild. Please check out 866 Our Vote and the NLG at the links below where you can donate and volunteer your time and resources: 866ourvote.org/ www.nlg.org 

Enjoy, and we appreciate you taking a chance on us! We welcome all feedback and commentary. 

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Jan 17, 201956:43
Ep. 7: Let’s Talk About Sex - Chore No More
Jan 17, 201949:35
Ep. 6: New Beginnings (feat. Adina)

Ep. 6: New Beginnings (feat. Adina)

Today we have a special guest, Adina (@TheHoneyGawdess) discuss life as she navigates a divorce, re-discovers herself, and steps back into the dating world. 

Enjoy, and we appreciate you taking a chance on us! We welcome all feedback and commentary. 

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Jan 17, 201901:15:12
Ep. 5: Boundariesx3
Jan 17, 201959:33
Ep. 4: Zero To 100 (feat. Inca & Travis)

Ep. 4: Zero To 100 (feat. Inca & Travis)

Today we have a special guests, newlywed couple Inca (@SoAlmondie) and Travis here to discuss life as newlyweds. 

Enjoy, and we appreciate you taking a chance on us! We welcome all feedback and commentary. 

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Jan 17, 201953:43
Ep. 3: Love Languages

Ep. 3: Love Languages

Today we discuss the 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman and the 5 Apology Languages. The love languages test can be found at the link below: www.5lovelanguages.com

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Jan 17, 201946:34
Ep. 2: Woke In Love (feat. Jeremey)

Ep. 2: Woke In Love (feat. Jeremey)

Today we have a special guest, Jeremey aka @Blike_Dante here to discuss unlearning society’s patriarchy. We cover online dating, long distance dating, being catfished and an array of other topics . 

Enjoy, and we appreciate you taking a chance on us! We welcome all feedback and commentary. 

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Jan 17, 201901:41:46
Ep. 1: Honey We’re Home

Ep. 1: Honey We’re Home

Welcome to the premier episode of the Not So Newlywed podcast with Candice and Michael (@Brilliantdum_e). Today we discuss the 7 stages of marriage/relationships and the type of content Michael and I plan to bring to our listeners with this show. 

You can find the article we used for the 7 stages of marriage/relationships here: www.readersdigest.ca/health/relationships/7-stages-marriage/view-all/ 

Enjoy, and we appreciate you taking a chance on us! We welcome all feedback and commentary. 

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Jan 17, 201939:29