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Not your blaxk barbie

By Not your blaxk barbie

Notyourblaxkbarbie is a podcast hosted by Topshada where every Tuesday her and her rotating panel discuss everything from dating, self love, sexuality, politics and much more !!! Welcome to our pursuit of happiness!!
@Topshada @notyourblaxbarbie
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(Episode 38: Trashyams👀🤭

Not your blaxk barbie Dec 06, 2019

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Allow me to reintroduce myself 🧞‍♀️🧞‍♀️

Allow me to reintroduce myself 🧞‍♀️🧞‍♀️

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie I’m solo just me and my thoughts. A short episode where i reintroduce who i am and how notyourblaxkbarbie started. Why I’m single...etc ... enjoy and thank you for tuning in
Dec 20, 202027:05
She want a big gangaligangalae🙃😅

She want a big gangaligangalae🙃😅

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie I’m joined by @shaneanthony_the1st and twelve. A lot going on this episode but it’s always jokes! We start off with birth control and how important it is to have a effective pull out game or birth control😅. Why do celebrities feel the need to air their relationship problems online[ lil baby, majah, future and more) me entering the world of dating apps and more ! Thanks for tuning in
Dec 18, 202001:53:39
New year New me let’s try AGAIN🤷🏽‍♀️🎉

New year New me let’s try AGAIN🤷🏽‍♀️🎉

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie I’m joined by my girl sydney from the @theglowprjct! We start the episode off with me affirming my 2021 hot Gurl commandments when it comes to dating. We then jump into a full discussion about what our idea of a healthy relationship looks like, stupidest things we ever allowed while dating, tapping into our divine feminine energy in 2021 and much more! Thanks for tuning i.
Dec 18, 202001:00:43
Wake me up when 2020 leaves 😩😩

Wake me up when 2020 leaves 😩😩

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie I’m joined by my bestie @weedfairy. We talk entanglement, maternal mortality rates in black women and some ways we plan to advocate for ourselves and last but not least men🙄 wanting to benefit from relationships from women.
Jul 25, 202041:40
You gotta be shitting me 😭🗣

You gotta be shitting me 😭🗣

Welcome to another episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. On today’s high episode I’m joined by freshfeen and tiff. We kick it off with some more thoughts the black lives matter movement then jump into a conversation about our love language, have you ever caught yourself tolerating a friend? Nicki Minaj collaborating with 69 and much more!! Thanks for tuning in
Jun 18, 202001:20:38
It's Black lives matter or your mama’s a hoe!✊🏾✊🏾

It's Black lives matter or your mama’s a hoe!✊🏾✊🏾

Welcome to another episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. I’m joined by Sydney from the glow project podcast we jump right into what’s on everyone’s mind and the most important movement of 2020 black lives matter!! We also discuss insecure. Nominating Lawrence for fuckboy of the year 🙄 and what quaratine has taught us. This episode is in honor of all those affected by police brutality, racism and a system placed to keep us down! Enjoy
Jun 06, 202001:58:09
Let's dive into the fuckery🥴🥴

Let's dive into the fuckery🥴🥴

Welcome to another episode of not your blaxk barbie. I’m joined by Justin where we jump right into the Lana del Rey fiasco🙄 (whoever she is) why do white women hate losing to black women so much? Get over it!...not skipping a beat we switch over to relationships, advice we would we could give our younger selves, his views on straight men benefitting off the lgbt community and much more!
May 27, 202001:23:41
Fall👏🏽 back👏🏽 Boy 👏🏽

Fall👏🏽 back👏🏽 Boy 👏🏽

Welcome back to a new episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. On this episode I’m joined by Shane and twelve we start by giving a quarantine update. How you guys living cause ma’am this is ghetto! We then jump into a real conversation about sexual misconduct mostly based off the Chris stylez situation. Fellas could you be friends with someone who has rapey vibes? Jumping into another talk about why it’s so hard for people to deal with rejection and much more! Thank you always like comment share!
May 09, 202002:21:49
(Episode 38: Trashyams👀🤭

(Episode 38: Trashyams👀🤭

Welcome to another episode of not your blaxk barbie. On this episode I'm joined again by Fairy and Shane for an Intense conversation revolved around instagram removing likes? How does it effect influencers and business owners who use these platforms as a way to make money?, Wasting no time we jump into a real spicy conversation that your going to have to hit play to find out! enjoy loves
Dec 06, 201901:06:13
(Episode 37:) Non common Sexual 😂🤔🎯

(Episode 37:) Non common Sexual 😂🤔🎯

Welcome back to another episode of not your blaxk Barbie. After another mental health break I’m back on the panel joined by weedfairy and Shane. We start the conversation with Shane breaking down his yams appointment 😂 then jumping into the Very controversial topic going around T. I taking his adult daughter to the Gyn to see if her hymen is still in place🥺🤨, we discussed the types of behaviors we avoid when dating, crazy exes, open relationships and much more tune in !!!
Nov 24, 201902:10:01
(Episode 36:)Do it for the Gram 👀 🤡

(Episode 36:)Do it for the Gram 👀 🤡

On this episode of Notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada is back and joined by twelve and Kelsey. Jumping right into a discussion about Jay- z becoming affiliated with the NFL, Is jayZ a sellout ?? Popeyes vs chic filet chicken sandwiches😕 and how the internet pretty much makes the rules. Who exactly are these instagram Influencers influencing ? Hot girl summer updates, Dating updates and much more! Tap in
Aug 28, 201901:09:37
(Episode 35) Who run the world 🙃🌍

(Episode 35) Who run the world 🙃🌍

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada is joined by the fresh feen from the podium podcast. We start off by discussing Alabama’s controversial abortion law😒, should men play a role in a woman’s decision to have an abortion ? His views on abortion overall. The conversation then flows into his thoughts and appreciation for black women minus the wigs 😩😩, dating , baecation payment rules and much much more !! Tap in 👑✨✨
May 21, 201901:36:08
(Episode 34) Here to slay ✨💅🏾

(Episode 34) Here to slay ✨💅🏾

On the latest episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and Amber start off by discussing all of our fave Lewks from the met gala. Black excellence and why pop culture emulates black culture.✨🙌🏾, the conversation then flows to Ayesha curry RTT interview. Should woman want to be desired by anyone else then her husband/partner ?? 🤔 we also touch on mental health, discrimination, growing up black and much more !! Tap in
May 11, 201901:04:51
Episode 33: Still I rise, Maya Angelou vibes ✨👑

Episode 33: Still I rise, Maya Angelou vibes ✨👑

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada, Sasha and Melissa discuss what is to be a professional black women when filling in white spaces, our own personal experiences with inequality in the workplace/ school. The conversation then flows into ways to create more spaces to uplift and support each other (building practices, mentoring) dating updates and so much more! Tap in 👑🔥✨
Apr 23, 201901:02:54
(Episode 32) If you were wondering, mind your business🌹✨

(Episode 32) If you were wondering, mind your business🌹✨

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Top shada and Erin Ebony have a seat at the table where we breakdown what being a woman means to us? Our favorite LOUD black girls ✨🌹. Terms used in the LGBT/ Trans community🔑 the importance of self love, creating your own identity and not falling into society’s labels and of course these Niggas 😩🙄🙄🙄
Mar 27, 201901:11:01
(Episode 31) Thank god we don’t look like what we’ve been through🙏🏽✨

(Episode 31) Thank god we don’t look like what we’ve been through🙏🏽✨

On the latest episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. In honor of women’s history month topshada and Jenny have a seat at the table, where we discuss the importance of sisterhood, overcoming the struggles of teen motherhood😅🥴, finally becoming career woman, staying glowed up, jordyn woods/ Kardashian’s and much more!🎬
Mar 06, 201956:18
{Episode 30} We were rooting for you!🚮🤦🏾‍♀️

{Episode 30} We were rooting for you!🚮🤦🏾‍♀️

On the latest episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada is joined by Justin where they discuss everything from Jussie smollet🤦🏾‍♀️, Ed buck and how privilege plays a big role on how the media reacts to Current events. Grammy talk, little boy in Texas raises 5k selling hot chocolate in hopes to build the wall😪🗣, nyc bans discrimination based on hair and a whole lot more ! Tap in
Feb 22, 201901:10:05
[Episode 29] Going bad on them anyway 🎬👀

[Episode 29] Going bad on them anyway 🎬👀

On this episode of Not your blaxk barbie. Join me as i go down popular news. Super Bowl, Liam neeson. Why no Nicki slander is accepted on this podcast🙄🙋🏾‍♀️ and we wrap it up with the good bad guys talking about their insecurities. Why woman who want only casual sex are perfect 😩🙄😂 and why in 2019 we are not carrying pre existing issues into new relationships, friendships or situationship. Enjoy !! This is part of a lost episode 🥺🥺
Feb 06, 201951:46
(Episode 28): Now we do what we want 🎤✨💧

(Episode 28): Now we do what we want 🎤✨💧

On the Latest episode of Not your blaxk barbie. Topshada and the panel start it off with answering fanmail😩😭 Would you have an affair with your boss? Your friends father?🤦🏾‍♀️ . How our sex lives have changed since becoming adult adults 😅🤣🤣? What astrology sign we’d never date again? Maintaining your happiness and why we’d never settle because no one on my 600 pound life does 😂😂😅🤷🏽‍♀️
Jan 23, 201901:30:38
(Episode 27): #MUTERKELLY 🚮🎬

(Episode 27): #MUTERKELLY 🚮🎬

On the Latest episode of Not your blaxk barbie. Topshada and the panel catch up and discuss the R- kelly docu-series😕. Join us as we walk through our experience growing up as black girls. Recognizing how our own culture created a monster. Assatta McGee super fan 😣🤕 and much more! Enjoy
Jan 15, 201901:18:16
(Episode 26:) Get the fuck out 🤦🏾‍♀️😩🗣🤣🎉

(Episode 26:) Get the fuck out 🤦🏾‍♀️😩🗣🤣🎉

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Drama! Drama! Find out what happens when someone crashes the party with a plus one 🤦🏾‍♀️😩 the good bad guys break down why you should always have your feelings in check 🙄 *fuck that ladies hold it down* and a special appearance by @thefreshfeen
Jan 09, 201955:36
(Episode 25): 2018 wrap up 🎊🍾🎉🎉

(Episode 25): 2018 wrap up 🎊🍾🎉🎉

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and the panel discuss best and worst news, best quotes, most hoe-able moments of 2018🤦🏾‍♀️😅,is ass everything gonna still be trending in the New Year 🥴and so much more!! Did some editing Sry for the slight background music party vibes literally🎉🤦🏾‍♀️
Jan 02, 201901:14:37
(Episode 24): Girls need love 🎬

(Episode 24): Girls need love 🎬

On the Latest episode of Not your blaxk barbie. Topshada is joined by a panel of men!! We discuss bad communication between the sexes, finessing while dating, expecting not to expect anything 🙄 meek mills new album🔥🔥 , cardi and offset and a whole lot of music talk!!
Dec 18, 201801:01:37
[Episode 23]: Overnight celebrity 👏🏽🤷🏽‍♀️😂

[Episode 23]: Overnight celebrity 👏🏽🤷🏽‍♀️😂

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada has a discussion covering the Britney Renner book “judge this cover”🙄. Why I’m staying away from marriage, men and the games 😩🗣👏🏽. Justin gives us on his current cuffing season situation and much more !!!
Dec 04, 201841:48
(Episode 22) : Flip the switch... 👻 ✌🏾✌🏾

(Episode 22) : Flip the switch... 👻 ✌🏾✌🏾

On the latest episode of Not your blaxk barbie. Topshada and friends discuss ghosting the new dating trend that was touched on in this seasons “insecure”. Find out who on the panel landed in therapy 🤦🏾‍♀️😩, social media stalking 👀 n who ended up grabbing back gifts given. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ also a huge birthday shoutout to the baddest puta Joseline Hernandez 🤣🤣🤣🤣🎉
Nov 06, 201858:49
[ Episode 21] : BTS!! 😫😫

[ Episode 21] : BTS!! 😫😫

Latest episode of Notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and friends behind the scene episode. Where we revisit Cam the prophet🤣😩 the ladies on the panel talk about white privilege, popping out babies and find out what mad side chick claimed to have HPV 😫😫🙃
Oct 30, 201831:19
[Episode 20] : Anybody tryna buy a heart?🤔💍

[Episode 20] : Anybody tryna buy a heart?🤔💍

On this episode of Notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and friends discuss some reasons as to why people are no longer pursuing long term relationship? How long you should date before popping the big question💍 maintaining a good balance between your friendships and relationship and much more!! Tune in
Oct 02, 201801:00:58
[Episode 19]: Two and a half some😵🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣

[Episode 19]: Two and a half some😵🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣

On this episode of not your blaxk barbie. The ladies have a seat at the table to engage in girl talk. Find out why being shallow will keep you from the best sex of your life😵😫🤷🏽‍♀️and listen to me find out my baby cousin had a damn two and a half some 🤦🏾‍♀️😩😭😭
Sep 11, 201856:11
[Episode 18]: Shake that ass but watch yourself 😆😵🍑

[Episode 18]: Shake that ass but watch yourself 😆😵🍑

On this episode on not your blaxk barbie. Topshada and friends discuss the current ass culture. First time experiences with anal sex, should you send that lemme eat your ass text and much more!🔥😵😅
Sep 01, 201852:05
[Episode 17]: Alexa Play : Everybody Mad 🍑👀😩🤣

[Episode 17]: Alexa Play : Everybody Mad 🍑👀😩🤣

On the lastest episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and friends discuss the Tyson Beckford vs Kim Kardashian beef🌚. Find out what the guys on the panel really think about women who get tons of plastic surgery? Find out who on the panel would get plastic surgery.? What kinds? And please ladies make sure your butt doesn't stink 🤣😩😂🤦🏾‍♀️Enjoy luvs
Aug 07, 201856:17
[Episode 16]: Matchmaking or Clout chasing 🙃👰🏾

[Episode 16]: Matchmaking or Clout chasing 🙃👰🏾

On the lastest episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and Justin discuss dating to marry reality tv shows🤦🏾‍♀️. Everyone looking for a platform and in todays day and age the perfect way to get that is Clout! Justin also reveals he only use to date White guys and why??
Jul 31, 201855:45
[Episode 15]: Single. Thirty. Thriving... Glowing pains✨🤪🎉

[Episode 15]: Single. Thirty. Thriving... Glowing pains✨🤪🎉

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and Justin have a one on one discussing turning 30😅 surviving your 20s through the good bad and ugly !
Jul 24, 201851:49
[ Episode 14] : Keke do you love me ?😫😂👀

[ Episode 14] : Keke do you love me ?😫😂👀

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and friends exchange disastrous relationship stories from someone getting kicked down the stairs🤦🏾‍♀️🤣, Lover vs co worker😅 all while breaking down ways to keep your keke loving you?😬🔝Enjoy luvs
Jul 17, 201853:41
[Episode 13] A seat at the table 🔥🤸🏾‍♀️🧚🏾‍♂️💃🏾

[Episode 13] A seat at the table 🔥🤸🏾‍♀️🧚🏾‍♂️💃🏾

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and her girlfriends discuss the current hookup culture, past ans current hoe phases🤔🤷🏽‍♀️😂and Drake having a bloodclot baby on all of us!! Im sick Drake🤮#wholelottagangshit
Jul 03, 201855:48
[Episode 12]: Asking for myself ?👀🤔

[Episode 12]: Asking for myself ?👀🤔

On this episode of notyourblaxkbarbie. Topshada and friends talk about rethinking monogamy with your partner, living a non monogamous lifestyle🤔 and a breakdown of how to make both lifestyles work 🤣😫
Jun 26, 201857:07
[Episode 11]: Retail Me Not 🤮🤕💰

[Episode 11]: Retail Me Not 🤮🤕💰

Topshada and friend share retail horror stories. From stinky feet and beating meat tune in ! 🤦🏾‍♀️🤮
Jun 19, 201842:34
[Episode 10]: " I'm good luv...Enjoy"👋🏾😏

[Episode 10]: " I'm good luv...Enjoy"👋🏾😏

Topshada and Friends talk about curving being curved, bad breakups and much more !!!
Jun 12, 201856:30
[Episode 9]: Who is she to you? 👀👩🏽‍💻

[Episode 9]: Who is she to you? 👀👩🏽‍💻

Topshada and Fairy have a one on one session discussing doing background checks, online dating and how to remain sane while dating?
Jun 05, 201849:30
[Episode 8]: Players gon Play 🙄 Cheating stories 🗣

[Episode 8]: Players gon Play 🙄 Cheating stories 🗣

Topshada and her rotating panel discuss times they've been cheated on, being a cheater and overcoming it all!
May 17, 201851:23
[Episode 7]: No sides please! Main course only 🔝🙇🏽‍♀️

[Episode 7]: No sides please! Main course only 🔝🙇🏽‍♀️

Top shada and friends talk threesomes, trusting your partner 🌚and ask the question is there a such thing as a "good sidechick"? 🤔
May 08, 201842:21
[Episode 6]: It All Falls Down 🌎💥

[Episode 6]: It All Falls Down 🌎💥

Topshada and friends discuss the bill cosby verdict, Kanye wacky ass amongst other things race related
May 01, 201854:46
[Episode 5]: Dip it low pick it up slow😏👑👂🏾👂🏾

[Episode 5]: Dip it low pick it up slow😏👑👂🏾👂🏾

Top shada and friends make it nasty 🤷🏽‍♀️🔝
Apr 24, 201844:40
[Episode 4]: Social media- What you really sign up for? 🤷🏽‍♀️

[Episode 4]: Social media- What you really sign up for? 🤷🏽‍♀️

Topshada and friends talk about social media and the affects on today’s society
Apr 17, 201831:13
[Episode 3] :Teach me how to love 💦🙇🏽‍♀️

[Episode 3] :Teach me how to love 💦🙇🏽‍♀️

Topshada and friends dicuss ways to keep sex fun whether by yourself or with a partner
Apr 10, 201831:14
[Episode 2]: Dating 101: do we really have to?🙄

[Episode 2]: Dating 101: do we really have to?🙄

Topshada and friends discuss the do’s and don’t of dating and sex amongst other things.
Apr 06, 201845:52
[Episode 1] :The Pearls have been snatched

[Episode 1] :The Pearls have been snatched

When you can’t find anyone to follow you have to find a way to lead🌹
Mar 27, 201805:07