Missing the Bus
By Omay "Onigiri" Rubio
At 44, I was in a "happy" relationship, engaged to a person that I thought he was The One in my life. At 45, my dreams of marriage and a family came crashing down in a worst way possible when my now ex-fiancee has a double life and a daunting secret. At 46, I tried to move on, but also failed to get other things. Now in 2023 I'm giving advice where ever I can find on my stories and every women's stories for as a cautionary tale for young women as well.
Missing the BusSep 19, 2019
Season 3 Episode 8: 5 Biggest Sins Guys Do In Relationships
This is essential! This is important! Guys, shape up, or leave us be! What you do with these mistakes, it will help you destroy your relationship. Unless, you change your ways!
Season 3 Episode 7: There's Nothing Wrong With You
Story Time! It's been a while so it is about what happened to me last December on the eve of my 50th Birthday.
Additional Music by: Oleg Motorin at Jamendo.com
Title: Ambient Piano
Season 3 Episode 6: Romance Scammers, Be Gone!
What is the Definition of a Romance Scammer? In this episode we're gonna show how they operate and how to identify their tactics before they steal your money.
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Season 3 Episode 5: Dating Resolutions for 2024
2023 has been brutal in the dating scene. No mas! This small guide will help you eliminate the hassles and situationships that 2023 dating scene caused to a lot of singles. These 10 lists are important for everyone to make dating life enjoyable, fun and safe.
Also we will chat about Nelly and Ashanti plus the backlash on Simone Biles's Husband.
Season 3 Episode 4: Finding Your Own Voice
*Warning* This Episode contains topics that aren't suitable for young listeners.
One of my favorite movies is The Color Purple. We're going to chat about the main protagonist Celie and how she identifies in some or all of what she endures to us, Black Women and how to overcome our struggles with trauma, disconnection and horrible events in our lives. Finding our own voices and step into our destiny and be comfortable in our own identity.
Season 3 Episode 3: Guys You Should Avoid and Run!
This Episode will discuss the meaning of what a man is and what a guy is. Also featuring the type of guys that can make your dating a nightmare and a disaster that can destroy your future.
Season 3 Episode 2: First Dates and the Cheesecake Factory Girl
Cheesecake Factory Girl was all in our eyes on all Social Media. Lets go to what went wrong and how to prepare ourselves for our first dates to be successful and at the same time observing our potential dates if they're compatible for us.
Season 3 Episode 1: What Happened to Michael?
It is 2023, and I'm leaving no crumbs about what happened with Michael and what's the new view of what Missing The Bus is going to be aimed on this Season 3.
A New Announcement
S2 Ep 9: How It All Began
Season Finale. How long does it takes for God to answer my prayers when everything doesn't make sense? When all around me, friends are moving forward, I'm still on pause.? And an incident that actually shocked me to the point that I could change my life and my decisions for the rest of my life.
S2 Ep 8: It's Not Supposed To Be This Way
Plans aren't always comes to fruition. Due to our choices, mistakes and stubbornness, our dreams and hopes are some times in the air. But God always has his promises to get back in track. And how a book influence me to the season of healing.
S2 Ep.7: Three Cases, One Solution
MTB: Waiting Times- Cancelling at the Last Minute
After months of trying to get a formal date, I got one, but didn't expected to be that bad.
S2: Ep6: Lockdown While Single
This is a live podcast!
Things are never the same again when a biggest threat reach worldwide and how things that we take for granted are taken away.
S2: Ep 5: Now What?
Another tragedy hits home. God did so much, but back home questioning his sovereignty and his will and his help bothers me.
S2 Ep.4 : God, Don't Play With My Heart!
God can answers in different ways to everyone when we pray, or express our concerns about our problems or issues in our lives. He never leaves us hanging high and dry. Find out what's his ways of answering to us in our time of need.
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S2 Ep. 3: Trip and Fell
We are highly sexual beings and God placed rules to abide for in order to keep ourselves from our demise (spiritually, sexually and emotionally) inside the confines of marriage. But what happens if we aren't careful enough and engage into the forbidden fruit of the sexual act? This story will find out steps to overcome this strong temptation and pressure that Christian singles are dealing with.
S2 Ep 2: The Lady at the Third Row
Being single in a church is often met with isolation, rejection and lack of understanding of what singles are capable to do. My story is no different.
Season 2: Episode 1: Two Years After
A quick view at my life after two years from this nightmare I went through.
Intro music: Purple Planet Music
Waiting Times: Romance Scammers
An easy description of Scammers. What they do, what to avoid and what to do when you find them on dating sites.
Waiting Time: You aren't afraid of no Ghosting!
What is Ghosting and how to not taking it personal.
Waiting Time: The Lies of FWB
What is FWB? What benefits if any will help single women achieving a healthy relationship? Spoiler Alert: NONE!
Waiting Times: The Difference Between Dating vs. Courtship
A Weekly Mini Podcast with Quick Tips to how to handle the perils of modern dating and dealing it like a pro, the old fashioned way!
Season 2 of Missing The Bus will be back again in January 2020!
Ep. 8: Missing the Bus
A year post-breakup I learned the challenges as well as blessings while embracing singleness.
Ep. 7: Pretending is NOT Okay
Why faking to do the things you enjoy or putting the mask in front of everyone doesn't equal being content.
Ep. 6 Stay Away From That Guy
There's a lot of types of men but there's a few of these guys that you have to avoid at all cost if you want to create and develop a healthy relationship.
Ep. 5: Dating Disasters
Mistakes that every woman (including me) carry out repeatedly until the end of time or until there's a change in our dating habits.
Ep. 4: Don't Wake Love Before It's Time
In the course of our lives every individual has a relationship bio in every point in their lives. Mine is no different. How traumas and bad experiences awaken love at the wrong time.
Ep 3: Ignored Red Flags
Falling in love is easy, but ignoring red flags could be costly. My relationship with Michael proved me that I was so naive and so blind, that I didn’t notice huge red flags in front of him.
Ep. 2: Silent Mourning
Grief is a sign of denial that something or someone part ways. My experience from grief after the breakup will help you notice carefully the signs and how to counterattack it.
Ep. 1: How It All Ended
Break ups are never easy specially when you're involved in a relationship with someone with a terrible secret.
Quick Intro
Just who am I and why I created this podcast.