On The Rocks

Solo episodes are the best episodes. In this one I discuss:

- my lack of chill

- cuffing season

- zodiac signs I've dated

- love bombing 

- how to know if you're being used

- cryptic Instagram captions 

- + more!!

In this episode, I chat with Russ Haywood, co-founder of the new relationship guide / mobile app CanWe. CanWe's mission is to help daters cut out the frustration of modern dating with researched guidance, helping you ask the right questions from the start so you can be more confident and intentional! You may be asking, what even is the right relationship with the right person? Shoot, I don't know, but CanWe does!!!

We discuss:

- The idea behind CanWe

- Dating confidence

- Intentionality

- & more!

I really enjoyed this conversation and have been loving the app! I can't tell you how much assistance I need in my dating life rn and this app has helped me figure out my intentions and encouraged me to be more confident in expressing them. We LOVE that! 

Let's catch up! In this episode: I am sharing the details of my post grad life, my thoughts on the Brendan and Piper Bachelor in Paradise Situation, and receiving my very first anti-ghost text. 

On The Rocks is now bi-weekly! Catch you in two weeks 💥

Let's connect: 

"Tinder is like our dirty cousin..."

What's the worst date you've ever been on? In this episode, I share my worst date story (spoiler: he made me take pictures of him at the zoo) and even some of yours!

 I also dig into: ⁠

- A life update ⁠

- A recent date⁠

- A few lessons for men ⁠

- Anti Ghosting⁠

- & More!⁠⁠

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In this episode of On The Rocks, I sit down virtually with Dating in the Bae Host Rebecca Schwartz. This is such a fun episode I am so excited to hear your feedback! Rebecca and I discuss: 

- singlehood

- do traditional dating rules matter?

- flexing your dating muscles

- dating in San Fransisco

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In this episode of OTR, I am discussing the last few months and even my first date "post"-pandemic! ⁠

I break into the concept of Hot Girl Summer (which I love) but think might not be for me at the moment... maybe I rebrand it to "Stable Girl Summer" ??⁠

In this episode, I sit down with Dating and relationship coach Anwar White as we discuss his experience becoming a dating coach, boundary setting, dating app do's and don'ts, and navigating the unique challenges of dating in 2021. Make sure to check out Anwar to learn more about how to get your guy!:

LOVE AT FIRST ZOOM IS BACK! In case you're new here, I started a "blind zoom dating series" on my podcast back in May of 2020 during the height of the pandemic and I'm bringing it back in 2021. In this episode, I have a special valentine's zoom date with Tanner from hinge! We had a super fun time digging into all things online dating, vulnerability, emotional availability, and of course our favorite cocktails. Let me know what you thought about the date over at: 

In this episode of On The Rocks, we take a step back from dating to get to know Millan Andreoli the graphic design genius behind the OTR rebrand. We discuss our first meeting, how Millan is transitioning into graphic design, and the other business ventures that make her the badass entrepreneur that she is. I highly recommend working with Millan and following her on her socials! 

On this week's episode, I sit down virtually with SDSU grad and podcast host Alex Piscatelli! We discuss:

"Your vulnerabilities are your superpower"

In this episode of OTR, I virtually sit down with Mel West, a (new) New Yorker who is exactly 10 years older than I am. I was initially a guest on her podcast, A Little Buzzed, where we discussed sharing your growing pains on a podcast! I wanted to expand on this with Mel over here OTR and we did exactly that! We discuss - moving to New York Right before the pandemic hits - navigating your career - making friends at 30 years old - being a highly sensitive person - the importance of knowing your enneagram - vulnerability and sharing your humanity! Mel gave some amazing advice in this episode and explained that life DOES in fact get better with more experience under your belt. I enjoyed getting to know Mel more and hope you all do too!

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Today I sat down with future author, and my fabulous friend Sarah Whitney.

We discuss her college experience at USD, post-grad hopes to move to New York, her podcast, and the process of writing a book. Then we get into the nitty-gritty about what dating is like in San Diego and express our thoughts about the different “types” of potential suitors. This was such a fun episode, I hope you all love Sarah as much as I do!! Cheers Xx

Sarah:

Let's VOTE! In this week's episode, I sit down virtually with Nicole Kaplan. Nicole is a volunteer for Joe Biden's campaign and works to coordinate the text team. We discuss how Nicole got involved with the campaign, her journey from voter to activist, why you should feel empowered to vote, and practical ways to contribute this election season. Make sure to check out the websites nicole mentioned: 

We're making changes people! As this new semester approaches, things are definitely different and I'm talking about that in this episode. I discuss some upcoming life events I am facing such as the start of my senior year and my nose job!As I approach a busier season of my life I am working hard to prepare, organize, manage anxiety, and prioritize myself so that's what we are talking about today. Cheers Xx 

What a better way to celebrate your birthday then to upload a podcast! In this episode I am discussing  22 things I've learned in my 22 year of life. I'm talking expectations, relationships, feelings, voting, mental health, and so much more! I hope you enjoy this episode & to all my fellow Leo's and anyone who has had a quarantine birthday, I hope your day was fabulous. Cheers Xx 

25 episodes is a big deal & so its Nestle from the Not My Problem Podcast so she joins me for a podcast edition of truth or drink! Inspired by The Cut 🙌 we spill all the tea including:  worst date, first impressions, overrated podcasts, sliding into dm’s, & more! Gotta love a fun tipsy episode!

In this episode I am joined by the amazing Dr. Morgan Anderson. She is a clinical psychologist and relationship coach, host of the “Let’s Get Vulnerable” podcast and creator of the E.S.L relationship method. She helps women break the toxic dating cycle, raise their self-worth and attract the healthy relationship they’ve always wanted.  Wondering why you always go after the same type of guy? Then this is the episode for you. We discuss attachment theory, and break down the four styles! We also discuss how to work toward becoming more secure and developing healthy relationship habits. I hope you LOVE todays episode as much as I do! Cheers Xx

In todays episode I am joined by former NBA dancer, Bachelor contestant, and podcast host Sydney Lotuaco. We talk all things dating, her experience on The Bachelor, life transitions, and so much more! We touch on some really important themes in this episode, its a good one! Hope you enjoy & make sure to check out Sydneys new podcast Good Bad Behavior! Cheers xx 

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In this episode of On The Rocks I am joined by new NYC local and host of Rookies In The Real World: Lauren Lapid. We discuss her move to NYC, her graphic design position at Condè Naste, building new friendships post grad, and more! I hope you enjoy! Cheers Xx

YAY! I'm back with the second installment of my virtual dating series!! So excited for you to listen to Stephen and I's conversation. It is the most normal "date" I've had since starting this series and I think that is what makes this episode super interesting! We talk about dating in college vs. the real world, the"ring by spring" phenomenon, his experiences with online dating, why he thinks newlyweds shouldn't get dogs, and SO much more. OH and the kicker of it all is that he isn't super into technology which makes him super freakin interesting. Glad we could have this conversation and hope you guys enjoy!! 

In this episode of On The Rocks I am joined by my new friend Emily of The Purpose Project Podcast! We talk about her podcast, internet friends, social media cleanses, our favorite cocktails, Boston accents, and most importantly finding value within ourselves rather than in others. This conversation really reminded me of the concept of self worth and why that is so important in your twenties. Make sure to check out Emily and The Purpose Project to hear more about her purpose! Cheers Xx.

In this episode of OTR I am joined by the lovely Laura Beth host of The Twenty Fun Podcast. We discuss her podcast and journey to becoming a solo podcast host, how she has grown her podcast and why she is passionate about her community! We talk about our favorite podcasts, people to follow, favorite cocktails and more! Discussing growth in our twenties, why self development is so important, and why life doesn't always pan out the way you think it will. Through it all we found that perseverance has helped us through some of our hardest times and how it has lead us to where we are now! 

Music: Glow The Band 

In this solo episode of OTR we talk about life and love during these corona times! The "loneliness pandemic" (lol) is making headlines people and I'm here to talk about it. I break down the concept of dating during quarantine where I talk about my very first FaceTime date,  self sabatoge, and if your actually interested or just bored.  Moving on into the 10 lessons I've learned  while being single (and why I want to stay that way.) This episode is packed full of info as I dish on my personal life, and the joy I find within my own lonely. Hope you love it Xx. 

Music: Glow The Band 

In this episode of On The Rocks we're talking moving on. In life we are always moving on from something and its time we give ourselves permission to accept the ways we deal and cope! It's so important to talk this kind of stuff out and work through it in the ways that works for us. I’m glad that I have this platform to be able to do that and share my experiences. Hope you enjoy and stay tuned for the next episode in two weeks! Cheers xx.