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Order and Chaos

Order and Chaos

By Neeloo

A weekly podcast by Neeloo Fathi. Neeloo has always thrived in chaos but after a near-death bus accident that changed her perspective on life, she's finally learning the importance of finding balance. Join her every week as she brings on industry experts, her best friends & shares her own personal stories on dating, relationships, mental health and everything else in between to help others navigate any stage of their own lives.
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End Of An Era

Order and ChaosDec 31, 2022

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20 Daily Little Reminders
Feb 16, 202404:17
Starting Over In Your 30s
Feb 08, 202425:01
Microdosing Mushrooms, Cinnamon Money Manifestation, Ayahuasca & Changing My Relationship With Alcohol
Feb 01, 202428:41
Jessica Stocker: What Really Happened On Winter House, Dating Tips & Finding Her Dream Man
Jan 19, 202433:11
How To Launch A Product & Build A Brand Ft. 4AM Skin Founders, Sabrina Sade & Jade Beguelin

How To Launch A Product & Build A Brand Ft. 4AM Skin Founders, Sabrina Sade & Jade Beguelin

#72 | This week's episode we sit down with the founders of 4AM Skin, Sabrina Sade and Jade Beguelin to learn how they launched a product and built a brand with a cult-like following. They take us through the entire process from working 9-5s and being full-time students while running their business on the side and how they balance being business partners & best friends. We also talk skincare tips, which beauty treatments influencers are lying about and Jade’s number one rule when it comes to being inducted into her cult. www.4amskin.com (15% off with discount code: CHAOS) www.instgram.com/4amskin www.instgram.com/sabsade www.instagram.com/jadebeguelin ⁠www.instagram.com/neeloofathi⁠ ⁠www.instgram.com/orderandchaos⁠
Jan 11, 202447:24
2024 Ins & Outs, Turning 30 and One Drink In...
Jan 04, 202435:30
Anniversary Effect, PTSD & Re-Birthdays
Sep 21, 202314:37
Roomies Reunited (ft. Kendell Browning)
Aug 31, 202331:00
The 80/20 Lifestyle, Finding Balance, Starting a Podcast and Content Creation with Lily Rakow
Aug 25, 202340:10
How To Stop Hating Yourself: Your Guide To Self Love & Acceptance

How To Stop Hating Yourself: Your Guide To Self Love & Acceptance

#67 | your guide to silencing your inner negative voice and finding self acceptance & truly loving yourself (flaws and all). HI! I missed you guys but I’m back!! This week’s episode takes a deeper dive on understanding where our inner negative voice comes from, what it really means to love yourself and embracing the journey of self acceptance. Plus some life updates, where I’ve been and my latest trip to Chicago/Lollapalooza. Don't forget to subscribe, follow and leave a review. Follow: www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.instagram.com/houseoforderandchaos www.tiktok.com/@.neeloo www.youtube.com/neeloo
Aug 17, 202328:52
Cycle Syncing, Realistic Morning Routines, and Entering our Slow Girl Era with Paige Lindgren
Jul 13, 202352:06
Advice To Our Younger Selves & Accepting That Our Twenties Are Over (Ft. Madeline Thompson)

Advice To Our Younger Selves & Accepting That Our Twenties Are Over (Ft. Madeline Thompson)

#65 | the day has finally come, you guys get to meet my bestie, Madeline Thompson ! on this episode we do what we do best: getting high and questioning our entire existence. i've realized that making a new best friend when you’re almost 30 in a city like LA is extremely rare so i feel beyond lucky and grateful for our friendship. i can’t wait for you all to listen in on our girl talk episode where we reminisce about the first time we hung out (aka our 5hr car ride to coachella), what were looking for in a guy (we get very specific) and the overall chaotic-ness of living + working in los angeles. sooo, grab a joint, eat an edible and come get high with us. xoxo be sure to follow, subscribe & leave a review for the podcast. www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.instagram.com/houseoforderandchaos www.instagram.com/madelinethompsonn
Jun 05, 202347:42
Storytime with Becca Moore
May 13, 202343:01
How To Make True Friends In Your 20s ft. Kinsey Wolanksi & Jessica Stocker
May 04, 202334:13
The Art of Letting Go: Detaching & Detoxing from Situationships
Apr 10, 202320:57
Changing My Relationship with Alcohol

Changing My Relationship with Alcohol

#61 | On this week's episode of Order & Chaos, I talk about how I finally changed my relationship with drinking and alcohol this past year. From my teen years into my twenties, I was always the party girl. I spent too many years binge drinking, blacking out & partying way too hard all at the expense of my own mental health. It was always a good time until the next day when the hangover, anxiety, shame and guilt would kick in and finally I had enough.  From taking a break from drinking all together to reintroducing it into my life, this episode will take you through my journey of finding a healthier relationship with alcohol. Be sure to subscribe + follow along on all channels: https://www.instagram.com/neeloofathi https://www.instagram.com/houseoforderandchaos https://www.tiktok.com/@.neeloo https://www.tiktok.com/@.orderandchaos https://www.youtube.com/neeloo
Mar 16, 202320:05
Plastic Surgery: The Truth About Getting Your Implants Removed ft. Kayla Caputo

Plastic Surgery: The Truth About Getting Your Implants Removed ft. Kayla Caputo

#60 | Welcome to this week's episode where we talk all things plastic surgery, specifically boob jobs. Join me and my guest, Kayla Caputo, as we discuss the good, the bad, and the ugly truth behind plastic surgery. Kayla and I share our different journeys and outcomes with plastic surgery, giving a raw and honest look of what we went through. Kayla also shares the insane cost of getting her implants removed and the process behind her explant surgery. We're spilling the tea on what we've had done, what influenced our decisions, and giving advice to anyone considering plastic surgery. Whether you're considering plastic surgery or simply interested in learning more about it, this episode will give you an insightful and candid perspective on the topic. Be sure to follow along on socials: Neeloo | Order & Chaos https://instagram.com/houseoforderandchaos https://instagram.com/neeloofathi https://tiktok.com/@.neeloo https://tiktok.com/@.orderandchaos https://www.youtube.com/neeloo Kayla Caputo https://www.instagram.com/kay_caputo https://www.tiktok.com/@kay_caputo
Mar 03, 202335:35
Greetings from Hawaii: Vacation Crushes, Moving Back to Chicago & Casting Spells on Boys

Greetings from Hawaii: Vacation Crushes, Moving Back to Chicago & Casting Spells on Boys

#59 Recording live from hawaii! This week’s episode is with one of my besties, Delaney, who was actually my roommate in Chicago. We talk about our trip to hawaii, my vacation crush, accepting our bodies, casting spells on boys and reminiscing on our chicago days and why we want to move back. Apologies in advance for the audio — this episode is definitely more on the chaotic side but I think you guys will enjoy it! Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review and follow on socials: Neeloo | Order & Chaos www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.instagram.com/houseoforderandchaos www.tiktok.com/@.neeloo www.youtube.com/neeloo Delaney | Hangover Hoodies www.instagram.com/delaneymountford www.instagram.com/hangoverhoodies
Feb 10, 202323:29
How Cold Exposure Therapy Can Help Your Depression

How Cold Exposure Therapy Can Help Your Depression

#58 The Benefits of Cold Exposure with breath work & cold exposure Coach, Dom Cianciotto — Are cold showers really worth the pain and discomfort? Why are people choosing to sit in freezing water? What are the actual health benefits? On this week’s episode we stil down with Breathwork and Cold Exposure Coach, Dom, to answer all those questions. He also gives us insight into his life story and what brought him to where he is now within the breathwork and cold exposure space. Dom's story truly shows his resilience in life and there are so many amazing takeaways in this episode, especially if you are someone who deals with anxiety and depression and just creating boundaries in your life. Watch the full episode on YouTube: www.youtube.com/neeloo Neeloo | Order & Chaos Podcast https://www.instagram.com/neeloofathi https://www.instagram.com/houseoforderandchaos   Dom | Breathwork & Cold Exposure Coach https://www.instagram.com/lifexdom/
Feb 02, 202350:03
Mind, Body, and Business: Mari Llewellyn on Building Healthy Relationships, Managing BPD & Everything She’s Learned in Therapy

Mind, Body, and Business: Mari Llewellyn on Building Healthy Relationships, Managing BPD & Everything She’s Learned in Therapy

#57 Mind, Body, and Business: Mari Llewellyn on Building Healthy Relationships, Managing BPD & Everything She’s Learned in Therapy This week I sit down with my friend, Mari Llewellyn, a wellness entrepreneur, mental health advocate and inspiration to many. Mari shares her incredible journey of transformation from her sorority days to becoming a health-focused wellness girly. From losing 90 pounds and overhauling her lifestyle, to the mental and emotional shift that came with it, Mari candidly discusses the challenges of her wellness journey. We talk all things including how to navigate dating and relationships when dealing with mental health issues, how she built her wildly successful business (Bloom Nutrition) and to finish it off we play a round of wellness In’s & Out’s. This is a must-listen episode filled with so many takeaways that will leave you feeling motivated and inspired. Neeloo | Order & Chaos https://instagram.com/neeloofathi https://instagram.com/houseoforderandchaos Mari Llewellyn | Bloom https://instagram.com/marillewellyn https://bloomnu.com/ Pursuit of Wellness Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pursuit-of-wellness/id1655979078 Watch The Full Episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/neeloo
Jan 26, 202336:08
Microdosing Mushrooms & How It Can Help Your Mental Health
Jan 19, 202332:32
Lonely In Your 20s & Why You Need A Hobby
Jan 13, 202310:03
In My Rebrand Era

In My Rebrand Era

#54 a soft launch of the new podcast, who neeloo is & what to expect with the new pod www.instagram.com/neeloofathi
Jan 05, 202313:36
End Of An Era

End Of An Era

#53 an update on odi, where it's going in 2023 and what's happening with the podcast
Dec 31, 202204:09
#52 Oversharing Your Dating Life

#52 Oversharing Your Dating Life

Hi ODI Fam! A light episode this week discussing topics on our dating lives and why you should keep it private until it's permanent. What happens when we overshare? Do you want to vent or do you want advice?

Listen to episode 52 now!

Aug 19, 202222:17
#51 The End Of Your Twenties
Aug 11, 202218:38
#50 Should Men Be Allowed To Have Roommates?

#50 Should Men Be Allowed To Have Roommates?

This week on ODI, Chloe & Neeloo talk about microdosing mushrooms, having roommates in your 30s, being a sugar mama and our new fave word: cunty !!!  Go listen to episode 50 now!!! www.instgram.com/onedrink.in www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.instagram.com/chloe_burdette
Aug 07, 202228:33
#49 Depression Dens & Toxic Tampons
Jul 28, 202229:15
#48 Birthday Gifts for a Situationship

#48 Birthday Gifts for a Situationship

welcome back to one drink in !!!! episode 48 !!! this week we have about zero brain cells but still manage to go through social media do's and don't's, what's appropriate to get someone you're not actually dating for their birthday and the real difference between la guys & chicago guys. enjoy!!! www.instagram.com/onedrink.in www.tiktok.com/@onedrinkin www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.instagram.com/chloe_burdette  
Jul 21, 202234:47
#47 Q&A: defining the relationship, breakup regret, building confidence and plastic surgery

#47 Q&A: defining the relationship, breakup regret, building confidence and plastic surgery

How do I define the relationship? When should I walk away? Why am I feeling post breakup regret? How do I overcome my insecurities and build my confidence? Listen to this week's mini episode with Neeloo for all the answers to your questions! 0:39— Defining the relationship 4:40 — Post breakup regret  7:20 — Overcoming insecurities & building confidence 12:01 — If plastic surgery is worth it Instagram: www.instagram.com/onedrink.in Tiktok: www.tiktok.com/@onedrinkin Neeloo: www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.tiktok.com/@loonee_ www.youtube.com/neeloo Chloe: www.instagram.com/chloe_burdette www.tiktok.com/@chloe_burdette
Jul 14, 202214:14
#46 How To Travel Alone (and other stories from europe)
Jul 09, 202225:34
#45: Asking An OnlyFans Girl All Our Questions (ft. Ally Rose)

#45: Asking An OnlyFans Girl All Our Questions (ft. Ally Rose)

Have you ever thought about making an OnlyFans, but afraid what people might think? Well, listen up, because this episode is for you! Welcome back to One Drink In! This week we catch up with Ally Rose, who gives us a look into what it's really like having an OF. She helps answer all your questions like how much money girls make, what they have to post, how to promote it without people knowing and how to deal with friends & family finding it. Also we are trying out video on Spotify for the first time so hope you enjoy this week's episode and be sure to follow us on all our socials: https://www.instagram.com/allyyyrose/ https://www.instagram.com/onedrink.in/ https://www.instagram.com/chloe_burdette/ https://www.instagram.com/neeloofathi/
May 19, 202235:09
#44 Roe v. Wade + Why You Should Care

#44 Roe v. Wade + Why You Should Care

We wanted to briefly touch on roe vs. wade and why it’s important to us, of course there’s so much more that goes into it than just what we talked about so we encourage you guys to always educate yourselves and do your own research as well.  This episode we also talk about breaking the stigma of women and sex, the netflix show we all need to watch & why everyone should just say fuck it and make an only fans at this point.  Go listen now and be to subscribe and follow: ODI: www.instagram.com/onedrink.in  www.tiktok.com/@onedrinkin  Neeloo: www.instagram.com/neeloofathi  www.tiktok.com/@loonee_  Chloe: www.instagram.com/Chloe_Burdette  www.tiktok.com/@Chloe_Burdette
May 06, 202226:15
#43 What Really Happens at Coachella & Revolve Fest

#43 What Really Happens at Coachella & Revolve Fest

Hey ODI Fam! The girls are spilling tea on what really happened this year at Coachella & Revolve Fest. Both Nee & Chlo share their VERY different experiences and sharing the best opener into securing a Coachella boyfriend... Go listen now and be to subscribe and follow: ODI: www.instagram.com/onedrink.in www.tiktok.com/@onedrinkin Neeloo: www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.tiktok.com/@loonee_ Chloe: www.instagram.com/Chloe_Burdette www.tiktok.com/@Chloe_Burdette
Apr 28, 202220:07
#42: What is the Metaverse, Losing Friends, Dating Multiple Guys & Microdosing ft. Jessica Stocker

#42: What is the Metaverse, Losing Friends, Dating Multiple Guys & Microdosing ft. Jessica Stocker

We're back with part two of our episode with Jessica Stocker.  This week we talk:  - What is the Metaverse - How to deal with losing friends - Why it's okay for girls to date multiple guys & not settle too soon - Mental health and microdosing mushrooms - How to meet new people & put yourself out there - Life updates and much moreee! Go listen now! Be sure to subscribe and follow us on all our socials: ODI: www.instagram.com/onedrink.in www.tiktok.com/@onedrinkin Neeloo: www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.tiktok.com/@loonee_ www.instagram.com/loonee.tunes Chloe: www.instagram.com/Chloe_Burdette www.tiktok.com/@Chloe_Burdette Jess: www.instagram.com/jessicastocker_ www.tiktok.com/@metaverse.queen Sponsor: CasaOne https://www.casaone.com/
Mar 24, 202233:26
#41 How To Be More Confident with Jessica Stocker
Mar 17, 202223:13
#40 Dating Your Dream Man
Nov 26, 202125:39
#39 Bruised Ankles, Bruised Egos

#39 Bruised Ankles, Bruised Egos

When expectations are high + you're not put into "the box" you want, your ego get's bruised. The girls share their experiences mending physically, mentally  +  open up about how important it is to set boundaries for yourself in social settings + dating. 


Listen to Episode 39 now + Thank you to our sponsors Casa One for finally getting us settled into our new place! https://www.casaone.com


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Nov 12, 202136:30
#38 If He Wanted To He Would
Oct 28, 202121:01
#37 Cringy Pickup Lines + How We Find Out Everything

#37 Cringy Pickup Lines + How We Find Out Everything

This week we are sneaking up on ONE YEAR of One Drink in! Holy Shit. Chloe’s currently recovering from her spill + testing out the apps again. Sharing some of the cringiest pick up lines they’ve received lately along with other shared in our ONE DRINK IN DATING group. Chloe shares her sales secret to finding anyones information to do your own creeping… :)

The girls are heading into a transformational stage right now + they spill their ideas of engagement, marriage + the future of ODI! Listen now!

Oct 14, 202139:09
#36 Manifesting Your Higher Self, Bloody Bubble Baths, Social Media Burnout & Face Fillers

#36 Manifesting Your Higher Self, Bloody Bubble Baths, Social Media Burnout & Face Fillers

Welcome back to ONE DRINK IN!!!! This week, Chloe takes a trip to the ER after a bubble bath with a man turned bloody, while Neeloo continues on her *health and wellness* journey with only a few self-sabotaging relapses, including possibly, accidentally manifesting a past fling's pregnancy --- goooood. Anyways, they get into all things social media, including the burnout & anxiety that comes with it and that most of what you see is fake (aka facetuning, editing and plastic surgery). They also talk about changing your mindset to align with your higher self and letting go of your ego and never settling for a guy who can't meet you where you've met yourself.  Go listen to episode 36 now!! www.instagram.com/onedrink.in www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.instagram.com/chloe_burdette

Oct 01, 202138:27
#35 Understanding Human Design

#35 Understanding Human Design

This week, we get a little woo-woo and chat with Human Design expert, Katie. She goes over what human design is and how it can be beneficial to understand your chart.  Sort of Spiritual  

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Sep 23, 202147:50
#34 Self-Sabotaging & People Pleasing

#34 Self-Sabotaging & People Pleasing

This week, Chloe & Neeloo go over their fatal flaws and why we need to stop the self sabotaging. Neeloo talks what habits she's changing in order to break from her patterns of self-sabotage, while Chloe talks about how her people pleasing mentality has got to go. Listen to episode 34 now! www.instagram.com/onedrink.in www.tiktok.com/@onedrinkin www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.instagram.com/chloe_burdette www.tiktok.com/@chloe_burdette www.tiktok.com/@loonee_
Sep 16, 202134:06
#33 How To Get Over Being Ghosted

#33 How To Get Over Being Ghosted

Welcome back to One Drink In!!!! It looks like spooky season came early this year, but have no fear Chloe and Neeloo breakdown how to get over being ghosted. This episode they also talk about trauma bonding, sugar daddies and questions to ask on first date. Plus, a fun little life update on how they still have zero furniture but no worries, boys are still coming over to sleep on the floor!!! Love that for them. Go listen to listen to episode 33 now! 


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Sep 10, 202135:53
#32 Calling The Boys With Megan Heaton

#32 Calling The Boys With Megan Heaton

Do you ever get the sunday scaries and have to call all your guy friends to ask them why you are undateable and if being the crazy girl is better than the chill, cool girl?? Because same. This week, Chloe and Neeloo are joined by a very special guest and good friend, Megan Heaton. The girls decide to call some of their guy friends to help answer their questions from a guy's perspective. Go listen to episode 32 now!
Sep 03, 202125:16
#31: Lost in LA

#31: Lost in LA

Guys... we freaking moved to LA in July + it's been a f*cking rollercoaster of emotion over here but WE ARE BACK!!!!!
Aug 20, 202131:18
#30 A Quick Note From Chloe & Neeloo

#30 A Quick Note From Chloe & Neeloo

Just a quick little note from Chloe & Neeloo with some updates on moving, the ODI Facebook group, merch and some q&a. Thank you so much for your support this far + we will see you in July for Season 3! 


Merch: www.onlyonedrinkin.com

Insta: www.instagram.com/onedrink.in

TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@onedrinkin


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Neeloo: www.instagram.com/neeloofathi

Jun 24, 202109:37
#29 Neeloo’s Story: From Almost Being Paralyzed To Living With PTSD & Chronic Pain
Jun 18, 202101:06:28
#28 The "Talking" Stage

#28 The "Talking" Stage

Soon to be wrapping up season 2, Neeloo + Chloe share quick life updates after their recent trips to LA + Cabo and how they thought they were getting kidnapped thanks to an edible. Oh + WE ARE MOVING IN 2 WEEKS. Anyways, we talk about men making us do crazy things + how to be a chill girl and how we really feel about the talking stage. Neeloo thinks crystals + only fans will solve all of our problems but what do you guys think?? Merch is dropping soon so be READY. Listen now to Episode 28! Oh + if you haven't joined our Facebook group do you even want friends? Add us on ONE DRINK IN-FRIENDS on FB we are connecting girlfriends in the city!
Jun 11, 202130:45
#27 Never Tag Your Man on Social Media

#27 Never Tag Your Man on Social Media

Welcome back to One Drink In with Chloe & Neeloo. This week the girls dive into the four different kinds of attachment styles when it comes to relationships and why it's important to feel secure in your future relationships. They share their two main rules when it comes to social media and dating ---- aka why you should never tag your man on social media. This week they also talk about getting over the comparison game when it comes to exes/the new girl and the one thing girls need to stop doing. They get a little woo woo this week and tell you the crystals you need to manifest your relationship.  Also, what is up with Pilot Pete and Pokemon??  Go listen to episode 27 now!! Stalk us on social: Instagram: www.instagram.com/onedrink.in TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@onedrinkin Chloe: www.instagram.com/chloe_burdette www.tiktok.com/@chloe_burdette Neeloo: www.instagram.com/neeloofathi www.tiktok.com/@loonee_
May 27, 202134:40