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Figuring out who I am

Figuring out who I am

By Michele
Hey, I am Michele I run the blog Our Redonkulous Life. I will be your tour guide! The blog is all about personal growth and going after the life you want, but you can't do that without working through your shit. So I am getting real, raw, unedited, and unfiltered about my shit, so you can too. I find myself questioning everything about my life and I refuse to have these things I am thinking or feeling kept inside. I am going to say what I need to say and get fucking through it.

So follow along as I try figuring out who I am as an adult.
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Kidnapped as a child, Part 2 about my Dad's death
Discussing my dad's death I admit something that I have been thinking about for the past 15 years. I find out some shocking things and start to realize that everything I thought I knew might be a lie... I can't believe I am putting this on the internet.  I got some updates and a little bit further than I thought I would.  yay me! The blog post has a few more articles written about him here. In my new series "Figuring out who I am" I start from the beginning with healing childhood trauma Discussing all the things that have been weighing on my heart and mind. I am starting from my childhood until now as an adult.  Personal growth is not all rainbows and sunshine. You can not have light without the dark. You need to work through the darkness so you can spend more time in the light. I am showing you want shadow work looks like.  This is me real, raw, and unfiltered. So follow along as I work on figuring out who I am as an adult.  Each week or maybe even multiple times a week. I want to talk about all the significant events that have happened in my life, how they have affected me and what I am doing to work through them. Basically therapy...  Check out the blog post that started it all.  Don't forget to subscribe! New upload every Saturday! ♡ ► Music Credit: Casey Neistat Music Song: Jordyn Edmonds - Madness Music in this video Learn more Listen ad-free with YouTube Premium Song - One Step Beyond Artist - Madness Album - One Step Beyond Licensed to YouTube by WMG (on behalf of Warner Records Label); Hexacorp (music publishing), Polaris Hub AB, UNIAO BRASILEIRA DE EDITORAS DE MUSICA - UBEM, BMI - Broadcast Music Inc., LatinAutorPerf, and 15 Music Rights Societies Give a thumbs up if you enjoyed it! Many more redonkulous things like this are shared over on my social media accounts. So, let's be friends: Blog Facebook Instagram Tiktok Twitter Pinterest Email Michele@ourredonkulouslife.com
46:30
May 8, 2021
Did my mom killed my dad, A family secret (Part 1)
Discussing my dad's death I admit something that I have been thinking about for the past 15 years. I find out some shocking things and start to realize that everything I thought I knew might be a lie... I can't believe I am putting this on the internet.    In my new series "Figuring out who I am" I start from the beginning about the things that have been weighing on my heart and mind. I am starting from my childhood until now as an adult.    Personal growth is not all rainbows and sunshine. You can not have light without the dark. You need to work through the darkness so you can spend more time in the light. I am showing you want shadow work looks like.   This is me real, raw, and unfiltered.  So follow along as I work on figuring out who I am as an adult.    Each week or maybe even multiple times a week. I want to talk about all the significant events that have happened in my life, how they have affected me and what I am doing to work through them. Basically therapy...    Check out the blog post: https://ourredonkulouslife.com/self-discovery-figuring-out-who-i-am-as-an-adult/  Let's Be Friends!   Blog: https://ourredonkulouslife.com/   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourredonkulouslife   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourrendokulouslife   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/micheleORL Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ourredonkulouslife   Twitter: Redonkulouslife   Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ourredonkulouslife   Email Michele@ourredonkulouslife.com
50:52
May 1, 2021
Figuring out who I am as an adult
Hello, Welcome to my channel. I am Michele, your tour guide. During the day I run the blog Our Redonkulous Life. Where I write to inspire people to go after the life they deserve and at night I decided to start this series called “figuring out who I am as an adult” or the unofficial name “welcome to the shit show”.  Each week or maybe even multiple times a week. I want to talk about all the significant events that have happened in my life, how they have affected me and what I am doing to work through them. Basically therapy... You are getting a raw, unfiltered, and unedited look inside my mind.   So follow along as I work through figuring out who I am as an adult...  Check out the blog post here. This week is just an introduction as to why I am starting this series. Next week we are starting heavy with discussing my dad's death when I was 2.5 years old.  Don't forget to subscribe! New upload every Saturday! ♡  ► Music Credit: Casey Neistat Music  Song: Jordyn Edmonds - Madness Music in this video Learn more Listen ad-free with YouTube Premium Song - One Step Beyond Artist - Madness Album - One Step Beyond Licensed to YouTube by WMG (on behalf of Warner Records Label); Hexacorp (music publishing), Polaris Hub AB, UNIAO BRASILEIRA DE EDITORAS DE MUSICA - UBEM, BMI - Broadcast Music Inc., LatinAutorPerf, and 15 Music Rights Societies Give a thumbs up if you enjoyed it! Many more redonkulous things like this are shared over on my social media accounts. So, let's be friends:  Blog Facebook Instagram  Tiktok  Twitter  Pinterest Email Michele@ourredonkulouslife.com
25:28
April 24, 2021
Welcome Back!
So here is the plan. I want to start using this blog as a diary. We are going to get real and raw by talking about my childhood, being a teenager, an adult, my experiences, my dreams, and what I am doing to become a better version of myself. Because I talked about doing shadow work, but never shared what I was working through.   In the next week, I will be thinking of ideas to talk about, film for YouTube, Might even possibly restart my podcast up again…  Then a week from now the new and improved Michele/Our Redonkulous Life is coming to spill all the tea. Because all I ever wanted for this blog was to inspire others. Maybe help people who might have or are in similar situations.  So mark your calendars. APRIL 30, 2021 is when the shit show goes live. But for PG’s sake, I am calling it figuring out who I am as an adult.
00:52
April 23, 2021
Are you becoming mental and emotionally exhausted?
Have any questions send a voice message to me here: https://anchor.fm/ourredonkulouslife/message Hey, Our Redonkulous Friends! I want to document my personal growth journey and what I have learned over the past year. We are going to get real here and talk about some ish. Welcome to Our Redonkulous Life. The podcast that helps you figure out what you want in life and helps you grow to get it.  I am Michele from Ourredonkulouslife.com. I post every Tuesday if you are interested in sticking around to go on a self-improvement journey to get the life you want. It has been a while my peeps. I have not shared anything since May. DAAAAAAAMMMMNNNN. I am back and here to share what I have learned. As we discussed last time I posted was How to start journaling. Did you find out somethings about yourself you didn't know? Let me know by giving me a like and subscribing. This week I wanted to talk about becoming mentally and emotionally exhausted and what I have done to start getting over it. Getting myself out of that dreaded funk. I found it a little intimidating and still kind of do. But I still did it. Don't forget to subscribe! New upload every Friday! ♡ Music by: Casey Neistat Music Video link: www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Vy-x6YRFGw Give a thumbs up if you enjoyed it! Many more redonkulous things like this are shared over on my social media accounts. Check below for the links. Get to know us a bit - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUiTHtiCAhA Check out last weeks podcast episode 2 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xM-A6PZajq8&t=2s Episode 1 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GjHyyJeE0nQ Or Take a look at my stream of consciousness video -  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULAmhgNcoZ8&t=20s ♡ About me♡ I'm a blogger at https://ourredonkulouslife.com/ My fiance Mike, Step-Daughter Mikayla and I live in Florida. We just moved to Tampa a few months ago. We are all about family adventures, fun, cooking, budgeting, and frugal living. Most of making memories and spending as much time together as possible. However, my content has taken a turn because I am on my journey of self-development and I am sharing the process I am taking and hope you guys will join me on this journey of life, trying to be the best version of myself and living the life I deserve. What would you like me to discuss next? Leave a comment down below and let me know! FOLLOW US AT: Blog: https://ourredonkulouslife.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourredonkulouslife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourredonkulouslife/ Twitter: Redonkulouslife Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ourredonkulouslife/ Email Michele@ourredonkulouslife.com
14:28
November 5, 2020
How to start journaling
Hey, Our Redonkulous Friends! I want to document my self-improvement journey and what I have learned over the past year. We are going to get real here and talk about some ish. Welcome to Our Redonkulous Life. The podcast that helps you figure out what you want in life and helps you grow to get it.  I am Michele from Ourredonkulouslife.com. I post every Tuesday if you are interested in sticking around to go on a self-improvement journey to get the life you want.  As we discussed last week was getting a journal to start recording things, getting everything down on paper, working on finding your why... by being self-aware, finding out who you are, and building your identity so you can discover and develop your own talents.  Did you find out somethings about yourself you didn't know? Let me know by giving me a like and subscribing.  This week I wanted to talk about how to journal. How do you journal, especially if you have never done it before? I found it a little intimidating and still kind of do. But I still do it.  Don't forget to subscribe! New upload every Tuesday! ♡  Music by: Casey Neistat Music Video link: www.youtube.com/watch?v=0Vy-x6YRFGw Give a thumbs up if you enjoyed it!  Many more redonkulous things like this are shared over on my social media accounts. Check below for the links.  Get to know us a bit - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZUiTHtiCAhA  Check out last weeks podcast episode 2 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xM-A6PZajq8&t=2s Episode 1 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GjHyyJeE0nQ  Or Take a look at my stream of consciousness video -  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULAmhgNcoZ8&t=20s ♡ About me♡   I'm a blogger at https://ourredonkulouslife.com/ My fiance Mike, Step-Daughter Mikayla and I live in Florida. We just moved to Tampa a few months ago. We are all about family adventures, fun, cooking, budgeting, and frugal living. Most of making memories and spending as much time together as possible.  However, my content has taken a turn because I am on my journey of self-development and I am sharing the process I am taking and hope you guys will join me on this journey of life, trying to be the best version of myself and living the life I deserve.  What would you like me to discuss next? Leave a comment down below and let me know!  FOLLOW US AT:  Blog: https://ourredonkulouslife.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ourredonkulouslife Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ourredonkulouslife/ Twitter: Redonkulouslife  Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/ourredonkulouslife/  Email Michele@ourredonkulouslife.com 
11:53
May 12, 2020
Where to start on your self improvement journey?
Hello all,  How are you doing? Welcome to Our Redonkulous Life. The podcast that helps you figure out what you want in life and helps you grow to get it.  I am Michele from Ourredonkulouslife.com. I post every Tuesday if you are interested in sticking around to go on a self-improvement journey to get the life you want. Today's episode is all about where and how you can start your own journey. We talked about last week my journey to self-improvement and leading off from that I would like to dive into what I think are some tips that could help you start your own journey. Where do you start? Here is the blog post I suggest in the podcast - https://ourredonkulouslife.com/25-self-discovery-questions-to-ask-yourself/  If you would like to watch an audiogram of the podcast it will be on my Youtube channel on Wednesday at https://www.youtube.com/user/MissMikka The text version of this podcast will be on my blog Friday at https://ourredonkulouslife.com
16:57
May 5, 2020
How I unintentionally started my self improvement journey
This week marks the first episode of the podcast and we're talking about how I unintentionally started my self-improvement journey. It wasn't something I planned on happening it just kind of fell into my lap.  Hello all,  How are you doing? Welcome to Our Redonkulous Life. The podcast that helps you figure out what you want in life and helps you grow to get it.  I am Michele from Ourredonkulouslife.com. I post every Tuesday if you are interested in sticking around to go on a self-improvement journey to get the life you want. Today's episode is all about where and how you can start your own journey. We talked about last week my journey to self-improvement and leading off from that I would like to dive into what I think are some tips that could help you start your own journey. Where do you start? If you would like to watch an audiogram of the podcast it will be on my Youtube channel on Wednesday at https://www.youtube.com/user/MissMikka My blog  https://ourredonkulouslife.com
20:02
April 29, 2020
Our Redonkulous Life Trailer
I want you to take this self-improvement journey with me and go after the life that you deserve! Hello all,  How are you doing? Welcome to Our Redonkulous Life. The podcast that helps you figure out what you want in life and helps you grow to get it.  I am Michele from Ourredonkulouslife.com. I post every Tuesday if you are interested in sticking around to go on a self-improvement journey to get the life you want. Today's episode is all about where and how you can start your own journey. We talked about last week my journey to self-improvement and leading off from that I would like to dive into what I think are some tips that could help you start your own journey. Where do you start? If you would like to watch an audiogram of the podcast it will be on my Youtube channel on Wednesday at https://www.youtube.com/user/MissMikka My blog https://ourredonkulouslife.com
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April 28, 2020