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Black Mom Diaries

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I was raised by an old school lady that told me I had to be better, do better and work harder than other people to get the same opportunity based on the color of my skin. I wasn’t allowed to explore, nor was I given the space to fail or make mistakes. I was taught to stay quiet, not draw any attention to myself and not ask questions.
Times have changed, and so has the way Black Moms want to raise our children. Lots of us feel this way, but change can be challenging. It is always nice to have those people in your corner who will hold you accountable, cheer you on and offer you support.

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Black Mom Diaries 5.05 The Young Mama

Black Mom DiariesAug 20, 2023

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Black Mom Diaries 5.05 The Young Mama

Black Mom Diaries 5.05 The Young Mama

I’m Tomeka Williams born, raised and still reside in Jacksonville, FL. I am the oldest of 3 children. I am a member of The Potter’s House International Ministries where I serve on the Praise team. I work in Enrollment by day. But my passion is travel which birthed my company TW Love Travel. I love to travel and help others plan travel also!  I  married my Highschool sweetheart Travis in 2001 and we celebrated  22 years in April. We have  been blessed with 3 amazing children Travis Jr (24), Trae (20), and Tamia (15) and our fur baby Tyson. 

Find her on social media: https://linktr.ee/twlovetravel

Aug 20, 202357:45
Black Mom Diaries 5.04 The Warrior Mama

Black Mom Diaries 5.04 The Warrior Mama

Aquanna Ratcliff is a 39 year old woman, wife & mother - a nurse, doula and lactation professional. A healing human who is learning to find her value within.


Learn more about her on her website: www.quannamama.net


Aug 13, 202301:18:15
Black Mom Diaries 5.03 Catching Up Just the Two of Us

Black Mom Diaries 5.03 Catching Up Just the Two of Us

Catch up with Latanya and I on the latest episode of the Black Mom Diaries. If you'd like to follow us on social media, check us out on Facebook, Instagram or Twitter. If you like what you heard, share the podcast with a friend. If you're not feeling it, share your thoughts with us. If you're looking for great Mama Swag, check out shop.blackmomdiaries.com.


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Aug 06, 202336:58
Black Mom Diaries 5.02 The Menstrual Maven Mama
Jul 30, 202301:11:24
Black Mom Diaries 5.01 Too Fast The Cultural Mislabeling of Black Girls and Women
Jul 23, 202301:00:01
Special LIVE Taping of Black Mom Diaries

Special LIVE Taping of Black Mom Diaries

We had the pleasure of taping the podcast in front of a live audience. We talked about mom trends and mom philosophy. We talked and laughed, and talked and laughed. Shout out to 3406 Social for providing the venue.

Mar 05, 202301:11:58
Black Mom Diaries 4.08 The Money Mama

Black Mom Diaries 4.08 The Money Mama

Miki Jones is a serial entrepreneur who started her entrepreneurial journey in her childhood by selling friendship bracelets. Miki started her first official business in 2015 after graduating college and earning her Project Management Professional certification.

Miki’s passions include traveling, real estate, and personal finance so she started her brand, The Wealthy Millennial, to help others live the lifestyle they desire. The Wealthy Millennial focuses on providing the tools, information, and framework for people to achieve their financial goals.


Follow her on social media:

  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/1_miki/?hl=en
  • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPq2y9_eAhrEpqEYiYyH9gw
  • Website: https://wealthymillennialnetwork.com/
Feb 09, 202301:14:23
Black Mom Diaries 4.07 The Military Mama
Feb 02, 202301:05:03
Black Mom Diaries 4.06 The Favored Mama
Dec 29, 202258:36
Black Mom Diaries 4.05 The Momathon Mama
Dec 22, 202201:08:05
Black Mom Diaries 4.04 Raising Strong and Confident Children
Aug 28, 202201:03:28
Black Mom Diaries 4.03 The Pusher

Black Mom Diaries 4.03 The Pusher

Latanya and Patricia discuss the effects of pushing your kids vs. letting them reach their levels in their own time.

Connect with us on social media:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackmomdiaries/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blackmomdiaries

Twitter: https://twitter.com/diaries_black

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLAm8V47vSXGjIcINTnKvOA/featured

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Aug 22, 202246:03
The Overcomer (Season 4 Episode 2)
Aug 14, 202201:09:42
Black Mom Diaries 4.02 The Overcomer
Aug 14, 202201:05:59
Celebrating Small Wins (Season 4 Episode 1)

Celebrating Small Wins (Season 4 Episode 1)

Black Mom Diaries is back for season 4 and we are so excited to celebrate the small wins. Sometimes we get caught up in the big picture and do not take a moment to appreciate those tiny wins. When we are only focused on the big picture, we can fail to see that often those small wins add up to big wins. On this episode, Latanya and Patricia discuss some of the small wins.  

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackmomdiaries/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blackmomdiaries

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Aug 07, 202229:17
Black Mom Diaries 4.01 Celebrating Small Wins

Black Mom Diaries 4.01 Celebrating Small Wins

Black Mom Diaries is back for season 4 and we are so excited to celebrate the small wins. Sometimes we get caught up in the big picture and do not take a moment to appreciate those wins. When we are only focused on the big picture, we can fail to see that often those small wins add up to big wins. On this episode, Latanya and Patricia discuss some of the small wins.

Connect with us on social media:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blackmomdiaries/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blackmomdiaries

Twitter: https://twitter.com/diaries_black

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLAm8V47vSXGjIcINTnKvOA/featured

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Aug 07, 202229:01
BMD Bonus Episode The Mom Sacrifice
Jun 26, 202253:30
BMD Bonus Episode Black Moms in Community
Jun 21, 202201:05:27
Black Mom Diaries 3.16 The Momma with the Bounce Back
Nov 14, 202101:11:20
Black Mom Diaries 3.15 The SUPER Momma

Black Mom Diaries 3.15 The SUPER Momma

Gladys Simen - a life coach for moms who are trying to balance their work and family life.

She is a life enthusiast who lived in 5 different countries, mastered 2 languages, and changed several professions. It took becoming a fabulous mama for her to tap into some BIG superpowers within herself.

Former quiet introvert, today is passionate about helping women live big, beautiful, shooting-for-the-stars kind of lives right now. Gladys considers herself an advocate for the working mama!

https://www.mylifecouch.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/gladys-simen/

Instagram: @mylifecouch


Nov 07, 202101:04:18
Black Mom Diaries Episode 3.14 The Lonely Parent
Oct 31, 202101:00:55
Black Mom Diaries 3.13 Pumping While Black

Black Mom Diaries 3.13 Pumping While Black

Shamiso Maswoswe is a former federal prosecutor who worked as a Special Assistant United States Attorney for the United States Attorney’s Office of the District of Columbia where she protected victims of domestic violence.  Shamiso also worked as a Trial Attorney for the United States Department of Justice, Criminal Division – Public Integrity Section where she prosecuted public officials who sold their offices and abused their positions of public trust.  Before that Shamiso, who graduated from New York University School of Law, was a criminal defense attorney for ten years where she represented corporations and individuals in criminal litigation, in regulatory and internal investigations, and in related civil matters.

On this episode, we are going to learn all about how Shamiso, a high powered attorney who has worked for some of the most prestigious institutions and had a storybook career – nearly lost it all when someone decided that she couldn't have it all - and be both an effective prosecutor and a mom to a newborn.

Oct 24, 202101:13:04
Black Mom Diaries 3.12 The Self Care Mom

Black Mom Diaries 3.12 The Self Care Mom

Amber Rowe is a professional development coach with over 15 years of experience in the beauty industry. She has an impressive career which includes freelance nail artistry for celebrities at concerts, photo-shoots, and private events.

Amber is also a published author and has been interviewed on numerous media platforms including TV and Radio. Mrs. Rowe has been featured in commercials and local performing arts as a result of being a semifinalist in 2011 for the CW Austin Star talent search.

In her mission to level up and preserve the integrity and future of the beauty industry, Amber realized how important professional development training was vs protocols. She landed her first contract with a multi million dollar spa chain and continues to assist spas and salons with employee development to ensure beauty professionals are "consciously" serving consumers with safe care.

Amber’s passion for serving others has also expanded into the non-profit realm; with her husband Isaac, they have been featured on FOX News and The Washington Post and founded The Man in Me and The Women in Me

both dynamic outreach programs which serve families in the Central Texas Region. Additionally, Amber is a motivational speaker who enjoys encouraging beauty professionals, empowering women's groups, and working with youth to address the pressures leading to teen violence. Amber resides in Austin, where she enjoys life with her husband and two little ones.


Website:www.amberrrowe.com

(3 r's)

Instagram: @amberrrowe

LinkedIn: Amber Rowe

Spa Geeks Podcast: https://anchor.fm/spageeks

Find her books on Amazon:

The Beauty Professionals Playbook: A Guide For New Beauty Professionals

The Façade Of Forgiveness

Visions and Dreams (Journal): A Guide for Prophetic Encounters By Day and Night


Oct 17, 202159:09
Black Mom Diaries 3.11 The Traveling Mom

Black Mom Diaries 3.11 The Traveling Mom

'Iolani (ee-oh-lah-ni) is a Bronx native who caught the travel bug at a young age. She has been lucky to have a career that feeds her love of travel and desire to learn about other cultures. A diversity, equity and inclusion professional by day, and novelist by night, she received her bachelor of arts from New York University and MBA from Georgetown University. She is a mother of two under three who believes in the power of normalizing difference and seeing diverse protagonists in children's literature.

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iolani/

Instagram: @bullocksabroad

website: lenoxtakesflight.com

email contact: lenoxtakesflight@gmail.com

Hear my name 




Oct 10, 202101:00:28
Black Mom Diaries 3.10 The Naturopathic Momma

Black Mom Diaries 3.10 The Naturopathic Momma

April is a wife, mom of three boys which includes her dog. She is a truth seeker who takes a holistic

approach to healing the body and soul mostly through meditation, whole foods, and essential oils. Her

naturopathic journey began when her oldest son was diagnosed with asthma and a host different

medications were being prescribed by the doctors. An ER visit changed their lives and the shift began to

a natural, organic path to health and wellness.

Find her on social media:

Twitter: @MsAprilDanielle

Instagram: msaprildanielle

Website: MsAprilDanielle.com

Elderberry Syrup Recipe:

  • 3/4 cup dried elderberries
  • 3 cups water
  • 1 teaspoon dried cinnamon or 1 cinnamon stick
  • 1 teaspoon dried cloves or 4 whole cloves or 1 drop clove essential oil
  • 1 tablespoon fresh ginger or 1 teaspoon dried ginger or 1 drop ginger essential oil
  • 1 cup raw honey
  1. In a large pot, bring the elderberries, water, cinnamon, cloves, and ginger to a boil.
  2. Reduce the heat, cover, and simmer until the liquid has reduced by half, about 40-45 minutes.
  3. Allow the liquid to cool, and then drain the liquid using a fine mesh strainer or cheese cloth.
  4. Press all liquid out of the berries using the back of a wooden spoon.
  5. Add the raw honey and mix well.
  6. Store in an airtight glass container in the refrigerator for up to two months.
Oct 03, 202101:02:40
Black Mom Diaries 3.09 The Mompreneur Part 2

Black Mom Diaries 3.09 The Mompreneur Part 2

Candace Poindexter is a mompreneur that not only walked away from her traditional 9-5 job, but created a path for her children to follow in her footsteps, starting their own businesses. Furthermore, she is allowing her greatness and growth to shine light on others, helping them to discover their own greatness.

Sep 26, 202153:00
Black Mom Diaries 3.08 The Mompreneur Part 1

Black Mom Diaries 3.08 The Mompreneur Part 1

Candace is originally from Memphis TN and moved to Texas 7 years ago. She is a single “Mompreneur” of several businesses and she also manages her 3 children’s businesses. She is inspired by her children’s drive to be their own boss! It’s not always easy but it’s so worth it! We are on a mission to become a family of millionaires so we can eventually be able to travel abroad to tell our story and to encourage others to step out on faith.

Sep 19, 202151:15
Black Mom Diaries 3.07 The Creative Momma

Black Mom Diaries 3.07 The Creative Momma

Miechelle Virginia is a Voice Actress and the host of Find Your Voice #BeTheVoice Podcast. When she's not acting and podcasting, She helps Creatives all over the world get professional training in Film, Radio Broadcasting and Audio Engineering with a school based out of Los Angeles,CA. She is an Agent with Raven International Media, and helps other Podcasters monetize their show . She is determined to walk fully in her God given gifts and is passionate about leading others on a path to self-discovery.

After a lot of soul searching and sacrifice, she made the decision to leave her corporate career behind and pursue her passion.


*During the episode Patricia mentioned she had not seen, "Raven acting with her eyes, but she had heard her". She meant that she had not seen Miechelle acting in person, but has had the pleasure to hear her voice acting many times over. She is incredible.

Sep 12, 202152:14
Black Mom Diaries 3.06 Keep it Simple, Momma
Sep 05, 202101:00:49
Black Mom Diaries 3.05 The Jane of all Trades
Sep 01, 202157:43
Black Mom Diaries Episode 3.04 Love on Purpose
Aug 29, 202139:27
Black Mom Diaries 3.03 The Advocating Momma

Black Mom Diaries 3.03 The Advocating Momma

Sabrina Tuggle is a family woman that Loves God first. She is a wife/married for 27 years to my amazing husband-Clinton Tuggle, and a mother to her wonderful son- Clayton Tuggle (16-year-old-high-functioning on the Autism Spectrum). She is a passionate master's level Social Worker with 19+ years of experience working with diverse populations, including advocating for the best interest of children who have been abused or neglected in the child welfare system, the foster care system, families experiencing homelessness, in-patient youth residential treatment, intensive case manager for adults in mental health, and community parenting classes.

Aug 22, 202101:19:39
Black Mom Diaries 3.02 The Crafty Momma

Black Mom Diaries 3.02 The Crafty Momma

As a wife, mom, and educator, Tonya Williams is passionate about lifting others up as she climbs, education, and spending time with family and friends. She has more favorite children’s books than adult books. She is inspired by local heroes including her Grandma, Mom and other mentors, as well as well known heroes, such as former First Lady Michelle Obama, Priscilla Shirer and others.  

At the end of it all, Tonya's desire for her legacy is that others remember her for for her faith, love, support, and perseverance. She is extremely crafty in finding and creating activities for her kids, and loves sharing her finds/creations with other moms.


Aug 15, 202101:05:05
Black Mom Diaries 3.01 Welcome to Season 3 of BMD!
Aug 08, 202134:02
Black Mom Diaries Season 2 Thank You

Black Mom Diaries Season 2 Thank You

2020 has been quite a year. Although season two was a lot different than we anticipated, we want to thank you for sticking with us through it all. We will see you in 2021.


Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic


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Oct 18, 202001:18
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.14 Chompin' it Up
Sep 25, 202042:46
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.13 Financial Literacy
Sep 24, 202047:44
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.12 Do You Therapy?

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.12 Do You Therapy?

How do you handle personal and family matters? Do you share with licensed professional counselors? Do you have a tight-knit group of friends that you share your business with? In this episode, we are talking about therapy. Do you or do you not, therapy?

Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic

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Aug 27, 202028:44
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.11 My Ways are not Your Ways

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.11 My Ways are not Your Ways

Do your parents (former legal guardians) do things that bother you? Are they just set in their ways with certain things? Do you find yourself doing the same things or doing things differently? On this episode, LaTanya and Patricia discuss things our parents do, that we do or do not do. 

Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic

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Aug 26, 202046:53
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.10 Summer is Over. What's Next?

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.10 Summer is Over. What's Next?

Summer is ending and fall is beginning. So what's next? As one season comes to an end and another one begins, what does that look like in our strange new world? What old habits are we continuing with, or what new ways of life are we embracing? Let's talk about it.

Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic

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Aug 10, 202058:58
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.09 Traveling With Kids During Covid

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.09 Traveling With Kids During Covid

Traveling with kids is hard, but it has become even more of a challenge since Covid. So many things have changed that we and our children have to get used to now traveling in this new world. 

Aug 10, 202001:06:57
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.08 Unapologetic

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.08 Unapologetic

What do you do when the apology becomes nothing more than empty words? In this episode, we discuss how to keep meaning in the apology by switching things up.

Jun 24, 202026:39
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.07 How Are You Doing And How Have You Changed

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.07 How Are You Doing And How Have You Changed

With everything going on we're asking how are you doing and how have you changed? 


Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic


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May 20, 202042:09
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.6 Kids Coping during COVID

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.6 Kids Coping during COVID

Things have changed so quickly and most of us have continued moving ahead focused on keeping things going in this new normal. But have we taken a moment to check in with our kids? How are they coping during COVID? LaTanya and I discuss this in our episode.


Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic

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May 19, 202023:19
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.5 Catchin up with BMD

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.5 Catchin up with BMD

LaTanya and I took a break after the COVID pandemic hit in order to focus on our families. Now we are back and catching up on all things BMD!


Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic

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May 18, 202032:44
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.4 Other People's Kids

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.4 Other People's Kids

My kids, your kids, her kids, their kids. How do you feel about other people's kids? Are you comfortable with them? Or do they make you feel awkward? Whatever you are feeling, you are not alone. In this episode, LaTanya and Patricia discuss the topic of dealing with other people's kids.


Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic

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Mar 09, 202030:04
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.3 Choppin It Up

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.3 Choppin It Up

In this episode, LaTanya and Patricia are choppin' it up and asking some thought provoking questions.

1) Who is in your circle?

2)How much have you grown in the last 6-12 months (personal development)?

Join the conversation for that and much more.

Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic

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Feb 24, 202034:60
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.2 Black Moms Burden

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.2 Black Moms Burden

How good are you at taking care of you? Do you make sure everyone else is okay, before doing a self check in? We as Black Moms typically punish ourselves if we spend a little time taking care of ourselves. We need to give ourselves the care that we need so we're better able to care for others.


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Feb 17, 202040:24
Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.1 The Struggle is Real: Consistent Discipline

Black Mom Diaries Episode 2.1 The Struggle is Real: Consistent Discipline

Do you rock at consistently disciplining your children, or are you failing big time in this area? Most of us can agree that we have our good days and not so great days. How can we as busy Moms balance our lives so that we can create proper structure through staying consistent in our discipline efforts?


Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic

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Feb 10, 202037:34
Black Mom Diaries Episode 1.25 Myths And Superstitions

Black Mom Diaries Episode 1.25 Myths And Superstitions

On the final episode of season one, Patricia and LaTanya discuss myths and superstitions.  What were you taught?  What do you teach your children?  

Happy and Joyful Children by Free Music | @fm_freemusic

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Sep 02, 201942:09