Sexuality After...
By Phoebe Dorin
Sexuality After...Nov 23, 2021
18: Sexuality After Disability With Andrew Gurza
Episode 18: Sexuality After Disability With Andrew Gurza
In this episode, I talk with Disability Educator, Podcast host and Porn Star Andrew Gurza. It was truly a pleasure to talk to Andrew. We had a great conversation about:
- On being disabled and queer
- On making sex education sexy
- How sex workers have helped him heal from sexual trauma
- On cancel culture
- On being objectified
- His sexual superpower
- Why intimacy is so hot
- His biggest sexual regret ... and more!
You can find him on IG and Twitter at @andrewgurza_ and his fantastic podcast Disability After Dark.
You can WATCH this episode on my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D at https://youtu.be/Zuoectiza-0.
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page Phoebe D Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com.
Thank you for listening! :)
Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
17: Sexuality After 60 with Rose Cooper
In this "bare-bones honest" episode, journalist and creator Rose and I explore so many topics together, about her life of s.exual experiences to date! It's one of my favourite conversations so far.
We talk about:
- S.exual experiences both in long term marriages and casual s.ex
- When you feel like your pleasure is a gift to your partner
- Empowerment vs entitlement
- The quality of s.ex over the years and how it's changed
- From performance based s.ex to pleasure based s.ex
- S.ex as an expression of life
- Men's empowerment
- What makes a good lover
- How to have more and better orgasms
- On celibacy
- Being OK with being old
- On raising teenage boys
- On having adult relationships with your kids
You can find her podcast, IG, Twitter and more under The Eloquent In The Room, and www.theeloquentintheroom.com.
You can WATCH this episode at: https://youtu.be/iZ6qUGY8D1w
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page, Phoebe D. Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com.
Thank you for listening! :)
Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
16: Sexuality After Puberty with Lori Reichel
In this episode of Sexuality After, I have a great conversation with Lori Reichel, host of The Puberty Prof Podcast, creator of the TALK Puberty App, the TALK B4 sex app, author of Common Questions Children Ask About Puberty, and health educator.
In this podcast, you will hear things like:
- Why skills are more important than knowledge
- How to be a safe place for kids/others
- Listening to your inner voice
- Why being naive isn't necessarily bad
- How to talk to teens about sexuality and what shuts the door on that happening
- How childhood sexual trauma can affect kids and the skills to teach them to they can advocate for themselves for healing sooner
- The three main things to teach your kids about sex/sexuality/their bodies
- The biggest message she would give to parents
- On children masturbating and what to do about it
.... and more!!
You can contact Lori and learn more about ALL the amazing things she is doing by going to:
www.LoriReichel.com
You can WATCH this episode on my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D.
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page, Phoebe D. Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com.
Thank you for listening! :)
Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
14: Sexuality After Cheating & Rock Bottom with Liesl Hays
Episode 14: Sexuality After Cheating & Rock Bottom with Liesl Hays
Liesl Hays brings a fantastic and honest conversation to my podcast this week as she talks about always being there for everyone else except for herself, which led to her cheating on her husband and hitting rock bottom, then her climb up, up and up to where she is now- happier and more vibrant than ever! She is an entrepreneur, blogger and author of a book called "Broken, Changed and Rearranged".
We talk about:
- why it's important to put yourself first and what that looks like
- the journey back from cheating within a relationship
- how your emotional life and sexual life are one and the same
- how to listen to the voice of your 'true north' and what that looks like
- how parenthood impacts our sexuality
- sexuality after religion
- masturbation
... and so much more!
You can find her at: www.lieslhays.com and her book at: https://www.amazon.ca/Broken-Changed-Rearranged-Unbearable-Person/dp/1631955624
You can also WATCH this episode at my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D.
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.
Thank you for listening! :)
Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
13: Sexuality After 50 with Joy McShane Oyler
In this episode we hear from the beautiful and badass Joy McShane Oyler. Joy is an Empowerment and Sex Coach for Women of a Certain Age. She specializes in "Women who used to love sex but now it's just another f&^%ing thing on their long to-do list".
In this amazing episode, we talk about:
- her "action packed, hellish adventure with menopause"
- sex after years of marriage
- some of the main challenges with sexuality after 50
- the conversation around lube
- why women should reclaim their sexuality as they age
- her own journey to finding her ALIVENESS and VIBRANCE in her 50's
- what she desires for women as they age
- the importance of always exploring our pleasure and bodies (because they change)
- sexuality after menopause
You can find her and her wonderful blog and amazing coaching at: www.joymcshaneoyler.com.
I'd love to hear your feedback, and remember to subscribe so you get notified every two weeks when I have a new episode come out! You can also WATCH this episode on my YouTube channel, Tea with Phoebe D.
12: Sexuality After Grief with Edy Nathan
In this episode we hear from Edy Nathan- a certified sex therapist, hypnotherapist and EMDR pratitioner with more than 20 years of experience. She is a grief therapist and helps people to dance with grief. We have a great conversation discussing the many ways that grief is connected to our sexuality, and how it often creates problems in our relationships.
We also talk about:
- the merits and downsides of masks
- how grief affects relationships
-how grief affects your body/sexuality
-mental health
- the value of "the cave" and how to get out of it
- on finding the gift in grief
- sexual numbness
- the value of meeting your vu1va
.... among other things!
You can find her at:
linkedin.com/in/edy-nathan
facebook.com/edynathan
IG: @edynathan
Twitter: @edynathan1
www.edynathan.com
I'd love to hear your feedback, and remember to subscribe so you get notified every two weeks when I have a new episode come out!
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.
Thank you for listening! :)
Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
11: Sexuality After Sex Education with Kate Sloan
Kate is a fun, approachable person who has a lot going on! She is a sex blogger, hosts 2 podcasts, and has a book coming out on ways to make your sex life more kinky. She wasn't feeling that great when I interviewed her, but she really showed up and we had such a great conversation! We talk about:
- her early sex education and how it made a difference in her life
- fun and crazy kinks we have heard of
- curiosity, consent and acceptance
- what she would like to see change regarding sexuality
and much more!
You can find her at:
Her blog: www.girlyjuice.net
Twitter: @Girly_Juice
Dildorks Podcast: www.thedildorks.wordpress.com
Question Box Podcast: https://www.questionboxshow.com
Her book: 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do: https://linktr.ee/101kinkythings
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.
Thank you for listening! :)
Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
10: Sexuality After Low Self Image with Jaqueline Joy
Jacqueline Joy from the Empowered Goddess Project joined me to talk about her journey out of low self image and low body image into LOVING and ACCEPTING and CELEBRATING herself. We talk about:
- what IS empowerment anyway?
- taking responsibility for your happiness
- knowing your value and worth instead of finding it from outside sources
- we are all just humans IN PROCESS.
She is bright and bubbly and will lighten your day by listening to this podcast with her!
You can find her at:
Website: https://www.jacquelinejoy.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jacqueline.curl.9
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacquelinejoycoach/
You can connect with me (Phoebe D.) through this YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my podcast, Sexuality After, my FB page Phoebe D. Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com. Thank you for listening! :)
Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
9: Sexuality After Religion... and Into Kink! with Gwen
Episode 9: Sexuality After Religion... and Into Kink with Gwen
I find Gwen totally fascinating and I think you will too!
In this podcast we talk about what most people would consider some fairly extreme kinks, so if that's not your thing, then this may not be the podcast for you :) You've been warned! lol.
I LOVE it though because Gwen is really open to what turns her on and because of that helps us to understand our own kinks or other people's.
We talk about:
- her journey out of religion and where she is now with her spirituality
- her journey into and out of veganism
- her journey with disgust
- her sex life and her kinks
You can find her at:
The Off The Cuffs Podcast (A kink and BDSM podcast),
Instagram: bidaily666
Twitter: bidaily666
Onlyfans: bidaily666
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.
Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
8: Sexuality After Parenthood with Rachel and Mark
In this episode, I bring on my husband as a co-host and we have a couple-to-couple chat about life after marriage and parenthood with the hosts of the podcast Sex, Lies and Parenthood, Rachel and Mark.
We have a ton of fun and laughs in this episode as we talk about:
-finding new "firsts",
-the most challenging things about sex when you're also parents,
-on jealousy
-our messy stories of how we got together,
-and more!
You can find them at the fun and real-life podcast Sex, Lies and Parenthood- "What happens when a self-confessed sex addict marries a know-it-all bitch with 24 years of experience in entertainment and they start a podcast?" These two happen! They are open and honest and you see life as it is without the filters. It's fantastic.
www.sexliesandparenthood.com
You can WATCH this episode at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=frtxWnaahcM
You can connect with me (Phoebe D.) through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my podcast, Sexuality After, my FB page Phoebe D. Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com. Thank you for listening! :)
Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
7: Sexuality After A Sexless Marriage with Heather Tucker
Heather Tucker is a Godly Marriage & Sexual Freedom Coach, Specializing in Sexless Marriages & Sexual Confidence. Yes- that's what I said!!! I am SO happy to have her on my podcast because as you know, LEAVING religion and religious beliefs is a big part of my personal and sexual growth... but she COMBINES the two, showing that you CAN be Christian/religious AND sexually empowered.
(mind blown).
She specializes in helping people who are in sexless marriages and helps them bring the sizzle back into their marriage. I love this as it's not something people talk about but is COMMON and IMPORTANT to talk about.
Thanks Heather for bringing your sparkle to my audience!!
You can connect with her through:
YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/channel/UCXElM1EyKNpGQdRK0g99rqQ
Clubhouse @sexcoachheather
Insta @heathertuckermotivates
Christian Wives Support Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/897589067648140/
Request Marriage Help Bit.ly/RelationshipHelp4U
Or you can find her on FB and see her positive, thoughtful posts regularly on her personal FB page Heather Tucker.
You can connect with me (Phoebe D.) through this YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my podcast, Sexuality After, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com. Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
6: Sexuality After Shame: with Dr. Lea Lis
Dr. Lea Lis lit up my podcast with her wisdom in this episode. She works with adults, teens and kids about how to experience their body and sexuality without shame. We get into the nitty gritties of shame and what the antidotes are.
You can find her at www.shamelesspsychiatrist.com, and www.drlealis.com
her YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOnVE-Dwn3kP815WDDJJSZQ)
INSTAGRAM: @shamelesspsychiatrist
TWITTER: @shamelesspsych
FACEBOOK: @drlealis
PSYCHOLOGY TODAY: www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-shameless-psychiatrist
and you can find her book, "No Shame" here. (www.noshamebook.com)
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.
Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
5: Sexuality After Shame and Heteronormativity: with Mike Iamele
You will love this episode! Mike has exceptional views and experience around shame, relationships and all things sexuality. He is a fantastic storyteller and has stories to tell that will really make you think!
We talk about:
-the fascinating possibility of bringing your deepest sexual shames to light IN the bedroom,
-getting clear on WHO you are so you can approach your relationship and sexuality from a place of clarity and responsibility,
-setting boundaries and creating a safe space for yourself within the bedroom,
-how understanding our sexuality can make our businesses and our lives LIGHT UP,
- how the feeling of shame is, in a way, wanting death
-and much, much more.
You can find him at his website or his IG account.
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.
Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
4: Sexuality After Birth: with Megan The Doula
This is such a fantastic episode for any mother or almost-mother (or father) out there! Megan does such a great job de-shaming parent's sex lives and what it often looks like after giving birth to a crying, needy, adorable mini human. It affects us. A lot. In a myriad of ways. And so it affects our sex lives.
Among other things, we talk about the importance of masturbation, having compassion on yourself, and being gentle with your body and starting off slow. We talk about societal pressure and the pressure of added responsibility, and how that also affects things.
You can find her at www.bumpandglow.ca, and her IG: @bumpglow.
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.
My YT is: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtA0cpSZVa0LtIef18nitnQ
and my FB is: https://www.facebook.com/Phoebe-D-Coaching-104306914572676/
Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
3: Sexuality After Being Straight
In this episode, I talk to Colle Larme, Career Coach and Founder of the meetup group "Kinda Out Queer Chicks", a peer support group for women who are coming out later in life. She talks about her personal journey to shifting from straight to queer and what that looked like. We also cover topics like virginity, mindful self pleasure, and the fears people might have who have discovered later in life that they aren't actually straight.
You can find her at www.wildermindcoaching.com or her Meetup group Kinda Out Queer Chicks.
We talked about the quote "“You can't be what you can't see.” by Marian Wright Edelman, and the book Untamed by Glennon Doyle.
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, or my website, www.phoebed.com.
Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
2: Sexuality After Religion and Parenthood: Anna Graybill
This episode we hear from sex and pleasure coach Anna Graybill. She grew up Mormon, and found her way to queerness, polyamory, and tantra! We talk about how having her first child was a wake-up call, how her and her husband had fun exploring gender, and how she always had two sides- a more liberal side and a more conservative side that would take turns being in control.
You can watch this LIVE on YouTube here.
You can find Anna at her IG account: @annagraybill and also through her website, www.annagraybill.com
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, or my website, www.phoebed.com
Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!
1: Sexuality After Religion: Liane Elle
In this podcast, I talked with Liane Elle, who used to be a Jehovah Witness. We hear about her journey growing up, getting married and divorced, to selling sex toys and sowing her wild oats! We also talk about shame and the power of pleasure.
You can connect more with her through her IG account: @liane_elle_coaching or her FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/risefromreligioustrauma
The book Liane mentions is "Trauma is Really Strange" and you can find it on Amazon, or check it out here: https://bodycollege.net/trauma/
You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, or my website, www.phoebed.com
Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!